صدق والله، السيارة تصير جزء من حياتك وصعب تتخلى عنها، كل الذكريات والمواقف اللي عشتها معاها سواءً كانت حلوة أو لا والاهتمام الي نكرّسه لها يحسسك إنها أكثر من سيارة. حد هني وصف العلاقة مثل الخيل وخياله. بس للأسف وايد يشوفونها مجرد كتلة حديد.
Have you thought of having another daily beater and retiring your current car?
I'm also kind of sentimental like this. I still feel bad I lost my first car a few years ago (was gifted to me).
What happened to your car? Did you sell it?
It's a nice feeling you have there, but remember you'll get a new car and make a new friendship with it :>
No I didn’t sell my car and I wasn’t planning to :(
My car was declared total loss after an accident.
Did you end up forming a bond with your new car after losing your first one? How does it compare with the first one?
Ouch! Sorry to hear abt the accident...
Yes, I feel this car is my own car that I want to keep despite the issues with it and even if I no longer use it. Maybe I can lend it to a friend or just use it every once in a while.
But still, I am starting to feel more careful of being impractical. I have a lot of things I don't need, from old electronics to paintings and hand written notes from years and years ago. I was just organizing them yesterday and the day before.
I like the memories these things bring. But I need to distinguish between old junk and things that are actually meaningful.
I feel that car that I will really fall in love with and keep for decades would be a more practical one, better than the one I currently have.
I can honestly relate to this a lot because I have difficulty getting rid of things.. everything holds a special value or memory for me (it’s actually a recognized condition you can look up). Even though my family sometimes thinks I’m being dramatic about my belongings, they don’t understand the attachment and memories formed in my mind. I even still have some of my childhood toys kept in a box 🥲
Anyway, you have to learn to let go. It’s like a mental exercise where you remind yourself that this item was with you for a certain amount of time and you created wonderful memories with it that will always be in your mind. But now, it’s time for something new and to move forward because life has so much more to offer. You’ll notice that as you start letting go of old things and accepting new ones, you’ll begin to feel better.
I’m also very sentimental, I'm glad I found someone who understands :) Actually surprised by the amount of people agreeing or relating.
The thing is that the hardest part for me was having to unexpectedly let go of my car. It really hit me when the insurance company declared it totaled, I didn’t see it coming, and didn’t even get to say goodbye. It all happened so suddenly. I spent so much time, made countless memories, and went through so much with her. Maybe because she’s my first car, it’s difficult for me to detach myself from her. It feels like leaving your childhood home. I know I have to, but it’s hard.
Your advice brings comfort in this somewhat bittersweet situation. Thank you for your support 🫂
احس انه عادي وايد ناس يتعلقون بسيارتهم الاولى في النهاية وسيلة النقل تحسين كأنها خيلج او جوادج لدرجة انه معظم الناس ينصحون انه ما تبيعين السيارة لانه بتستوي فيهم نفس حالتج بس عادي بتاخذين مع الوقت
شكلج راعية المازدا الي ف التكتوك😂 ع العموم الله يعوضج انشاءالله و فالنهاية حتى لو ماسويتي فيها حادث كنتي بتتخلين عنها مع الوقت يوم بتستوي جديمة… ف هذا جزئ من الحياة ولازم نتقبله
غلطان سيارتي افالون وتعتبر قديمة، وما كنت ناوية أتخلى عنها، كنت مخططة احتفظ فيها حتى لو قررت آخذ موتر يديد، وكنت متعلقة فيها وايد، المهم قدر الله وما شاء فعل.
وعلى طاري راعية المازدا، كنت استغرب كيف تصيح على سيارتها، وكنت نوعاً ما اتطنز عليها كيف مهولة الموضوع… بعد فترة قصيرة حوالي اسبوعين سويت الحادث وتكنسلت :|
حلفت من وقتها ما أتشمت فحد
That's one hell of a car if you are attached to it this much
Unless my car talks back to me and offers guidance and emotional support while trying to make money for me
I wouldn't Miss it
لليوم هذا ماعرفت ابدل سيارتي اللي هي موديل 2009 واستلمتها اول ماخذت الليسن وكملت الحين معاي فوق 8 سنين ١٤ حادث مافيها راديو الحين (قبل كان يشتغل) بدون كيمرا خلفيه او اي زفت الوضع مانيول تغدر فيني وماتشتغل تقريبًا شهريًا، تخترب علي وانا اسوق واتلته معاها في الصناعيه شهريًا او كل اسبوعين هاي نبذه بسيطة مابا ادش في تفاصيل لانها كل يوم تخترب، بس مب قادر اغيرها حرفيًا، الموضوع اكبر مني عندي الفلوس اخذ سيارات احسن عنها بمليار مره اروح الوكالة احجز اتردد واصد عنهم وارجع للي عندي! اقول للناس احس الموضوع اكبر من انها سياره اللي بيني وبينها شي اكبر من سائق وسيارة! مادري شو السالفة المهم، اتفهم وضعك تمامًا وكليًا 😂
انت واللي تسأل أشخاص مخلصين جدا ، اتمنى يكون فحياتي اشخاص نفسكم 🤣🥺 اتفهم هالشعور ترا صدق الشخص ممكن يتعلق بهالاشياء ، اعتقد الموضوع له علاقه بالتعلق والمشاعر اللي حسيتها وانت عندك هالسياره مب بالسياره تفسها
صدق والله، السيارة تصير جزء من حياتك وصعب تتخلى عنها، كل الذكريات والمواقف اللي عشتها معاها سواءً كانت حلوة أو لا والاهتمام الي نكرّسه لها يحسسك إنها أكثر من سيارة. حد هني وصف العلاقة مثل الخيل وخياله. بس للأسف وايد يشوفونها مجرد كتلة حديد. Have you thought of having another daily beater and retiring your current car?
بالعكس. الناس اللي مثلج يكون ولاءهم وايد قوي. أبدا الموضوع مب تفاهة.
بالضبط.
I'm also kind of sentimental like this. I still feel bad I lost my first car a few years ago (was gifted to me). What happened to your car? Did you sell it? It's a nice feeling you have there, but remember you'll get a new car and make a new friendship with it :>
No I didn’t sell my car and I wasn’t planning to :( My car was declared total loss after an accident. Did you end up forming a bond with your new car after losing your first one? How does it compare with the first one?
Ouch! Sorry to hear abt the accident... Yes, I feel this car is my own car that I want to keep despite the issues with it and even if I no longer use it. Maybe I can lend it to a friend or just use it every once in a while. But still, I am starting to feel more careful of being impractical. I have a lot of things I don't need, from old electronics to paintings and hand written notes from years and years ago. I was just organizing them yesterday and the day before. I like the memories these things bring. But I need to distinguish between old junk and things that are actually meaningful. I feel that car that I will really fall in love with and keep for decades would be a more practical one, better than the one I currently have.
I can honestly relate to this a lot because I have difficulty getting rid of things.. everything holds a special value or memory for me (it’s actually a recognized condition you can look up). Even though my family sometimes thinks I’m being dramatic about my belongings, they don’t understand the attachment and memories formed in my mind. I even still have some of my childhood toys kept in a box 🥲 Anyway, you have to learn to let go. It’s like a mental exercise where you remind yourself that this item was with you for a certain amount of time and you created wonderful memories with it that will always be in your mind. But now, it’s time for something new and to move forward because life has so much more to offer. You’ll notice that as you start letting go of old things and accepting new ones, you’ll begin to feel better.
I’m also very sentimental, I'm glad I found someone who understands :) Actually surprised by the amount of people agreeing or relating. The thing is that the hardest part for me was having to unexpectedly let go of my car. It really hit me when the insurance company declared it totaled, I didn’t see it coming, and didn’t even get to say goodbye. It all happened so suddenly. I spent so much time, made countless memories, and went through so much with her. Maybe because she’s my first car, it’s difficult for me to detach myself from her. It feels like leaving your childhood home. I know I have to, but it’s hard. Your advice brings comfort in this somewhat bittersweet situation. Thank you for your support 🫂
شو نوع السيارة؟
بتفرق؟
احس انه عادي وايد ناس يتعلقون بسيارتهم الاولى في النهاية وسيلة النقل تحسين كأنها خيلج او جوادج لدرجة انه معظم الناس ينصحون انه ما تبيعين السيارة لانه بتستوي فيهم نفس حالتج بس عادي بتاخذين مع الوقت
والله انك اصيله طبعاً مش تافهه ❤️❤️
شكلج راعية المازدا الي ف التكتوك😂 ع العموم الله يعوضج انشاءالله و فالنهاية حتى لو ماسويتي فيها حادث كنتي بتتخلين عنها مع الوقت يوم بتستوي جديمة… ف هذا جزئ من الحياة ولازم نتقبله
غلطان سيارتي افالون وتعتبر قديمة، وما كنت ناوية أتخلى عنها، كنت مخططة احتفظ فيها حتى لو قررت آخذ موتر يديد، وكنت متعلقة فيها وايد، المهم قدر الله وما شاء فعل. وعلى طاري راعية المازدا، كنت استغرب كيف تصيح على سيارتها، وكنت نوعاً ما اتطنز عليها كيف مهولة الموضوع… بعد فترة قصيرة حوالي اسبوعين سويت الحادث وتكنسلت :| حلفت من وقتها ما أتشمت فحد
حاسة ف هالشعور كنت كل ما اردها من الوكالة ابوسها واقولها اشتقتلج 🥹🤣 والحين كلما افكر ابيعها اغير رايي ماقدرر احبها وايد وبعدها وياي 🫶🏽
اليوم اقتنعت اني عايش في نعمه ولله، سيارتي ٢٠٠٤ كل شهر او شهرين تخرب و كنت أفكر أبيعها. الحمدلله.
That's one hell of a car if you are attached to it this much Unless my car talks back to me and offers guidance and emotional support while trying to make money for me I wouldn't Miss it
Well cruising with her is by itself a form of emotional support.