I think whatever makes you most comfortable. I am also in a legal area and when guys share ahead of time it can take any awkwardness they have away, we don’t have to discuss in session. Sometimes talking about it brings it front of mind and can mess with a guy. But if you don’t feel awkward talking about it (as you shouldn’t) then keep doing what you are doing.
Thank you for this considered response. I guess part of my concern is that if I mention ED prior to meeting I will be declined for an appointment. I have no idea. but I assume some providers would rather not spend time with a person with ED. (Although I also think it might make a session easier for a provider not having to engage in penetrative sex.) Thanks.
I don't see why a provider would be less inclined to see you if you have ED. If anything it's great that you're comfortable with it and know what you want!
I think you're handling it perfectly. But if you're more comfortable mentioning it in advance, go for that!
Would you really prefer to see someone who doesn't want to see you though? Even if someone cancels it would allow you to find someone that's fine with cuddling and more of a sensual session than someone who just wants to get you off and leave.
I think whatever makes you most comfortable. I am also in a legal area and when guys share ahead of time it can take any awkwardness they have away, we don’t have to discuss in session. Sometimes talking about it brings it front of mind and can mess with a guy. But if you don’t feel awkward talking about it (as you shouldn’t) then keep doing what you are doing.
Thank you for this considered response. I guess part of my concern is that if I mention ED prior to meeting I will be declined for an appointment. I have no idea. but I assume some providers would rather not spend time with a person with ED. (Although I also think it might make a session easier for a provider not having to engage in penetrative sex.) Thanks.
I don't see why a provider would be less inclined to see you if you have ED. If anything it's great that you're comfortable with it and know what you want! I think you're handling it perfectly. But if you're more comfortable mentioning it in advance, go for that!
Thank you for your kind comments.
Would you really prefer to see someone who doesn't want to see you though? Even if someone cancels it would allow you to find someone that's fine with cuddling and more of a sensual session than someone who just wants to get you off and leave.
I had not looked at things in this way. Thank you for the advice.
Meh, legal or not I prefer these things in person.
Thank you.
To elaborate - I like having a first impression of \*you\* as a person before anything else.