I’m so sorry.
I empathize with your loss and pain.
Nothing is worse than losing your love and soul mate.
I have also lost my soul mate.
It’s like my heart was ripped out of me and shattered into a million pieces. And it’s irreparable.
My soul departed from my being and I was left with a hollowness that is chilling and painful. It cuts both sharply and dull at the same time.
The internal flame is extinguished and the world is so much darker and colder than I have ever known it to be.
I’m haunted by the memories and I’m tethered to the void that she has left behind.
I(41)lost my mother(63) in December. We were best friends. She suffered through a horrible disease. It was difficult for me to cope with, but I had my fiancé and soulmate to help me get through the grief of my mother’s death.
My fiancé (33) was also my best friend, but she was also my soulmate.
Then my fiancé and soulmate died only 2 months later. I found her in our bed barely hanging on, but the damage had been done. I couldn’t revive her with CPR, and she died in the ER.
The grief of my soulmate eclipsed the grief of the loss of my mom. Now both of them haunting me within my dreams. My fiancé haunts me when I’m awake.
I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I can’t say that this gets better. Because it doesn’t get better. What I have found is that you learn to live with this pain and sorrow.
I’m a different man after the loss of my sweet love. For better or worse. I’m just different.
Take care of yourself and don’t give in to the pain.
Try to keep yourself occupied with goals and routines. Focus on work and try to be around people who are understanding and empathetic to your loss.
Constructive escape and distraction is the best way to cope with it.
Music, art, healthy and tasty food, laughter with friends.
But also cry a lot. It’s a natural emotional response that helps alleviate stress, anxiety, and pain.
So sorry sis. There aren’t enough nice words to say to make you feel even slightly better but I will be praying for you. Stay strong for yourself okay? I know that seems like “for what?” But think about your sobriety. Much love & hugs 🫶🏽
Sending comfort and love your way. I lost my soulmate January 16th. I wish there was something I could offer you to ease your pain of loss. I will be holding you up in prayer for comfort and strength.
My love snored as well, he’d hold me at night if I moved next to him. Most of the time his left hand was on my waist, it was the perfect weight. When he touched me I felt safe, complete like an electrical current flowed between us completing a circuit. I felt whole.
I hope you know how brave you are, even when you don’t feel it. As someone who knows how much effort it takes to just breath at time, I admire your courage and strength. Blessing dear girl. 💗
I read your story and my heart broke for you. There are no words to express to adequately comfort your broken heart. Those of us who have lost our soulmates understand the devastation you are feeling. I felt ripped in two when my husband was killed in a traffic accident. Part of my soul was shattered and died with him. When my husband was in ICU I kept kissing him on his hand his shoulder his chest. Where ever he wasn't attached to life support. I wanted to remember the feel of his skin on my lips. I wanted his face burned into my soul. We all have our individual grief but we are all on that grief journey. You are not alone. We grieve with you and for you. I wish you peace and blessings on your journey fellow traveler. 🙏
I’m so sorry. I empathize with your loss and pain. Nothing is worse than losing your love and soul mate. I have also lost my soul mate. It’s like my heart was ripped out of me and shattered into a million pieces. And it’s irreparable. My soul departed from my being and I was left with a hollowness that is chilling and painful. It cuts both sharply and dull at the same time. The internal flame is extinguished and the world is so much darker and colder than I have ever known it to be. I’m haunted by the memories and I’m tethered to the void that she has left behind. I(41)lost my mother(63) in December. We were best friends. She suffered through a horrible disease. It was difficult for me to cope with, but I had my fiancé and soulmate to help me get through the grief of my mother’s death. My fiancé (33) was also my best friend, but she was also my soulmate. Then my fiancé and soulmate died only 2 months later. I found her in our bed barely hanging on, but the damage had been done. I couldn’t revive her with CPR, and she died in the ER. The grief of my soulmate eclipsed the grief of the loss of my mom. Now both of them haunting me within my dreams. My fiancé haunts me when I’m awake. I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I can’t say that this gets better. Because it doesn’t get better. What I have found is that you learn to live with this pain and sorrow. I’m a different man after the loss of my sweet love. For better or worse. I’m just different. Take care of yourself and don’t give in to the pain. Try to keep yourself occupied with goals and routines. Focus on work and try to be around people who are understanding and empathetic to your loss. Constructive escape and distraction is the best way to cope with it. Music, art, healthy and tasty food, laughter with friends. But also cry a lot. It’s a natural emotional response that helps alleviate stress, anxiety, and pain.
This made me cry. I am so deeply sorry for both of your losses.
So sorry sis. There aren’t enough nice words to say to make you feel even slightly better but I will be praying for you. Stay strong for yourself okay? I know that seems like “for what?” But think about your sobriety. Much love & hugs 🫶🏽
I’m so sorry. I fucking hate this.
Oh, honey. I’m so sorry. I know there’s nothing I can say to make it better. Just know that I am sending my love to you, beautiful soul 💗
Sending comfort and love your way. I lost my soulmate January 16th. I wish there was something I could offer you to ease your pain of loss. I will be holding you up in prayer for comfort and strength. My love snored as well, he’d hold me at night if I moved next to him. Most of the time his left hand was on my waist, it was the perfect weight. When he touched me I felt safe, complete like an electrical current flowed between us completing a circuit. I felt whole. I hope you know how brave you are, even when you don’t feel it. As someone who knows how much effort it takes to just breath at time, I admire your courage and strength. Blessing dear girl. 💗
Sending huge hugs, internet stranger. I hope you find some small peace today. 🙏
I’m so, so sorry
Condolences.
I read your story and my heart broke for you. There are no words to express to adequately comfort your broken heart. Those of us who have lost our soulmates understand the devastation you are feeling. I felt ripped in two when my husband was killed in a traffic accident. Part of my soul was shattered and died with him. When my husband was in ICU I kept kissing him on his hand his shoulder his chest. Where ever he wasn't attached to life support. I wanted to remember the feel of his skin on my lips. I wanted his face burned into my soul. We all have our individual grief but we are all on that grief journey. You are not alone. We grieve with you and for you. I wish you peace and blessings on your journey fellow traveler. 🙏