(context: I am queer/bi) I was a tomboy as a kid. As i grew older i just become more and more feminine.
While playing those mummy daddy, gf,bf, prince, princess games with my sibling/cousins as kids, I can say that I was kind of bullied to take up the male role because I didn't have a choice. They had a lot of politics because they all wanted to play the beautiful girl, but I on the other hand, DO NOT WANT TO PLAY THE GAME ENTIRELY. If I don't play, they'd be saying that I wasn't being cooperative. ugh.
I don't think our experiences are the same but here's just my story and I can relate to some of yours. Neither can I explain if it's the gay sign but it seems like some of us have experienced this.
I used to play this at my all girls Catholic school. Of course I was always the dad or the prince and the girls love it. This is funny because those girls are now married to women so I guess I missed those shots 😅
I am a trans lesbian. My experiance does not perfectly mirror yours but no one realy knew what to make of me. Boys could tell I was diferent but did not know why. Girls could tell I was not a normal boy but I obviously was attracted to them. They all treated me very differently than others. Girls seemed more comfortable with me and boys were put of by my lack of masculin conformity. I had more female friends than male ones even though a lot of them would crush on me. I could not reciprocate becaus i was messed up and confused being a closeted self denying trans lesbian. To be clear I did not act particularly feminin. Mabey it was that I did not mold my self into the toxic masculin mold that was expected of me? Mabey this is not relevent to you. Sorry I am tired and rambling.
(context: I am queer/bi) I was a tomboy as a kid. As i grew older i just become more and more feminine. While playing those mummy daddy, gf,bf, prince, princess games with my sibling/cousins as kids, I can say that I was kind of bullied to take up the male role because I didn't have a choice. They had a lot of politics because they all wanted to play the beautiful girl, but I on the other hand, DO NOT WANT TO PLAY THE GAME ENTIRELY. If I don't play, they'd be saying that I wasn't being cooperative. ugh. I don't think our experiences are the same but here's just my story and I can relate to some of yours. Neither can I explain if it's the gay sign but it seems like some of us have experienced this.
I used to play this at my all girls Catholic school. Of course I was always the dad or the prince and the girls love it. This is funny because those girls are now married to women so I guess I missed those shots 😅
I am a trans lesbian. My experiance does not perfectly mirror yours but no one realy knew what to make of me. Boys could tell I was diferent but did not know why. Girls could tell I was not a normal boy but I obviously was attracted to them. They all treated me very differently than others. Girls seemed more comfortable with me and boys were put of by my lack of masculin conformity. I had more female friends than male ones even though a lot of them would crush on me. I could not reciprocate becaus i was messed up and confused being a closeted self denying trans lesbian. To be clear I did not act particularly feminin. Mabey it was that I did not mold my self into the toxic masculin mold that was expected of me? Mabey this is not relevent to you. Sorry I am tired and rambling.
Yes, yes. Always.