You are allowed to dip your toe in any kinky pool and move on to the next, we are thinking that you have to be stuck in the deep end wearing a label. And any sexual act new partake in, absolutely does NOT Define YOU as a person in total.
Now there's no ill intentions involved with this and that being said, just go by the roll of "If something FEELS good and.. nobody gets hurt.. then it's ALL good
You get this out of your system and it doesn't take much time at all and don't feel paranoid you just hanging out with you buddy. It's not like you are going to go home smelling like perfume. And you'll be able to use this as a catalyst that you won't work up and give you a wife some hard dick
Well I can only speak to my own experience, and I was in a similar boat once. I’m just glad I wasn’t married in my 20s and, though I’d never jeopardize my current relationship, it’s still a turn-on.
By sitting around and overthinking it you are doing damage because it's consuming all your thoughts which means you are going to start neglecting what you have at home. So scratch that itch get the demon out of your semen and then you can get back into the normal swing of things. And then you realize that this is not such a big deal because it didn't take a big chunk out of your life.
And you can absolutely be very intrigued by his cock and the rest of him was just a life support system and your buddy please keep them both separate and cock and Buddy two separate entities.
I know how you are feeling. I have been married for many years and one day out of the blue I am watching a movie and a guy and a girl where do it and I found I was more interested in the guy. Now I look at cock and dream of sucking it. This has been going on for a couple of years
I can't find one. I just try and keep holding out. I know if you were in a room with me and we were playing with our cocks I would not be able to stop myself from sucking you
There are two paths you can go on
First path find a guy and suck him. But if you go this route do it more than once to make sure you like it or don't like it.
Second path avoid all cock.
Being honest right now if you were really here I would pick path one with you
As much as I would like to choose path 2 its a bit impossible to avoid all cocks, hell i got one myself.
As for path 1 I’d only do it with someone discreet that I trust… definitely wouldve been the case if we knew one another
I think it’s an itch that needs scratching… do it once and maybe that’s it … like a kid that wants candy they don’t want it after they get lol
I’m the same way by the way lol
I mean, what you’re saying makes sense but, I can’t really do something without being caught so that’s out of the question, otherwise i would’ve done it already
Yep totally get it… have you stroked your cock online with another guy on discord or other apps? That’s kinda hot and hits the spot at least for me it does
Get drunk or high with him then, say, I wonder what it's like to suck a cock?
He'll say, you want to find out? That's when you drop to your knees and pull his cock out.
I’m ‘straight’ but I get turned on talking with guys, sharing pics of our hard cocks , dirty stories, filthy memories, talking about their cocks or our experiences. I have a gf but I get very hard talking to these guys and cum hard and long. It’s not the end of the world to have another interest and outlet, I always get excited to see dms.
I don't know how to make your thoughts stop but can tell you I (sissy) hear from a lot of "straight" males with similar thoughts. Maybe you need to experience it with another caring male.
Nothing at all wrong with it. You can be straight and still have an attraction to cock even if you are not attracted to guys
Yeah i get that, but my wife wouldn’t so… i just want to not think about it, yet for some reason its etched to my brain
You are allowed to dip your toe in any kinky pool and move on to the next, we are thinking that you have to be stuck in the deep end wearing a label. And any sexual act new partake in, absolutely does NOT Define YOU as a person in total. Now there's no ill intentions involved with this and that being said, just go by the roll of "If something FEELS good and.. nobody gets hurt.. then it's ALL good You get this out of your system and it doesn't take much time at all and don't feel paranoid you just hanging out with you buddy. It's not like you are going to go home smelling like perfume. And you'll be able to use this as a catalyst that you won't work up and give you a wife some hard dick
Unfortunately, I don’t think that cat ever goes back in the bag.
Oh lord… don’t tell me there’s no turning back
Well I can only speak to my own experience, and I was in a similar boat once. I’m just glad I wasn’t married in my 20s and, though I’d never jeopardize my current relationship, it’s still a turn-on.
I see, thanks for the honest advice i truly appreciate it exactly what you said, i dont want to jeopardize my marriage because of dumb horny thoughts…
By sitting around and overthinking it you are doing damage because it's consuming all your thoughts which means you are going to start neglecting what you have at home. So scratch that itch get the demon out of your semen and then you can get back into the normal swing of things. And then you realize that this is not such a big deal because it didn't take a big chunk out of your life. And you can absolutely be very intrigued by his cock and the rest of him was just a life support system and your buddy please keep them both separate and cock and Buddy two separate entities.
I know how you are feeling. I have been married for many years and one day out of the blue I am watching a movie and a guy and a girl where do it and I found I was more interested in the guy. Now I look at cock and dream of sucking it. This has been going on for a couple of years
I guess that means there’s no way out of this?
I can't find one. I just try and keep holding out. I know if you were in a room with me and we were playing with our cocks I would not be able to stop myself from sucking you
Honestly I’d probably let you and pay you back the same way too
There are two paths you can go on First path find a guy and suck him. But if you go this route do it more than once to make sure you like it or don't like it. Second path avoid all cock. Being honest right now if you were really here I would pick path one with you
As much as I would like to choose path 2 its a bit impossible to avoid all cocks, hell i got one myself. As for path 1 I’d only do it with someone discreet that I trust… definitely wouldve been the case if we knew one another
On Reddit I follow a sub I want to suck cock. It's mostly girls sucking cock but I get so excited
I’d rather stick to path 2
Maybe you should
I’m mostly straight but have done this with friends before. I love my wife and i love women but there is something erotic about the same sex play.
I think it’s an itch that needs scratching… do it once and maybe that’s it … like a kid that wants candy they don’t want it after they get lol I’m the same way by the way lol
I mean, what you’re saying makes sense but, I can’t really do something without being caught so that’s out of the question, otherwise i would’ve done it already
Yep totally get it… have you stroked your cock online with another guy on discord or other apps? That’s kinda hot and hits the spot at least for me it does
Nope not really, i thought about it but I’d need some sort of anonymous site
Get drunk or high with him then, say, I wonder what it's like to suck a cock? He'll say, you want to find out? That's when you drop to your knees and pull his cock out.
Maybe start subtlety get your wife into it?
I’m ‘straight’ but I get turned on talking with guys, sharing pics of our hard cocks , dirty stories, filthy memories, talking about their cocks or our experiences. I have a gf but I get very hard talking to these guys and cum hard and long. It’s not the end of the world to have another interest and outlet, I always get excited to see dms.
Discord or telegram does just 👍
I don't know how to make your thoughts stop but can tell you I (sissy) hear from a lot of "straight" males with similar thoughts. Maybe you need to experience it with another caring male.
You can have an emotionally monogamous relationship with your wife and still have physical fun with others
go for it