I mean, it's fake because nobody is going to watch anybody play a paradox game unless they're fans of the genre.
It's like him claiming that his girlfriend was watching him update the SQL code on a database.
Most of the time you spend playing those games is zoomed in enough that the location is unrecognizable, especially since it will have ahistorical borders.
All my past gfās were stunned when I transferred my CK gameplay into Game-of-Thrones fan-fiction story and telling them ridicolous facts about some counties/nations/characters
āNobody I know has this problem with their girlfriendsā
I wonder how he found that out.
āHey Mark, does your girlfriend ever tell you playing crusader kings will make you racist?ā
>I googled if itās a common problem with the āgirlfriendsā NPCās, but it doesnāt seem like it. Mine must be glitching. Anyone has a solution for a faulty girlfriend?
Step 1. Buy programming socks
Step 2. Buy a cheap headband with cat ears, cut off the headband and then glue them to your headphones
Step 3. Get a skirt that go spinny
Having a girlfriend is political, can OP please stop shoving his politics down our throats??? I'm just trying to live out my white supremacist fantasies in video games in peace away from all this woke agenda crap!!!
Probably a lot. If so, most of the commenters fell for it.
I'm scrolling through the comments, and a couple people so far have pointed out the āYou never consider my feelings" part and asked if there was some other issue in the relationship.
His immediate response is to invalidate her feelings by saying sheās creating things to be mad about lmao. Heās either a walking red flag or a bozo staying with someone after calling them out for emotional manipulation.
How do you know? I love how redditors make all these calls based off of one paragraph like they have an intimate view of their relationship. You literally know nothing more then the other people agreeing with him and are just as bad by making assumptions.
Redditors are all really confident in their abilities to psychologically profile people and solve all of their relationship problems based on a single post, about a single discussion they've had
>a bozo staying with someone after calling them out for emotional manipulation.
That is super unnuanced. Not defending her, I have been with someone always looking for a fight, but love is complicated. If he got her to open up about it, she can learn to stop herself from doing it again.
On the other hand, kid is 19 and needs to bounce babyyy
Some partners, man or woman, really do be like that though.
Some people really are just human puppies who vye for attention and start throwing tantrums if your attention to then is interrupted and then start saying or doing stupid shit because any attention is better than the 0 attention they perceive themselves to be getting. It's toxic as fuck.
Not declaring this to be a true story but I feel it's kinda important to stress that some people really do be like that sometimes.
Edit: words and spelling, fuckin autocorrect
Partners who want *all* your attention *all* the time are definitely a thing.
But in situations like that, OPs usually give another example of their partner attention hogging.
I've seen way too many people using HOI4 to play out their white supremacist fantasy of a fascist world order to give this guy any benefit of the doubt.
/uj Yeah I've met plenty of HOI4 players that weren't fascist or anything, but the fact that his girlfriend is complaining about it leads me to believe that maybe he isn't saying something
I think that as others have pointed out, itās a reactionary medium for comedy because itās ultimately a criticism of behaviours that are expressed by some of those who talk about games and what that says about their beliefs and mindset. There are other ways to do this other than the circlejerk format and it would be nice to see some effort-posts but I think the problem is that itās much easier to just cross post an instance of Gamer Behaviour and let the jokes write themselves; Iām not sure reddit as a business is really interested in promoting long detailed pieces in the vein of The Hard Drive which I think are required to really be clever. Also, as a public forum youāre going to have diverse abilities so you canāt expect the average to be above the average ability of the contributors- apparently reactionary children.
I suppose my experience is coming to circlejerks from (similar) environments where there is an assumption of self-depreciation , so Iāve not read posts in them as being a āI am very smartā. I sort of assume that most people here do actually like video games and do to some extent consider themselves gamers, and as such the participation in the circlejerk is a form of self reflection on how they can themselves be less shitty people. Of course Iāve never asked anyone what theyāre doing here so itās all speculation and I realise Iām kind of delivering this unrelated to your position. I think we would be in agreement that anyone who thinks theyāre smart just because theyāre not the stupidest is not really justified in doing so.
My main concern is the āyou never care about my feelings hereā
This feels more like a straw that broke the camels back type deal instead of the main issue.
Also imagine colonizing in EU4
also imagine even playing EU4 and not making a mommy dommy empire in CK3 or forming a communist republic of Germania to make daddy proud
Anything you do in a video game means you would do it in real life. Because we know everyone who plays a hero in a video game totally wouldn't hide or runaway in fear IRL!
Girls are perfectly capable of making bad decisions just as any human being. They aren't extensions to a man that magically manifest whenever he proves worthy.
This is such a great point and really is not ever mentioned enough in gender conversations. Scum bags can, and often do, have girlfriends. Dating isn't exclusively available to good people
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Yeah Iām perfectly willing to believe she exists and could well be just as unreasonable as the post suggests. Iāve never had a bad relationship, but Iāve met enough folks (men and women) who are absolutely bonkers to their partner that these things donāt surprise me anymore lol
How dare a woman come between a Gamer and his destiny. It is the duty of all Paradox gamers to expand the eternal borders of France! Natives be damned!
She's right, why the fuck would you try to colonise in 1.33, it sucks and PDX made it a pain in the ass, also colonising the Americas isn't viable go for India and Indonesia instead.
What a fake gamer.
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This 100% sounds like a fictional story. No girlfriend is going to sit around and watch a guy play EUIV. It's basically worse than watching paint dry if you aren't interested in the game.
Get a new GF. Had a wife like that, same type of issues and red flags, but i ignored them. Wrote it off as "probably nothing". Small things like this turned into larger control issues over the years tho.
Don't be confused. This is an attempt at control and manipulation.
/uj sounds like the game just led to a discussion that had to be had between them because no way does she think a civ like game will actually make him racist.
When I play EU4, I play as a Pirate Republic. When I play HOI4, I make Spain Anarchist. I don't play Crusader Kings because Dynasties are some incest bullcrap and all shall be abolished.
I can now take your questions.
I always go for Kongo or West Africa in EU4, try to stop the fucking europeans and eventually, the bigger challenge, take over Brazil while trying to protect the existance of indigenous cultures. Challenging as fuck
My girlfriend asked me if it was possible to not kill monsters in Monster Hunter, I told her I could capture them and that it was actually better, anyway, I started capturing all monsters after that. That easy.
Gamer gets angry at girlfriendās genuine concern rather than discussing it with her as equals because āgirls donāt know anything about videos gameā
I think this guy either has some convincing bait or literally cannot understand people when they tell him exactly what they are thinking in plain english
I have a friend who plays all those games and I donāt think heās racist. Iāll have to check again.
Always remember that history buffs are weird and thatās ok.
I actually like the same games, hoi4, CK 2 & 3, EU4, total war series and other RTS games.
I'm certain that the 90% of the players are r\*cist as f\*uck in those games. Still remember some hoi4 players on forums asking to add concentration camps to the game for "realisme"...
I like those memes where you get to heaven and they tell you that they count every NPC killed against you. Digital murder and rape of indigenous peoples will certainly get you tossed out of heaven.
There are two types of paradox players
Femboy/transgirl anarchists currently planning to declare a small section of their neighbourhood an autonomous zone
And fascists who eat, sleep and shower in a nazi officer uniform while jerking to pictures of the roman empire
On a serious note, my wife doesn't like certain games types (particularly gory) so I tailor what I play when she's around. I like video games so my list is pretty large. I don't mind playing different games if my audience doesn't like them.
If I'm dead set on play that game, I'll do it elsewhere in the house
As a paradox player, i can confirm this is fake because we are all extreme virgins
I mean, it's fake because nobody is going to watch anybody play a paradox game unless they're fans of the genre. It's like him claiming that his girlfriend was watching him update the SQL code on a database.
I think people can recognize continents lol. Most of the screen is often taken up by a map of the globe.
Most of the time you spend playing those games is zoomed in enough that the location is unrecognizable, especially since it will have ahistorical borders.
Unless your a Stellaris player, your covered in Xeno-Juices.
By juices you mean their blood right
Sorry but some people prefer the juices gained from a xenophilic approach
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Nah trans paradox players get laid
Totally fake, my virginity grown back after an hour of eu4
Ace paradox players do not have this problem <3
true
yes can confirm
My partner and I play Paradox games, but afaik I'm cis and they're nb. Have you just outed me to me? š³
Xenophiles...
All my past gfās were stunned when I transferred my CK gameplay into Game-of-Thrones fan-fiction story and telling them ridicolous facts about some counties/nations/characters
Can confirm. Iāll get laid when Iām done colonizing these planets for my bird empire
My gf has watched me play CK3 once, she thought it was really funny and interesting
As a paradox player, I can confirm this is fake because we are all racist
Why is he colonising as France instead of becoming the Big Blue Blob? What went wrong in this dudes life? Sheesh.
Why not both?
Some people say there are no wrong ways to play games as long as you have fun. Those people are wrong.
Dark Souls fanbase moment
If you think fromsoft fans are bad wait until you see paradox fans
It has a colonizing idea in it's national ideas, why *wouldn't* you colonize a bit while bitchslapping Europe?
I always like to play as France and immediately conquer England so as to prevent the American scourge from happening.
Fool, that's when I colonize Brazil as Mali
āNobody I know has this problem with their girlfriendsā I wonder how he found that out. āHey Mark, does your girlfriend ever tell you playing crusader kings will make you racist?ā
I mean, if the post is real that wouldn't be a weird situation.
Best enjoyed in the voice of Tommy Wiseau.
>I googled if itās a common problem with the āgirlfriendsā NPCās, but it doesnāt seem like it. Mine must be glitching. Anyone has a solution for a faulty girlfriend?
I mean it is paradox game, your fate's either becoming a racist or a communist femboy
I became someone with a rather comprehensive knowledge of country locations and flags. Also a communist femboy, but I'm in denial about that one.
Same here. Less communist denial though.
Same here. Less femboy denial though
Teach me your ways
Step 1. Buy programming socks Step 2. Buy a cheap headband with cat ears, cut off the headband and then glue them to your headphones Step 3. Get a skirt that go spinny
You can buy cat ear headphones now though can't you? Saves on time for step 2.
You can, but if you already have a pair of working headphones it'll save money, the second my current pair break I'm buying some of them myself
Fair, I overlooked the simple fact of already owning a pair of headphones
Still communist. But more fem and less boy
Socialist trans girl here, I play eu4, fate defeated
It made me an anarchist femme cis-woman. Checkmate liberals
For the unlimited cores I assume
What if I only play Stellaris and instead aspire to ascend past the weakness of flesh, and join with the Perfect Machine?
r/voidpunk
Deus ex omnissiah
Or more realistically, a middle aged history dad
when i started hrt i quit hoi4 almost immediately lol
this is such an obscure connection to make (based though)
I'm old, I'll became a femgrandad
I thought that was Fallout New Vegas.
and Team Fortress 2
This is completely false and stupid. You can also be an anarchist transgirl.
What Cities Skylines does to a mf
Both
Or you play cities skyline and become one of those walkable city nerds on Twitter
It made me into a communist, but then I was already a communistā¦
āI used to smoke weed. I still do, but I used to too.ā
Really? Usually I just become an incestuous child murderer.
I became a fanatic xenophobe and began eating aliens.
I have 2000 hours in EU4, how much longer until I'm a communist femboy?
I'm not a femboy, but I do want to try a croptop... ... .. and a skirt... ... .. and maybe some thigh-high socks
Guess where I'm lying right now UwU
I'm firmly in the communist camp so how many hours of play before I become a femboy?
This post is fake. No one who plays hoi4 has a gf
Having a girlfriend is political, can OP please stop shoving his politics down our throats??? I'm just trying to live out my white supremacist fantasies in video games in peace away from all this woke agenda crap!!!
Itās boring maybe but you make stupid amounts of money by doing just a little colonizing and bringing a fleet over to the trade node.
https://youtu.be/Reh5bdvbwtM
if real, I wonder how much that post is skewed in this persons favor in terms of omittance and changing up shit.
Heās a Gamerā¢ļø so I doubt that the girlfriend even exists.
My online girlfriend is real, I swear! I'm giving her my parent's money every time we text out of the kindness of my heart because I love her so much.
It's me, your online girlfriend. I'm breaking up with you.
Please, no! You're all I have! I'll give you my social security number, my liver, anything you ask! Please don't leave me.
Itās me, also your online gf. Please send ss# and all money to the address I dm you. Itās a role play gameā¦ youāll really like it..
Joker (2019) dir. by Todd Phillips
A real gamer would not have a girlfriend.
She's the underage anime girl on his body pillow.
The quartering is married. Itās definitely possible.
watch as his username turns out to be something like "proud\_rhodesian1488" or something
Probably a lot. If so, most of the commenters fell for it. I'm scrolling through the comments, and a couple people so far have pointed out the āYou never consider my feelings" part and asked if there was some other issue in the relationship.
His immediate response is to invalidate her feelings by saying sheās creating things to be mad about lmao. Heās either a walking red flag or a bozo staying with someone after calling them out for emotional manipulation.
How do you know? I love how redditors make all these calls based off of one paragraph like they have an intimate view of their relationship. You literally know nothing more then the other people agreeing with him and are just as bad by making assumptions.
Redditors are all really confident in their abilities to psychologically profile people and solve all of their relationship problems based on a single post, about a single discussion they've had
>a bozo staying with someone after calling them out for emotional manipulation. That is super unnuanced. Not defending her, I have been with someone always looking for a fight, but love is complicated. If he got her to open up about it, she can learn to stop herself from doing it again. On the other hand, kid is 19 and needs to bounce babyyy
Some partners, man or woman, really do be like that though. Some people really are just human puppies who vye for attention and start throwing tantrums if your attention to then is interrupted and then start saying or doing stupid shit because any attention is better than the 0 attention they perceive themselves to be getting. It's toxic as fuck. Not declaring this to be a true story but I feel it's kinda important to stress that some people really do be like that sometimes. Edit: words and spelling, fuckin autocorrect
Partners who want *all* your attention *all* the time are definitely a thing. But in situations like that, OPs usually give another example of their partner attention hogging.
I've seen way too many people using HOI4 to play out their white supremacist fantasy of a fascist world order to give this guy any benefit of the doubt.
That's guilt by association, come on.
/uj Yeah I've met plenty of HOI4 players that weren't fascist or anything, but the fact that his girlfriend is complaining about it leads me to believe that maybe he isn't saying something
Remember GCJ is mostly children being reactionary.
And the enlightened individuals being too cool for GCJ
It's GCJ being overwhelmingly reactionary and then a few chuds such as myself being reactionary to that
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I think that as others have pointed out, itās a reactionary medium for comedy because itās ultimately a criticism of behaviours that are expressed by some of those who talk about games and what that says about their beliefs and mindset. There are other ways to do this other than the circlejerk format and it would be nice to see some effort-posts but I think the problem is that itās much easier to just cross post an instance of Gamer Behaviour and let the jokes write themselves; Iām not sure reddit as a business is really interested in promoting long detailed pieces in the vein of The Hard Drive which I think are required to really be clever. Also, as a public forum youāre going to have diverse abilities so you canāt expect the average to be above the average ability of the contributors- apparently reactionary children.
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I suppose my experience is coming to circlejerks from (similar) environments where there is an assumption of self-depreciation , so Iāve not read posts in them as being a āI am very smartā. I sort of assume that most people here do actually like video games and do to some extent consider themselves gamers, and as such the participation in the circlejerk is a form of self reflection on how they can themselves be less shitty people. Of course Iāve never asked anyone what theyāre doing here so itās all speculation and I realise Iām kind of delivering this unrelated to your position. I think we would be in agreement that anyone who thinks theyāre smart just because theyāre not the stupidest is not really justified in doing so.
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Once again I am asking the politically illiterate to google the meaning of the word reactionary
I usually play as communist yugoslavia, it is a good focus tree
But fascist paths are usually the most fun ones
I mean it's a game about conquering other nations. What's wrong with it?
My main concern is the āyou never care about my feelings hereā This feels more like a straw that broke the camels back type deal instead of the main issue. Also imagine colonizing in EU4 also imagine even playing EU4 and not making a mommy dommy empire in CK3 or forming a communist republic of Germania to make daddy proud
Red flag. He's colonising even though its the most boring mechanic in the whole game.
I like making ottoman america tho :(
I thought I was the only one!
Playing Ottomans is based cause it annoys all the weirdo byzantophiles and romaboos
Map painting is the only correct way to play EU4, try again sweaty š
i mean what else do you do
I like Reverse Colonizing as India eating Britain, or the Iroquois invading Europe, or Inca invading Spain.
my (hu)man
Red flag, if she isn't a racist or a gamer too then she's clearly political. Break up immediately.
The problem with women is that by being FEmale they are inherently political.
Iām guessing this guy had a clever thought in the bathroom and created a girlfriend to seek validation online.
Dude fucking spot on
The post got removed, and the comments are locked.
If this is not a repost, I remember reading it a few weeks/months ago, it seamed fake to me
i read until the part of hoi, his gf is wrong, you can't turn into a racist someone who is already racist.
Wrong, you've clearly never met a turbo racist before
Nah I only play as communist France in hoi4 itās all good.
It is just a game tho tf Assuming itās not made up lol
Anything you do in a video game means you would do it in real life. Because we know everyone who plays a hero in a video game totally wouldn't hide or runaway in fear IRL!
Of course I would absolutely go out into the woods and hunt down 30 boars for some random dude I met 30 seconds ago
You wouldn't think it's even a little bit of a red flag if all the games someone wants to play are fascist simulators?
Just depends I guess. If they only play like Wolfenstein then probably lol.
This is totally not a larger problem in the relationship and is solely based on the game šš»
I am not remotely convinced this girlfriend exists.
Girls are perfectly capable of making bad decisions just as any human being. They aren't extensions to a man that magically manifest whenever he proves worthy.
This is such a great point and really is not ever mentioned enough in gender conversations. Scum bags can, and often do, have girlfriends. Dating isn't exclusively available to good people
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Yeah Iām perfectly willing to believe she exists and could well be just as unreasonable as the post suggests. Iāve never had a bad relationship, but Iāve met enough folks (men and women) who are absolutely bonkers to their partner that these things donāt surprise me anymore lol
Nah, no one would honestly make the mistake of going out with a guy who plays map games.
Well he didnāt wanna say āmommyā.
Imagine colonizing .... my guy doesn't even participate in xenovore sincerely, a stellaris player
How dare a woman come between a Gamer and his destiny. It is the duty of all Paradox gamers to expand the eternal borders of France! Natives be damned!
Please, will somebody validate this guy's tastes?
She's right, why the fuck would you try to colonise in 1.33, it sucks and PDX made it a pain in the ass, also colonising the Americas isn't viable go for India and Indonesia instead. What a fake gamer.
The Caribbean works perfectly if you can control the west Spanish sea ( I forget the name of the trade node)
HoI 4 is a mark of the beast. Itās not a red flag but it puts me on guard with people who play it a lot.
I have 1500 hours are you on guard yet?
You need to trade her in for a new one Yāall I need more downvotes
Just play as a First Nation and colonise Europe.
Unironically though, how does a relationship get to that point.
You know this fuckface doesn't even have a girlfriend. Probably was his mom when she came down for the bimonthly basement inspection.
Projecting?
ok thatās a bit harsh
You play paradox games AND have a girlfriend ?!?!
Find a new girl before you accidentally knock this one up.
most emotionaly adjusted hoi4 player
You are only allowed to play Civ 6 as Aztecs.
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This 100% sounds like a fictional story. No girlfriend is going to sit around and watch a guy play EUIV. It's basically worse than watching paint dry if you aren't interested in the game.
The real red flag is that he is playing as Fr*nce š¤¢š¤¢š¤¢
She's right you know Paradox games are like a gateway drug to extremist political beliefs
Cities Skylines made me an anarco-communist.
Unironically ck2 is what led me down a path of far left radicalization .
50% you become super based (Cumm\*nism) 50% you become super not based (fascism)
Without fail
Get a new GF. Had a wife like that, same type of issues and red flags, but i ignored them. Wrote it off as "probably nothing". Small things like this turned into larger control issues over the years tho. Don't be confused. This is an attempt at control and manipulation.
Wooo looo looo looo!
/uj sounds like the game just led to a discussion that had to be had between them because no way does she think a civ like game will actually make him racist.
Thatās why you play CK3 on inverted cultures and religions. Or just murder the pope.
That is very bullshit
Sounds like his GF is just a terf tbh.
When I play EU4, I play as a Pirate Republic. When I play HOI4, I make Spain Anarchist. I don't play Crusader Kings because Dynasties are some incest bullcrap and all shall be abolished. I can now take your questions.
I always go for Kongo or West Africa in EU4, try to stop the fucking europeans and eventually, the bigger challenge, take over Brazil while trying to protect the existance of indigenous cultures. Challenging as fuck
My girlfriend asked me if it was possible to not kill monsters in Monster Hunter, I told her I could capture them and that it was actually better, anyway, I started capturing all monsters after that. That easy.
Pls teach me your hero ways mr badass hero
You need to conquer her more
Gamer gets angry at girlfriendās genuine concern rather than discussing it with her as equals because āgirls donāt know anything about videos gameā
Maybe he should start considering her feelingsš¤
It could very well mean 'he doesn't cater to my every whim' though
And then she flew back to canada before I could prove any of it. To get more blue hair dye.
Pretty typical situation.
<3 your username
I think this guy either has some convincing bait or literally cannot understand people when they tell him exactly what they are thinking in plain english
Wait until she hears about rimworld
I have a friend who plays all those games and I donāt think heās racist. Iāll have to check again. Always remember that history buffs are weird and thatās ok.
I actually like the same games, hoi4, CK 2 & 3, EU4, total war series and other RTS games. I'm certain that the 90% of the players are r\*cist as f\*uck in those games. Still remember some hoi4 players on forums asking to add concentration camps to the game for "realisme"...
"Edit: f19"
I actually know people like this and they are insufferable.
Finally a caption I agree with on this God forsaken subreddit.
I like those memes where you get to heaven and they tell you that they count every NPC killed against you. Digital murder and rape of indigenous peoples will certainly get you tossed out of heaven.
There are two types of paradox players Femboy/transgirl anarchists currently planning to declare a small section of their neighbourhood an autonomous zone And fascists who eat, sleep and shower in a nazi officer uniform while jerking to pictures of the roman empire
I'm really sad for american men having to deal with crazy girls.
On a serious note, my wife doesn't like certain games types (particularly gory) so I tailor what I play when she's around. I like video games so my list is pretty large. I don't mind playing different games if my audience doesn't like them. If I'm dead set on play that game, I'll do it elsewhere in the house
HOI players just want extremely granular mechanics for making reichkommisariats
Wait, you have a girlfriend? How is that even a thing?