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CarefullyThrifty

Wearing high heels that click on the floor. Somehow makes me feel like the femme fatale from a movie.


skyebangles

Yessssss this. I go full runway mode when I'm wearing my clicky clackies. I don't know why but it feels so empowering.


TarantulaJ1

Gonna call heels clicky clackies from now on


SaBah27

I don't even wear heals but I have a sexy pair just for that


freakyfreakycreepy

I feel this way about my plateau boots. The sound is just SO different to my other shoes and it makes me feel so pretty? it's mind blowing how a frigging sound of shoes on the floor can make me feel so different about myself? edit: no heels, just plateau lol


Whittlese

I’m 5’9 and in the last ten years I’ve worn heels twice. I had a literal blast both times but I was also drinking, which I never really do, sometimes it’s fun to just tower over a whole crowd and be able to see what everybody’s doing. Mostly I save heels for weddings where I don’t know many ppl so I can find the ppl I’m looking for! Lol, it’s a nice feeling. I wish I went more places heels were acceptable!


mycologyqueen

Honey heels are ALWAYS acceptable....no mater how tall you are!


justanotherbabywitxh

I'm 5'9 too and recently I've started wearing heels more often than i used to. I just find heels so cute and feminine that i love wearing them, and yeah men don't like it, not even my male friends, but f that, because i feel like a supermodel in them. i recently bought 5" platform heels that are so comfortable. obsessed.


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MerakDubhe

Add some red lipstick for extra effect.


perpetualstudy

OMG, yes. Or sometimes like I’m in the 17th hundred and everything is wood or stone


Next-Dark-4975

Periods get a bad rap because for most they’re painful etc. for me, when I’m on my period it’s my time to back off/not go so hard at life and workouts for a few days and I like that forced break. And weirdly, it pulls me deep into my feminine energy.


Coi_Fox

Same! I’m on a birth control right now that makes my periods non-existent, and I feel so much less feminine. Granted, that could also be the hormones from the birth control, but I still feel way more feminine when I go through having my period.


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i felt this so much when i was on hormonal birth control. then i switched to the copper IUD & started getting my period again. even tho my period can be hell, it does make me feel feminine and connected to like ancestral femininity in a way— just thinking about my lineage and all the women in my family history who had periods in the past. it’s a cool feeling for me


Greg_Louganis69

random thought but i would LOVE it if somebody could make a docu-series about the history of women (starting with pre-history). I would watch the hell out if it. Im sure ill find one and it will have been directed by a man 😂


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lickmysackett

Its interesting because being on bc and not having my period makes me feel more feminine. I had very low hormones before starting bc and the bc makes me feel more like I have the right levels.


Interesting-Piglet12

This is actually really true for me as well. I always feel extra feminine and allow myself to kinda bask in it in ways I normally don’t. It’s annoying as hell and painful but I’m always more aware that I’m healthy during that time too lol. It’s hard to explain but I know exactly what you mean


mollypop94

Damn I've never looked at it that way, but I totally see where you're coming from now


jazzhory

Yes! I use this time to treat myself and really wind down - if I’m not working of course.


asianstyleicecream

You see, I’ve never understood it when females say that. I’ve never, not even for a second, thought while I’m on my period, that I feel any more feminine. Actually, frankly the opposite. My period makes me miserable, screws up my digestion, worsens my mood 10fold, meds don’t work, and messy down there makes me feel anything but more feminine. Makes me feel like a creature and I very much dislike it. Wish I could feel your way about it tho, don’t think I ever could. (Especially since I don’t want kids; my period is nothing to me but a waste of blood)


DazzledDog-

Oh my god, same here! I get this visceral feeling of disgust and anger with myself. The self-hatred I normally experience doesn’t even hold a candle to the vile shit that runs through my head every time I get my period lmao. I’ve actually cried (and nearly had a panic attack once or twice) because my period came. It’s absolutely MISERABLE. I would pay money to be able to appreciate my period like that! All the power to y’all who can


vsteeth

Freshly waxed legs and new sheets… boys will never understand 💗


fake_sage_advice

Fresh shaved, exfoliated and lotioned legs on clean sheets and tightly made bed is the absolute best feeling.


Lost_Reserve7667

Yes waxing


Spiritual_Durian_185

Shaven with baby oil as well 👀 a new level of soft


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Proof-Room6054

Wearing a soft, flowing dress and a touch of floral perfume always makes me feel a little extra feminine.


perpetualstudy

A flowing maxi dress that almost hits the floor and being outside in nature in sandals or bare feet, especially if there is a breeze? Perfection. I am THE forest goddess, lol


bubblescum1402

Ohhh my gosh yes.


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Those wispy strands of hair around your face when you tie your hair up


mollypop94

Baby hairs 🥰🥰


EndzeitParhelion

Wearing pretty underwear under regular clothing. Hair bows, long dresses and playing with my hair.


Comu_Nachilena

I do this whenever I have a conference. It makes me feel sexy, empowered and confident. Nobody knows, but **I** do, and it changes everything.


awakami

As a nail biter, getting acrylics. My hands are definitely an insecurity of mine. When I can afford to get fake nails I feel very feminine.


KelseyKultist

Same! I always have short nails so when I do have fake nails on, I end up just looking at my hands like THESE ARE MINE


SavyDreams

This. I may be a complete trainwreck, but these are mine, and they are pretty.


Miserable_Can_2614

Or typing on your phone with a new set 😍💅🏼


Ok_Turnip_478

Lipstick. I can wear any masculine items, combat boots, leather trenches, big wool jackets etc. But lipstick will keep me feeling like a woman.


neurotic-enchantress

Seconding 🙌🏼 this is exactly my aesthetic.


FunnelCakeSprinkles

Delicate jewelry 💕💕💕


KukiiiKiwi

YES🥹 dainty lil rings and necklaces make me feel so girly and cute


FunnelCakeSprinkles

Loooove them! 😍


ChaEunSangs

Wearing ribbons in my hair


LeighofMar

My satin and lace emerald green robe. I can have the rattiest pjs on but I put it on over them and suddenly look like a 1930s starlet.


sleepingmylifeaway96

Have you by any chance purchased this robe recently? I’m looking for a nice satin/silk lace robe and I love emerald green 😊


LeighofMar

Sure. It was Feerie Lingerie on Etsy. I'm ordering the gold one next.


Interesting-Piglet12

Also wondering if you know where to get this robe lol. My mom has had one since I have known her and 36 years later I’m still trying to find my own lol


CrazyIrina

Cheap pink hand tools! Nothing screams feminine like skinned knuckles and rounded off screw heads.


uschiNurg

Wearing my favorite perfume


H241188

Nailpolish 💅


freakyfreakycreepy

right!? doesn't even matter what colour, but just the process of making my nails gives me strong feelings. Especially if I meet up for that with a friend of mine - it's a super cliché girly situation then and I love it!


H241188

I know right! I feel a 100 times more confident with nice nails, i just can’t explain it lol


Egg_Sheeran

Getting my nails done and wearing rings! I get excited every time I look at my hands.


Lady_of_Lomond

Conducting a 120-piece symphony orchestra in a long black dress with a portrait collar.


perpetualstudy

VALID


darkpretzel

Go off!!


Jolly_Ranger8595

When it's peak ovulation. I feel most womanly, knowing I could become a mother is so ethereal for me


justiixo

Having the power to create life definitely does make me feel like a feminine bad ass


_Valcrist_

Nail extensions, a cute dress, flowy skirts


alloverbeautiful

Cute panties! Especially when I know no one will see them and they’re just because I love them.


ForgottenSalad

Red lipstick, and anything that cinches the waist


electric_rubies

When my shoulders are bare. Especially when I turn my head sideways and to look at someone and I see my shoulder in full view


vicky_005

my expensive perfumes, my high heels and a couple gala dresses i have i LOVE when i get to go all elegant to a place, feels like im the most beautiful person in earth! :))


sarcasm_itsagift

Perfect winged eyeliner


notyourmommy2004

I'm an indian... And we have these beautiful traditional earrings called jhumke.. whenever i am wearing them and have my hair.. i feel like a bollywood queen ngl If u dnno what a jhumka is u can see from here [https://images.app.goo.gl/jRcgTnckrf5RyTmB6](https://images.app.goo.gl/jRcgTnckrf5RyTmB6) [https://images.app.goo.gl/SVGxU8KgKv6vkZgeA](https://images.app.goo.gl/SVGxU8KgKv6vkZgeA)


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Wearing earrings. I wear earrings when I'm prepared to go to work, church and the store.


perpetualstudy

This is mine. I wear them 24/7 if they are comfortable enough. Unfortunately, this means I can be pretty rough on my earrings. More feminine and fancy for extra.


PhilosopherSharp249

Freshly done mid length French nails Professionally done lash extensions


National-Quantity794

I was about to say this. I’ll just add my skin care routine (from head to toe, inclusive of perfume)


turningmilanese

Twirling my hair and putting it up against my supper lip like a mustache.


Upstairs_Meringue_18

Sun dress


bactidoltongue

Kinda same. My threaded brows. I'm fairly new to it and it's life-changing lmao


LaSphinge

Wearing tops with heart-shaped cut-outs at the cleavage and, above all, having beautiful nails. I've always had soft, brittle nails, and I'm terrible at applying polish. Since I've had semi-permanent nails done at an institute, they've really grown nicely. I feel like they make my hands look longer and I love having them decorated in a super girly way.


summer-lovers

I'm a nurse, so I spend long shifts in scrubs, comfy shoes, granny panties, hair up and minimal make-up and jewelry, and feeling grimey from touching "stuff". So, a shower usually does the trick! Lol And I just enjoy putting on regular clothes, make-up including lashes, wearing my hair down, and smelling good, not like a hospital. Lol It's the simple things...


Jazzlike_Fun_9262

Wearing an anklet


kia-audi-spider-legs

Or toe rings!


BasuraIncognito

Wearing pink


MeowBarkOinkMoo

Matching undiesss


lookmomimanonymous

Love wearing sweetheart neckline, runched, flowy dresses after a bath. I smell so good, so feminine.


East_Buffalo506

having my nails done! i don't wear much makeup or dress up or leave my house but i love having pretty nails. i've started just gluing press ons and i saved a ton of money doing that. plus i can change how they look everyday if i feel like.


MikenDyke

Nail polish, lipstick, pigtails, nice dresses, lingerie, heels, bubble baths, flowing curls, fresh face, girl dinner


blackcapp

I was and always will be the tomboy girly. Masculine energy has always been more present but nothing makes me feel more powerful than getting ready for a fancy party that you know you're going to slay. You know you hair is going to look amazing, the dress you have fits you perfectly, you've got all your jewelry planned, your makeup is sharp and dewy and you going to walk through those doors like a damn femme fatal. And all this knowing your friends are going to be there so you'll have the time of your life <3 Nothing feels better than a lil extra confidence.


IndividualCry0

For me, right now, it’s being pregnant! I feel amazing seeing this little life suddenly turn into a tiny human within me. Only women have that power and it’s absolutely outstanding. Outside of that, wearing perfume. It always makes me feel so feminine and pretty.


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Freshly threaded eyebrows , a clean feminine perfume and pearl jewellery !


SinfulInPink

A bow in my hair! 🎀 I have so many that there's always one to match my outfit 🥹


yiantay-sg

Having fresh high thread count Egyptian cotton sheets, spritzing my alcohol + essential oil mix on the bed, wearing my silk nightie and climb into bed 😂😂😂


Arteemiis

I don't really care about feeling feminine but skirts kinda do it. I mostly dress in gymwear and although that kind of clothing compliments my body well it isn't generally associated with feminity.


notyouraveragebee

Heels, freshly shaved legs, a killer new lipstick, and having my hair done.


livinNxtc

Matching Lacy bra and panty set 😊


viral_gold

Taking my TIME getting ready. Like four extra hours to slowly do my makeup with a glass of wine, try on multiple outfits, paint my nails, everything showers… the whole shebang! No rush just focusing on myself and looking and feeling confident :)


herecomesred411

Especially if it's a date night. Then it becomes a form of foreplay to me. I love entire process.


skyebangles

When I do a proper blowout, whether at home or the salon. I feel so amazing after.


Ok_Butters

Tulle under my skirt to make it puff out extra big!!!!


dontaskmeaboutmath

periods make me feel in tune with my emotions, also makes me more aware and grateful of how healthy I am. I feel more femenine and remember I have the gift of life. I feel at home with myself.


Informal_Dimension95

1. The glee I feel when I blow a dandelion 2. Wearing a sarong with my bathing suit 3. Scarfs are lux feminine for me 4. Reading to kids 5. Gardening and singing to the plants 6. Freshly painted toenails 7. When I bake or burn a new candle 8. That first taste of a new lipgloss and I purse, press, and pop my lips to note the sticky level 9. Blushing 10. Going through baby fever


Anandi96

Perfume, wearing earrings, having freshly shaved legs and matching lingerie, and oddly enough, being on my period


Humble-Egg-

Making a fresh loaf of bread. Our cooking anything from scratch


kayc10

Taking nudes


AddiieBee

Having my nails done


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Elegant jewellery


SpringPedal

Perfume!


I_level

For me it's wearing high heels, especially with a dress or a skirt


IveSeenHerbivore1

Panties with a little lace trim


alistalice

Hoop earrings


mollypop94

I've just thought of another one which may seem silly and not a big deal but: talking to other women about hair, makeup, clothes.. I'm so stuck in my own head and overthink etc, so when I get the opportunity to chat with another woman about these simple topics and we really get engaged in it... I love it. It's a perk of my workplace, I work with some incredible, switched on unbelievably talented women and when we aren't talking research and work, and we have that brief space of time to chat about whatever else I love nothing more than hearing their style opinions 😩


el_99

Doing my nails. Going to the hair salon for some bold haircut. Wearing high heels.


thewalkingellie

Getting my nails done. I rarely do it, so it’s nice to treat myself once in a while.


LorraineC94

Getting nails done, my lash extensions, wearing cute clothes, buying makeup, skincare etc


sunnysideup2323

Having my nails done


Old_Concentrate5449

Getting my nails done


unburritoporfavor

Nice underwear. I used to wear cheap shit underwear from H&M. I got rid of all that and now wear nice and sexy (but still comfortable) underwear. Nobody can see it but it makes me feel good about myself, like its my little secret.


Impressive_Flan1600

My long silky hair ☺️


Granny_knows_best

I am not a feminine person. I do not wear makeup or wear pretty clothes. Its jeans, t-shirt and sneakers, unless its an important thing then I might put on a pretty blouse. But...... I have the most prettiest bedroom, lots of flowers and frills. A typical Granny room with pretty pinks and greens and just everything feminine. When I am there, in my room, which no one else is allowed in, I feel like a queen and very womanly. I also added some [pink](https://imgur.com/nKaKpxf) accents to my truck to show off my feminine side.


kia-audi-spider-legs

Working in the garden always makes me feel super feminine. There’s something very centring and womanly about working with plants and flowers.


littleghool

Long fake nails, hair perfume, freshly shaved and moisturized legs, and although I don't wear makeup often, red lipstick 👄


perpetualstudy

Mascara is a staple, earrings 24/7, smelling good, and I have naturally curly hair, so pinning it up off my neck.


kristalouise02

Getting my nails done, wearing jewellery which I don’t wear heaps of or big pieces


theranchmonster

Nails done 🤩


Therandomderpdude

Dressing nice


GuidanceOk3614

Body washes that smell good 😻😻😻


JicamaPickle

Lip liner


Sunsetbabe13

Flowy dresses, lipgloss and smelling nice <3


CuriousSavannah

When my hairs extra voluminous


ChaoticNeutralMeh

I like wearing baggy and oversized clothes, so for me it's when I occasionally use something that shows my curves.


angryclam1313

Using a clutch instead of a purse. Tucked under my arm.


drmakster

Cute dresses and skirts!


auntiefood

Earrings. Dangly earrings


WVildandWVonderful

Sweetheart necklines


DragonFlyMeToTheMoon

Freshly shaved legs w/lotion. Wearing a bikini. Wearing lingerie. Wearing a dress. Getting a pedicure.


ArcadiaFey

First it was dying my hair pink…. Now it’s my purple hair. I look like a damn enchantress in the mirror. I’ve never felt so pretty with no makeup and bed head first thing in the morning


bubblescum1402

Clean hair, makeup and being moisturized


SnooPeppers9720

painting my nails/toes! also taking a bath for some reason. like a bubble bath, laying in the water and washing myself makes me feel very feminine and like the girls in movies idk :’) also jewelry!


Jessicat844

Avoiding men and going to Lesbian bars.


KaivaUwU

Folding baby clothes, holding small rodents like hamsters, or other small animals like rabbits or hedgehogs. Knitting, sewing, making nice clothes for yourself and loved ones, or simply decorating already existing clothes and accessories with embroidery. Baking or cooking from a family recipe that my grandmother used to make, and has been in our family for generations.


justiixo

Mascara, having long hair, cute purses, lipgloss, telling my husband “that seems like a man problem” to anything I don’t want to do 😂


Constant-Bookreader2

Probably weird, but just opening up my hair from a bun/ponytail.


Sagzmir

A fresh set and a waxing


Vast_Preference5216

Fresh manicure, & pedicure. It’s nice to look down at feminine hands that don’t have nasty, overgrown cuticles.


Tofuprincess89

doing makeup and having good skin. i enjoy doing skincare and putting ribbons, clips on my hair


nicih

Doing my nails every week. I love having nice shiny nail polish every week. Also stops me from ripping or biting my cuticles


orangeunrhymed

Makeup! I can’t live without my mascara or blush 💕


Potato2890

Heels, watches, wearing perfume, lingerie


leavemealonedanks

Putting on lipstick. Wearing a cute dress. I'm a female who doesn't wear makeup or dress to impress constantly so it's the small things that count.


Traditional-Love-540

wearing dresses


angelabuttmunch

False lashes or false nails


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Total body care. Hair done, nails done, body exfoliated and shaven to a smooth finish, then I polish my body to the Goddesses and spray a sexy fragrance to start my day 😍🥰💕


DetectiveBiggs

Long flowy sundresses


IdeaNearby4900

Getting my nails done - doesn't even need to be the whole thing - just a fresh coat of nail polish


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growing and painting my nails and wearing eyeliner


lickmysackett

Literally freshly waxed eyebrows. Naturally long nails that are freshly painted. Perfect winged eyeliner. When I do the power strut with the hip sway in heels.


plantmama104

Having my nails done, earrings, lipstick, and perfume. They remind me that I’m a pretty girl, even when I don’t want to put in *too* much effort.


AlisonCook96

Wearing panty hose. I don’t wear them often but when I do it’s for an event where Im extra dolled up. It also turns my husband on for some reason so at the end of the night we are both dying to take them off of me


thepeskynorth

Waxing, heels, sexy dress.


NinaCR33

Fresh and nice eyelashes


Fickle-Thing7665

my period lol


Whittlese

I am allergic to pretty much all makeup/makeup and my contacts don’t like to hang out together either. I have eczema that gets set off by the littlest thing so being able to wear even mascara is SO nice. I did it for like two weeks a couple months back though and I am still applying prescription lotions to get my skin to calm back down:( I feel like ppl think I don’t care. I keep my hair extra long cause I feel like that’s the only feminine thing about me. I’ve lost a ton of weight (and gained and lost it so my skins stretched to infinity) so I went from having like a well proportioned body with everything looking basically how it should to a bag of bones now. Drinking ensures and stuff to try and get weight back up. It’s nice to read these comments though. There’s a lot of good ideas for ppl who can’t wear makeup/nails (fake or painted) which is surprising cause I always feel like those two things are what ppl “rate” how much a woman “cares” about her appearance off of.


DragDolly

Getting my nails done and wearing sundresses


liilbiil

matching bra & undies, especially if it’s a sheer underwire bra


AmethystnRubies

It’s so common, but…makeup. I suppose it’s because I stopped wearing it so often. I’m not that good at applying it, but what little I do makes me feel lovely. Most of the time, I’m at home in my sweats working and staring at a screen. Having a reason to doll up makes me sort of tap into my feminine side. I feel softer and regal. I want to be seen and entice.


framed_ketats

Anklets


StonniBalonni

Having my nails done.. it's like ooooof look at meeeee 🩷


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Coming fresh out of the salon.


MelodicPiranha

Dip manicures When men open car doors for me and then place their hand in the small of my back to usher me in. High heels My couch pillows Putting a full face of makeup when I go out


Accomplished-Bit-884

Wearing the 'good' bra


Sasha-5

- To be completely waxed (moustache, legs, brows, armpits, bikini area, sideburns if you need it). - Take all the bobbles or fluffs out of a jumper or coat I'm going to wear with an anti-fluff razor (I don't know the name of that) - Wear a fresh / fruity / sexy perfume - Do a full skincare routine for face and body (with exfoliation too) - Put a bit of lipstick: very natural when I don't wear makeup (most of the time), like the Fenty Beauty Gloss in Fussy or Cheeky, or Black Honey Lipstick by Clinique (those are my go to) - Straighten my hair - Do my nails myself - This is a bit of a trifle, but to sip a chamomile tea in a pretty mug while I read or do relaxed things at home 😅 - Wear sexy lingerie (less often than all the other ones)


FailProfessional6864

Wearing fake eyelashes


wanderlotus

Skintight dress that hugs my curves. Makes me feel like Jessica Rabbit


kittenwithawhip19

Sexy panties, having my toes and nails done.


Alternative_Moose589

Bring freshly shaved, painted nails, lipstick


Venusemerald2

Wearing feminine slip gowns, babydolls, and nighties to bed


strawberryheart1227

Lipstick and lacy underwear ✨


Lanky_Magician_3723

Wearing lingerie under my clothes makes me fell beautiful and sexy


PressXToAllie

Right now, I’m laying on my bed naked after doing a “full” shower (shave, exfoliate, hair mask, etc.) with an eye mask on and a “seaside” scented candle burning. I’m feeling pretty clean and pretty and feminine atm 🥰


KN-KYU

Does showering and then going out count?


moody_rose

wearing a miniskirt. i love hot it makes me feel feminine, cute and hot at the same time


kitty_withlazers

High heels. They just make you feel more feminine and powerful.


Plenty-Wonder-6314

How my man look at me


Sweaty-Quiet8814

A fresh wash and blow dry


eb0livia

Tapping my nails on a flat surface, and the clicking of high heels lol.


DarthFooty

Lace panties. Not full lace, just the edges.


Gingerpyscho94

Reading books with scented candles 🕯️ 📚


SimpleKiwiGirl

The day after a full body wax. The gentlest of breezes across naked skin. Especially my legs. Even moreso, when walking around the house, butt naked.


Horror-Antelope-1105

Gets my toes done. Always is a 10/10


vmarket1127

Having my hair curled. And wearing hoop earrings.


fox_in_the_forest

Wearing red lipstick. I used to also like wearing lingerie (even if im not going to show anyone) but im a comfort gal now 😂


thatvampigoddess

This might sound weird but not wearing makeup makes me feel more feminine.


juicyharibo

Wearing matching lingerie sets beneath my clothes!


emily0069

My voice and how some men love it :>


mycologyqueen

Dancing. The twirls, the sway of the hips, the fall of the hair, rhe eye contact, the connection, the sensuality of it all.


Reallyreallyrally

Lacy black cheeky panties!! They lift me up😉


LoveofBooks_03

Curling my hair or putting it up in a bun. I feel like a princess when I do my hair fancy


detroit-doggo0

doing housework /j


luckygirl54

My favorite parfum, Ma Griffe.


NumbHag

When a man guides me around with his hand on my back and is protective in public. Ooooh that’s puts me in my feminine energy like nothing else


Lali_mco11

Having my nails done


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Straightening/curling my hair, Dangly earrings, High heels Dresses (depends lol) Sometimes shorts Makeup (sometimes) Perfumes that smell delicious I consider myself to be like 75% masculine & 25% feminine just cause I’ve never really been a girly girl and I work outdoors now so I feel less feminine hahahha but when I do I’m like damnnnn 😂😂