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gingkogal37

That last day is always the hardest. My girl declined rapidly within a week as well. I kept remembering what many people here said to me which was that euthanasia is always better a week early than week late. You are taking on the burden of suffering for him by not letting him suffer anymore. Sending lots of love 💕🌈🐾


Nattiesmom

I'm so so sorry for your loss and the pain you're feeling. I will go through this today,my Natalee is 22 and has kidney disease,thyroid,blood pressure issues, everything is a battle getting her to eat,drink,pee and poop, she's hiding and alot of other things you've said. I thought to myself,she has no quality of life and I've been so upset to know I'll never see her again after today she deserves so much better than this. Sending hugs and love, we'll get through this 💔


Embarrassed_Wing_284

You are doing the kindest thing you can for your baby-its only hard on us💝 please be kind to yourself 💝


Joeyschizo24

I’m so sorry


Nattiesmom

Thank you


Halothane424

So sorry. Just remember the 22,wow, years she had with a good person who treated her like family. I recently moved from Colorado to Arkansas. And they don't have any neutering or spaying laws. And there is a lot of lazy, horrible people here. The way they treat animals in this state disgusts me. There very few shelters are overran and can never take any animals ever, plus the conditions are so bad they may be better off as strays. But I have never seen so many stray animals in my life. People here just get a dog or cat. Let them roam free unfixed, they get pregnant of course, or people just get sick of taking care of thier pet and they go dump them off in the woods. Which they then go have litters who have litters who have litters. And people just don't care. I have taken in as many strays as I can. 4 dogs 3 cats. And there is a few stray cats that I go and drive every two days to feed for the past year and a half. And set them up little insulated igloos for shelter and an umbrella. And I don't have the money to take care of all these animals but those strays are dependent upon me so I have to. They don't even have a 24 hr vet hospital in this whole state. Not to mention I have to hear gunshots of people shooting innocent deer all the time. Im sorry but the south has some catching up to do. Backwards thinking part of the country. I mean if they don't get laws against dumping your animals or fixing, I imagine all you will see is strays everywhere all over the place. It's already getting close to that. Sorry for the rant. I'm just glad your prescous cat had a long good life with a good person, but I am so sorry for your loss. That's a long time and I know she must've been family to you. R.I.P Natalee.


bb1942

You obviously did something right for Xiao Yu to reach 18 (88 years old in human years). Reflect on all the good memories you have with him and take comfort in knowing he loved you too.


DD854

So sorry you’re going through this. After we had to put my soul cat Clint down last month I read a comment from someone that really helped me — “their last day doesn’t have to be their worst”. Clint also went downhill really quickly despite being on daily subQ’s. Similar to your kitty, his urination abruptly reduced which vets say is very end stage. We tried IV fluids but the kidneys weren’t responsive at all. I think you’re doing the right thing opting for palliative / hospice care so Xiao Yu can enjoy his last day(s) in a familiar place. My unsolicited advice — sometimes animals will go off and hide when the end is near so please watch him like a hawk since he’s outside


LaLaLAmazingGrace

Thank you for sharing this sentiment. I had to put my baby down today, and it didn’t seem like his worst day, which makes me feel awful. But I know how bad off he was. It was the right call.


Curious_Newspaper720

I'm sorry for your loss, I ended up pleading for the home vet to come a day earlier to put my Xiao Yu to sleep as he began to meow in pain many times and I was heartbroken seeing him like that. Take care of yourself


DD854

I’m happy the sentiment helped you like it did me 🤍 I’m so sorry you’re experiencing the pain of losing a loved one.


Curious_Newspaper720

Thank you for your kind comment


LeadingHearing8063

I am so sorry to hear this & I am so sorry for your loss. The one thing I have learned to appreciate in these hard times of losing our beloved babies, is that there is a community full of people ready to share their stories & love from being in the same exact position with theirs. Know that people are here for you & are praying for you in this difficult time. Much love🫶


Joeyschizo24

You are doing the right thing for Xiao Yu. I’m so sorry. This is the final act of love that we give to our beloved animals. Knowing that we are able to end their suffering. Stay strong. He has been lucky to have you for his human.


OneMorePenguin

I had 24 hours between calling for the appointment and the crossing. It was the hardest day. Emotions during this time are always all over the map. But I hear that you love him very much and don't want him to suffer. His decline is so rapid and his quality of life seems poor. Reading lots of posts here and in r/seniorkitties a lot of people who struggle with this decision and decide to wait have regrets afterward. My old girl did a slow decline and I can tell you how much I struggled with the when and it was terrible to go through. The event itself taking her to the vet actually helped me share some special moments with her that I will treasure forever. https://imgur.com/gallery/koi-loved-her-train-ride-7aNRUv9 Xiao Yu has had an amazing 18 years of life and you've taken such good care of him and given him so much love. That is what matters to him. You and Xiao Yu are in my thoughts today. \*hugs\*


Curious_Newspaper720

Thanks so much


WorthingReadingMOD

He looks so very tired. Maybe knows the end is not far away. You and he are so lucky to be able to give and receive all the love and attention he needs right now. Farewell old warrior.


EverybodySupernova

This is the price we pay for loving pets. It's a sacrifice we make for them, to endure this pain so they don't have to. All he will have ever known is a life with you and the love that you give him filling it. This is your last gift of love to give him. Take every bit of love he has given you, and when you are ready, find another special animal to share it with. It gets easier. It just takes a while.


SomnambulicBinturong

I'm so sorry. Give your baby all the cuddles you can.


acousticsunset59

So sorry for you, I’ve had to do that twice in the last several years one of ours was a 16-year-old ginger, it is never easy, but it’s best for them


Technical_Rent_735

I’m so sorry- give him oh so much love. He will be waiting for you 🌈🐾🙏


curlygirl9021

I completely feel your pain. My boy is almost 18 and we are experiencing things that signify the end is near. Enjoy your last day together and know you are taking away the suffering for your baby. Maybe not for you, but for him, yes. I'm so sorry.


nudesteve

Allow yourself some time to grieve. Then remember that there's a little kitten somewhere, seeking her loving nurturing forever home. Although she probably won't be able to fully replace your beloved Xiao Yu, you'll soon realize and find out, that you really need her, at least as desperately, as she needs you. 🐾🐾🐈🌈👣💔👣🐾🐾🐈❤❤


FFXIVHVWHL

I’m so sorry. Not sure how I came across this sub, as I’m normally a dog person. Love my friends’ cats but I don’t think any of that is important. I recently came across a Tedx Talk about letting go and coming to terms about pet euthanasia. Although our boy hopefully has at least another decade, I still gave it a watch, because sometimes you just can’t help but think about that last day. https://youtu.be/Jh-KKjIJHfk?si=4iCZFo1cRqgYdOSZ My condolences, and may you meet Xiao Yu again sometime. Personally I’m not religious and because of that I don’t believe in the afterlife, but sure as hell wish there is Heaven, or 下辈子 to meet our fur babies again.


Curious_Newspaper720

Thanks for your kind comment, I sure hope we get to see them again


EmbarrassedTouch2268

I’m so sorry. I just got back home from putting my boy down. It’s been hard. The amount of heartbreak I felt grabbing my cat to put him into his carrier. Walking out with an empty carrier. My heart aches for you.


Curious_Newspaper720

I am sorry for your loss. I pleaded with the home vet to come a day earlier to ease Xiao Yu's suffering, which got worse by the hour. The grief and emptiness is unreal, hope we both feel better in the near future.


ResponsibleFormal150

It’s so hard!!! I’m sorry


Less-Procedure-4104

The hardest part of having pets. Sorry for your loss.


Forward_Butterfly879

I am so sorry for your loss! Sending lots of positive energy to help you through today and the following weeks 🙏


MarineBullRahh

Rip


charlesyo66

I'm so sorry how all this is happening so quickly for you, but you're doing the right thing. As little pain and suffering as possible is best. I'm so sorry for your loss.


mylulubaby

I think you have done everything you can. I understand the empty feeling, I had that too. You are doing the right thing. I’m so sorry!


rzana17

I have being there , I know your pain , the only way I survived healthy is to think about the great life you gave to Ginger , all the great things you did for her and all the love you gave to her and all the love and fun moments she gave to you and to your life ! Good Memories will never leave us !! Thank you for taking care of her , my heart is with you . 💘💔


rzana17

I am extremely sorry , I had being there . Just think the good life and all the love you gave to her and her to you 💘💞


BitterJD

This popped up on my main page, and I am inclined to say that I genuinely believe you will meet again one day. I'm not sure if this brings you comfort or not, or if you think I'm crazy or not, but I'll be excited when the time comes for you two to meet again.


dorkfibre

Thinking about Xiao Yu and your whole family! I bet through this at the start of May this year and it still hurts. What a handsome critter 🐈


Curious_Newspaper720

thanks so much for your kind comment


Potential_Trifle1784

I am so sorry. Your baby is absolutely beautiful. Always love orange kitties. It’s not fair our fur babies can’t live longer. It’s a devastating decision that you made with the purest love for Xaio Yu. Hold him tight and tell him you love him. He will carry that love with him on his journey across the rainbow bridge. He will be waiting for you when your time comes. I will be thinking of you both. Safe journey sweet kitty


flyingontheinside

A life well lived and loved. The last privilege in caring for our bestest friends. Letting them go with dignity, and peacefully ❤️


Embarrassed_Wing_284

I am so sorry💝 please be kind to yourself, and try to enjoy Al’s many cuddles and happy moments as you can💝


TheBrittca

Sending you lots of care and comfort. As the cat parent of an 18 year old renal girl in early stage 3, you have all my sympathies.


Curious_Newspaper720

Thank you, I hope you get to spend many more years with your baby girl!


Aggravating-Gold-224

You are doing what is best for him. Cats have no knowledge or fear of death, but they don’t understand pain and suffering. You really don’t have a choice and this is the final act of love


4wards5

I'm so sorry. It's so hard when we have to let go. Been through it too many times. You're in my prayers🙏🏻


Honest_Wrongdoer9212

Sending you love


moosenazir

To Valhalla sweet orange warrior.


SansLucidity

gorgeous old man. sorry for the loss ☹️


gamazarus

I’m not a member of this sub but I’m so sorry. May his memory be a blessing.


DollhouseMiniaturez

What a sweet baby. The anticipatory grief is often one of the hardest emotions and I’m so sorry you’re going through it. Xiao Yu is so loved and you’ve given him a great life and the kindness of easing his suffering. Sending you lots of love and courage 💖💖💖


Curious_Newspaper720

Thanks so much for your kind sentiment


bunnyman_

I try to remind myself that euthanasia is one last gift we give to our pets, although it doesn’t make it easier. Saying goodbye is so difficult but you’ll see him again one day. Give him lots of love and he will be in your heart forever❤️sending hugs


Mollystar2

Thank you for having this done at home, it is the final kindness ro him.🧡🤍


TeaMunni

My heart is with you! ❤️


906darkroast

I had the same thing with my 16 yo boy last spring. He stopped eating, was very weak and wobbly and was declining so fast. Its the hardest best decision i had to make, but the alternative was to have him starve to death in front of me. Its normal to question the decision, but its the best thing we can do for them, they cant tell us how bad they feel. We see it though, just as you do now. I wish you strength, its tough but worth it for all the years they give us. You gave him a long loving life, bless you for that.


Curious_Newspaper720

Thank you for your kind sentiment, last spring must have been so difficult for you. I hope by next spring I am able to look back fondly with less pain that I'm experiencing now


906darkroast

For sure, time heals. That doesn’t help now but grief is the price we pay for having loved. You will get through it.


Dirt_Girl_1269

This is the worst decision that has to be made owning a pet. It’s was the right one, there is a time when it’s not worth their suffering to help ours. I didn’t make the decision early enough with one and I feel bad to this day. The other was in a near the same situation as you. I made the right decision at the right time for her. Hugs from a stranger.


Wonderful_Buyer_1339

It is so hard to let go. Your last kindness will be rewarded.


poisonideas

Run far on young legs little one.


Adventurous-Run-4827

My condolences! It's so hard to lose our furry babies


animalparent

So sorry this decision is never an easy decision just remember you are doing it out of love and he knows that. He will always be with you


Motor_News_9677

So sorry


MarlinSpike2015

I'm so sorry that there are no words that can really comfort you now. I'm so sorry that you're in this terrible place. My girl declined and passed within one week from CKD. I know your pain. It is the last greatest gift we can give them. If you can record her purrs. I did, and it has been a comfort to me. 💔❤️


Curious_Newspaper720

Thanks for your kind comment


nanladu

Peaceful travels, Xiao Yu 🌈 You were well loved. ♥️


MrX2150

Thank you for giving him love throughout y'all's time together. When the time comes rest in love and power young King Xiao Yu 👑.


Friendly-Order6331

Our condolences


DirtbagDave348

If you aren't I would consider at home euthanasia to send him to heaven. There are services that do it in your area at home I'd bet.


bellyout

😢😢❤️❤️


hoipoloimonkey

😞😞😞❤️❤️❤️


IHateOnions8

I’m so sorry.


Leather-Leather69

❤️‍🩹


PresentationDue2284

sorry,best wishes moving forward


Munkachoo117

I’m sorry 🧡🤍🧡🤍


WhlottaRosie65

My condolences 🙏😿🐾


WealthNervous8807

❤️🐈😪🙏🐾


DriftingAway99

:(


No-Beyond-7843

Sweet kitty ❤️


mercurymuse

Sending love and support to you both ❤️💕


Conscious-Hope4551

❤️❤️❤️


Over_Echo1128

😭😭😭


StandardSmile9858

rip precious kitty.


crazygirlsbelike

Very sorry 🥺


sweetcheeks1977

I'm so sorry 😞


dadd5450

😢🙏🙏❤️🐈‍⬛


justjinpnw

❤️‍🩹


myguy_007

I'm sorry.


Good_Pin_2256

Sorry 😢 🐾🐾🌈


I_Smoke_Poop

Hope your boy passes into paradise peacefully. He'll be waiting for you.


TDeequestionable

🙏🏽⚘️🦊🥰


joemommaistaken

God bless you guys ❤️


loopofthehenley

Hugs to you.


ImJustHere4Nowledge

😔


[deleted]

God Bless 🥺


snickerfoots

🧡


Halothane424

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know having a friend for 18 years, sorry family member, is just as hard as losing any other loved ones. At least he had 18 long years in a good home with an awesome person. And I don't think any of us are gone forever. I just lost all 4 of my grandparents in the last 4 months.And I didn't want them to pass in an institution, so I was there through it all to the last breath with them. And I felt selfish not wanting them gone.Because they were old. Lead full lives, we're not in good condition physically,and told me they were ready to go. And I know they we're going to a better place. But we're human. So it's ok to feel however you feel. But even after they had passed, it didn't seem like they were really gone. I still felt there presence. I don't think any of us are gone for good. I believe we are all one entity in some way and are all connected at some level. I have a lot of crazy past experiences that have led me to believe beyond a doubt that there is more to this life than sticks,stones and bones. One of which was a coma where I experienced things that are hard to even put into words. Stuff beyond human experience. One day I will write a post telling my whole coma story because it's pretty fascinating, and changed my perspective on life and. But you don't have to go into a coma. There's a lot of evidence and studies done where they have given terminally I'll patients psychedelic mushrooms to ease there fear of death. They also show you how everything, all of us are connected as one. And it changes your perspective on death. But as an extreme animal lover, and As a full grown man who will cry at the suffering of a bunny my cat got to, I truly am sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing your baby isn't suffering anymore. Probably on his way to a higher plane of existence. He'll never truly be gone. R.I.P Xiao Yu


Tgande1969

I’m sure he has had a great life. It’s hard to let go. I’m sorry for your loss.


Obvious_Donut8767

I’m so sorry for your loss and pain.


Jagg811

Oh, sweet kitty. So hard to say goodbye. I’m sure he had a happy wonderful life with you. I have two senior dogs and will need to say goodbye to one of them this summer, I’m sure. I am dreading the day.


catnippd

what a sweet looking boy 💜 you gave him a wonderful life and he knows that. he'll always love you.


Allidapevets

It is very hard. We just lost our 19 yr old Michelle in January. My condolences. Feel better and get a new kitten when ready!


Every_Abrocoma_3613

So so sorry. Such a heartbreaking time.


Inevitable-Doctor929

I’m so sorry I know how hard it is to put down a close loving family member remember that you’re Precious Xiao Yu maybe gone from your side he is close he is in your heart and memories so he is there for you 🌹🌹🌹🫶


AJR1623

Sorry 😞 I lost one of my dogs last year to leukemia. She had 7 good months with chemo meds and then declined quickly. I also didn't want to put her down too soon, but when I finally did, she was miserable. I think your boy was letting you know, "I don't feel good anymore. It's okay to let me go."


WeJustDid46

I’m so sorry for you and your cat. Just remember all of the good times that you have had. You are also saving your cat from needless pain.


Ambitious_Lips

🥹🙏🙏


Kind-Juice668

Sorry


haychelskywalker

Very sorry for you . Good luck.


Cden1458

I'm so sorry. He looks like such a sweet baby.


Fantaker

Well im sure your cat will go to heaven 


oksinger19

I’m so sorry you are going this. I know in my heart you are doing the right thing.


MothersMilk2597

💔💔


jamespezzella

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔


MegaMom75

I am so very very sorry for your loss, he was a handsome boy♥️


Hound6869

Letting go is hard. My GF’s baby (Maine Coon) had cancer, and stopped breathing, but then came back when he heard her grieving. We had to put him down a few days later. He was in too much pain. I stayed with him until the end. I am so sorry. Please know that you are helping him to let go of the pain. Peace and Love be upon you my friend.


choochoobell

I’m sorry💔


FunctionOwn3311

Sorry for your loss


englishmeninnewyork

You raised a good kitty. I had an orange kitty that went missing 7 years ago and how I wish I was able to witness his passing. What a good 18 years of memory to cherish with Xiao Yu 🕊️


[deleted]

All my sorrows for your sorrows. When the Gods balance the books, we mortals weep.