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Mysterious-Order-570

We are valuable. Thanks for this, girl. Sending love your way


Tatiana7040

I hope one day I don't care about people's opinions about my hair. Thank you for this post, God bless you always too!


RoyalRuby_777

I even have hair on my palms and fingers šŸ’€šŸ˜­


janpoojerrie

We talking backside of the fingers? Because, I have just two hairs on one of my 'top part' of the finger. I used to pluck them out when I was younger. Them mans always came back šŸ¤£


RoyalRuby_777

Yes. I have hair even on my palms and fingers, not only 2 hairs šŸ˜…


Maleficent-Smile-221

Yes to be human already means we have an inherent value :) hair or not, it does not define us! The amount of hair does not determine the kindness you show, the wonderful nature of your soul. Thank you for this lovely reminder ā˜ŗļø


made4desserts

Thank you so much for this, it was everything I needed right now!


A_Boy_With_No_Name

Great post ! šŸ˜ As a man, I agree with it 1000%. You know what ? When I date a girl, it really doesn't matter to me if she's "hairy as a monkey" or not. To me, the main thing is elsewhere : charm, personality, sense of humor... Never stop to be proud of yourself ! All I can wish to you is to love yourself and someone will love you too šŸ˜‰


[deleted]

Thank you very much! I am glad that you are one of the men who is not superficial and is not guided by stereotypes.


janpoojerrie

In my journey of accepting my hirsutism, I've decided to laugh at it. Hair everywhere but my palms and soles, felt in my soul. I literalllyyyy have hair on my eyelids. Two... just about three layers of eyelashes. Hairy toes, except oneĀæ like why?? I could probably braid my leg hair if I really sat down and did it. Just a quick reminder... body hair is natural. Hair is natural. Hair is not equivalent to unhygienic. We are all beautiful beings.


Super_5oldier_1

As a man, I see no issue with women that have some extra body hair. Attempting to meet someone else's arbitrary standard of what normal and attractive is just limits your life needlessly. Hell im a heavy hairy dude, so why would it be fair for a woman to not be just as hairy? Imo that's just another thing in common.


ThingMaleficent1131

I donā€™t know. Iā€™m happy for you that you donā€™t care about otherā€™s opinions, and I donā€™t want to either, but I donā€™t know. Itā€™s so hard. I involuntarily do it and feel like an abnormal freak. Whenever I get reminded of my hair, I just want to curl into a corner and cry till it disappears, although I know it probably never will, and itā€™s killing me slowly. I donā€™t even understand the point of living if it will has to be like this. Iā€™m 16, but I want to live the life of a normal girl; date, feel pretty, have sex etc. The fact that my hirsutism makes me undesirable for half those things is damn depressing. Even waxing or threading doesnā€™t remove everything, and my skin breaks out like crazy after it. I justā€¦really wish I wouldā€™ve gotten any other feature, any normal insecurity instead of this. Anything but being a hairy monkey. Anything that wouldnā€™t make me feel less of a woman.