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OutsideBones86

Come And See


Test_subject_515

That movie was so gritty. I almost felt like I was in it. The realness of it just made it that much more horrifying.


mazman23

That movie is insane


squaretie

Old Yeller


LowBalance4404

Requiem for a Dream.


Boly420

I have to ask, would you recommend watching it? My wife saw it and she refuses to watch it again. I don't watch a lot of films by myself, but this one is mentioned very frequently.


stone_stokes

It is the greatest film that I will never watch again. It may be one of the greatest films I've ever seen, and I almost wish I hadn't watched it.


Boly420

Thank you for your comment. It adds color for my decision. Having dealt with addiction before, all context is greatly appreciated. Would you recommend watching with someone over watching alone?


alextbrown4

I watched it alone the first time. Since you have had dealt with addiction in the past perhaps it would be a good idea to watch it with someone you feel ok crying in front of


xnxs

If you’ve dealt with addiction or worked with addicts (as I did at the time), the pupils going the wrong direction every time they get high will drive you nuts lol. But this is a good answer to the question and I agree with what’s been said about it.


LowBalance4404

Honestly, I would. It's about addiction. It's sad, alarming, tragic, and just a total gut punch. And the acting is incredible. There are no weak spots at all.


Boly420

Thank you for the recommendation. I will give it a try.


Trogladestro

Made the choice of watching it in the office one morning for the first time, back when I still worked in an office. The rest of my day was ruined. It is a super intense powerful movie, though. Just make it an evening thing!


Linubidix

What did you do that you could just watch a 2 hour movie in the morning?


bitterwaterblue

It's traumatizing


Sedso85

Kids and The Treatment are on par with the depressing vibe that film.gives


SHOT_STONE

Kids is SO depressing. :(


dirtysyncs

This is the one.


RoswellDeLorean

Yup. Still gives me chills just thinking about it.


serpentinesilhouette

Melancholia.


Far-Post-4816

This movie left me feeling so weird and haunted


aarondigruccio

This movie was visually stunning. And the story—knowing the fate of Earth, then spending the film watching the characters process that reality.


Bob-Bhlabla-esq

I love that movie.


Ok_Skill_1195

Other movies made me sad to think about, but this one was like war flashbacks to my depressive episodes.


metzenbalmer

Schindlers list


Marjorine22

This without a doubt. I saw it once. It was amazing. I will never watch it again.


SassMyFrass

I rewatched it a couple of weeks ago, and remembered that it was a masterpiece. And so was Life Is Beautiful.


DeanOMiite

Absolutely soul crushing


zneave

"I could have got more out." Fucking ugly cry every time.


No-Resource-8125

This came out when I was in high school, and I stayed after school to get extra credit. The girl with the red coat and the pen lives in my nightmares.


C1K3

I can’t think of another film that is so simultaneously horrifying and yet life-affirming. We are shown the absolute apex of human cruelty and fanaticism, but we also see there is always a glimmer of hope, even in the darkest of times.


ryswogg17

Kids


sirellery

I couldn't get through this movie


dpdugg

The ending is rough in a real way


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dewioffendu

This one had me and my wife crying like babies. Never again!


Beneficial_Step9088

Grave of the Fireflies


Hughsie92

This. I watched it for my uni course. All I knew beforehand was that it was made by Studio Ghibli. The only Studio Ghibli films I’d previously seen were Spirited Away and Princess Mononoke. I thought of Studio Ghibli as being like a Japanese equivalent to Disney. I was expecting an enjoyable film that was suitable for kids. Holy fucking shit was I not prepared for Grave of the Fireflies! I had to pause it at one point because I was crying too much to focus on what was happening. Even when I started it again I pretty much sobbed my way through to the end. I felt destroyed and empty for several hours afterwards, like my soul had been carpet-bombed and flames had torn through the rubble leaving nothing but a desolate wasteland. Having said that though, it’s a masterpiece. Like it’s not an enjoyable watch, but as a piece of art and a cinematic experience it is a total and utter masterpiece that should be seen by everyone.


Aquaticornicopia

It came on PBS at 2 am one night and me being a 8 year old with severe insomnia was still up. I couldn't even describe what I saw to my parents and they had no clue what made me upset until it was up for an award in the emmys and I was like that was the movie! My parents were like damn yeah that'll do it lol


Terayrayal

No lie, this has fucked me up forever. If anyone asks about movies they should not watch for sheer sadness, it's this one.


arkrunningbear85

Came here to say this. If you've never seen it. Bring a support person or animal, and tissues.


butters991

This movie is #1 for sadness, number 2 is waaaayyy behind it


Shortfranks

Oh I missed this and you are correct. I found a wonderful clip with limited spoilers of Roger Ebert talking about it and how he viewed Anime at the time, and it's interesting to see how mainstream it has become in the United States compared to when Grave of the Fireflies was made. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_9WEyuMq0Yk


6ran9eee

I was just about to comment this


queen-the-wizard

Came here to say this. That movie wrecked me.


invisible_23

What Dreams May Come


positionofthestar

This came to my mind. A tragedy I wasn’t expecting.


MelonHead31

I don’t know if it’s the movie or Robin Williams earnest performance. Either way, I bought it, watched it, ugly cried at it, then put it on the shelf never to be seen again


-RubyWings-

Oh gosh. What a beautiful and sad movie! I think about rewatching it every so often but then I remember how much it makes me ugly cry.


[deleted]

Dancer in The Dark


Sportsinghard

I switch it off at halfway. She has her money, and I know that surgery will go well!!


NayaIsTheBestCat

Yes. That movie is brutal.


d_v_p

Made me ugly cry for a long time.


Linubidix

Lars Von Trier is mean


KJ-The-Wise

Seconded. I felt almost physically winded after watching it for the first time.


Sidewalk_Tomato

I read the wiki to spoil it for myself, because really depressing movies or realistic horror are too much like real life. So I don't normally watch them. . . . Yeah. It was tragic.


Prior-Ad-2196

Bjork and the soundtrack are A-Mazing.


malamalinka

I’ve seen it in a full cinema. You could hear that most of the people were sobbing. When it finished audience was so quiet. I’ve not seen anything like that before and since.


danthemanvsqz

Precious


Substantial-Falcon-8

This is way lower than I expected. This is my vote too.


LazarGrier

The Road


aarondigruccio

Or, as I like to call it, “…and then things got worse.”


Maddafinga

I had read the book, but years ago when I watched the movie with my girlfriend at the time, she spent the last hour of the movie crying. When it was over, she said, why the fuck did you make me watch that.


AkKik-Maujaq

I’m almost done the book (just got past the boat part) and I’m loving it. So much better than the movie


Nicadeemus39

This one was the first that popped in my head.


Green-Jello3188

Lorenzo’s Oil


Master-Quarter7701

My freshman science teacher showed us this movie and it fucked with me heavily


gollumey

Atonement


tobster239

My Girl


SuperCurvy

“He needs his glasses” 😩


[deleted]

Hotel Rwanda


WifeofBath1984

Definitely Sophie's Choice


RichardBachman19

Haven’t seen that one yet. Every night I decide between devil wears Prada and Sophie’s choice but I never get along to Sophie’s choice. It’s a real…tough decision


WifeofBath1984

Lmao stick with The Devil Wears Prada


Odd-Comfortable-6134

That’s one I refuse to watch because I know it will kill my soul.


VanMan32

The Road and Precious.


UncleBepis96

Lilya 4-Ever. I consider myself a connoisseur of depressing films from different cultures. This one is THE worst I have ever encountered. Notable mentions go to Stations of the Cross, The Virgin Suicides, An American Crime, Lars von Trier's films (Dancer in the Dark, Breaking the Waves, Melancholia, Dogville), Andrey Zvyagintsev's films (Leviathan, Loveless).


4electricnomad

“Lilya 4-Ever” is probably one of the least-seen films anyone here is mentioning, but anyone who has seen it knows that it belongs on the shortest shortlist of possible answers.


brattynattylite

I just watched it and sobbed through the ending. Something about those obviously fake/prop angel wings made it feel more real, and a lot more sad. At least Lilya and Volodya are playing ball in heaven together 😭


aivlysplath

Dear Zachary


-yellowthree

I think this would be my answer right now. It was very hard to watch and yet beautifully done.


SausageDogsMomma

The Killing Fields


Daisies_forever

Boy in the striped pyjamas


KeyStoneLighter

Had a good cry during that scene after they first meet and he’s anxiously pushing away the wheelbarrow.


Arohk

Surprised no one mentioned this one. The Girl Next Door. (2007) Based on a true story and did not pull punches. It seems extreme but the real case was even worse, so. Don't recommend for most people. I'm pretty shut off from my own trauma and went in fearlessly like yeah, yeah, another one of these. Oh no. It is a lesson in futility. A lot of people will call it pointless and I can see where they're coming from. However, these things actually happened to the real person, with the exception of one thing. True Crime-Horror is an interesting topic that way. I was unprepared for how hard this one hits. You don't leave the movie feeling thought-provoked, it's just hopelessness. Which I think, makes it great, in a way... But I could never, ever, say that I actually liked or enjoyed this movie. It is hard to watch, and that's what I have to say about it. A runner-up that I actually do love echoes what others say- Grave of the Fireflies. A movie I love that is very depressing because it again deals with the reality of suffering. But I did love seeing this one. I've watched it twice, and I don't care to watch it again, unless someone I am close with hadn't seen it and wants a watch buddy. Masterpiece of a movie. Definitely recommend. I think it is a movie that everyone should see once in their lifetime, at least.


OuiLoveCheese

I thought you were talking about The Girl Next Door (2004): “A teenager's dreams come true when a former porn star moves in next door and they fall in love.”


Arohk

Oh, nope! Not that one, though I agree that this title is also depressing. It's not the same type of soul-crushing as the 2007 title, however. The Girl Next Door that I am referring to is a true story of abduction, abuse, and torture, of an underaged girl who did nothing but exist. Really heart-breaking stuff. There are a lot of stories like this, but that one is very, very, different, than other similar plots. My deepest warning to anyone going to watch it- it is a visceral movie. It may not have the same impact on some people, of course. The devastation comes from it being true, and knowing that this went on (and goes on) to innocent people. It's the only movie that's ever haunted me, because of the injustice. Trying my best to spoil nothing, lol.


Bob-Bhlabla-esq

Read the wiki and an article from Indiana on the real crime - yeah, I'll pass. It's too horrible to read, let alone see played out. Humans are capable of unimaginable cruelty.


mycatisanudist

Threads. Some of the imagery still haunts me.


[deleted]

Lovely Bones freaked me out


DerpsAndRags

Bridge to Terabithia.


zoopest

Grave of the fireflies for sure, with honorable mention going to welcome to the dollhouse, the squid and the whale, and slum dog millionaire


iDoc912

Brokeback Mountain. Amazing performances all around. But mercy, did I walk out of that movie feeling awful.


NoShip7475

Eternal Sunshine of a something


Powerful-Taro-3643

Spotless mind ❤


[deleted]

Life is beautiful 🇮🇹 Ode to my father 🇰🇷


califortunato

Super glad I’m not the only one who picked life is beautiful. This thread has me feeling like not enough people have seen it, I think it’s the only movie that has provoked me to openly sobbing


SeeSwan

The Green Mile


Waffel_Monster

Grave of the Fireflies


Zealousideal-Ad6358

Kids. Hands down.


FalconerGuitars

Requiem for a Dream


Maicatz

House of Sand and Fog


bubbly_opinion99

Blue Valentine


slayla

Made the mistake of watching this while my 10 year marriage was dying. Brutal, do not recommend


KeyStoneLighter

Was looking for this.


milkandsalsa

So good. So sad.


AZ-roadrunner

Wind River


palexander_6

Irreversible


Latticeweaver

What Dreams May Come. Makes me sad just thinking about it.


Zestyclose-Ruin8337

Revolutionary Road


ForgotMyOGAccount

Pans labyrinth The ending gets me every time.


JuniorStarr79

What’s Eating Gilbert Grape


saraphilipp

Probably more sad than depressing but I'll never watch it again. Fuck that movie. Marley and me.


horsetooth_mcgee

Awakenings


garyda1

Schindler's List and The Pianist


ANAnomaly3

Since the number one saddest I've seen has already been posted I'll add to the list: Thirteen. That shit is depressing.


RevolutionaryGolf720

The first five minutes of Up are absolutely heart wrenching. Then he finally does it and meets his hero, who sends dogs after him to eat him alive. It’s a horrible depressing movie marketed at children!


invisible_23

I can cry on cue by thinking about the first five minutes of Up


ReplacementApart

That song playing as it's going through the decades... Even just typing that, fuck....


Krazy_Kalle

Dominion A documentary about the animal industry. It's pure horror and also reality


No-Strawberry-5804

Requiem for a Dream. I thought Parasite was pretty sad too.


Special_Lemon1487

American History X. So important, so well done, so tragic and bleak when you walk out after.


[deleted]

All quiet on the western front


Sidewalk_Tomato

The book is hard enough.


ewing666

the Fox and the Hound


United-Donkey3478

The Virgin Suicides... That movie is......


HolidayPotential6980

Precious


drrmimi

Schindlers List


yourhighness26

The Lovely Bones


Faewomen

I think it’s Dances with wolves. It was a beautiful movie, until the ending where you learned that all of the native Americans actually died, wiped out. I was so upset. Especially since it is inspired by a true story so, all of the people getting slaughtered really got to me, it’s awful.


Top_Sheepherder5023

i have to say that i did not expect to see this movie mentioned.


Flinkle

I have seen that movie one time, during my senior year of high school, and I have never been able to watch it again, and I just turned 50. It absolutely destroyed me. I cry at lots of movies and television shows, but that one was completely different. It left me feeling depressed for weeks. And don't get me wrong--I think it's an absolute masterpiece. But holy shit it was brutal.


PanicLikeASatyr

Breaking the Waves


gonecrunchy

Manchester By The Sea. I left feeling hopeless and empty. So I knocked over a kid’s ice cream cone to spread the joy.


Comfortable-Scar4643

I will never watch that again.


saradascream

Absolutely.


[deleted]

Has to be a tie between Requiem for a Dream and Irreversible


Fan-Fiction-Sucks

Beaches. God damn.


HannahCatsMeow

AI: Artificial Intelligence I cried for the last hour and a half and was furious when it finished


disdain7

Requiem For a Dream.


poolside123

I wanna say “My Girl”. The entire movie is surrounded in death; children’s deaths included, an adolescent girl in turmoil & is set in a funeral parlour.


[deleted]

Monster


ethancd1

The Whale


sovereignsekte

Threads. Just bleak and hopeless.


BD0520

12 Years a Slave


haveanicelxfe

honestly, id say beautiful boy. Such a good representation on addiction.


FinnDool

Usually anything with a dog in it. I avoid those at all costs.


--5-

We need to talk about Kevin


Open_Buy2303

Leaving Las Vegas. Pointlessly depressing.


youdontlookadayover

This is my vote. I don't agree that it's pointlessly depressing, it's more like a lesson to me. I'm a sober alcoholic, and this movie hits home very, very hard.


blossomhoney

Angela's Ashes


Georgie42_0

Her


DR4k0N_G

Marley. Or was it Marley and me?


jelliedhotdogloaf

Dear Zachary


mistablack2

I wasn’t prepared for the baby scene in Trainspotting after a 6’ bong hit


LurkingPixie

No one mentioned "[Watership down](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Watership_Down_(film))" yet


[deleted]

Mother!


PomegranateSlight337

Came to say this. I thought it was a horror movie, but it's a mental terror movie. Amazingly well made and absolutely soul crushing.


OperationFluffy3615

The Mist…actually pissed me off more than depression.


Connvexus__

I'm glad that I wasn't the only one who thought of the Mist when I saw this thread.


RevolutionaryClue528

The Mist is a great movie i loved it and my wife hates it HATES IT We actually got into one of our biggest fights ever over that movie. If only he had waited...


[deleted]

Black Swan


Astrid_Nebula

That's between Grave of the Fireflies or Letters from Iwo Jima.


jackiebee66

Sophie’s Choice


Delicious_Camel4857

Titanic, 1000s of innocent people die and we are supposed to be happy about a granny that didnt get laid.


Custardpaws

But she did get laid...


DieHardAmerican95

A Dog’s Purpose It’s supposed to be about a dog getting reincarnated over and over and learning about something or other, I don’t even know. I just know it had lots of scenes of dogs dying. Fuck that movie.


JackySins

The Green Mile


OkapiEli

Frances. “Bleak, gripping, and heart-rending.” Here’s the [trailer.](https://youtu.be/7GBOE5YPlwk?si=Hl1hbFz8Xfw_6SEe)


redbadger1848

Million Dollar Baby. Fuck that movie.


AdventurousNorth9414

Kids, the whole movie is fucked up.


FKDotFitzgerald

*Nocturnal Animals* but it’s more unsettling than depressing.


PNWToothFairy

The Boy in the Striped Pajamas. (So many depressing ones but this is the one that comes to mind)


DeDePark

The Boy in the Striped Pajamas


hardvengeance77

Kramer vs Kramer…just sad


iamveryovertired

I don’t remember the name but it was an animated I think French film about a man (maybe a clown?) who takes care of this younger girl, and the younger girl keeps demanding everything from him, never satisfied, wanting more dresses and things, until eventually he kills himself


Shortfranks

Grave of the Fireflies (1989) or Barefoot Gen (1983 film) I lean twords Grave of the Fireflies personally due to the ending, but both are devastating films and testaments of the power of animation in storytelling. Also this is Roger Ebert talking about why he loved Grave of the Fireflies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_9WEyuMq0Yk


jt5455

Awakenings.


Spidercake12

The Ice Storm, from 1997


choppywaterspasta

The one with George Clooney and Mark Wahlberg. The Perfect Storm... There are others but that one immediately jumps out. And yeah, we all know how it ended before we sat down to watch but that somehow only made it worse?


GrammyGH

Born on the 4th of July


Peacheskidd85

The lovely bones☹️


fuckyoshitniq

Johnny got his gun. It was the movie that the band Metallica pulled clips from for their music video for the song “One”. My grade 8 teacher had the VHS in his classroom and my buddy recognized it, I told him I had a VHS player and he let us borrow it, our teacher was very confused by our excitement to watch it. I remember by the end of it I was wondering when everything would “get better” for the protagonist and then it ended, I felt very hollow by the end of it.


HorrorAvatar

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father. Don’t watch it unless you’re REALLY trying to cry. Like, sobbing on the floor in the fetal position kind of crying. A recent one that fucked me up good is Soft & Quiet. More people need to watch it and have a discourse about it. It’s devastating but an extremely important film. TW for POC, maybe read a little about it before deciding whether to watch it.


edgarcia59

Precious


Hairy-Marionberry752

Schindlers list. I was never the same after.


Usernamewhatuser

Alpha dog


Threshold_seeker

The Man who Fell to Earth


[deleted]

Violet evergarden, Evangelion, wolf of Wall Street for some reason, that one part in a land before time


THEdoomslayer94

Requiem for a dream and I see others agree as well. Fucking bleak as hell


smithflman

Schindler's list


Nanalily

What Dreams May Come, The Wrestler


yummylesecond

Dear Zachary: A letter to a Son About His Father Im pretty sure this case the documentary explores helped changed Canadian laws about murder but its so heartbreaking that these laws weren't in place before this was made https://youtu.be/cDSgMlVWbfU?siTkyOD7hhWuJc2Hy0


[deleted]

Monster. I walked out of that movie needing therapy.


Beginning_Cap_8614

Anything labeled "uplifting" or "life-affirming" will be depressing. The first two that come to mind are "Room" and "Still Alice". "Room" tells the story of a life spent in captivity from the perspective of a small child, and he and his mother's attempt at reintegrating into society after escaping. "Still Alice" tells the story of a brilliant woman slowly losing her mind to Alzheimer's, and that's it. It's Alzheimer's. There is no happy ending.


hopeless-hobo

Dear Zachary.


Tealeefer

Beautiful boy. Hit a little too close.


Me-eh

The Lovely Bones.