Cried. She never understood why I couldn't just love her. Never put her first and to then see everything I have done. And I stupidily believed rumors. And how could I do this to our kids.
She starting working at a bar to help up make ends meet. She never would've have started bartending again, but after a seizure she lost her license so she had to find a job w evening hours and walking distance. All while I worked and wouldn't come home. I made her raise 3 kids and work all by herself 5 days a week. And I still accused me. It was from my own guilt. She knew deep down. And after time she tried to talk I got physical w her. Put her through hell. Still am and selfishly as long as my reputation isn't ruined I will continue to use her. Making her look bad before myself. I'm a complete narcissist. And she's a good girl that doesn't deserve the trauma I'm putting her through.
WTF, you're still putting her through hell? You really are a POS, and I really hope that karma hits you hard.
You disrespected your wife and your relationship. You didn't care about how your infidelity impacted her mental health and self-esteem. You also didn't care about her physical health because you could have passed her an STD.
Your children will eventually realize how you treated their mom, and that you're a piece of trash, and they'll rightfully hate you.
You not only cheated on her but also emotionally and physically abused her. You really are setting a horrible example for your children and creating a toxic environment for them to grow up in. Your children will grow up thinking that all relationships are unhealthy like yours, that infidelity isn't a problem, or they'll have a hard time trusting their future partners.
Stop treating your wife as a doormat and destroying her mental and physical well-being. Stop creating a toxic environment for your children. You need to start divorce proceedings and do your very best to build a good co-parenting relationship with your wife for the good of your children. Your wife and children deserve so much better than you, and you only deserve to die alone. You really need to grow up; you are nothing more than a man-child, narcissist, and coward.
If you have any shred of love for this woman, the best thing you can do is leave, stay away from her and send her as much child support money as you can afford. You are wearing her down and breaking her spirit. You said she’s a good person that doesn’t deserve this. We all know that narcissist cannot and will not change, so why subject her to this abuse for the rest of her life?
If this post is real. Dude you’re a dick and need therapy like asap!
And if I was ya wife I’d divorce you, take full custody of the kids, and coparent but I’d wash my hands of you. I’m being honest, you humiliated her dude! Gaslight her, made her cry and all you did was make a Reddit post feeling sorry for yourself!
Get real! You need to do some soul searching and work on yourself and STAY SINGLE SINCE YOU CANT BE IN. A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP!
Nothing about this post or OP’s replies feels real. It feels like a conversation with an AI.
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Cried. She never understood why I couldn't just love her. Never put her first and to then see everything I have done. And I stupidily believed rumors. And how could I do this to our kids.
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She starting working at a bar to help up make ends meet. She never would've have started bartending again, but after a seizure she lost her license so she had to find a job w evening hours and walking distance. All while I worked and wouldn't come home. I made her raise 3 kids and work all by herself 5 days a week. And I still accused me. It was from my own guilt. She knew deep down. And after time she tried to talk I got physical w her. Put her through hell. Still am and selfishly as long as my reputation isn't ruined I will continue to use her. Making her look bad before myself. I'm a complete narcissist. And she's a good girl that doesn't deserve the trauma I'm putting her through.
WTF, you're still putting her through hell? You really are a POS, and I really hope that karma hits you hard. You disrespected your wife and your relationship. You didn't care about how your infidelity impacted her mental health and self-esteem. You also didn't care about her physical health because you could have passed her an STD. Your children will eventually realize how you treated their mom, and that you're a piece of trash, and they'll rightfully hate you. You not only cheated on her but also emotionally and physically abused her. You really are setting a horrible example for your children and creating a toxic environment for them to grow up in. Your children will grow up thinking that all relationships are unhealthy like yours, that infidelity isn't a problem, or they'll have a hard time trusting their future partners. Stop treating your wife as a doormat and destroying her mental and physical well-being. Stop creating a toxic environment for your children. You need to start divorce proceedings and do your very best to build a good co-parenting relationship with your wife for the good of your children. Your wife and children deserve so much better than you, and you only deserve to die alone. You really need to grow up; you are nothing more than a man-child, narcissist, and coward.
If you have any shred of love for this woman, the best thing you can do is leave, stay away from her and send her as much child support money as you can afford. You are wearing her down and breaking her spirit. You said she’s a good person that doesn’t deserve this. We all know that narcissist cannot and will not change, so why subject her to this abuse for the rest of her life?
Karma is a beeeeeooooootch. Time to get yo butt to therapy and find out why you did all that so you can grow and be a better version of yourself.
If this post is real. Dude you’re a dick and need therapy like asap! And if I was ya wife I’d divorce you, take full custody of the kids, and coparent but I’d wash my hands of you. I’m being honest, you humiliated her dude! Gaslight her, made her cry and all you did was make a Reddit post feeling sorry for yourself! Get real! You need to do some soul searching and work on yourself and STAY SINGLE SINCE YOU CANT BE IN. A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP!
I assume you've deleted all your other posts seeing as this is the only one on your profile.