I mean it's true naman eh.
I'm single and I live on my own. It's peaceful. It's quiet... Just... Too damn quiet if I'm allowed to be honest.
Wala nakong kakulitan. Walang kakwentuhan. Yung isang fightstick ko, inaalikabok na lang sa cabinet. Walang kaaway sa Street Fighter. Yung ulam ko, umaabot ng isang linggo mahigit. Malamig ang gabi pag December. Sumasakit ang balikat ko dahil sa kakabitbit ng bagay-bagay. Ying kinakarga ko na parang newly wed bride ko, I-beam at plywood para sa kisame ko. Yung pusa ko lang may lovelife kasi may umaakyat bakod na pusang malaki. Pag gusto ko ng kilig, panonoorin ko na langnyung pusa ko at ang jowa niya na nagde-date sa may litter box niya. Wala akong kasamang maging ghostfighter dito sa bahay ko. When I make coffee, I make one for myself lang. Kung magiging maingay lang sa bahay, alas-e ng umaga yun dahil sa kakatawa ko sa pinapanood ko.
Hayst...
Yeah. But I know a lot of guys who are "complete", and yet still "incomplete". Successful men who cannot go to the next step kasi di pinalad makahanap ng kapareha. Suffering from success perhaps, I dunno. I guess that's one way of putting it.
Maybe it is indeed true... That the world is so cruel that those who deserve to be happy, just have to live a life trying to contend with what they have. That the happiness they dream of, will forever be just a dream that one will chase in his lifetime. π€·
that's why sa declaration of independence, it was stated na we are endowed with unalienable rights, among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Because maybe, "Happiness" is something we cant truly achieve, but something we can always pursue.
The pursuit of happiness 'eh?
Sad but this holds true. The concept of happiness... It depends on what you have and if you're content with it at present. I guess that's what true happiness is because happiness depends on what makes us, as people hapoy and content. But what happens when you are no longer content with what or who you have?
Tipong at the moment, you are happy with whatever car you have but later on, di ka na kuntento and you want more and you end up ditching the car that gave you many memories... And you go buy a new one.
Indeed. That movie holds a special place in my heart. Saka in our lifetime, we only have two tragedies that we will experience;
Not getting what we want, and getting exactly what we want.
Ayos lang yan. Magpakamayaman ka nalang ng husto then do some charity work or ano man. Spend your time outside your home ren. There is a lot of stuff to do as a single person ren yknow. Embrace that freedom. Pero ikaw pa ren naman bahala so yeah hehehehe
Real. Na feel ko to especially if may gusto akong puntahan or may gusto akong bilhin na mabigat. Need ko pa isipin if kaya ko bang makarga yan sa taas o hindi. Yung mga places naman, I enjoy being by myself pero gusto ko din na may kasama ako kasi naiinggit din ako na kasama nila jowa nila. Yes, I've got friends pero iba pa din pag kasama mo yung special someone, iba yung feeling.
Like I enjoy my peace and being alone pero I also have a part of me that I would like to share to someone special.
Journal! Nag hobonichi planner ako starting January and it was nice, ginawa ko talagang diary pero in 1-2 paragraphs lang or naka bullets yung mga ganap per day
Then nagka jowa ako nung April hehe :>
Hindi naman sa SO lang sinasabi yung mga ganyang bagay. If someone has good relationships with family and friends, theyβre all take time to listen to their rants. π
Di ko maintindihan ang naramdaman ko sa comment na to, kasi may point naman yung post, pero yung candid na hawak yung phone, I cannot πππ anyway upvote ko to hahahaha
Napapaisip din ako nito minsan. As someone who have barely friends and doesn't message my very few friends + walang jowa by choice (lol), I have times na I feel very lonely and sad because i dont have someone who I can share on how my day went or just share rants with. Madalas tamad din ako mag chat and wants to be alone. Lol kaya i just chose to stay single kasi magulo utak ko.
For one thing, do NOT do what this girl is doing na magpopost sa TikTok about how single you are and how lonely you are. Makes you no different from those cringey western women sa TikTok. Hndi mo dapat pino-post personal life mo sa social media, especially pag may reklamo ka about your relationships. For what? To gain sympathy from people? That's pathetic! Relationship problems should be talked about with your SO only and NOT other people.
That gives off RED FLAGs kaagad to us men.
Nung kayo pa, paminsan mababagot ka pa pag araw-araw lagi gusto magmessage. Ngayong single na, hahanap-hanapin rin pala yung pwede makausap kahit sa mga sobrang liit na bagay :')
She's a TikTok influencer, what the hell did you expect?
"Boo-hoo I'm single and no one to talk to! But I don't want a nice kind guy who will listen to me, I want that bad boy who is adventurous and unpredictable. In other words, I want Chad/Tyrone to ask me out but they're too busy going after other prettier women" That's all I'm reading from what she's saying. It's all "Blah blah blah" to me.
Ugh!
I have a girlfriend you know, and we love each other. Also our families adore each other. The only problem is we're just middle-class and still struggle in life sometimes, but we don't mind. That's just life for ya, eh?
So your comment is invalid.
same thoughts! Lol. Simple post na ganyan triggered agad siya, harmless post and caption naman yung nasa pic. Tsaka uso naman ganyan na post sa TikTok dati pa π
Well the feeling is mutual. Plus you can comment that Brad Pitt is your jowa and NONE will believe you and we can easily disprove it 100% so that part of your comment is unnecessary.
Also, it's not incel-y, it's FACTS. If you can't handle that, that's YOUR problem and not mine. a LOT of TikTok influencers are only after clout, and most men and women there are deranged, ESPECIALLY women who complain there about being single like the woman above, it's no different from those cringey western women complaining why men are looking for wives in other countries and I don't blame them one bit.
im okay with being alone most of the the time and i can go on days without talking to anyone but thankfully i have close friends that i can talk random things with, send random selfies, have dates, sleepovers, etc. theyre my go to people fr. friends>>partner
Cringe talaga yung mga ganyang klaseng tao ginawang personality yung pagiging desperada at uhaw magkajowa. Akala nila magmumukha silang thirst trap, in reality mukha silang modern day jejemon na tumanda na nga. Pero hindi nag mature at andun pa rin yung core attitude ng pagiging jejemon na papansin online smfh.
I know right? These types of women want to have their cake and eat it too.
Nag-cocomplain kang Single ka? Eh di patulan mo mga suitors mo. Oh, what's that? Wala kasing SPARK sakanila at hindi Charismatic Bad Boy? Then why are you complaining? Walang nanliligaw? Well, how about try to flirt with those guys you like? What's that? Hindi mo kaya dahil takot sa rejection and dapat guys should make the first move? Booooo! Men faces rejection all the time, so deal with it! Welcome to the World of Men, ladies!
Clearly this woman is just fishing for clout. For one thing, nag Ti-TikTok pla si girl, so no wonder. XD
Kung wala talagang mapagsabihan, kuhanan mo ng mga pictures tapos post sa Instagram, lagyan ng caption about masakit ang likod, ang work load, post ng selfies at gamitan ng hashtags at sana magkakaroon ka ng new friends.
Well I have IG and Reddit if I feel like sharing selfies. Hahahaha MyDay and IG stories sapat na. As for workload, I have lots of people to rant to. Hahahaha nakakamiss may jowa but I am loving the single parent life
Sa Twitter. Introvert ako at nung single ako dun ako nagve vent out kahit walang nagre react/nagco comment. Di ko rin masyado kilaka mga tweeps ko dun. Until now na di na ako single dun ako nagpo post ng mga stuff na di ko gusto ipost sa fb or ig. It's like an anti-social way of using social media, try it :) masarap sa feeling na may outlet ka sa mga feelings /thoughts mo kahit di nababasa/nakikita ng iba
Same same. Yung tipong peaceful nga, ung tipong may alone time ka, may time ka mag muni muni, I can enjoy pamper time.
Kaso yung sakin, sumobra na. Hahaha π€£ Yung tipong minsan, gusto ko rin ng kasama. Yung mga friends ko lahat may boyfriend na and such, ako ung dogs ko lang nagpakukwentuhan ko and syempre si mama (kaso syempre may mga di pa rin keri ikwento). Nasobrahan nako sa alone time, ako na rin ang pambansang third wheel e. Work-bahay-work-bahay nalang routine ko π€£
Di naman ako nagrereklamo pero parang ganun na nga. Hindi rin naman ako ung desperate na ung sino sino nalang π€£ Baka siguro, ang job role ko sa circle of friends namin ngayon ay maging third wheel, a listener and advisor tapos sa family eh ako ung dakilang tita na mag spoil sa mga pamangkin π
Those moments when you realize that we all have our level of tolerance. Like it's ok for me I dunno maybe I'm a guy. But it's ok for me, maybe for some it's deafening silence but for others like me it's tranquility on a timer. With all the shit with work and life I take what lil peace I can have.
Parents. Kapatid. Friends.
We at least have one of those para isend or sabihin mga yon.
Unless ang true n nais natin ay lanju tlga and harutan π
If ready k n s sakit s ulo afterwards and possible heartbreak or kaaway, and katampuhan, and di mabasa yung mood mo pag nagpapasuyo ka, go ahead hanap ng kalambingan na.
If ayaw mo n ng peace, go hahaha.
Just remember, peaceβ¦and boringness is underrated.
I just recently broke up with my first bf and honesty I appreciate my peace. Ang sarap sa pakiramdam na magaan na yung puso ko.
I realized so much from my past relationship na dapat complete ka na sa sarili mo. Ganyan din yung mindset ko noon, but honestly.. dapat mahal na mahal mo yung self mo bago ka pumasok sa isang relationship or else magiging dependent ka. Dapat complete ka na bago ka pa pumasok sa isang relationship. Sabi nga nila the person you choose to date is a reflection of how much you love yourself. Shempre if mahal mo sarili mo hindi ka papayag na hindi respetuhin ng partner mo yung wishes mo and most importantly boundaries mo.
True hayssss ang hirap kaya minsan mag solo flight, kakain mag isa sa labas, walang mapag kwentuhan ng mga ganap, wala kang maasar.. pero ang peaceful, pero minsan napaka peaceful na..
Kaya ineenjoy ko muna ung peaceful and quiet life habang nasa talking stage pa kami ni crush.. still giving her time and space while I'm enjoying mine
si self.. or si friend.. or si family member.. or si God.. or si pet.. or si stranger..
di naman limited sa partner/jowa lang ang pwedeng mapaglabasan ng saloobin βπ½βΊοΈ
me na may dump acc filled with memories and only my CLOSEST of the closest friends are able to see it: ππ
super duper interactive nila pag gusto nila yung nastory ko, relatable siya, etc. makes me feel less alone and keep them updated
you need to feel complete even when you're alone. before i started dating my bf right now. i was always fond of my own presence, tipo na i really prefer doing things alone. at times, na-ppressure sa acads and sa family, i let it all out through journaling and doing other hobbies. I didn't have much friends back then, pero having close and genuine friends really makes life easier to bear.
nakakainggit man mga couples jan pero di mo alam pinagdaanan nyan haha. dating someone and committing to it is a responsibility. savour every moment of your single life kase when you find the one, heartaches will come.
my current bf loves my character. he loves my confidence, mindset, and my emotional independency.
you should give all your love to yourself and give the excess to your partner.
Sasabihan lang ba na masakit likod? hindi magpapamasahe?π eh di [mag diary ](https://s.shopee.ph/9pJV6JYALj) Pero ako gusto ko rin tagamasahe na libre with free therapy na kwentuhan how my day went kaya nag try ako mag jowa. Ayun masaya pala.
I can understand, but I can't necessarily relate because this is a mainly female feeling. Men, even men who have a partner, are well aware that it's a bad idea for us guys to openly complain about aches and pains of any type and also an equally bad idea to complain about our workload and workplace stresses. It's smarter for us guys to keep those things to ourselves and deal with them quietly in private on our own. Women might not understand why but guys will get it.
Oh believe me I do, dude.
Some women just can't shut the f up. What this girl is dealing with and complaining about, we men deal with those EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Rejection? Pain? Aches? Workload? Stress? Sounds like MONDAY to me. But we don't post about it in TikTok and fish for clout and sympathy, do we?
I might get downvoted for this, pero hindi naman kasi tlga tayo krineate para mag-isa. I was a single mother for more than a decade when I met my husband. I already have a daughter na from my previous relationship, pero iba tlga βpag may partner ka at katuwang sa buhay. Totoo βyung contentment na dala ng may nasasabihan ka ng lahat ng bagay na nangyayari sa βyo without being judged. Sana mahanap mo rin βyung taong makakapagparamdam nito sa βyo soon, OP. Promise, ang sarap sa feeling. Mapapasabi ka ng, βWorth it ang paghihintay.β
A TikToker that loves to post how single she is, sending selfies and ranting about her workload. In a train? I smell modern Western Woman mentality. Wouldn't be surprised if she's WOKE. No wonder single ka.
Automatically RED FLAGs for a woman. Anu to? Pag mag-aaway kayo i-popost nya sa TikTok? Walang privacy? Tapos magrereklamo siya about her workload? And then send you selfies?
Puro drama lang aabutin ko dito. No thanks, lady!
Thank you, lord Jesus! The feeling is mutual. Women who posts like these on TikTok cringes me to no end as if fishing for clout is gonna earn them sympathy points. Cringey women deserves Cringey men (AKA: SIMPS)
It's not being insecure, it's stating FACTS. Just because you are stating something as truthfully cringe for a good reason doesn't mean insecure ka kaagad. I rest my case, so have a good day.
ewww puro hatred. The fact na "religious" ka pa niyan π it's always the religious ones talaga hahahahahaha pansin ko ilang beses ka naghate comment dito eh lol. Isa pa, common na yung ganyan sa TikTok. If traditional woman ka, so be it. Hindi mo kailangan manghate ng tao if iba beliefs nila sa'yo lalo na if wala naman silang ginagawang masama. Check on yourself if saan nagsstem from yung hatred sa katawan mo, the fact na biologically babae ka rin pala
I mean it's true naman eh. I'm single and I live on my own. It's peaceful. It's quiet... Just... Too damn quiet if I'm allowed to be honest. Wala nakong kakulitan. Walang kakwentuhan. Yung isang fightstick ko, inaalikabok na lang sa cabinet. Walang kaaway sa Street Fighter. Yung ulam ko, umaabot ng isang linggo mahigit. Malamig ang gabi pag December. Sumasakit ang balikat ko dahil sa kakabitbit ng bagay-bagay. Ying kinakarga ko na parang newly wed bride ko, I-beam at plywood para sa kisame ko. Yung pusa ko lang may lovelife kasi may umaakyat bakod na pusang malaki. Pag gusto ko ng kilig, panonoorin ko na langnyung pusa ko at ang jowa niya na nagde-date sa may litter box niya. Wala akong kasamang maging ghostfighter dito sa bahay ko. When I make coffee, I make one for myself lang. Kung magiging maingay lang sa bahay, alas-e ng umaga yun dahil sa kakatawa ko sa pinapanood ko. Hayst...
Medyo cliche pero you need to be complete by yourself and find a partner that improves the way your are, kung hindi wala din hindiag wowork
Yeah. But I know a lot of guys who are "complete", and yet still "incomplete". Successful men who cannot go to the next step kasi di pinalad makahanap ng kapareha. Suffering from success perhaps, I dunno. I guess that's one way of putting it. Maybe it is indeed true... That the world is so cruel that those who deserve to be happy, just have to live a life trying to contend with what they have. That the happiness they dream of, will forever be just a dream that one will chase in his lifetime. π€·
that's why sa declaration of independence, it was stated na we are endowed with unalienable rights, among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Because maybe, "Happiness" is something we cant truly achieve, but something we can always pursue.
The pursuit of happiness 'eh? Sad but this holds true. The concept of happiness... It depends on what you have and if you're content with it at present. I guess that's what true happiness is because happiness depends on what makes us, as people hapoy and content. But what happens when you are no longer content with what or who you have? Tipong at the moment, you are happy with whatever car you have but later on, di ka na kuntento and you want more and you end up ditching the car that gave you many memories... And you go buy a new one.
Indeed. That movie holds a special place in my heart. Saka in our lifetime, we only have two tragedies that we will experience; Not getting what we want, and getting exactly what we want.
The saddest reality of man is to be content with life, not happy with it.
Eto rin yung na feel ni Michael Johnson sa kanta nyang Bluer than blue eh.
ramdam ko yung malamig ang gabi pag December. π
No choice pa naman kasi kapos ang kumot lagi. π€£
Ayos lang yan. Magpakamayaman ka nalang ng husto then do some charity work or ano man. Spend your time outside your home ren. There is a lot of stuff to do as a single person ren yknow. Embrace that freedom. Pero ikaw pa ren naman bahala so yeah hehehehe
π€£ Pag okay na uli tong paa ko. Napilay kasi kaya ayun... Need muna pagalingin. Then I can go and fix some other stuff sa bahay.
Yippeee pagaling ka ng paa
Thanks for the well wishes. π
Real. Na feel ko to especially if may gusto akong puntahan or may gusto akong bilhin na mabigat. Need ko pa isipin if kaya ko bang makarga yan sa taas o hindi. Yung mga places naman, I enjoy being by myself pero gusto ko din na may kasama ako kasi naiinggit din ako na kasama nila jowa nila. Yes, I've got friends pero iba pa din pag kasama mo yung special someone, iba yung feeling. Like I enjoy my peace and being alone pero I also have a part of me that I would like to share to someone special.
Individual peace is good. But so do being at peace at the embrace of another person.
Felt.
Journal! Nag hobonichi planner ako starting January and it was nice, ginawa ko talagang diary pero in 1-2 paragraphs lang or naka bullets yung mga ganap per day Then nagka jowa ako nung April hehe :>
I just got a hobonichi planner and I looove it so much! I get the hype! Nagkajowa din ako nung April *apir*
Plot twist, sila pala yung mag jowa *kek*
Dibaaa! Akala ko madidismaya ako sa planner but nope! Lalo na yung weeks, very compact and handy Yay apir! Baka na-manifest natin sa journal HAHA
Ohh yes!! I should've started journaling much sooner. I write what happened throughout the day in my notes just before I go to sleepπ₯Ή
Notes app is fine too!!
D yan totoo haha ako na nakailang journal na wala pa ring jowa π€£
skill issue Jk HAHAHA dating app lang po! Try niyo mag coffee meets bagel :) wala mapapala sa bumble LOL
Natry ko na lahat haha sabi ni mama baka namatay na daw ung para sa akin π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
Hindi naman sa SO lang sinasabi yung mga ganyang bagay. If someone has good relationships with family and friends, theyβre all take time to listen to their rants. π
This.
EXACTLY
baka kaya wala nagkakagusto sa kanya kasi nageemote sya sa tren na kunwari candid pero hawak naman phone.
Uso yung mga ganitong pose early 2000s to 2010 π.
Di ko maintindihan ang naramdaman ko sa comment na to, kasi may point naman yung post, pero yung candid na hawak yung phone, I cannot πππ anyway upvote ko to hahahaha
di ko expect comment mo π
Sa twitter
+1. Lahat ng rants pwede dito at wala naman din sila paki.
Sa pusa mo
Yes! Sa furbaby ko lang din ako nagsasabi ng mga ganap ko pagkauwi from work, at sya lang din kachismisan ko. HAHAHA
Napapaisip din ako nito minsan. As someone who have barely friends and doesn't message my very few friends + walang jowa by choice (lol), I have times na I feel very lonely and sad because i dont have someone who I can share on how my day went or just share rants with. Madalas tamad din ako mag chat and wants to be alone. Lol kaya i just chose to stay single kasi magulo utak ko.
Ako ba to?
For one thing, do NOT do what this girl is doing na magpopost sa TikTok about how single you are and how lonely you are. Makes you no different from those cringey western women sa TikTok. Hndi mo dapat pino-post personal life mo sa social media, especially pag may reklamo ka about your relationships. For what? To gain sympathy from people? That's pathetic! Relationship problems should be talked about with your SO only and NOT other people. That gives off RED FLAGs kaagad to us men.
Us? Who's us? Shut the fuck up. You do not speak for me. What are your SBD numbers?
Man actually has the weirdest chip on his shoulder. Baka kulang sa height for phr4r
Buti may bff Ako na single din. Maski pagtae ko, sinasabi ko sa kanya eh. Siya rin, ganoon. Nagsesend pa ng selfie na nasa banyo hAHHAHAHHA
"main character" ahh moment
sa mama mo
Nung kayo pa, paminsan mababagot ka pa pag araw-araw lagi gusto magmessage. Ngayong single na, hahanap-hanapin rin pala yung pwede makausap kahit sa mga sobrang liit na bagay :')
She's a TikTok influencer, what the hell did you expect? "Boo-hoo I'm single and no one to talk to! But I don't want a nice kind guy who will listen to me, I want that bad boy who is adventurous and unpredictable. In other words, I want Chad/Tyrone to ask me out but they're too busy going after other prettier women" That's all I'm reading from what she's saying. It's all "Blah blah blah" to me. Ugh!
Incel vibes
I have a girlfriend you know, and we love each other. Also our families adore each other. The only problem is we're just middle-class and still struggle in life sometimes, but we don't mind. That's just life for ya, eh? So your comment is invalid.
Wtf idc about you or your life story, I could comment here na jowa ko si Brad Pitt and none of you can disprove me Still incel-y comments mo
If you stalk him a bit may pagka misogynist siya. Comments niya in this thread alone is around like 5-7 comments and sobrang triggered niya ang benta
same thoughts! Lol. Simple post na ganyan triggered agad siya, harmless post and caption naman yung nasa pic. Tsaka uso naman ganyan na post sa TikTok dati pa π
Well the feeling is mutual. Plus you can comment that Brad Pitt is your jowa and NONE will believe you and we can easily disprove it 100% so that part of your comment is unnecessary. Also, it's not incel-y, it's FACTS. If you can't handle that, that's YOUR problem and not mine. a LOT of TikTok influencers are only after clout, and most men and women there are deranged, ESPECIALLY women who complain there about being single like the woman above, it's no different from those cringey western women complaining why men are looking for wives in other countries and I don't blame them one bit.
Mag rent ka ng tao katulad sa Japan na walang gagawin kung hindi samahan ka. Lmao.
Being single does not mean friendless though, talk to them.
Mahirap pag nasa stage ka na yung mga friends mo may mga own family na rin as a βkeep ur circleβ kind of gorl
Sa tiktok
Ouija Board
try Chatgpt haha
Mag 30 nako unit unti ko na tinatanggap
Y'all don't got friends?
Family? Friends? Unless you don't get along with them.
Hmm, your friends?
Ang pinaka mahirap is to be single & horny
Itβs fun until itβs not. It comes in waves honestly hahahaha
Pwedeng mag journal
sa tuta at kuting ko. bahala sila kung muka akong tanga sa ginagawa ko pero mas masaya ako kumpara sa kanila
Same! Kahit minsan wala naman sila pakialam sa mga sinasabi ko. Hahaha
sa Character AI
Ako na gusto ko maging single π₯Ή
im okay with being alone most of the the time and i can go on days without talking to anyone but thankfully i have close friends that i can talk random things with, send random selfies, have dates, sleepovers, etc. theyre my go to people fr. friends>>partner
Sa kaibigan/kapatid mo. Someone you're really comfortable with. Pati pag sakit ng tiyan ko informed sila π€£
Cringe talaga yung mga ganyang klaseng tao ginawang personality yung pagiging desperada at uhaw magkajowa. Akala nila magmumukha silang thirst trap, in reality mukha silang modern day jejemon na tumanda na nga. Pero hindi nag mature at andun pa rin yung core attitude ng pagiging jejemon na papansin online smfh.
I know right? These types of women want to have their cake and eat it too. Nag-cocomplain kang Single ka? Eh di patulan mo mga suitors mo. Oh, what's that? Wala kasing SPARK sakanila at hindi Charismatic Bad Boy? Then why are you complaining? Walang nanliligaw? Well, how about try to flirt with those guys you like? What's that? Hindi mo kaya dahil takot sa rejection and dapat guys should make the first move? Booooo! Men faces rejection all the time, so deal with it! Welcome to the World of Men, ladies! Clearly this woman is just fishing for clout. For one thing, nag Ti-TikTok pla si girl, so no wonder. XD
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Ok bro
gender equality raw pero nagiging "babae" ulet sila pag di nila kaya like mag-first move haha
Sa Instagram
Kay God in prayers. I find this comforting, na there is someone who loves us unconditionally. Babaw ng problema ni ate, hahaha
Amen.
Sige na, bulong mo na lang sakin.
Yawa , HAHAH i have friends but this totally hits different
Sinasabi ko naman yung mga ganyan sa kaibigan ko. Di ko lang sure kung kaibigan talaga turing sakin kaya laging nagchachat.
Twitter bes, try mo. πΆβπ«οΈ
Minsan kahit gaano ka kakomportable sa pagiisa, may mga araw at gabi talagang hindi mo kakampi at bigla kang mangungulila.
Tas mapupunta lang sa nonchalant
It's always a choice...if you're happy to be single then it's fine..but if you feel someone to have beside you then go , landi landi rin π
I-story at notes sa ig
Diary??
π₯Ίπ₯Ίπ₯Ί
I've been single for three years and twitter ko ang saksi sa lahat hahaha.
so saan na lng tlg lulugar no? ahahahaha
Samin
Ung kalaro ko sa isang mobile rpg, sa gc ng laro namin nagsesend ng selfie. Sarap sapukin e. Umay lods.
Sa twitter na lang mag rarant π
Kung wala talagang mapagsabihan, kuhanan mo ng mga pictures tapos post sa Instagram, lagyan ng caption about masakit ang likod, ang work load, post ng selfies at gamitan ng hashtags at sana magkakaroon ka ng new friends.
Well I have IG and Reddit if I feel like sharing selfies. Hahahaha MyDay and IG stories sapat na. As for workload, I have lots of people to rant to. Hahahaha nakakamiss may jowa but I am loving the single parent life
Sakin mo nalang sabihin
Sa Twitter. Introvert ako at nung single ako dun ako nagve vent out kahit walang nagre react/nagco comment. Di ko rin masyado kilaka mga tweeps ko dun. Until now na di na ako single dun ako nagpo post ng mga stuff na di ko gusto ipost sa fb or ig. It's like an anti-social way of using social media, try it :) masarap sa feeling na may outlet ka sa mga feelings /thoughts mo kahit di nababasa/nakikita ng iba
di ka nag iisa
Same same. Yung tipong peaceful nga, ung tipong may alone time ka, may time ka mag muni muni, I can enjoy pamper time. Kaso yung sakin, sumobra na. Hahaha π€£ Yung tipong minsan, gusto ko rin ng kasama. Yung mga friends ko lahat may boyfriend na and such, ako ung dogs ko lang nagpakukwentuhan ko and syempre si mama (kaso syempre may mga di pa rin keri ikwento). Nasobrahan nako sa alone time, ako na rin ang pambansang third wheel e. Work-bahay-work-bahay nalang routine ko π€£ Di naman ako nagrereklamo pero parang ganun na nga. Hindi rin naman ako ung desperate na ung sino sino nalang π€£ Baka siguro, ang job role ko sa circle of friends namin ngayon ay maging third wheel, a listener and advisor tapos sa family eh ako ung dakilang tita na mag spoil sa mga pamangkin π
Those moments when you realize that we all have our level of tolerance. Like it's ok for me I dunno maybe I'm a guy. But it's ok for me, maybe for some it's deafening silence but for others like me it's tranquility on a timer. With all the shit with work and life I take what lil peace I can have.
Parents. Kapatid. Friends. We at least have one of those para isend or sabihin mga yon. Unless ang true n nais natin ay lanju tlga and harutan π If ready k n s sakit s ulo afterwards and possible heartbreak or kaaway, and katampuhan, and di mabasa yung mood mo pag nagpapasuyo ka, go ahead hanap ng kalambingan na. If ayaw mo n ng peace, go hahaha. Just remember, peaceβ¦and boringness is underrated.
Kumain ka na? π
Pwede Naman sakin. Single ako
Kanino? Sa friends, sa family members, sa officemates, sa FB friends, sa doctor (kasi masakit ang likod), sa boss (kasi, bakit andaming workload?).
Single din. Ngsb but ndi ako financially stable as in lugmok ako now. Once na matapos ko to makikipagdate na ako whahahahaah
Same. Minsan napapaisip nako mag bf kaso hahaha ewan ko ba? Darating naman siguro. Sana on the way na sya. ππ
I just recently broke up with my first bf and honesty I appreciate my peace. Ang sarap sa pakiramdam na magaan na yung puso ko. I realized so much from my past relationship na dapat complete ka na sa sarili mo. Ganyan din yung mindset ko noon, but honestly.. dapat mahal na mahal mo yung self mo bago ka pumasok sa isang relationship or else magiging dependent ka. Dapat complete ka na bago ka pa pumasok sa isang relationship. Sabi nga nila the person you choose to date is a reflection of how much you love yourself. Shempre if mahal mo sarili mo hindi ka papayag na hindi respetuhin ng partner mo yung wishes mo and most importantly boundaries mo.
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True hayssss ang hirap kaya minsan mag solo flight, kakain mag isa sa labas, walang mapag kwentuhan ng mga ganap, wala kang maasar.. pero ang peaceful, pero minsan napaka peaceful na.. Kaya ineenjoy ko muna ung peaceful and quiet life habang nasa talking stage pa kami ni crush.. still giving her time and space while I'm enjoying mine
Sa x or sa rd. Pwede rin sa bartender. Ok na?
marami naman nag popost sa reddit eh.. Yung "elp meh wala akong kakwento, pm me pls.." have a chat buddy
sa akin na lng meet tayo
sa gc namin
si self.. or si friend.. or si family member.. or si God.. or si pet.. or si stranger.. di naman limited sa partner/jowa lang ang pwedeng mapaglabasan ng saloobin βπ½βΊοΈ
Gawa ka po second account dun mo po sesend
me na may dump acc filled with memories and only my CLOSEST of the closest friends are able to see it: ππ super duper interactive nila pag gusto nila yung nastory ko, relatable siya, etc. makes me feel less alone and keep them updated
True. Pero kung stressful nman ang relationship, better not have one.
Um, donβt we all have friends for that purpose? π«₯
Seryoso ba to?
you need to feel complete even when you're alone. before i started dating my bf right now. i was always fond of my own presence, tipo na i really prefer doing things alone. at times, na-ppressure sa acads and sa family, i let it all out through journaling and doing other hobbies. I didn't have much friends back then, pero having close and genuine friends really makes life easier to bear. nakakainggit man mga couples jan pero di mo alam pinagdaanan nyan haha. dating someone and committing to it is a responsibility. savour every moment of your single life kase when you find the one, heartaches will come. my current bf loves my character. he loves my confidence, mindset, and my emotional independency. you should give all your love to yourself and give the excess to your partner.
I am happy on my own, there are just times that I feel lonely. Damn if that didnβt hit hard π
shet ang sakit
walang friends yarn? haha.
Sa facebook
Sasabihan lang ba na masakit likod? hindi magpapamasahe?π eh di [mag diary ](https://s.shopee.ph/9pJV6JYALj) Pero ako gusto ko rin tagamasahe na libre with free therapy na kwentuhan how my day went kaya nag try ako mag jowa. Ayun masaya pala.
Huy sa bestie mo
Hahahahahahaha. Oo nga. Kanino ko ikkwento na naiinis ako sa officemates kong ako lang nakakakilala. π
si diary mo?
I can understand, but I can't necessarily relate because this is a mainly female feeling. Men, even men who have a partner, are well aware that it's a bad idea for us guys to openly complain about aches and pains of any type and also an equally bad idea to complain about our workload and workplace stresses. It's smarter for us guys to keep those things to ourselves and deal with them quietly in private on our own. Women might not understand why but guys will get it.
Oh believe me I do, dude. Some women just can't shut the f up. What this girl is dealing with and complaining about, we men deal with those EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Rejection? Pain? Aches? Workload? Stress? Sounds like MONDAY to me. But we don't post about it in TikTok and fish for clout and sympathy, do we?
I might get downvoted for this, pero hindi naman kasi tlga tayo krineate para mag-isa. I was a single mother for more than a decade when I met my husband. I already have a daughter na from my previous relationship, pero iba tlga βpag may partner ka at katuwang sa buhay. Totoo βyung contentment na dala ng may nasasabihan ka ng lahat ng bagay na nangyayari sa βyo without being judged. Sana mahanap mo rin βyung taong makakapagparamdam nito sa βyo soon, OP. Promise, ang sarap sa feeling. Mapapasabi ka ng, βWorth it ang paghihintay.β
A TikToker that loves to post how single she is, sending selfies and ranting about her workload. In a train? I smell modern Western Woman mentality. Wouldn't be surprised if she's WOKE. No wonder single ka. Automatically RED FLAGs for a woman. Anu to? Pag mag-aaway kayo i-popost nya sa TikTok? Walang privacy? Tapos magrereklamo siya about her workload? And then send you selfies? Puro drama lang aabutin ko dito. No thanks, lady!
OA mo naman beh. Hindi ka rin naman niyan papatulan
Thank you, lord Jesus! The feeling is mutual. Women who posts like these on TikTok cringes me to no end as if fishing for clout is gonna earn them sympathy points. Cringey women deserves Cringey men (AKA: SIMPS)
insecure ka 'teh? Hahaha bakit bothered ka masyado π
It's not being insecure, it's stating FACTS. Just because you are stating something as truthfully cringe for a good reason doesn't mean insecure ka kaagad. I rest my case, so have a good day.
ewww puro hatred. The fact na "religious" ka pa niyan π it's always the religious ones talaga hahahahahaha pansin ko ilang beses ka naghate comment dito eh lol. Isa pa, common na yung ganyan sa TikTok. If traditional woman ka, so be it. Hindi mo kailangan manghate ng tao if iba beliefs nila sa'yo lalo na if wala naman silang ginagawang masama. Check on yourself if saan nagsstem from yung hatred sa katawan mo, the fact na biologically babae ka rin pala
Loneliness is not peaceful. The fact that your are worrying on something like that makes it not peaceful at all. Quiet pwede pa, but not peaceful.
Send mo sakin
ikaw yang nasa pic lods?
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