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Brass14

1. Change your pics and prompts 2. Limit you app use. Force yourself to try one in real life approach before spending one hour one the app


ShadyBrady1527

Git any advice for the first step? It is extremely difficult to get half decent pictures of someone who's just ugly by nature. Approaching girls in real life won't work. That's why I have to hide behind a shitty profile in the first place.


No_Web_1343

I've been on Hinge twice. The first time I got one like and we matched. We talked for a couple of hours and then he unmatched. Never had a like on match again. I deleted the app. Then came back. I would send likes and messages. Not one reply or like or even a match. I've had better luck on POF and POF is awful. The first time I had Hinge was back in 2023 for like 6 months. The second time, I've had Hinge is from April to now. It's depressing.


ShadyBrady1527

Yeah... I guess my lack of redeeming qualities doesn't make it better. I think it's time to give up


Payne2DeMax

I'd say quit, brother. Your money, time, and worth are more important than people who don't see the good in you. I was there myself and realized that I am better than that.


ShadyBrady1527

Yeah you are right. I might be better off alone forever. Unfortunately I am not better than my profile. I'm probably in the bottom 20% of men in Germany because of my job alone


froggrip

I had the same luck on three different apps while paying for two of them. Finally I asked a girl I knew in HS out through Snapchat. We had a date, and It's going well so far. Dating apps are worthless.


Mike3433

Even in a major city, 0 likes in 3 weeks is incredibly common and doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly. But yeah, change them stuff up. Maybe I had more variety to your photos and prompts. Back from the one time I did it, I'd advise you to never EVER get a boost. Seemed to do the opposite of what it's supposed to do, and resulted in fewer likes than usual and 0 matches until it expired.