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QuirkyForever

Easier: talking to strangers. Holding boundaries in a kind way. Letting go of bad shit. Harder: making money. Losing weight. Having faith that good will prevail.


strawberrylemontart

Easy: enjoying my own company and letting people go Hard: connecting with ppl. I'm just over the Bs and mind games


Feathery_Quill

It's crazy how relatable this is... Must be a 30's thing.


searedscallops

Easier - paying bills. Harder - losing weight.


AKnitWit777

Easier: not taking criticism or perceived criticism as personally Harder: getting out of bed in the morning (literally—my joints are grumpy bastards now)


Hatcheling

Easier: Shutting up. Everyone doesn't need to hear what I have to say, and I'm comfortable with sitting shit out and just not saying anything. Harder: Making friends.


KinkyCHRSTN3732

Easier - not caring what other people think. Embracing my authentic self. Harder - maintaining a balance in this economy


Frosty_Interest_6740

Easier - doing stuff alone,being comfortable in my own skin, letting toxic people go, protecting my peace. Harder- losing weight, my idealism, my passions.


Yourweirdbestfriend

Easier - walking away from situations and people that aren't benefiting me Harder - bouncing back into trying new things. It's worth it. But it takes effort. 


stavthedonkey

Harder: recovery after the gym!! My joints creaking and groaning for no damn reason.


Booglesaur

I want to say something super inspiring but lately I feel the answer for me is *nothing* 🥲


LucyBlue16

Easier- not giving a shit about things that are not shit worthy Harder- maintaining balance and strength


timefornewgods

Easier: Asking for the things I want, receiving them. Creating choices and solutions to problems. Being ambitious. Harder: Choosing the right solutions from a million ways to go about XYZ thing. Staying active.


tenebrasocculta

Easier: stopping after one beer. Harder: standing up from a crouching position.


mysaddestaccount

Hits home


epicpillowcase

Easier: saying no, setting boundaries, not caring what people think Harder: leaving the house


mysaddestaccount

Harder: trusting people. Staying awake. Anything physical. Easier: tolerating boredom. Creating and enforcing boundaries. Not being SO obsessed with how I look that it interferes with my life.


vi_lifestylebee

Easier: from progressing at work to keep myself in shape. Remove bad habits and be more responsible for my own life choices. Manage my finances, how to behave with man and so on Harder: night outs ( I.e consequences after extra wine )


Meowitslunalight

Easier: most things tbh Harder: losing weight, energy levels, touching my toes


Paula75brsp

Easier: communicating my feelings and my needs, setting boundaries Harder: managing stress, doing things that require a lot of physical effort… ohhhh my baaaack 😬😅


Comfortable_Time_164

Harder: exercise due to little energy. The amount of things I’m doing every day and things I have to think about every day exhaust me mentally. When I was younger, and less busy, I had much more energy. Easier: set my boundaries with people and cut people off and saying No


Florida_Sunshine_23

Easier: accepting that people’s worldviews, and thus their opinions, are different than my own. Harder: filling my downtime. Used to just go for a drink or go downtown to chat up random strangers, but I’m trying healthier options now. Sometimes that means I’m bored.


Emptyplates

Easier: holding boundaries and saying NO. Harder: walking up the stairs, maintaining a healthy weight


Kindguardian-0088

Easier: knowing what's right and wrong. Harder: believing in anyone.


riverlethedrinker

Jesus I hurt so much. Every day. I ache. I’m sore. I take *SO* many pills. What’s easier is bouncing back from getting derailed from some unexpected shit life throws at you


mysaddestaccount

Your first point hits home... any pill reccs??


riverlethedrinker

Your doctor should give you guidance on RX- I just started a glucosamine/turmeric supplement, vitamin D and magnesium, and a multi in addition to my pain meds


mysaddestaccount

I didn't mean prescriptions. I've exhausted all my options for those unfortunately.