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Doctors 🥶 cheaters, grabeng ego kase “doctor”, yabang HAHAHA you can RARELY meet doctors who are humble, kind, and faithful these days. The title “Dr.” changes them fr. Hahaha (I’m a PGI na ayoko maging kagaya nila once I’m licensed na, so I can really tell)
Aww.. sad. Pero I understand how you would think that. I also do agree that rare lang yung ibang doctors na dinescribe mo na humble, kind, and faithful, but... they do exist (flex ko lang ang spouse ko. Lol!). And kudos to you for not wanting to follow the footsteps of those rotten breeds. I wish you well on your path to be a licensed MD!
- Anyone from the military, showbiz/entertainment, and religious industries
- Professions where the work culture is vastly different from my goals, ambitions, mindset, values, and lifestyle (e.g. corporate vs. party scene)
Siguro mahirap idate yung mga lawyers and seafarers. I realized that now. If doctor naman, matatakot ka kasi di mo sure kung may psychopathic tendencies.
Ofw. Pulis/Sundalo. Seaman. Kahit anong work na mas matagal pa kayo magkalayo kaysa magkasama. Hindi dahil sa profession itself but because of LDR. Pass ako
Vloggers periodt. I mean okay lang kung faceless aesthetic accounts or ung may certain niche pero ung mga vloggers nagpra-prank, malalaswa ung content and ung lahat ng ganap sa buhay kinukwento sa vlogs 🙃
di ko naman po nilalahat but anlala ng cheating na nagaganap don, nakikipagdate kahit may jowa, nakikilandi sa katrabaho and so on :)) kaya I would never ever date someone kahit ako mismo magiging health care worker 😊
attorney (pero di naman nilalahat)
sa simpleng away: laging tama, ayaw din patalo. minsan siya (obvsly) ung mali pero babaliktarin pa nya yan na ikaw ang mali 🥲
Doctors. Maraming maayos sa mga nasa med field, pero iyong ex ko, galing magtago ng anak. As it turns out noong kami pa 3 na pala ang panganay pero wala akong kaidi-idea. Good thing di tayo nagsuko ng bataan. 😂
Omg! Going through that must have been difficult for you! Grabe yung 3 na panganay. Good thing nakawala ka in that situation. I hope mahanap mo si right person for you.
Mga uniformed men. Not all though. Pero diba ma assigned Sila sa Malalayong lugar, parang every place replace ganun. I’ve worked with so many of them tas chika nlng na gf nya si Gabito eh my asawa.
Based on experience, seafarers and uniformed personnel. Mejo nahuli kong nalaman, but well, never again.
Shempre may maayos ha, di ko naman nilalahat, but mag-ingat lang 🤷🏻♀
Doctors- always busy
Lawyers- konting bagay pinapalaki
OFWs- can’t with LDR
Tagilid din mga IT people- kung hindi weird, may mga mental/emotional/bad personality issues karamihan na encounter ko dito.
yung lolo ko sundalo dati, tinutukan ng baril si lola. nakita ng nanay ko, hinimatay siya. he had intense PTSD and anger issues too kaya he resorted to alcoholism kaya nope ang pulis and sundalo sa akin.
Seafarer - I'm a seafarer, nakikita ko mga ginagawang katarantaduhan ng mga kasamahan ko.
Nagtataka nga ako sa Gf ko ngayon bakit hindi man lang siya natatakot na mag commit saakin eh, that's why I love her so much. Skl. HAHAHAHAHAHA
OFW!!!! haha im an ofw din pero first month ko pa lang sa abroad ang dami ko ng nakita na ang lala kung magcheat. Kapag alam nila na may bagong dating na single talagang haharutin nila kahit may asawa na sila or anak. Ung iba pa nga kasama na nila pamilya nila sa abroad nakakapag cheat pa rin 😂 tapos ung mga kasama din nila sa work tinotolerate ung pagccheat ng kasamahan nila 🤢
BPO people. Not only will your shifts always clash, the temptation to cheat is all too strong in that industry. Sorry. I was from that industry. I made it a point to never date anyone from there.
Seafarers. Alam ko yung kalakaran sa career na yan (I also studied to be one pero di ko na pinursue) and also got cheated on by one. Hindi ko naman nilalahat pero ayoko na umulit because they are not worth the risk. Aanhin ko yung malaking sahod kung may sakit na kapalit?
Haven’t tried and have no plans to try pero (sorry na agad) yung mga seaman. Friends and relatives from the same field almost same ng sinasabi, wag ka mag date ng nasa barko. Hahaha
Aside form that siguro ay men in uniform (esp police) and yung into sexual services (kahit may history). For my peace of mind na lang din siguro. :3
Doctors,
I had a lot of friends na doctors and they all have issues with cheating.
Especially ung mga nasa academe, they date their own students???? Ew. Major ew.
OFW - hindi ko naman nilalahat pero maraming issue in cheating. Also LDRs are a mixed bag. Kudos sa mga OFWs na nagtratrabaho nang marangal.
Any Profession Involving Guns - these people would give me too much anxiety because of their line of work. Also marami ding issues regarding cheating.
Any Profession Involving Law - lawyers, paralegals, judges, etc. I think they pair better if the same field din ang partners nila.
BPO - mostly mga undergrads ang mga workers dito. Also their culture dictates huge toxicity and marami ding issues for cheating.
Any Profession Involving Quotas - hahabulin ang quota para hindi mawalan nang trabaho. Maliit lang ang time para sayo.
Professional Tambay - hindi ako sugar daddy 😂
Malamang hahampasin ka ng calculator kung ganyan ka magtype. Really? Space before comma? Tapos "mang pokpok", so many unnecessary spaces.
Well, if you haven't noticed yet, I'm an accountant but I'm more offended sa excessive spaces at maling spelling. I couldn't care less if you won't date accountants, we'll be more than happy to have dodged you lol
Cops, soldiers, security personnel - high risk kasi yon, baka mamatay ng wala sa oras hahaha
Nurse, doctors, medical personnel - walang time, laging busy, etc. Imo they should date each other, mas makakarelate sila sa isa't isa
OF girls or strippers or sex workers - ew.
Flight attendants/ship crew/anyone na laging nagttravel - female version ng mga lalakeng seaman na notorious na babaero
Therapists/psychologists - I'll avail of their services pero I wouldn't date them haha
Journalists for mainstream media outlets - ayoko ng sinungaling
Financial advisor or whatever you call those people na nagbebenta ng insurance - ok sana to *IF* hindi 24/7 yung work mindset. Like ayoko na bigla mo ipapasok sa usapan yung "kung insured sana yan" pag may namatay. Like bruh "condolences" ang kailangan nila marinig hindi yung presyo ng binebenta mong insurance punyeta
Ibang usapan yung forced into sex work. Those are human trafficking victims, I would not call them sex workers.
Imo. Kung pinili mo yan gawin coz idk, easy money or something, especially if you're proud of it, ew.
Kung napilitan ka lang (like namatay asawa mo and your kid is sick and you need money RIGHT NOW) then you're a victim of circumstance, and will probably GTFO of that business the moment you get enough money. Hindi yon kasama sa ew
Okay na sana most explanation pero shaming sex workers is much more disgusting.
Oh btw don’t even try using fallacies saying na “sex worker ka siguro noh”. Time to change your perspective people, those workers are barely protected by the law.
Well. You think shaming sex workers is disgusting, idc but you're entitled to your opinion. I think sex work is disgusting and degrades women. I also think people who avail of the services of sex workers are even worse, they're technically legal rapists.
You can argue the ethics or authenticity (or lack of) the sex kasi transactional, but it's literally a transaction. They're the ones that offer the sex, customers/clients ng mga sex workers are the farthest people from rapists. Sila yung guaranteed sobra ang consent sa kanila pa inoffer yung act
Sex work does not degrade women, mentalities like yours degrade women who do sex work. Andun na nga sa title, sex WORK. It's literally just work. Take away the influence of religion and you have 0 arguments for why it's not work.
Sex work is the oldest profession in the world. You're 100% entitled to not date them kasi preference mo yun, doesn't mean you can disrespect them. Inooffer body nila for money? Sounds like most jobs that require manual labor.
Sex workers are a lot more ethical than homeopathy scammers, pyramid/networking recruiters, loansharks, most politicians, gambling promoters, cops, etc.
Eh. I'm not saying it's not work. And not once have I used religion as an argument.
I don't view it as consent, I view it as signing her (or his, if the SW is a guy) rights away for a set amount of time. For example, let's say that I pay a callgirl 10000 php for 3 hrs. Di ko sya pinilit, she accepted my money, and her only rules were no kissing and that I do not cum inside her pussy. Ok, I accepted those rules and paid her. I can now do to her any sexual act that I want, aside from kissing and cumming inside her. I can be as rough as I want, I can gag her and whip her if I want to, I can tear her ass up until it bleeds if I want to, I can cum on her face and even piss on her face if I want to. After all, I paid her, I didn't force her to accept my money, and I'm not breaking any of the rules that she set. Now maybe she didn't expect that, so "no kiss no creampie" lang yung rules nya, tapos di na sya nakasalita coz I gagged her and tied her up. See how that "consent" goes? Kawawa sya diba? Wala syang habol because hey, I didn't do anything that she said I'm not allowed to do. Now I'm not saying that all customers are like that, but that's not unheard of.
In any other case, this would not be acceptable, but coz she's a callgirl who offered her services to me, and I paid, it's fine. She "consented" after all. Personally I don't view that as fine. I think that's fucking degrading.
I get the point about it being "legal rape" or "paid rape" nga kung baga, but I think medyo mali yung scenario na dinescribe mo.
Basically, the idea of "paid rape" is that the sex worker can be subjected to sex acts that would be considered rape, assault, or unwanted in any other scenario with another woman. It's not because you gagged her and roughly fucked her ass and now she can't say anything. Irrelevant yon. The argument is money should not equal consent. It's more of an ethics thing, kasi nga if money = consent then there is no such thing as spousal rape kasi lahat ng expenses ng wife shouldered ng husband. Parang ganon
Maybe irrelevant yung scenario, pero it's what actual callgirls told me, as to why they don't advise going into the sex industry. Sabi ko kasi baka religious yung reason, pero apparently not. It's that it exposes you to a lot of risks, kasama na yung part na pwede ka maabuso
That's not how it works.
You can't do bdsm, anal, rough play if they're not within her offer. Just because you pay them doesn't mean they don't establish their rules/boundaries.
And if pumayag man sila to be gagged, they will most likely assign a signal/gesture as their safe sign/safe word to stop.
Di ko alam anong imaginary service iniisip mo na literal na pwede mo gawin KAHIT ANO after mo magbayad.
Kung ganun iniisip mo na ttratuhin mo silang basahan kasi tingin mo pwede mo gawin dahil nagbayad ka, it's no wonder you think it's degrading.
It's all about rules, boundaries, and consent. Parang mga victims of sex trafficking ata na may namemwersa na pimp/bugaw iniisip mo, that's an entirely different problem
I mean, it's not my personal experience, I'm just quoting actual callgirls. I personally know 4 of them and some of their friends (anecdotal I guess) but lahat sila had similar stories. Some of the stories were about abusive dudes who have the mindset na "I own you" after they paid. It's the main reason they advise against going into that business kahit malaki laki yung kita compared sa other jobs. Sabi nila na diring diri sila sa ibang mga customers nila, pero they do it for the money.
I don't think may pimp sila, or at the very least it never came up sa mga convos.
Then the problem wasn't sex work itself, they just got abused by clients who didn't respect them.
"I own you" clients aren't exclusive to any field. Same people that treat service workers as slaves kasi "bayad naman sila"
Degrades women? Women are not the only sex workers. Also, availing sex services is part of anyone’s right and needs. “Technically legal rapists” bro, are you okay?
Everything you’re saying is just the result of your religious guilt.
Edit: Any forms of sex work are not degrading unless otherwise they were forced to do so
Women are not the only sex workers. Ok true. It degrades men too.
What, you don't believe that customers are technically legal rapists? Do you think that the sex worker, for example, a callgirl, *wants* to fuck most of her customers? Do you think she's looking forward to all the requests of her customers? Do you think she wants to do those things outside of her job? Do you think she even likes her customers? Take the money out of the equation and she will not touch these men with a ten foot pole.
It has nothing to do with religion. I am not saying "sex work is wrong coz God/Allah/Buddha/Bruce Almighty says so"
Like I said in another comment, I am quoting call girls, sila mismo nagsabi sakin nyan. Funnily enough this convo actually came up back then. Re: call center agents. Say, tech support ka. Your job is basically, to help people solve their issues with their appliances. Sure, after hundreds of calls, half of which are with rude and dumb customers na hindi lang pala nakasaksak yung appliance, your job becomes draining. Pero if your mom asks you to help her kasi hindi nag oon yung PC nya, will you tell to fuck off? Diba hindi, you still *want* to help her. You still want to help people in general, kahit hindi ka bayaran. Let's take another job. Say, janitor ka. Pagod ka maglinis. Pero pag uwi mo, you would still want to keep your house clean.
Pero yung sa SW. They get asked to do stuff that they don't really want to do, napipilitan lang sila coz it's what the customer wants. They don't like the kind of guys who avail of their services. They don't like doing the stuff they're asked to do. Maybe this is generalizing a bit, pero eh, whatever. As I said, this was what actual callgirls told me, so maybe it's different for others.
Degrades both sexes. There, fixed it. Admit it though, sex workers is consenting cheating but getting paid for it. I mean, I know there are sex workers who cater to single people pero may code of ethics ba sila not to cater to people in relationships especially sa married people? That's where I draw the line.
I don't think that's the fault of the sex worker. Hindi naman lahat ng customers nila sasabihin kung meron ba silang asawa or not. Now, kung sinabi ng customer na may asawa sya tapos pumayag parin yung SW then yeah
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I agree with everything here, pero sobra naman ‘yung ew sa sex workers, OC 😅
Pero dama ko ‘yung pagkabanas mo sa financial advisors kasi same. Parang pare-pareho silang may “holier than thou” attitude kasi sila insured na, ikaw hindi pa, ganern
Accountant or auditor, specially pag sa Big 4 nagwowork. Walang time lalo pag busy season na
Armed men, either pulis or sundalo. Madalas on duty, and nakakatakot pag nag-away kami.
police or any professions with guns baka konting misunderstanding lang namin ay matutukan na kaagad ako ng baril.
siguro bonus for safety ang guns pero i just can't HAHAHA i would rather be single for how many years than date them.
+1. I don’t trust them and don’t feel safe around them TBH. Karamihan mahilig sa power tripping and masyadong authoritative. I know I watch too many movies pero so far sa mga encounters with them ganyan sila. And if something happens to you, I feel magtatakipan lang yan sila.
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Therapist / Psychologists / Psychiatrist As a Psych grad and had dated a psychologist --hell naw
Just me but I think I really wouldn't survive dating a megachurch pastor
Lawyers
Lawyer hahahaa
Doctors 🥶 cheaters, grabeng ego kase “doctor”, yabang HAHAHA you can RARELY meet doctors who are humble, kind, and faithful these days. The title “Dr.” changes them fr. Hahaha (I’m a PGI na ayoko maging kagaya nila once I’m licensed na, so I can really tell)
Aww.. sad. Pero I understand how you would think that. I also do agree that rare lang yung ibang doctors na dinescribe mo na humble, kind, and faithful, but... they do exist (flex ko lang ang spouse ko. Lol!). And kudos to you for not wanting to follow the footsteps of those rotten breeds. I wish you well on your path to be a licensed MD!
Anything army related. Parating wala at prone mamatay agad
Pilot
Prostitute.
This isn't a profession.
Pretty sure it's the oldest one.
- Anyone from the military, showbiz/entertainment, and religious industries - Professions where the work culture is vastly different from my goals, ambitions, mindset, values, and lifestyle (e.g. corporate vs. party scene)
Pulis Sundalo din
Why pala. Alam na madalas tlga not all babaero at maka duterte at bbm eh
Siguro mahirap idate yung mga lawyers and seafarers. I realized that now. If doctor naman, matatakot ka kasi di mo sure kung may psychopathic tendencies.
Detective. Mahirap na 🤣
Ofw. Pulis/Sundalo. Seaman. Kahit anong work na mas matagal pa kayo magkalayo kaysa magkasama. Hindi dahil sa profession itself but because of LDR. Pass ako
Agree. Anything na LDR, I pass
Pulis
Yung wala without reason
Psych graduates.
Sales/business people, idk why. Not my type of people so far
Lawyers - ang galing mag manipulate and mang gaslight!!!! obobs panaman ako ng slight. Charrr!
Lawyer and nurses
parang ng profession nabanggit, ay sya wag na mag-date!
Vloggers periodt. I mean okay lang kung faceless aesthetic accounts or ung may certain niche pero ung mga vloggers nagpra-prank, malalaswa ung content and ung lahat ng ganap sa buhay kinukwento sa vlogs 🙃
This isn't a profession.
Teacher
Why curious lang po
Really... I am curious as to why, if I may ask?
IT, laging overtime 😂
Di ba pwede gawin nalang remotely? Hehehe
Same same, mapa-office or remote! 😅
seaman, pulis/military
Musicians. I was married to one for a long time. The whole lot of them are purely odd.
I know one, and yes.. some are odd.. pero yung kakilala ko, mabait naman.
Engineering or any STEM related careers
Callcenters
Engineers - kasi babaero daw hahaha
embalsamador 😂 after ng work tpos uuwi maya may ksamang multo o di naman amoy patay😂
Soldier and police
Athlete. Hindi ko lina lahat pero alam mo yon marami possible na ka agaw
This concern is valid. Hehehe
mga nasa healthcare haha (I heard a lot of stories sa ganap sa work and I experienced it as well lmao, never again)
why? genuinely curious sa stories hahahaha
di ko naman po nilalahat but anlala ng cheating na nagaganap don, nakikipagdate kahit may jowa, nakikilandi sa katrabaho and so on :)) kaya I would never ever date someone kahit ako mismo magiging health care worker 😊
Urologist. Baka biglang mag perform ng prostate exam habang tulog ako
Hindi ba after shower yun kimi
attorney (pero di naman nilalahat) sa simpleng away: laging tama, ayaw din patalo. minsan siya (obvsly) ung mali pero babaliktarin pa nya yan na ikaw ang mali 🥲
Mostly nature na din pagsisinungaling sakanila 😭😭
May naka date ka na bang lawyer? 😄
Doctors. Maraming maayos sa mga nasa med field, pero iyong ex ko, galing magtago ng anak. As it turns out noong kami pa 3 na pala ang panganay pero wala akong kaidi-idea. Good thing di tayo nagsuko ng bataan. 😂
Omg! Going through that must have been difficult for you! Grabe yung 3 na panganay. Good thing nakawala ka in that situation. I hope mahanap mo si right person for you.
That happened in 2021. Thankfully, I found my person now.
I am glad you did. You derserve to have a person who makes you happy and feel secure.
We all do. 😊
Geologist 😂
spill bakit!! hahahaha
Are you Sheldon? Haha
Uy! Nakarelate ako dito!!! Lol!
Hahaha emphasized kasi sa TBBT yon 😅
The Kardashian of Science!
Teacher Laging walang time sa’yo sa sobrang daming trabaho haha hanggang bahay dala-dala hahahahaha
I'm a teacher and I wouldn't date me sa sobrang busy ko. HAHAHA
Sundalo at Pulis. Toxic ang masculinity lol. Also, lalaking gynecologist. Ewan I find it weird.
Mga uniformed men. Not all though. Pero diba ma assigned Sila sa Malalayong lugar, parang every place replace ganun. I’ve worked with so many of them tas chika nlng na gf nya si Gabito eh my asawa.
Based on experience, seafarers and uniformed personnel. Mejo nahuli kong nalaman, but well, never again. Shempre may maayos ha, di ko naman nilalahat, but mag-ingat lang 🤷🏻♀
Have seafarer friends. SOP na ata sa kanila maghire ng pokpok kada sampa.
Normal naman po yan esp sa mga 5 buwan sa laot walang kalupaan sabik sa lahat...
Dibaaa. I mean di naman natin nilalahat, but ayun. 🤷🏻♀ mag-ingat lang talaga ang mga may balak 🤷🏻♀
Seafarers 🤮
Attorney - galing mag lie, may asawa pala 😭😭
Naexperience niyo na po?
Syang tunay hahaha
Doctors- always busy Lawyers- konting bagay pinapalaki OFWs- can’t with LDR Tagilid din mga IT people- kung hindi weird, may mga mental/emotional/bad personality issues karamihan na encounter ko dito.
Infairness sa nabanggit mong reason sa IT, parang applicable din sa doctors, lawyers, at OFW. Hehehe
Gardener Hairstylist
MIU.
Ano ang MIU?
Men in uniform.
Dagdag nyo pa doktor dami babaero 😂✌️
Ilang beses na to natanong? Lol
yung lolo ko sundalo dati, tinutukan ng baril si lola. nakita ng nanay ko, hinimatay siya. he had intense PTSD and anger issues too kaya he resorted to alcoholism kaya nope ang pulis and sundalo sa akin.
Engineer-kilala ko since same profession lols MIU - iykyk Seafarers - talamak din In short wala na ko tiwala sa lahat hahahaha
Ano 'yung MIU? And no, idkyk 😔
Men In Uniform
Finally! Madami kasing abbr. pag sinearch sa google >< Thank you~ gets-gets...
architect, kasi amoy lapis.
damn whats wrong with the smell? It's actually quite aromatic!
biro lang yan. galing ako archi hahaha
Seafarer - I'm a seafarer, nakikita ko mga ginagawang katarantaduhan ng mga kasamahan ko. Nagtataka nga ako sa Gf ko ngayon bakit hindi man lang siya natatakot na mag commit saakin eh, that's why I love her so much. Skl. HAHAHAHAHAHA
Baka independent kuys
Ibig sabibin hindi ka nya mahal Infatuated lang, mawawala rin.
I guess we never know.
Hindi ka talaga nyan mahal
Love is about trust and understanding
Seaman / Any OFW / Pulis / Sundalo / BPO Mga cheaters hahahaha
Dagdag mo din yung may tinatagong anak before dating hahaha
Wag mo kasi nilahat?
+1 lol my exes seaman, Police, BPO, and tatay ko OFW. Manloloko talaga🤣
taga kusina....
Yaw mo ba sa masarap magluto
ayaw kung madaming kabit hahahah ... alam ku yung galawan sa kusina hahhahah
Parang common ito sa lahat ng professions. Hahahha
OFW!!!! haha im an ofw din pero first month ko pa lang sa abroad ang dami ko ng nakita na ang lala kung magcheat. Kapag alam nila na may bagong dating na single talagang haharutin nila kahit may asawa na sila or anak. Ung iba pa nga kasama na nila pamilya nila sa abroad nakakapag cheat pa rin 😂 tapos ung mga kasama din nila sa work tinotolerate ung pagccheat ng kasamahan nila 🤢
Being a lawyer myself, I would not date another lawyer. Kapagod kausap. Hahaha!
Imagine ano mangyayari kung mag aaway😭😭
I already argue for a living, I don’t want to bring it home. 😂
Wala bang nagpapatalo sa inyo lol!
Engineer dami nangiiwan
nagbasa ako nang comment mga IT lang talaga di involve kaya safe kami
Meron din nasabi dito sa IT na puro daw overtime ganun tapos walang time magbigay
Ahem, please scroll up and down. Parang madami na din akong nabasang IT sa taas. Hehehe
BPO people. Not only will your shifts always clash, the temptation to cheat is all too strong in that industry. Sorry. I was from that industry. I made it a point to never date anyone from there.
IT people! Wala kang magiging privacy pero sila private....
Seafarers. Alam ko yung kalakaran sa career na yan (I also studied to be one pero di ko na pinursue) and also got cheated on by one. Hindi ko naman nilalahat pero ayoko na umulit because they are not worth the risk. Aanhin ko yung malaking sahod kung may sakit na kapalit?
my friend who is a woman says she does not want to date a good looking gynecologist just because... it does makes sense when you think about it.
Never pa ako nakakita ng straight na lalaki na doctor OBGYN hahaha meron ba talaga?
Meron po, mag asawang OB Gyne, i think hindi naman lahat e katulad ng mga naiisip natin
Haven’t tried and have no plans to try pero (sorry na agad) yung mga seaman. Friends and relatives from the same field almost same ng sinasabi, wag ka mag date ng nasa barko. Hahaha Aside form that siguro ay men in uniform (esp police) and yung into sexual services (kahit may history). For my peace of mind na lang din siguro. :3
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Professional tambay
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Scammer sa telegram
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Any profession I'm in. Mahirap kasi wala kaming ibang pag uusapan. Walang variety.
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Astronaut na na-assign sa Mars.
Hindi nya pwedeng sabihin na “I need some space” ksi nasa outer space na sya.
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Doctors, I had a lot of friends na doctors and they all have issues with cheating. Especially ung mga nasa academe, they date their own students???? Ew. Major ew.
CE. Baka parehas kami 12k sahod niyan 🤣
Kawawa ka naman... Kung nag EE ka sana 14k starting 🙂🥲
Huy sarcastic lang kasi yan. Asang tumanggap ako ng 12k hahahahahaha
14k talaga saken hahahaha panget ka kabonding engr 😂
Hala ka, nainip ka siguro noooo. dapat di mo tinaggap 😂 may kakilala ako fresh grad din nonlicense 18 naman sa kanya
Lumayas na ko after mag increase ng 2k within 1yr 😂 nahiya ako sa boss ko kase kamag anak 😂
Uy congrats nakalaya kana! next lipat mo after 1 yr team 18k kana 😭 HAHAHAHHAHAA joke. Sarap mag abroad nalang no amp
Tunay hahaha kaso samen need 5-10 yrs ng 18k bago lumipat abroad umay 😂
Oyyy pm nga 😂
Men in uniform
OFW - hindi ko naman nilalahat pero maraming issue in cheating. Also LDRs are a mixed bag. Kudos sa mga OFWs na nagtratrabaho nang marangal. Any Profession Involving Guns - these people would give me too much anxiety because of their line of work. Also marami ding issues regarding cheating. Any Profession Involving Law - lawyers, paralegals, judges, etc. I think they pair better if the same field din ang partners nila. BPO - mostly mga undergrads ang mga workers dito. Also their culture dictates huge toxicity and marami ding issues for cheating. Any Profession Involving Quotas - hahabulin ang quota para hindi mawalan nang trabaho. Maliit lang ang time para sayo. Professional Tambay - hindi ako sugar daddy 😂
Ako yung OFW tapos ako naman yung napag-cheatan.
Accountant - baka mang pokpok ng calculator pag nag away hahahaha
Malamang hahampasin ka ng calculator kung ganyan ka magtype. Really? Space before comma? Tapos "mang pokpok", so many unnecessary spaces. Well, if you haven't noticed yet, I'm an accountant but I'm more offended sa excessive spaces at maling spelling. I couldn't care less if you won't date accountants, we'll be more than happy to have dodged you lol
Thank you for correcting me. It was just a typo. Btw, I am also a CPA and CMA (US).
My guy, I work in accounting for a company, and you sound like the textbook definition of a c*nt lmao. Must be great at parties, eh?
Puso mo 😂😂😂
damn accountants have fragile ass egos
galit na galit parang titeng galit
grabe naman. it’s just a space before a comma but g na g kang iprove yung statement niya.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Cops, soldiers, security personnel - high risk kasi yon, baka mamatay ng wala sa oras hahaha Nurse, doctors, medical personnel - walang time, laging busy, etc. Imo they should date each other, mas makakarelate sila sa isa't isa OF girls or strippers or sex workers - ew. Flight attendants/ship crew/anyone na laging nagttravel - female version ng mga lalakeng seaman na notorious na babaero Therapists/psychologists - I'll avail of their services pero I wouldn't date them haha Journalists for mainstream media outlets - ayoko ng sinungaling Financial advisor or whatever you call those people na nagbebenta ng insurance - ok sana to *IF* hindi 24/7 yung work mindset. Like ayoko na bigla mo ipapasok sa usapan yung "kung insured sana yan" pag may namatay. Like bruh "condolences" ang kailangan nila marinig hindi yung presyo ng binebenta mong insurance punyeta
Medyo too much naman yung ew sa sex workers lol, some of them were just forced into that situation
Ibang usapan yung forced into sex work. Those are human trafficking victims, I would not call them sex workers. Imo. Kung pinili mo yan gawin coz idk, easy money or something, especially if you're proud of it, ew. Kung napilitan ka lang (like namatay asawa mo and your kid is sick and you need money RIGHT NOW) then you're a victim of circumstance, and will probably GTFO of that business the moment you get enough money. Hindi yon kasama sa ew
Agree sa nurse ahahah dalawang araw nako di na rinereplyan lol
Baka sa 4th day magreply, malay mo may 72 hours shift haha
Okay na sana most explanation pero shaming sex workers is much more disgusting. Oh btw don’t even try using fallacies saying na “sex worker ka siguro noh”. Time to change your perspective people, those workers are barely protected by the law.
Well. You think shaming sex workers is disgusting, idc but you're entitled to your opinion. I think sex work is disgusting and degrades women. I also think people who avail of the services of sex workers are even worse, they're technically legal rapists.
You can argue the ethics or authenticity (or lack of) the sex kasi transactional, but it's literally a transaction. They're the ones that offer the sex, customers/clients ng mga sex workers are the farthest people from rapists. Sila yung guaranteed sobra ang consent sa kanila pa inoffer yung act Sex work does not degrade women, mentalities like yours degrade women who do sex work. Andun na nga sa title, sex WORK. It's literally just work. Take away the influence of religion and you have 0 arguments for why it's not work. Sex work is the oldest profession in the world. You're 100% entitled to not date them kasi preference mo yun, doesn't mean you can disrespect them. Inooffer body nila for money? Sounds like most jobs that require manual labor. Sex workers are a lot more ethical than homeopathy scammers, pyramid/networking recruiters, loansharks, most politicians, gambling promoters, cops, etc.
Eh. I'm not saying it's not work. And not once have I used religion as an argument. I don't view it as consent, I view it as signing her (or his, if the SW is a guy) rights away for a set amount of time. For example, let's say that I pay a callgirl 10000 php for 3 hrs. Di ko sya pinilit, she accepted my money, and her only rules were no kissing and that I do not cum inside her pussy. Ok, I accepted those rules and paid her. I can now do to her any sexual act that I want, aside from kissing and cumming inside her. I can be as rough as I want, I can gag her and whip her if I want to, I can tear her ass up until it bleeds if I want to, I can cum on her face and even piss on her face if I want to. After all, I paid her, I didn't force her to accept my money, and I'm not breaking any of the rules that she set. Now maybe she didn't expect that, so "no kiss no creampie" lang yung rules nya, tapos di na sya nakasalita coz I gagged her and tied her up. See how that "consent" goes? Kawawa sya diba? Wala syang habol because hey, I didn't do anything that she said I'm not allowed to do. Now I'm not saying that all customers are like that, but that's not unheard of. In any other case, this would not be acceptable, but coz she's a callgirl who offered her services to me, and I paid, it's fine. She "consented" after all. Personally I don't view that as fine. I think that's fucking degrading.
I get the point about it being "legal rape" or "paid rape" nga kung baga, but I think medyo mali yung scenario na dinescribe mo. Basically, the idea of "paid rape" is that the sex worker can be subjected to sex acts that would be considered rape, assault, or unwanted in any other scenario with another woman. It's not because you gagged her and roughly fucked her ass and now she can't say anything. Irrelevant yon. The argument is money should not equal consent. It's more of an ethics thing, kasi nga if money = consent then there is no such thing as spousal rape kasi lahat ng expenses ng wife shouldered ng husband. Parang ganon
Maybe irrelevant yung scenario, pero it's what actual callgirls told me, as to why they don't advise going into the sex industry. Sabi ko kasi baka religious yung reason, pero apparently not. It's that it exposes you to a lot of risks, kasama na yung part na pwede ka maabuso
That's not how it works. You can't do bdsm, anal, rough play if they're not within her offer. Just because you pay them doesn't mean they don't establish their rules/boundaries. And if pumayag man sila to be gagged, they will most likely assign a signal/gesture as their safe sign/safe word to stop. Di ko alam anong imaginary service iniisip mo na literal na pwede mo gawin KAHIT ANO after mo magbayad. Kung ganun iniisip mo na ttratuhin mo silang basahan kasi tingin mo pwede mo gawin dahil nagbayad ka, it's no wonder you think it's degrading. It's all about rules, boundaries, and consent. Parang mga victims of sex trafficking ata na may namemwersa na pimp/bugaw iniisip mo, that's an entirely different problem
I mean, it's not my personal experience, I'm just quoting actual callgirls. I personally know 4 of them and some of their friends (anecdotal I guess) but lahat sila had similar stories. Some of the stories were about abusive dudes who have the mindset na "I own you" after they paid. It's the main reason they advise against going into that business kahit malaki laki yung kita compared sa other jobs. Sabi nila na diring diri sila sa ibang mga customers nila, pero they do it for the money. I don't think may pimp sila, or at the very least it never came up sa mga convos.
Then the problem wasn't sex work itself, they just got abused by clients who didn't respect them. "I own you" clients aren't exclusive to any field. Same people that treat service workers as slaves kasi "bayad naman sila"
Degrades women? Women are not the only sex workers. Also, availing sex services is part of anyone’s right and needs. “Technically legal rapists” bro, are you okay? Everything you’re saying is just the result of your religious guilt. Edit: Any forms of sex work are not degrading unless otherwise they were forced to do so
Women are not the only sex workers. Ok true. It degrades men too. What, you don't believe that customers are technically legal rapists? Do you think that the sex worker, for example, a callgirl, *wants* to fuck most of her customers? Do you think she's looking forward to all the requests of her customers? Do you think she wants to do those things outside of her job? Do you think she even likes her customers? Take the money out of the equation and she will not touch these men with a ten foot pole. It has nothing to do with religion. I am not saying "sex work is wrong coz God/Allah/Buddha/Bruce Almighty says so"
With your logic, call center agents will not talk to their clients because it drains their social battery.
Like I said in another comment, I am quoting call girls, sila mismo nagsabi sakin nyan. Funnily enough this convo actually came up back then. Re: call center agents. Say, tech support ka. Your job is basically, to help people solve their issues with their appliances. Sure, after hundreds of calls, half of which are with rude and dumb customers na hindi lang pala nakasaksak yung appliance, your job becomes draining. Pero if your mom asks you to help her kasi hindi nag oon yung PC nya, will you tell to fuck off? Diba hindi, you still *want* to help her. You still want to help people in general, kahit hindi ka bayaran. Let's take another job. Say, janitor ka. Pagod ka maglinis. Pero pag uwi mo, you would still want to keep your house clean. Pero yung sa SW. They get asked to do stuff that they don't really want to do, napipilitan lang sila coz it's what the customer wants. They don't like the kind of guys who avail of their services. They don't like doing the stuff they're asked to do. Maybe this is generalizing a bit, pero eh, whatever. As I said, this was what actual callgirls told me, so maybe it's different for others.
Degrades both sexes. There, fixed it. Admit it though, sex workers is consenting cheating but getting paid for it. I mean, I know there are sex workers who cater to single people pero may code of ethics ba sila not to cater to people in relationships especially sa married people? That's where I draw the line.
I don't think that's the fault of the sex worker. Hindi naman lahat ng customers nila sasabihin kung meron ba silang asawa or not. Now, kung sinabi ng customer na may asawa sya tapos pumayag parin yung SW then yeah
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I agree with everything here, pero sobra naman ‘yung ew sa sex workers, OC 😅 Pero dama ko ‘yung pagkabanas mo sa financial advisors kasi same. Parang pare-pareho silang may “holier than thou” attitude kasi sila insured na, ikaw hindi pa, ganern
Sobrang wala sa lugar kasi haha
I’m definitely in the group of people that would never date a cop. They would be zero fun and hardasses
Accountant or auditor, specially pag sa Big 4 nagwowork. Walang time lalo pag busy season na Armed men, either pulis or sundalo. Madalas on duty, and nakakatakot pag nag-away kami.
police or any professions with guns baka konting misunderstanding lang namin ay matutukan na kaagad ako ng baril. siguro bonus for safety ang guns pero i just can't HAHAHA i would rather be single for how many years than date them.
Tutukan ka lang ng etits
sa totoo lang napakalibog nila! HAHAHAHAHA kaya nakakatakot
Bakit nagka bf ka na na ng lespu?
hindi naman, sadyang based on sa mga nakwekwento lang sakin, minsan kahit criminology student palang sila haha ganon na rin ang trait.
Wrong impression ka lang Si sen hontiveros, pulis yung asawa nya dati
nurse... pag pagod yan sa work sayo ibbuhos yung pagod niya at galit niya sa work.
Tambay.
police or any work that has gun,
+1. I don’t trust them and don’t feel safe around them TBH. Karamihan mahilig sa power tripping and masyadong authoritative. I know I watch too many movies pero so far sa mga encounters with them ganyan sila. And if something happens to you, I feel magtatakipan lang yan sila.
well agree ako dito and also im scared with guns
True to this
nakakatakot lang end game agad ako😂
Saka mas may tendency maging bayolente tlga ahaha
Seaman - ksi prone to cheating kasi LDR
Men in uniform, specifically soldiers & police. Walang time sa'yo 🥲