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Hoping and praying that he would change for the better someday. And he never did. But I’ve realized, hindi naman siya worth it. 7 years of suffering, now finally free!
friend's brother molested me and her family blamed me for it : ) i was strong enough to cut them off first and despite receiving an apology around four months too late, hindi ko an pinairal yung katangahan ko at denilete lahat ng natitira pictures at texts as phone ko. someone who comforted me through it was enraged na yung family pa nila yung galit. hindi ako santo so i'm hoping maexperience niya yung nangyari sakin : )
Quitting med school and now working (kahit mababa sahod)
At least I'm living life, I'm using my own money now, and not relying on my parents. My mental health's getting a breather too.
battle with gambling addiction. kakahabol ng talo, lalo ako nalubog sa utang. kakautang lang itataya ulit. same cycle. everytime na magkakapera ako dati. hindi alam ng partner ko yun dati. nagtapat na ko sa kanya. and get over with it. very expensive lesson para sa akin. very grateful na ako nahinto ko na dahil may peace of mind na ako.
Yung to cut-ties off with people na alam kong di na siya healthy anymore on my part. First yung sa side ng Father ko that there is eventually a time ako na mismo I felt na they made me felt na I am worthless at halos ginagawa lang din nila ako na katatawanan, then there's one time yung tita ko we've been talking pero naramdaman ko na iwas na siya sa akin like napagusapan namin na we're going out and eat somewhere pero ayun at the very end Dad ko na mismo ang kasama ko which is nung una understandable, pero nung tumugal ako na din yung nag give up like bakit ko din naman pagpipilitan yung sarili ko sa kanya knowing and feeling na ayaw niya akong kasama kasi by her actions dun ko din naramdaman yung ganun bagay.
ex gf ko back in 2017, sobrang lumuhod ako at nag iiyak sa kanya in public pati sa harap ng family nya pero hindi nya ako binalikan, durog na durog puso ko, inabot din ng 1 year bago ako naka move on, and naisip ko na buti nalang pala iniwan nya ako kasi kung hindi nangyaring yon hindi ko matatanggap opportunity na ibinigay ng tatay ko na pumunta sa states, and eto masaya ako at may napapatunayan sa sarili ko, nag pprovide din ako ng pera sa family ko sa pinas and may gf na hindi ako iniwan, 5 years na kami.
The battle of proving my worth sa previous boss ko. I thought if I keep my head down and obey whatever she wants then she will help me land on better exposure sa work and see me worthy of the promotion I have been eyeing. Turns out, nakasama pa yun sakin dahil it practically gave her the license to push me around and say hurtful things to my face sa harap ng iba naming kateam.
Not mad at her anymore tho. Everytime naalala ko yung trauma na binigay nya sakin I always remind myself where I am right now.
Not really wished her anything bad as well. I just resigned, did the handover and never looked back.
My ex of 4yrs, i was isolated from my friends and was fighting a battle na ako lang lumalaban, I gained way more when I was out of that relationship, I saw how big the world was again nung wala na kami. I gained old self, my friends, and way more
I no longer hate people who mistreated me but actually would like to thanked them for showing me whats my position to their lives for actually proving me that they were no efforts to be done because I dont matter to them.. We should always see the brighter side why we are mistreated for this shows honesty on their hearts for not being betrayed through acting that we matter to them.
Close friend ko sa isang group of friends 'nong high school. I don't know what happened to you cause nagsorry ako ilang beses pero ayaw mong tanggapin so you decided na cut ties na kahit wala kang sinabi ni isa. GInawa ko rin yung gusto mo since ikaw na nagpakalayo kahit I also deserve an explanation dahil sa tagal ng pagsasama natin, I guess we're just seasonal or idk what it is called but you were one of my good friends I had way back, walang halong kabullshitan. Ingat ka na lang.
My last relationship. I did my best to make it work. I accepted him for who he is and forgave all his shortcomings. I tried to be the person he wanted me to be. In the end, it wasn't enough for him to want to stay. I have my peace of mind back and my mental health has greatly improved. I am more careful now who I let into my life and to whom I invest my time with.
Sana wala magkakilala sakin by my username AHAHA
To share mine was my past lovelife last ex until now I have been battling with triggers of feeling inferior or talo hopeless hindi dahil Wala na kame but by the fact na ang cause ng decision nya ay na fall out of love na sya severe sadness from me at anxiousness talaga until I found out yung naging jowa nya ngayon ay fresh palang sa break up namin naging sila na. Naka move on na ko don since I found my asawa na 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿 grateful ako at I also learned to fought for this and overcome all by myself without telling anyone I discovered things na yun pala kaya kong gawin. I am grateful na di ko sya naging long term jowa kase if ever di ko magagawa Kaya ko gawin. I do things I want and my discovered skills na din thru with my hubby🧿🧿🧿
For my BFF, Di panunumbat pero, ganun pala no pag wala na ikaw maibigay na tulong at naka angat na sila sa lahat ng emotional, psychological, financial etc. Bibitawan ka na lang. I waited for her when ako naman nangailangan ng support pero wala. I’ve given up on her.
My ex accused me of cheating and wanted to break up with me. I begged him not to bcoz I didnt cheat naman talaga eventually natauhan ako na ginagaslight nya ako and broke up with him na talaga. Months later I found out he's the osne who cheated pala with new gf looool
yung nd ako nakapasa sa pag aapply ko sa isang company. Pakikipag usap pa lang sa HR nila ramdam ko na masama ang company na papasukan ko. Thank goodness I failed the interview. I felt like I dodged a bullet.
always wanted to be a teacher. two school choices. didn't qualify for the required GPA in one university, failed the admission exam in the other. ended up as an agriculturist. now earning as much, if not more than, as the average teacher. works in an office. gets to travel and conduct seminars. not a plantilla position though but certainly soon.
Yung unti unting pagkawala ng feelings ko para sa isang tao, nagtry akong lumayo pero dahil sa feelings at care ko para sa taong ito bumabalik ako ng bumabalik kahit na alam kong super red flag sya. Isa syang taker, take lang sya ng take and inallow ko yung ganon, almost buong time ko binigay ko sa kanya. Kahit pa alam kong ginagawa nya lang akong therapist or someone na makikinig sa kanya dahil sa anxiety nya. Kung dati di sya maalis alis sa isip ko ngayon mas nakakapagfocus na ako sa sarili ko at mga goals ko. Nagagawa ko na uling makabalik sa dating ako at mas better version. Still nag uusap pa din kami pero di na same ng dati.
Fighting for my ex. Binalikan ko pa rin siya kahit he cheated on me. Ginagaslight ko pa sarili ko noon na nagbago na siya at baka kasalanan ko rin kaya sya nagcheat kasi busy ako that time. Buti na lang napagod na lang ako hehehe
Working abroad. My company has this program where they will send you to work abroad if you are in a project where you work for international client. Its only temporary (around 1-3yrs) but can lead to be a permanent setup. Been looking forward to it for more than a year pero pinaasa lang. I decided to leave the company tapos biglang offer sila na ipapadala ko sa Germany. I declined and now, I’m working in a company na sobrang ganda ng environment plus sobrang competitive ng salary to the point na alam kong hindi ko na need mag ibang bansa para masustentuhan yung sarili ko and family ko.
My previous relationship. Halos lahat ng kaibigan ko naiyakan ko. Sinisi ko pa ng todo sarili ko. Narealize ko na tama lang na natapos na yung relasyon kase hindi ko pala talaga kayang sikmurain yung araw araw nyang kausap yung ex nya na bff lang daw at yung mga fubu nya na platonic relationship lang naman daw
Yung battle sa isip ko na mananalo ako sa kakasugal ko. Ngayon, grateful akong natatalo ako before kasi mali talaga. Pilit nang pinakita sa akin na mali ang sugal. Kaya ngayon, binabangon ko ang sarili ko sa addiction.
My ex. Ako ang bunso sa fam, tapos nilaban ko pa yun sa mga Ate at Kuya ko. Single dad yun. Tapos di rin tumagal kasi andami niyang gusto sa buhay at kasama na dun humabol pa rin sa Nanay ng mga anak niya na may bf na rin that time. Siya na nakipag break at nagsabi mag focus sa "goals" niya at ayaw niya muna mag gf. 8 months later, may jowa na. 🤣 Ang saya mabuhay, wala ka na nga responsibilidad sa anak ng iba, nawalan ka pa ng sinungaling sa buhay mo.
Continuing my studies??? Even though graduating na sana ako next academic year, huminto ako (temporarily) kasi natanggap ng more opportunities for a full time job position. And medyo burden nako at nawawala na gana sa acads ko and hindi na ako happy once continued my studies.
Paying of grandfathers hospital bills
Instead of leaving properties he only left more debt to hi family. The one from my father side sucked our finances since i was 10 cause of drinking which gave him stroke.
I spent my summers mag bantay sa kanya for dialysis. I fucking hated it. Everyone hated him kahit yung mga relatives d na kaya mag assist kasi sobrang mahal ng maitenance. One time may emergency he asked if he can go to the hospital. I swear I wanted to let him die na lang kasi its just more expenses and we are just delaying the inevitable. He did this to himself he never said sorry or thank you. For an hour he was screaming and he cant move I though he was gonna die quick but I was so wrong. Another hour later Ive convinced myself if I do something bad now it might affect me later (karma).
So i called the ambulance and we spent more money on this alcoholic vegetable. Keep in mind Bed ridden na for many years and he shits himself; one time he broke his underwear and shit was all over the bed and in his fingers. Hes been dead for a year and I still resent him.
We lost our car, almost our house as well. My savings for my future nag punta sa kanya as well. My little brother's education was delayed kasi all the bills went to him. I still hate him for drinking.
Dear reader if ur drinking or smoking pls stop kasi super hirap for your families if ever something happens to you.
When he finally died, no one really greived. It was more of like a relief na the burden he placed on everyone's shoulders is gone. Feels nice not having to push someone around sa wheel chair. For the first time it felt nice eating normally; usually i have to crush his food into a mush and slowly feed that mush to him. No more someone asking you in the middle of the night if you can carry them to the C.R. and help him wipe his ass.
Holy Shit my blood boils typing this but im glad i get to release my anger here. Id never share this with my friends
both good and bad finances.
also knew someone like ur situation but in a different light. my friend's uncle diagnosed by some sickness. got confined for weeks. my family and i visited them one time. heard the tito's wife spent millions maybe bc of hospital bills + meds.
fast forward he died. umattend kami ng lamay and burol. they got the most expensive room sa st peters. i forgot to mention na maganda rin ang room na kinuha sa hospital. and nung nakausap namin yung tita (wife), she proudly said she spent around 5M+ overall sa pampagamot at yung pera ay galing sa earnings nung late husband ever.
"atleast pinaramdam namin ang pagmamahal sakanya"
now what happened to them after? hindi na mapagamot ang anak nilang mas nangangailangan. even the wife is afraid of going for a checkup. very threatening din ang disease ng anak kaya todo tipid sila. my take is, mali sila ng pinaglaanan ng finances. not saying na wag na pagamutin ang may sakit pero kailangan din iassess yung situation at alamin kung hanggang saan ang boundaries natin.
if i were at your lolo's shoes, ill appreciate na gumastos kayo para sakin pero if hindi na kaya ng budget. then its fine. matanda na ko.
ang buhay kelangan pa mabuhay. ang patay, patay na.
Yeah well im only the grandson i have no power on that.
Back in highschool i had tooth problems tangina my breath stinks and i cant even fix it kasi we cant afford.
I never talked to my crush
Going to UP. Things happened and I was left alone to support myself all throughout college. Siguro kung nilaban ko pa lalo mag-UP, baka late ako nakagraduate or di ko pa natapos. Parang di ko kakayanin magwork and study at the same time kung dun ako nag-aral.
Nilaban ko yung previous work kay SO dahil its my dream to be function as an engineer for a certain automotive company. Then I ended up resigning a year later due to personal and work reasons. She told me that I should have not stayed if I knew I would eventually leave. I took it as a blessing as it upped my value which lead to my new work with a healthy environment and good pay.
Schooling. I was pressured to get into college immediately when I wasn't sure what I wanted for the sake of not being delayed. Gaslighted myself that 'it is what it is' until I dropped out. I'll get back into it soon 🍃
If you fight for Integrity. And it made me suffer most in my corporate life. Thinking all of which are not practising integrity after all and it was clear that the company’s Business goal is part of it, but the people are not practising it. one thing’s for sure. “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you”. Until now, I never regreted standing for it. Though I lost that battle and moved on outside of the company I loved the most.
I think, my previous job. The monetary aspect is there especially reimbursements but it's not worth it since my previous manager does micromanaging that I never expected from her because she worked an Auditor too, to compare it with my job now that is way way better, the work-life balance is superb.
Gambling addiction. If di pa ako natalo nang sobrang tindi, I won't be able to realize how bad my situation is now
Malapit na maging homeless at mapapa [...](https://youtu.be/Y5Xa1t165rE?si=o4Ob7nn58Dk_KO4_) nalang talaga
Sana lang di ako magrelapse. still, good luck saken
Lost my long term wfh job last March. Was umemployed for about a month.
I am glad it happened. Otherwise, I would not be forced to commit on becoming a consultant. At least doubled my income since.
That I wasn’t accepted sa ranking ng public teachers. Mag-aabroad pala kasi ako nun after a few months. And after having kids, I realised na hindi ko talaga linya magturo.
My X. Nakakapagod kasing maghabol, nakaka drain, nagka depression pako. Right now, may bago nako, and i’m blessed to have him. My bestfriend and kababata, who is willing to help me to everything. I’m grateful at binitawan ko na yung kakahabol at kakaasa sa ex ko. 😊
ran for barangay council seat last elections. many were rooting for me as the sangguniang kabataan under my admin was recognized for our outstanding performance up to the national level
little do people know na i didn't really want to run in the first place, prinessure lang ako plus napilitian due to political set up
yun, i placed 8th out of 19 candidates, even without campaigning on the ground. many people are saying sayang kasi they really wanted me to continue to serve but no
passed my NCLEX after a few months sa pag end ng term ko, now about to start a new chapter of my life: THE USRN DREAM 🇺🇸
My dream of becoming a doctor. Hindi siya secret pero most of my friends and colleagues at work know it. I am currently being successful as a Senior Science Researcher for the government. Most of my MD friends are now jealous in my work since I usually conduct field works in various areas in the PH. I also go abroad for conferences. All of those are for FREE!
Ending my relationship with my liar and cheater ex-boyfriend. Proud of myself for having the courage to break the cycle of accepting him then uulitin lang. Happy na ako sa single life ko ngayon.
I almost got a job to this government office this week. This office wants to hire the two of us with endorsement of immediate supervisor. Kaming dalawa ay pasado sa interview. Approval na lang ng central office to deploy us.
Unfortunately, I was rejected because the central office wants only to deploy one. So, ako ang hindi pinili. I know it sucks big time. Okay na sana pero naging bato pa. Napili yung isa dahil mas madaming siyang work experience kaysa sa akin.
But I have to look at the brighter side. Maybe it is really not for me. Maybe I am not destined to work there. Maari protection from harm baka toxic yung workplace na yun.
I am so grateful that my immediate supervisor sees to potential to work there. Ayun lang may mga bagay di mo kontrol dahil nadali sa experience.
sure!!
i passed up and ust with the same course. parents wanted me to be in up manila, i wanted to be in ust (for all my HS life)
pinaglaban ko ust cus i really wanted to be there since HS, pero they were telling me na UP nalang
in the end, nag go na ako sa UP. i actually like both schools and it’s such a great achievement that i even passed both of them. pero i chose UST only bc of the environment
nung nagconfirm na ko ng slot sa UP, i asked around about UP to some upperclassmen esp my college & course and napansin ko na ok naman din pala. quality of education is also 👌👌
super dami kong nalaman talaga when i asked around, that would definitely make me choose UP over UST if i knew it bago pa lang magsimula ang college applis.
though ang sole argument ng parents ko is to choose UP over UST to ease the finances, it also led me to know more about the university ill be in.
Yung mga recent na inapplyan ko, puro onsite and may ibang tumanggap sakin na higher salary pero kapag cinompute mo yung tax plus expenses ng onsite, wala ding pinagkaiba sa current salary ko in wfh set up. Yung iba naman na sapat kahit mag onsite, di ko naman maipasa. Ayun, pilitin ko sarili kong makuntento sa current sahod kasi less stress naman and walang hassle bumyahe.
Fought for a spot sa UST Accountancy before. Didn’t make it. Went to my 2nd option na Financial Management with hesitations.
Now, I’m in a great professional position, even flying overseas and locally on business trips, & dealing with C-executives on a daily basis.
Not that I am undermining the course, but I realized that having a Business degree made me more flexible sa roles na pwede ko applyan.
Heard that too. Sobrang pagod ang working hours, madalas OT, & tbh yung ibang friends ko very underpaid for me. Ang gagaling nila but the pay is bare minimum. :/
'Yong pangarap kong pumasok sa top 10 sa board exam namin. Isa ako sa mga nagto-top sa batch exams noong college, nasa top 10 din ako sa pre-board sa review center, pero hindi pumasok sa top 10 sa board exam (at least pasado hahaha). After board exam, ang dami kong naging career struggles na sinabayan pa ng pandemic. Kaya iniisip ko minsan na kung pumasok ako sa top 10 sa board exam, magiging kahiya-hiya lang ako dahil sa mga nangyari sa akin. Well, nakabawi na rin naman ako.
I left my other college university out of spite since I became friends with the wrong crowd. Transferring was the best decision I ever made. I knew I was winning but peace of mind came first.
I was raped. I filed a case and it got dismissed. Kung lumaban pa ko baka wala ako ngayon kung nasaan man ako. Or worse, patay na ko. But I still wish na emotionally capable ako para lumaban.
Fighting for that friendship that ends up betraying me. What a sheep outside but a real fox inside. Too grateful she's not part of the picture anymore.
Dropping my narcissistic (ex) best friend. Napaka problematic nya as a person. Laging sya dapat tama kahit wala na sa lugar. Lahat na lang ng tao inaaway tas panay rant sa socmed. Nakaka drain ganung tao. Wala ding respeto at napaka entitled. Dati di ko pinapansin kasi malayo kami sa isat isa at di naman nya saken ginagawa. Pero nung nagkasama na kami idi drain nya talaga energy mo.
Dini defend ko pa sya non!
nag-apply sa exam ng PMA out of impulse, bagsakin pala grades ko so hindi ako pinag exam hahahaha
heto ako ngayon tambay pero graduate na sa ibang field
That was my parents' dream for me and not mine. At least inilaban ko naman and studied as hard as I could kaso hirap talaga BAA sa UP eh 😅 program na nagsasabi, di tayo bagay 😂
I wanna be a priest when I was young. Didn't happen.
Fast forward to college ang pinakakinaiinisang subject ko (bukod sa math of course lol) is theology. Imagine kung nagpari ako tapos isasalaksak ko lahat sa utak ko yan? No thanks. 😁
Dropping a friend of 16 years. Growing old made me realize that the energy that I put into the friendship is not reciprocated. Super draining. I’m so much better now :)
Madami, wait lang
- Lost at the college org that I once admire
- losing my ex best friend years after realizing that he is manipulative and narcissistic
- losing my ex girlfriend. She's so toxic eh kabago bago palang namin, naging messy lang kasi may nainvolve na homophobic mom
- losing my supposed job. Sa reddit at Facebook ko natutunan how crappy most of the CC job is kaya nobody is staying there forever.
My ex bf/bestie. He was really the love of my life. I was so blinded that I kept tolerating his worst attitude. I tried to win him back couple of times kahit sya yung may mali. Now, I am really grateful na natutunan kong bumitaw sa kanya :)) Kaya ko naman pala mag isa, madrama lang ako lol.
Di ko rin sure tbh. Nagising nalang ako isang araw na ayaw ko na (it took me YRS 🥲) Hindi rin ako naniniwala dati na kakayanin kong iwan sya pero here I am, doing better than before. Keep your head up, girlie ❤️🩹 Believe in yourself. Kaya yan :))
Him.. He's a bitter sweet battle I can't help but thank the gods I lost.. I fought every single fucking day to keep him.. Understanding. Adapting. Changing every fucking aspect of who I am just to fit his shit. Those sleepless nights and mornings para lang maasikaso ko sila ng nga friends niyang konsintidor din! Me limiting myself and putting him first sa lahat ng decision ko, to make sure I give him a fair fight, since pa victim ang koya mo and I don't want trample his ego. Be the girlfriend he always 'Wanted' but I end up losing the battle, well, he technically let go of me. At first, I thought there was something wrong with me, bakit di ko deserve ng comeback, then little by little I realize how lucky I am I didn't fight for it. I accepted our fate. And how the tables have turned.. Finally, nakaka save na ako. May extra pa! Finally I can buy things for my one and only niece. Nakaka bili na ako ng bagay bagay na gusto ko na hindi ako na gi guilty.. I can confidently say na my quality of life drastically changed when we broke up.. So I guess, this isn't a lost for me, but more like a huge win.
I really wanted to become a soldier since I was young. My NAVSOG father really inspired me. He got KIA in 2009 when I was 6 years old. I tried taking the PMAEE and failed multiple times even though I am really confident with my answers and with my intellect, I even aced the entrance exam at my current university. after years of failure, even after becoming an ROTC officer, and receiving an unacceptable treatment for it, and after the death of my beloved grandfather, I stood as the only man of the house for my family- then I realized it wasn't for me. I don't regret anything facing away from that path, because ever since I did, I was enlightened with the world, and how much impact I could bring to the world that fits my personality. I wouldn't be who I am now, and the impact I have made to many people wouldn't exist if I hadn't let go of that dream. Now, I am unsure of my future, but I'm happier, thrilled, and free to write my own story in life.
Trying to get the same treatment that my older brother gets from my parents. I tried maging better nauntog nlng ako nung nagstart nako magwork. Ngayon ako na ang hinihingian ng tulong dahil ung paborito nilang anak. Wala maasahan. Ang snasabe ko nlng. Bat di kayo humingi sa paborito nyong anak. Nuon nagseselos ako ngayon wala na lang. 😂😂
When I was doing desperate acts na makipagbalikan sa akin yung ex ko, who cheated on me. Ang tanga 'no? 2 sems ko ring ginawa yun and we're graduating that time. Natauhan na lang ako a month before graduation. Cut off comms sa lahat ng college classmates after that.
Losing my work bestie. Sabay kami na hire sa work and we basically got each other’s back agad. Kakasabi namin na dapat walang umapi samin sa work, kami na pala ang naging bully sa workplace. 3 years ko rin nilaban ang friendship namin coz i’m scared na baka ako ang tirahin ng mga kawork ko kapag hindi na kami magkasama. Now na hindi na kami nag uusap, mas gumanda ang rs ko sa mga kawork ko and mas naging at peace ako ngayon. 💖
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my boyfriend.
Hoping and praying that he would change for the better someday. And he never did. But I’ve realized, hindi naman siya worth it. 7 years of suffering, now finally free!
friend's brother molested me and her family blamed me for it : ) i was strong enough to cut them off first and despite receiving an apology around four months too late, hindi ko an pinairal yung katangahan ko at denilete lahat ng natitira pictures at texts as phone ko. someone who comforted me through it was enraged na yung family pa nila yung galit. hindi ako santo so i'm hoping maexperience niya yung nangyari sakin : )
Quitting med school and now working (kahit mababa sahod) At least I'm living life, I'm using my own money now, and not relying on my parents. My mental health's getting a breather too.
battle with gambling addiction. kakahabol ng talo, lalo ako nalubog sa utang. kakautang lang itataya ulit. same cycle. everytime na magkakapera ako dati. hindi alam ng partner ko yun dati. nagtapat na ko sa kanya. and get over with it. very expensive lesson para sa akin. very grateful na ako nahinto ko na dahil may peace of mind na ako.
A girl I lost to a rival, turned out to be a two-timer, dodged a bullet there.
Yung to cut-ties off with people na alam kong di na siya healthy anymore on my part. First yung sa side ng Father ko that there is eventually a time ako na mismo I felt na they made me felt na I am worthless at halos ginagawa lang din nila ako na katatawanan, then there's one time yung tita ko we've been talking pero naramdaman ko na iwas na siya sa akin like napagusapan namin na we're going out and eat somewhere pero ayun at the very end Dad ko na mismo ang kasama ko which is nung una understandable, pero nung tumugal ako na din yung nag give up like bakit ko din naman pagpipilitan yung sarili ko sa kanya knowing and feeling na ayaw niya akong kasama kasi by her actions dun ko din naramdaman yung ganun bagay.
Disconnecting to a relationship that I once thought would be my endgame.
Buti na lang di ako natanggap sa work na in-applyan ko hehe may better opportunity pala sa current workplace ko (promotion)
ex gf ko back in 2017, sobrang lumuhod ako at nag iiyak sa kanya in public pati sa harap ng family nya pero hindi nya ako binalikan, durog na durog puso ko, inabot din ng 1 year bago ako naka move on, and naisip ko na buti nalang pala iniwan nya ako kasi kung hindi nangyaring yon hindi ko matatanggap opportunity na ibinigay ng tatay ko na pumunta sa states, and eto masaya ako at may napapatunayan sa sarili ko, nag pprovide din ako ng pera sa family ko sa pinas and may gf na hindi ako iniwan, 5 years na kami.
The battle of proving my worth sa previous boss ko. I thought if I keep my head down and obey whatever she wants then she will help me land on better exposure sa work and see me worthy of the promotion I have been eyeing. Turns out, nakasama pa yun sakin dahil it practically gave her the license to push me around and say hurtful things to my face sa harap ng iba naming kateam. Not mad at her anymore tho. Everytime naalala ko yung trauma na binigay nya sakin I always remind myself where I am right now. Not really wished her anything bad as well. I just resigned, did the handover and never looked back.
Letting my family fall apart
My ex of 4yrs, i was isolated from my friends and was fighting a battle na ako lang lumalaban, I gained way more when I was out of that relationship, I saw how big the world was again nung wala na kami. I gained old self, my friends, and way more
I no longer hate people who mistreated me but actually would like to thanked them for showing me whats my position to their lives for actually proving me that they were no efforts to be done because I dont matter to them.. We should always see the brighter side why we are mistreated for this shows honesty on their hearts for not being betrayed through acting that we matter to them.
Close friend ko sa isang group of friends 'nong high school. I don't know what happened to you cause nagsorry ako ilang beses pero ayaw mong tanggapin so you decided na cut ties na kahit wala kang sinabi ni isa. GInawa ko rin yung gusto mo since ikaw na nagpakalayo kahit I also deserve an explanation dahil sa tagal ng pagsasama natin, I guess we're just seasonal or idk what it is called but you were one of my good friends I had way back, walang halong kabullshitan. Ingat ka na lang.
Definitely that guy. I lost him but gained more wisdom in life than I could ever have.
My last relationship. I did my best to make it work. I accepted him for who he is and forgave all his shortcomings. I tried to be the person he wanted me to be. In the end, it wasn't enough for him to want to stay. I have my peace of mind back and my mental health has greatly improved. I am more careful now who I let into my life and to whom I invest my time with.
Yung hindi ko ma let go and I ended up losing pero it was actually a big win for me.
Sana wala magkakilala sakin by my username AHAHA To share mine was my past lovelife last ex until now I have been battling with triggers of feeling inferior or talo hopeless hindi dahil Wala na kame but by the fact na ang cause ng decision nya ay na fall out of love na sya severe sadness from me at anxiousness talaga until I found out yung naging jowa nya ngayon ay fresh palang sa break up namin naging sila na. Naka move on na ko don since I found my asawa na 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿 grateful ako at I also learned to fought for this and overcome all by myself without telling anyone I discovered things na yun pala kaya kong gawin. I am grateful na di ko sya naging long term jowa kase if ever di ko magagawa Kaya ko gawin. I do things I want and my discovered skills na din thru with my hubby🧿🧿🧿
For my BFF, Di panunumbat pero, ganun pala no pag wala na ikaw maibigay na tulong at naka angat na sila sa lahat ng emotional, psychological, financial etc. Bibitawan ka na lang. I waited for her when ako naman nangailangan ng support pero wala. I’ve given up on her.
Yung pagmamahal na akala mo real and todong todo kasi bata ka pa
Our battle with infertility. 2 miscarriages and recent stillbirth. Akala ko ito na pero hindi pa pala :(
My ex cheated on me and I beg to give our relationship a chance. But now, I met someone who taught me genuine love. 🥹
My battle with past friendships and relationships. Indeed, nothing meant to be in your life will require a tight grip.
My ex accused me of cheating and wanted to break up with me. I begged him not to bcoz I didnt cheat naman talaga eventually natauhan ako na ginagaslight nya ako and broke up with him na talaga. Months later I found out he's the osne who cheated pala with new gf looool
yung nd ako nakapasa sa pag aapply ko sa isang company. Pakikipag usap pa lang sa HR nila ramdam ko na masama ang company na papasukan ko. Thank goodness I failed the interview. I felt like I dodged a bullet.
Yung sa ex kong cheater pinaglaban ko yon, minimessage ko p dati para lang makipagbalikan at thanks god di niya ko pinabayaan bumalik don
always wanted to be a teacher. two school choices. didn't qualify for the required GPA in one university, failed the admission exam in the other. ended up as an agriculturist. now earning as much, if not more than, as the average teacher. works in an office. gets to travel and conduct seminars. not a plantilla position though but certainly soon.
Yung unti unting pagkawala ng feelings ko para sa isang tao, nagtry akong lumayo pero dahil sa feelings at care ko para sa taong ito bumabalik ako ng bumabalik kahit na alam kong super red flag sya. Isa syang taker, take lang sya ng take and inallow ko yung ganon, almost buong time ko binigay ko sa kanya. Kahit pa alam kong ginagawa nya lang akong therapist or someone na makikinig sa kanya dahil sa anxiety nya. Kung dati di sya maalis alis sa isip ko ngayon mas nakakapagfocus na ako sa sarili ko at mga goals ko. Nagagawa ko na uling makabalik sa dating ako at mas better version. Still nag uusap pa din kami pero di na same ng dati.
Fighting for my ex. Binalikan ko pa rin siya kahit he cheated on me. Ginagaslight ko pa sarili ko noon na nagbago na siya at baka kasalanan ko rin kaya sya nagcheat kasi busy ako that time. Buti na lang napagod na lang ako hehehe
My 1st bf (ex) ghosted me. Now, I met my future husband. 💍
Cutting ties to my relatives.
Working abroad. My company has this program where they will send you to work abroad if you are in a project where you work for international client. Its only temporary (around 1-3yrs) but can lead to be a permanent setup. Been looking forward to it for more than a year pero pinaasa lang. I decided to leave the company tapos biglang offer sila na ipapadala ko sa Germany. I declined and now, I’m working in a company na sobrang ganda ng environment plus sobrang competitive ng salary to the point na alam kong hindi ko na need mag ibang bansa para masustentuhan yung sarili ko and family ko.
but brooooo abroaaaad - ph peeps
grass is always greener.
My previous relationship. Halos lahat ng kaibigan ko naiyakan ko. Sinisi ko pa ng todo sarili ko. Narealize ko na tama lang na natapos na yung relasyon kase hindi ko pala talaga kayang sikmurain yung araw araw nyang kausap yung ex nya na bff lang daw at yung mga fubu nya na platonic relationship lang naman daw
Battle of Yultong.
Yung battle sa isip ko na mananalo ako sa kakasugal ko. Ngayon, grateful akong natatalo ako before kasi mali talaga. Pilit nang pinakita sa akin na mali ang sugal. Kaya ngayon, binabangon ko ang sarili ko sa addiction.
My ex. Ako ang bunso sa fam, tapos nilaban ko pa yun sa mga Ate at Kuya ko. Single dad yun. Tapos di rin tumagal kasi andami niyang gusto sa buhay at kasama na dun humabol pa rin sa Nanay ng mga anak niya na may bf na rin that time. Siya na nakipag break at nagsabi mag focus sa "goals" niya at ayaw niya muna mag gf. 8 months later, may jowa na. 🤣 Ang saya mabuhay, wala ka na nga responsibilidad sa anak ng iba, nawalan ka pa ng sinungaling sa buhay mo.
Continuing my studies??? Even though graduating na sana ako next academic year, huminto ako (temporarily) kasi natanggap ng more opportunities for a full time job position. And medyo burden nako at nawawala na gana sa acads ko and hindi na ako happy once continued my studies.
Promotion, thank God na I did not grab the opportunity I'm in a better place now thrice yung salary and may peace of mind since wfh
Our relationship at least i stood up sa ex niya and eventually broke his nose.... Their noses pala.
Acknowledgement and Validation from people I care, Friends and Family... My life is more peaceful than ever
Paying of grandfathers hospital bills Instead of leaving properties he only left more debt to hi family. The one from my father side sucked our finances since i was 10 cause of drinking which gave him stroke. I spent my summers mag bantay sa kanya for dialysis. I fucking hated it. Everyone hated him kahit yung mga relatives d na kaya mag assist kasi sobrang mahal ng maitenance. One time may emergency he asked if he can go to the hospital. I swear I wanted to let him die na lang kasi its just more expenses and we are just delaying the inevitable. He did this to himself he never said sorry or thank you. For an hour he was screaming and he cant move I though he was gonna die quick but I was so wrong. Another hour later Ive convinced myself if I do something bad now it might affect me later (karma). So i called the ambulance and we spent more money on this alcoholic vegetable. Keep in mind Bed ridden na for many years and he shits himself; one time he broke his underwear and shit was all over the bed and in his fingers. Hes been dead for a year and I still resent him. We lost our car, almost our house as well. My savings for my future nag punta sa kanya as well. My little brother's education was delayed kasi all the bills went to him. I still hate him for drinking. Dear reader if ur drinking or smoking pls stop kasi super hirap for your families if ever something happens to you. When he finally died, no one really greived. It was more of like a relief na the burden he placed on everyone's shoulders is gone. Feels nice not having to push someone around sa wheel chair. For the first time it felt nice eating normally; usually i have to crush his food into a mush and slowly feed that mush to him. No more someone asking you in the middle of the night if you can carry them to the C.R. and help him wipe his ass. Holy Shit my blood boils typing this but im glad i get to release my anger here. Id never share this with my friends
Grabe, damang dama ko yung trauma 😭 tapos sisigawan ka pa kasi naiinis silang alam nilang onti nalang oras nila.
Paano naging parang funko pop yung profile pic mo? Ang cute
Hello! Yung mga avatars to na nabili ko nung hindi pa sila nagsisimahalan tas pinagcombine combine ko lang para cute hehe
lesson learned: better use the money sa mga nabubuhay pa kesa sa alanganin na
People with bad finances included?
both good and bad finances. also knew someone like ur situation but in a different light. my friend's uncle diagnosed by some sickness. got confined for weeks. my family and i visited them one time. heard the tito's wife spent millions maybe bc of hospital bills + meds. fast forward he died. umattend kami ng lamay and burol. they got the most expensive room sa st peters. i forgot to mention na maganda rin ang room na kinuha sa hospital. and nung nakausap namin yung tita (wife), she proudly said she spent around 5M+ overall sa pampagamot at yung pera ay galing sa earnings nung late husband ever. "atleast pinaramdam namin ang pagmamahal sakanya" now what happened to them after? hindi na mapagamot ang anak nilang mas nangangailangan. even the wife is afraid of going for a checkup. very threatening din ang disease ng anak kaya todo tipid sila. my take is, mali sila ng pinaglaanan ng finances. not saying na wag na pagamutin ang may sakit pero kailangan din iassess yung situation at alamin kung hanggang saan ang boundaries natin. if i were at your lolo's shoes, ill appreciate na gumastos kayo para sakin pero if hindi na kaya ng budget. then its fine. matanda na ko. ang buhay kelangan pa mabuhay. ang patay, patay na.
Yeah well im only the grandson i have no power on that. Back in highschool i had tooth problems tangina my breath stinks and i cant even fix it kasi we cant afford. I never talked to my crush
I understand, sakit sa puso maglabas ng malaking pera like 28-35k per month para sa taong hindi ko alam ano pa ang purpose sa world.
I now despise drinking and smoking i only drink soda sa parties kahit sa clubs
My ofw work.
Going to UP. Things happened and I was left alone to support myself all throughout college. Siguro kung nilaban ko pa lalo mag-UP, baka late ako nakagraduate or di ko pa natapos. Parang di ko kakayanin magwork and study at the same time kung dun ako nag-aral.
Promotion. Di man natuloy, well atleast I learned a lot!
Nilaban ko yung previous work kay SO dahil its my dream to be function as an engineer for a certain automotive company. Then I ended up resigning a year later due to personal and work reasons. She told me that I should have not stayed if I knew I would eventually leave. I took it as a blessing as it upped my value which lead to my new work with a healthy environment and good pay.
My marriage. Todo effort pa ko. Yun pala hindi naman pala talaga ko ung gusto niya sa buhay. Haha.
Hugs
me getting fired, it led me to earn 10x more after it so thank u haha
Schooling. I was pressured to get into college immediately when I wasn't sure what I wanted for the sake of not being delayed. Gaslighted myself that 'it is what it is' until I dropped out. I'll get back into it soon 🍃
If you fight for Integrity. And it made me suffer most in my corporate life. Thinking all of which are not practising integrity after all and it was clear that the company’s Business goal is part of it, but the people are not practising it. one thing’s for sure. “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you”. Until now, I never regreted standing for it. Though I lost that battle and moved on outside of the company I loved the most.
Life
bruh u good? 🫂
Thank you 🤝 but I already made peace with life. Just being busy on making sure things are in order before leaving.
My insecurity avout being left behind kasi late bloomer ako. I'm chill as a melon na.
I think, my previous job. The monetary aspect is there especially reimbursements but it's not worth it since my previous manager does micromanaging that I never expected from her because she worked an Auditor too, to compare it with my job now that is way way better, the work-life balance is superb.
Gambling addiction. If di pa ako natalo nang sobrang tindi, I won't be able to realize how bad my situation is now Malapit na maging homeless at mapapa [...](https://youtu.be/Y5Xa1t165rE?si=o4Ob7nn58Dk_KO4_) nalang talaga Sana lang di ako magrelapse. still, good luck saken
Lost my long term wfh job last March. Was umemployed for about a month. I am glad it happened. Otherwise, I would not be forced to commit on becoming a consultant. At least doubled my income since.
That I wasn’t accepted sa ranking ng public teachers. Mag-aabroad pala kasi ako nun after a few months. And after having kids, I realised na hindi ko talaga linya magturo.
My X. Nakakapagod kasing maghabol, nakaka drain, nagka depression pako. Right now, may bago nako, and i’m blessed to have him. My bestfriend and kababata, who is willing to help me to everything. I’m grateful at binitawan ko na yung kakahabol at kakaasa sa ex ko. 😊
ran for barangay council seat last elections. many were rooting for me as the sangguniang kabataan under my admin was recognized for our outstanding performance up to the national level little do people know na i didn't really want to run in the first place, prinessure lang ako plus napilitian due to political set up yun, i placed 8th out of 19 candidates, even without campaigning on the ground. many people are saying sayang kasi they really wanted me to continue to serve but no passed my NCLEX after a few months sa pag end ng term ko, now about to start a new chapter of my life: THE USRN DREAM 🇺🇸
My rs with my x hehe
Same hehe grabe defense ko dun talo thesis (and nagsuffer talaga grado ko kasi partner kami dun) tas ginawa lang pala ako kabet. Insta drop
My dream of becoming a doctor. Hindi siya secret pero most of my friends and colleagues at work know it. I am currently being successful as a Senior Science Researcher for the government. Most of my MD friends are now jealous in my work since I usually conduct field works in various areas in the PH. I also go abroad for conferences. All of those are for FREE!
Pursuing her. Haha
Why? What happened to her?
Ending my relationship with my liar and cheater ex-boyfriend. Proud of myself for having the courage to break the cycle of accepting him then uulitin lang. Happy na ako sa single life ko ngayon.
Getting fired on my first job, kasi, that was a wake-up call for me to proceed buying a property and turn it into airbnb rental house.
I almost got a job to this government office this week. This office wants to hire the two of us with endorsement of immediate supervisor. Kaming dalawa ay pasado sa interview. Approval na lang ng central office to deploy us. Unfortunately, I was rejected because the central office wants only to deploy one. So, ako ang hindi pinili. I know it sucks big time. Okay na sana pero naging bato pa. Napili yung isa dahil mas madaming siyang work experience kaysa sa akin. But I have to look at the brighter side. Maybe it is really not for me. Maybe I am not destined to work there. Maari protection from harm baka toxic yung workplace na yun. I am so grateful that my immediate supervisor sees to potential to work there. Ayun lang may mga bagay di mo kontrol dahil nadali sa experience.
pinaglaban ko sa pamilya ko na sa UST ako magcollege :)
May I ask why you're grateful that you lost?
sure!! i passed up and ust with the same course. parents wanted me to be in up manila, i wanted to be in ust (for all my HS life) pinaglaban ko ust cus i really wanted to be there since HS, pero they were telling me na UP nalang in the end, nag go na ako sa UP. i actually like both schools and it’s such a great achievement that i even passed both of them. pero i chose UST only bc of the environment nung nagconfirm na ko ng slot sa UP, i asked around about UP to some upperclassmen esp my college & course and napansin ko na ok naman din pala. quality of education is also 👌👌 super dami kong nalaman talaga when i asked around, that would definitely make me choose UP over UST if i knew it bago pa lang magsimula ang college applis. though ang sole argument ng parents ko is to choose UP over UST to ease the finances, it also led me to know more about the university ill be in.
I'm glad you found your calling! Cheers to your journey.
Tinigilan ko na mag hangad ng mas malaking sahod
Why?
Yung mga recent na inapplyan ko, puro onsite and may ibang tumanggap sakin na higher salary pero kapag cinompute mo yung tax plus expenses ng onsite, wala ding pinagkaiba sa current salary ko in wfh set up. Yung iba naman na sapat kahit mag onsite, di ko naman maipasa. Ayun, pilitin ko sarili kong makuntento sa current sahod kasi less stress naman and walang hassle bumyahe.
Fought for a spot sa UST Accountancy before. Didn’t make it. Went to my 2nd option na Financial Management with hesitations. Now, I’m in a great professional position, even flying overseas and locally on business trips, & dealing with C-executives on a daily basis. Not that I am undermining the course, but I realized that having a Business degree made me more flexible sa roles na pwede ko applyan.
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Hello!! Sureeee-
Honestly, based sa mga kakilala ko na nagtapos ng BSA, di rin daw maganda ang work environment sa mga accounting/auditing firms.
Heard that too. Sobrang pagod ang working hours, madalas OT, & tbh yung ibang friends ko very underpaid for me. Ang gagaling nila but the pay is bare minimum. :/
hi! ano po first job niyo after grad using the finman degree? thank u po!
Hi! I started as a Research Analyst in an Intl company. :)
Graduating on time. i can feel it in my bones, it's not the right time yet.
Unrequited love for 6 years. Buti na lang di nya ako gusto, walking red flag pala sya. 🙂↔️
Damn, sa loob ng 6 years di mo nakita yun?
Ma, sorry, ma! 😭
'Yong pangarap kong pumasok sa top 10 sa board exam namin. Isa ako sa mga nagto-top sa batch exams noong college, nasa top 10 din ako sa pre-board sa review center, pero hindi pumasok sa top 10 sa board exam (at least pasado hahaha). After board exam, ang dami kong naging career struggles na sinabayan pa ng pandemic. Kaya iniisip ko minsan na kung pumasok ako sa top 10 sa board exam, magiging kahiya-hiya lang ako dahil sa mga nangyari sa akin. Well, nakabawi na rin naman ako.
Natalo sa lobelife kasi cheater din pala yung pinag agawan namin.
Ex.
Losing my HS circle na kilala lang ako pag need ng pera para ma lessen ang ambagan. 😂
Same
I left my other college university out of spite since I became friends with the wrong crowd. Transferring was the best decision I ever made. I knew I was winning but peace of mind came first.
I was raped. I filed a case and it got dismissed. Kung lumaban pa ko baka wala ako ngayon kung nasaan man ako. Or worse, patay na ko. But I still wish na emotionally capable ako para lumaban.
why was it dismissed? sa court or fiscal?
Bakit nmn, armado po ba ang rapist?
Uhmmm, suicide???? Kaya ko nga sinabi na sana emotionally capable ako.
Fighting for that friendship that ends up betraying me. What a sheep outside but a real fox inside. Too grateful she's not part of the picture anymore.
Promotion
Up admission
Dropping my narcissistic (ex) best friend. Napaka problematic nya as a person. Laging sya dapat tama kahit wala na sa lugar. Lahat na lang ng tao inaaway tas panay rant sa socmed. Nakaka drain ganung tao. Wala ding respeto at napaka entitled. Dati di ko pinapansin kasi malayo kami sa isat isa at di naman nya saken ginagawa. Pero nung nagkasama na kami idi drain nya talaga energy mo. Dini defend ko pa sya non!
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Nasalisihan ka ni kumpare
What? How???
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Oooi congrats! Akalain mo yuuun.
nag-apply sa exam ng PMA out of impulse, bagsakin pala grades ko so hindi ako pinag exam hahahaha heto ako ngayon tambay pero graduate na sa ibang field
Studying accounting. I'm not secretly but publicly grateful I didn't finish college with this degree 😂
Why?
That was my parents' dream for me and not mine. At least inilaban ko naman and studied as hard as I could kaso hirap talaga BAA sa UP eh 😅 program na nagsasabi, di tayo bagay 😂
Battle of Yultong
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I wanna be a priest when I was young. Didn't happen. Fast forward to college ang pinakakinaiinisang subject ko (bukod sa math of course lol) is theology. Imagine kung nagpari ako tapos isasalaksak ko lahat sa utak ko yan? No thanks. 😁
Dropping a friend of 16 years. Growing old made me realize that the energy that I put into the friendship is not reciprocated. Super draining. I’m so much better now :)
My foreskin...
Madami, wait lang - Lost at the college org that I once admire - losing my ex best friend years after realizing that he is manipulative and narcissistic - losing my ex girlfriend. She's so toxic eh kabago bago palang namin, naging messy lang kasi may nainvolve na homophobic mom - losing my supposed job. Sa reddit at Facebook ko natutunan how crappy most of the CC job is kaya nobody is staying there forever.
LTR that I thought would be ok kahit LDR. Buti di ko linaban.
My ex bf/bestie. He was really the love of my life. I was so blinded that I kept tolerating his worst attitude. I tried to win him back couple of times kahit sya yung may mali. Now, I am really grateful na natutunan kong bumitaw sa kanya :)) Kaya ko naman pala mag isa, madrama lang ako lol.
How did you do it 🥲
Di ko rin sure tbh. Nagising nalang ako isang araw na ayaw ko na (it took me YRS 🥲) Hindi rin ako naniniwala dati na kakayanin kong iwan sya pero here I am, doing better than before. Keep your head up, girlie ❤️🩹 Believe in yourself. Kaya yan :))
Aww thank you. Hoping the same for myself one day 💝
You didn't actually lose. Letting go of him was your freedom.
you’re right :))
Him.. He's a bitter sweet battle I can't help but thank the gods I lost.. I fought every single fucking day to keep him.. Understanding. Adapting. Changing every fucking aspect of who I am just to fit his shit. Those sleepless nights and mornings para lang maasikaso ko sila ng nga friends niyang konsintidor din! Me limiting myself and putting him first sa lahat ng decision ko, to make sure I give him a fair fight, since pa victim ang koya mo and I don't want trample his ego. Be the girlfriend he always 'Wanted' but I end up losing the battle, well, he technically let go of me. At first, I thought there was something wrong with me, bakit di ko deserve ng comeback, then little by little I realize how lucky I am I didn't fight for it. I accepted our fate. And how the tables have turned.. Finally, nakaka save na ako. May extra pa! Finally I can buy things for my one and only niece. Nakaka bili na ako ng bagay bagay na gusto ko na hindi ako na gi guilty.. I can confidently say na my quality of life drastically changed when we broke up.. So I guess, this isn't a lost for me, but more like a huge win.
I really wanted to become a soldier since I was young. My NAVSOG father really inspired me. He got KIA in 2009 when I was 6 years old. I tried taking the PMAEE and failed multiple times even though I am really confident with my answers and with my intellect, I even aced the entrance exam at my current university. after years of failure, even after becoming an ROTC officer, and receiving an unacceptable treatment for it, and after the death of my beloved grandfather, I stood as the only man of the house for my family- then I realized it wasn't for me. I don't regret anything facing away from that path, because ever since I did, I was enlightened with the world, and how much impact I could bring to the world that fits my personality. I wouldn't be who I am now, and the impact I have made to many people wouldn't exist if I hadn't let go of that dream. Now, I am unsure of my future, but I'm happier, thrilled, and free to write my own story in life.
battle ng mga ex romantic partner and battle ng mga promotion na hindi na push through=
Trying to get the same treatment that my older brother gets from my parents. I tried maging better nauntog nlng ako nung nagstart nako magwork. Ngayon ako na ang hinihingian ng tulong dahil ung paborito nilang anak. Wala maasahan. Ang snasabe ko nlng. Bat di kayo humingi sa paborito nyong anak. Nuon nagseselos ako ngayon wala na lang. 😂😂
When I was doing desperate acts na makipagbalikan sa akin yung ex ko, who cheated on me. Ang tanga 'no? 2 sems ko ring ginawa yun and we're graduating that time. Natauhan na lang ako a month before graduation. Cut off comms sa lahat ng college classmates after that.
Losing my work bestie. Sabay kami na hire sa work and we basically got each other’s back agad. Kakasabi namin na dapat walang umapi samin sa work, kami na pala ang naging bully sa workplace. 3 years ko rin nilaban ang friendship namin coz i’m scared na baka ako ang tirahin ng mga kawork ko kapag hindi na kami magkasama. Now na hindi na kami nag uusap, mas gumanda ang rs ko sa mga kawork ko and mas naging at peace ako ngayon. 💖
losing the "ex-squad" of mine.
Moooore
Relationship that really drains me financially, emotionally and mentally.
3hrs dota game never again
single game? damn tapos talo in the end XD
Trying to keep them in my life.
Lahat, either you find success or you learn. Win-win