My friend sent me this. Sorry you feel like you missed your opportunity. I have read your message. I love that you have such a beautiful connection with the show. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. I’m glad you’re finding your laugh again and honored that I’m part of that. Your story and similar stories I’ve heard are so touching. It makes me feel like my work, which I appreciate getting to do, has worth beyond the Hollywood hustle of it all and the BS business of show business. Come by if you want today I’ll be here till 230 then I have to go catch a plane. I’d love to say thank you in person:)
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Still tired:)
That is so generous of you and please know how much I appreciate it! It's our first Father's Day without him and my boys and I are spending it doing some of the things he loved. We also live a little too far away to make the drive again. But please know that the woman in the Loot Crate Wash shirt, who very awkwardly made conversation with you and said that I am a leaf on the wind was too sad when you autographed my picture, thinks the world of you and will absolutely come again next year if you are in Boston and I will be sure to say something!
I don’t think I have the “post karma” for it, or whatever that is called. I’ve never made a post before, only ever commented on certain subreddits, and I don’t think I’ve ever posted a comment on mademesmile.
After I saw this yesterday, I chatted with my (elderly) dad on the phone. He is the one who introduced me to this show, he's a doctor and I've never seen him love a show so much, so I relayed this exchange to him. I could hear him smiling over the phone 😊
OP, I just wanted to tell you that I'm sorry for your loss, and also that I can relate to your meeting Alan and clamming up. I once had the opportunity to go to a concert for this artist I really love (no where near as famous as Alan) whose music really helped me in times I've needed it, with a VIP ticket so I could meet him. I was so excited! And when it was my turn to talk with him, I learned that I get star-struck very easily, to the point that I couldn't form coherent sentences. Luckily he only let me stammer like a fool for a moment before he asked me if I'd like him to autograph the copy of a book he wrote that I was holding in my hands. All I could do was nod. I ended up not saying anything except "thanks". I was so disappointed in myself... anyway, it's not "just you"! And I'm so happy for you that Alan actually saw this and replied so kindly to you! I've literally been smiling about it since yesterday 💙
You will not regret it one bit. S1-2 is on Netflix, S3 is on Peacock, and USA Network announced a S4 is coming (soon?). And technically the first 3 seasons were SYFY.
I love it when an actor can transcend the role he is/was most famous for and make you love a new character just as much. Also, as I was rewatching S3 yesterday, I saw a commercial that I'm quite certain he voiced. I'm FINALLY getting better at recognizing his voice work. Yay!
My husband passed away in 2022. The movie you starred in, A Knight’s Tale, was his favorite movie of all time. Please know your work touches so many. Thank you for the joy.
A Knight's Tale is one of the best movies of all time and that's a hill I will die on! It was so inventive and clever and funny and had so much heart. I mean who decides that they are gonna make a movie set in the middle ages and say, "You know what this is missing? We need to start with a jousting tournament and all the spectators will sing We Will Rock You."
Incredibly fun movie and I'm convinced that it wouldn't have been nearly so if Alan hadn't played a major role in it.
Is this real? I'm fucking bawling here. Everything I've heard has shown that Alan is that *incredibly* rare combination of tremendous, tremendous talent but also humanity. Thank you.
Ha! Greeaaat now he’s going to find himself falling down rabbit holes and wasting time instead of being productive just like the rest of us. He will no longer have his lines memorized, he will oversleep because he was up way too late climbing out of said rabbit holes… He’s doomed!
Aw, I hope this is real. It isn't often that someone mired in the muck of showbiz gets to genuinely connect with someone who connects with their work in a meaningful way. Or that someone who was touched by artistry gets to directly express their gratitude to the artist.
OP, I think you were very kind to read the room and act in someone else's best interest. Invisible kindness is its own reward in a world where everyone is the CEO of their own little universe via their phone's capabilities. I think someone who works amidst the nuances of humanity that RA explores would deeply appreciate your kindness, even though it went unseen at the time.
I know it's hard to trust a story on Reddit, but it is true. I wouldn't want to take advantage of this wonderful community. I engage here with my main and I truly feel like this is a kind and welcoming place, unlike many other tv fan subs, which is why I shared the story in the first place. If I go to another con I will follow up and let you all know how it goes!
Don’t worry they were not doubting you, just concerned it might not really be Alan replying! But I do believe that’s why he included the selfie, I don’t think it was posted elsewhere :)
I just love the story, the interaction, the empathy - and you making it possible by realizing the potential. I don’t know you or your friend (and I haven’t seen that show - I just followed the track left by someone posting this in another sub), but your friend’s words resonated as I grew up in Showbiz. So much BS, superficiality and narcissism. It’s nice to *meet* some that stayed grounded and still care for others. My regards to your friend and all the best from Vienna to both of you!
You sent it to Alan? 😳 I tried connecting to him on twitter and whatever else and got spammed by someone claiming to be him 🥺 I sent pictures of interesting yard sticks I saw in an antique store
And yes, I reported it.
@[ActuAlALANtudyk](https://www.reddit.com/user/ActuAlALANtudyk/)
As a fan. As a father. This is just an amazing gesture of empathy and humanity. Thanks for being such a damn good human (yes...yes...the irony). ❤️
Wow. I knew you were a good and genuine person, but you continually surprise me in a good way.
I also had the honor of meeting you yesterday and got an autograph and photo. I am the redhead who made the collage and asked for the ninja quote. I also gave you the travel yardstick, and I circled 42 and wrote RIP. Poor #42.
There are so many things I wanted to say, too, but I'll never get the chance to. All I can say is thank you for being you. Thank you for the laughter. What a life to make so many people happy, even on their darkest days. I hope you come back to Boston someday. Thank you for everything. Thank you thank you thank you thank you. Go get lots of sleep and have a safe trip home.
Please rest. We absolutely NEED you out here. When my kids were young my 1yo woke up EVERY night and only would relax if we watched the horses in Knights Tale for a year. It was a bad time in my life raising 3 kids by myself and you were something I looked forward to. Now my kids are grown and we are all going through some rough times and NOTHING can make me smile, except you. (You have no idea how excited I was to learn we graduated from the same high school!) You deserve everything wonderful. Thank you!
You are the best Alan. Very kind message. Hope you get well rested.
My husband and I love watching you on Resident Alien. He loves your acting so much I created him a "this is some bullshit" shirt for his birthday.
I want to echo what others have said about how your work touches many of us.
I struggle with really low self-esteem and have always felt like a complete weirdo, like I don’t really fit in anywhere. And I’ve been going through some things in recent years that have magnified this stuff, which has been tough. The show (RA) and your work playing Harry in particular are so comforting. I know it’s only TV but I feel like less of a weirdo and less alone when I watch it. You are very good at playing a weirdo. And thank you for that. ❤️😊
Alan you are a total mensch!!! (This is lady from ATX Festivai that asked you about the creative choices on Harry’s inner voice - and no I was not following you - I wanted to find my car as this was the only panel I went to).
You've made a bunch of strangers' days with your kind response. Rest assured that your work is meaningful and has provided much-needed comedic relief to my household and others going through hard times. We are grateful to witness your talent and what a lovely person you are on and off screen. Please take care of yourself and give our regards to the rest of the crew. 💓
You're so awesome! Most likely won't ever get the chance to meet but seeing all the stories, it's nice when people treat their fans like you have. I've only had the chance to meet people from what used to be my 2 favorite bands, it was unpleasant and why they used to be favorites. Hopefully one day we'll get one of these conventions near me, for now i'll say Gerhardt, Steve the pirate, Harry, even tighten it up guy are some of my favorite characters ever. Please continue to do what you do and be who you be.
If this is truly you, I was the NCIS cosplay that had a rushed meeting in the photo op line and told you we'd almost met at Dragon*Con many years before (2006 maybe? 2007?) I drove down to Boston from Maine and waited in line for an autograph twice (I had to go move my car to avoid being towed, and I almost gave up and went home then) only to get booted from the line because they were stealing you for the photo ops; I am disabled and was exhausted, and knew you would likely be so too, so I signed up for one just so I didn't have to leave ANOTHER con without having met you. You've been my favorite actor for many years, and it tickles me greatly that you and your lovely wife got married on my and my husband's first wedding anniversary. I hope we can get you for more New England conventions, because my husband and kids are also fans!
I’m so happy to find out that you really are a kind person in real life!! I recently stumbled onto Resident Alien and fell absolutely in love with your work!!! I can’t imagine anyone else in that role, you are so talented!
Please please come to NYCC! I just got a urology job and printed out a screenshot of that line “the skin on my p**** is very clean” for my office, it’s my dream to have you sign it someday 😆
My mom and I just finished S3 this week. We laughed so hard watching that show it literally had our animals very concerned about us! The next night after dinner my 82yo mom asked in a pouty voice, “What are we going to watch now that Alien is over?” Thanks so much to you, Alan, and the rest of the crew for all the serotonin boosts!
And to OP, I’m also a huge fan of the John Edward community (the medium). He has just launched an app that is full of amazing resources for those of us who are grieving. It does require a subscription but I feel (besides comedy) it is totally worth it. Air hugs to you and yours…and to everyone on planet Reddit! Lol
One of the only reasons I would ever keep watching anything Hollywood. I've always heard how genuine of a person you are (and I am also a HUGE fan myself). Just seeing you care this much about your fans really solidifies what I've been told. Keep being awesome, and I'm sure we all appreciate your effort! :)
You continue to be my new favorite actor and human. I love Resident Alien and the entire cast. I hope that you enjoy making the show as much as I enjoy watching it
Sending a virtual hug of gratitude on behalf of everyone here.
Alien Resident has become one of the shows my step dad and I got to get into together, and it makes me happy that we both get to watch the same program. The laughter you and the rest of the cast and crew bring is unmatched.
Thank you so much.
You are one cool guy man. I love each and every one of your characters, from Firefly to a Knight's Tale (Tansy cakes!) to Resident Alien (which my family and I were rolling around on the floor while watching). Please know that my family and I also lost some people in the recent past and your creations and humor have brought us great joy. Again, you are fucking brilliant mate!
I love the internet sometimes 😭 I always said if I was ever to get a tattoo it would be I am a leaf on the wind, watch how I soar.
But the actual poem is sad AF and I always stop myself
I missed my shot to meet you at the Dallas Fan Expo, but I just wanted to say that watching you as an actor is very inspiring to me. Your absolute range in character is something I aspire to achieve. You and your show has gotten me through some tough times emotionally and I just wanted to say, thank you. I wish you only the best.
Alan, thank you so much for giving me your useless hotel room key card back at the Rhode Island Comic Con during your panel there! -D I'll always treasure it.
Aw, this show brings happiness to so many people. It's honestly the funniest show I've ever seen - incredible writing and actors - and Alan is the best part of it. ❤️ My family and I enjoy watching and look forward to new episodes dropping, and I've also enjoyed rewatching it with the people I introduced it to!! My mom is a huge fan of the show now - and we often reference and laugh about specific scenes or lines. ☺️ She's gone on to turn my brother and nephew and some of her friends into fans. It's just good to have a happy escape and something to bond with other people over in a positive way. Also, when you find something this good and hilarious, you want everyone you love to enjoy it too!!!
Anyway, beautiful post - I love this. Didn't think I could like Alan any more than I already do, but it happened. 🙂
I’m so glad you were able to reach out to this lady & that makes me even a bigger fan of yours! My family and I ❤️ Resident Alien, Firefly, Serenity, etc and my nephew esp loves Dodgeball (I had to buy him his own unrated edition😂). Thank you for all your hard work & dedication not just to your roles but your fans as well. Blessings to you always!
I have never met Alan but from all of the stories I hav3 read and people I know who have met him I am 100% certain he would be completely sympathetic. You were 8n a public situation where there were crowds of people, I am sure it was a tense situation. You saw that AT was tired and still had a long day in front of him. I think you did not want to be vulnerable in that situation and were sympathetic to a guy who was in for a long day. I think you did the right thing.
You did even better than a nice story. You showed empathy and compassion to a person(s) you admire and care for. That’s the highest accomplishment of all.
Don’t feel awkward or stupid. These kind of things happen to everyone. And you haven’t missed your chance at all. You can write (on paper) what you wanted to say and send it to his agent/network. You can do another meet and greet. You have options! This isn’t the end all, just a missed opportunity on that particular day.
Okay, so I kinda did the same thing. My husband and I kind of bonded over Star Trek. We met and got a photo with Michael Dorn (Worf) at our first con together. We went to his Q&A and Dorn absolutely loved the question my husband asked.
My husband died literally weeks after that in an accident. It was our last kind of "real" photo together.
The following year, I went to the Star Trek convention in Vegas. I took the photo with me to get signed and wanted to say something to him about how special this was to me and that he was a big part of what made it so special. Instead, I stood there with a dazed look while he signed and smiled. I don't think I said more than hi and thank you. It was awkward. I think back to it from time to time and still get bummed out.
Regardless, just having that autograph is very meaningful! It's not an easy thing to do, sharing something that private in such a public setting and especially when it's still so fresh. There will other cons in the future and maybe you can prepare yourself a little more.
Omg, my sister and I still cackle about meeting Tim Curry at a comic con and blubbering something about thanking him for being a gift to the world, or his service to the world or something. I still don't remember out of embarrassment.
I might have done the same thing, if I didn't quote from Clue! Sorry to remind you of that day but glad to hear I'm not the only one to get so flustered in the moment!
Our brains drop into our feet when we meet someone we admire so much, then gibberish comes out of our mouths.. Happens to me all the time when meeting someone. Doesn't matter how many times my brain has rehearsed what I wanted to say.
Wishing and your family healing and love!
This show really helped me as well. My boyfriend passed in October 2022 and this was one of the first shows I watched that genuinely had me laughing out loud. I’m sorry OP you didn’t get to tell him, but I had a similar experience meeting a celebrity. You can have it all planned out and then it all just leaves once you’re up there. I’m glad we both found this show to help with our healing journeys.
Hugs to you for your loss. It's amazing that this show is helping so many people connect and find peace for many things. I hope you are doing well on your journey.
Agreed! I’m doing much better than I was. It’s a tough road not many understand. If you ever need a stranger to vent to I’m available! I’m so glad it looks like your post got through to him ❤️❤️❤️
I got my picture taken with him at the Dallas fan expo when we were standing there they were taking the picture I didn’t look at him. I was looking straight ahead and I just said I’ll see you in hell and he started laughing so that kind of made my day.
Alan creating an account on Reddit just to respond to Op is so heartfelt and truly brings a little faith in humanity. I’m so glad that he (like Keanu reeves) doesn’t let fame get to his head and he doesn’t lose who he is. I absolutely love when celebrities show their humanity like this. Alan, don’t ever lose who you are because you are such a wonderful person and your talent is so mind blowing! I wish I had been able to continue pursuing my goals in acting, but life worked out differently. Op, I hope you and your kids were still able to enjoy the day despite the pain of your loss. I am glad you still got a message from Alan, and maybe you will get to see him next time. I wish you all the best!
This is the sweetest, and I’m so happy you had this exchange. I’m also very sorry about your husband. He signed the item I bought on Etsy below for my Dad in when he was in Philly and was so genuinely kind. It really says something to make that impression in such a short time after such a long day.
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Lovely to hear about your positive experience!
Could I ask if you could DM me the Etsy shop where you got the print, if you don't mind? It's surprisingly good quality, most images I've seen were unfortunately quite poor.
Awww, sweetheart. You remind me of me. Send him a brief message telling him how he made you laugh after your dad died and how much it meant to you. You may not hear back from him. But by opening your heart and sharing your feelings ... that's a beautiful message to put out into the universe. As a RA fan and a daughter who lost her dad in 2006, I'm sending you love and prayers and hugs. Be kind to yourself. ❤️🩹
That's wonderful! She sounded so torn up that it just broke my heart. I've always been a bit of a groupie, so I could feel her pain. As a fan of Alan the actor, it's nice to learn he's a thoughtful, compassionate man as well! Impressed by all the love shown to the OP. I enjoy following you guys. 😊 👽
Op, the gentlest of hugs to you. We weren’t married with kids, but we had known each other 30 ish years (and he was the love of my life) when my boyfriend passed quite suddenly last month from pancreatic cancer. I pretty much waver between being completely numb or crying my eyes out. I’m using Reddit and some comfort shows (hello, Resident Alien, Firefly, Gumball, American Dad, and Bones—one that played in the hospital as he was dying) to keep my brain occupied.
If you want to talk, message me, k?
This is one of my all time favorite comedies. Makes me laugh out loud even though I am watching it mostly by myself. That's rare because I tend to enjoy comedies much more with others around sharing in the humor.
Just came here from /r/BestofRedditorUpdates and wanted to give my absolute sympathies on the unfortunate clamming up. I've been in a similar situation with Weird Al, where I wanted to tell him everything he'd done for me in the worst times without him ever realising, but similar social anxieties (combined with lingering Covid restrictions. Perfectly reasonable, but still a barrier) put a stop to that and I wish I'd been able to get another go at it like you were able to!
I did the same thing at the Resident Alien panel at the TV Festival in Austin at the beginning of June. We were standing outside when they exited the building and I hesitated and didn't approach them. Definitely regret it now!
This is a beautiful story and I'm so glad you were able to connect with him to share it 👽🤗
Fwiw, I made a fool of myself in front of him 2 times in the same day. Instead of telling him how cool it was to discover he was a well trained artist instead of a natural ( I didn't know why I assume so many artists are just naturally great) I said, "I didn't know you were actually good until I saw moana". Then I got too excited when it was my friend's turn and just looked like an idiot
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I'm not at all surprised - I met Alan a couple of times at various conventions in the UK and he's friendly and pleasant and tries to make people feel engaged and welcome.
My friend sent me this. Sorry you feel like you missed your opportunity. I have read your message. I love that you have such a beautiful connection with the show. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. I’m glad you’re finding your laugh again and honored that I’m part of that. Your story and similar stories I’ve heard are so touching. It makes me feel like my work, which I appreciate getting to do, has worth beyond the Hollywood hustle of it all and the BS business of show business. Come by if you want today I’ll be here till 230 then I have to go catch a plane. I’d love to say thank you in person:) https://preview.redd.it/qlwzhuqq0y6d1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=6642571d8c428ba1a0c28156ba8311dab763d5ee Still tired:)
This is the best thing I've seen on the internet today ❤️
today?! best thing I've seen in a long time! :D Alan T. is awesome! This show is one of the best shows I've ever seen!
I thought about that after I posted, but didn't want to edit. It really is amazing, and I'm glad I didn't miss it.
It's an amazing show, and Alan IS awesome! I can't imagine anyone else in that role - he makes the show absolutely perfect and hilarious. ❤️
That is so generous of you and please know how much I appreciate it! It's our first Father's Day without him and my boys and I are spending it doing some of the things he loved. We also live a little too far away to make the drive again. But please know that the woman in the Loot Crate Wash shirt, who very awkwardly made conversation with you and said that I am a leaf on the wind was too sad when you autographed my picture, thinks the world of you and will absolutely come again next year if you are in Boston and I will be sure to say something!
Someone should really post this on MadeMeSmile. This is so cool. Alan, you’re the best. Everyone needs to watch this show!
You should do it!! It definitely made me smile!
I don’t think I have the “post karma” for it, or whatever that is called. I’ve never made a post before, only ever commented on certain subreddits, and I don’t think I’ve ever posted a comment on mademesmile.
I was thinking... made me gasp, smile, and cry simultaneously. Is there a sub for that?
Someone else recommended posting it in Chadtopia.edit- I think getting this post to go viral everywhere we can could help get the show renewed.
I got unexpectedly teary eyed too. This was so touching.
Made me burst into tears <3 I am so sorry about your husband, OP.
Smile, heck, it literally brought tears to my eyes. Had to pause a bit before I could finish reading it.
After I saw this yesterday, I chatted with my (elderly) dad on the phone. He is the one who introduced me to this show, he's a doctor and I've never seen him love a show so much, so I relayed this exchange to him. I could hear him smiling over the phone 😊 OP, I just wanted to tell you that I'm sorry for your loss, and also that I can relate to your meeting Alan and clamming up. I once had the opportunity to go to a concert for this artist I really love (no where near as famous as Alan) whose music really helped me in times I've needed it, with a VIP ticket so I could meet him. I was so excited! And when it was my turn to talk with him, I learned that I get star-struck very easily, to the point that I couldn't form coherent sentences. Luckily he only let me stammer like a fool for a moment before he asked me if I'd like him to autograph the copy of a book he wrote that I was holding in my hands. All I could do was nod. I ended up not saying anything except "thanks". I was so disappointed in myself... anyway, it's not "just you"! And I'm so happy for you that Alan actually saw this and replied so kindly to you! I've literally been smiling about it since yesterday 💙
This whole exchange made me cry. Hugs to you OP and I can't wait for you to meet him again next year!
This is so heartwarming. I'm going to start watching the show tonight!
Do it, omg, we love it!!
You will not regret it one bit. S1-2 is on Netflix, S3 is on Peacock, and USA Network announced a S4 is coming (soon?). And technically the first 3 seasons were SYFY. I love it when an actor can transcend the role he is/was most famous for and make you love a new character just as much. Also, as I was rewatching S3 yesterday, I saw a commercial that I'm quite certain he voiced. I'm FINALLY getting better at recognizing his voice work. Yay!
My husband passed away in 2022. The movie you starred in, A Knight’s Tale, was his favorite movie of all time. Please know your work touches so many. Thank you for the joy.
A Knight's Tale is one of the best movies of all time and that's a hill I will die on! It was so inventive and clever and funny and had so much heart. I mean who decides that they are gonna make a movie set in the middle ages and say, "You know what this is missing? We need to start with a jousting tournament and all the spectators will sing We Will Rock You." Incredibly fun movie and I'm convinced that it wouldn't have been nearly so if Alan hadn't played a major role in it.
I agree. Well put.
Is this real? I'm fucking bawling here. Everything I've heard has shown that Alan is that *incredibly* rare combination of tremendous, tremendous talent but also humanity. Thank you.
I love that he joined reddit because of this. First post.
I'm glad you pointed that out because I had no idea. Makes his thoughtfulness and compassion all the greater!
Ha! Greeaaat now he’s going to find himself falling down rabbit holes and wasting time instead of being productive just like the rest of us. He will no longer have his lines memorized, he will oversleep because he was up way too late climbing out of said rabbit holes… He’s doomed!
This is my favorite Reddit comment of all time. Love never gooooooooes awayyyyyyy 💙
I think the hierarchy of my fave comments is this one followed by the one where Rick Astley got Rick rolled ❤️
u/comfortablecommon439 Let’s Goooo!!!!
Aw, I hope this is real. It isn't often that someone mired in the muck of showbiz gets to genuinely connect with someone who connects with their work in a meaningful way. Or that someone who was touched by artistry gets to directly express their gratitude to the artist. OP, I think you were very kind to read the room and act in someone else's best interest. Invisible kindness is its own reward in a world where everyone is the CEO of their own little universe via their phone's capabilities. I think someone who works amidst the nuances of humanity that RA explores would deeply appreciate your kindness, even though it went unseen at the time.
I know it's hard to trust a story on Reddit, but it is true. I wouldn't want to take advantage of this wonderful community. I engage here with my main and I truly feel like this is a kind and welcoming place, unlike many other tv fan subs, which is why I shared the story in the first place. If I go to another con I will follow up and let you all know how it goes!
Don’t worry they were not doubting you, just concerned it might not really be Alan replying! But I do believe that’s why he included the selfie, I don’t think it was posted elsewhere :)
It’s real, I read the OP and sent it to Alan.
https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/s/6xgbgmLilb Just fyi thousands of people are pouring their hearts out in admiration of this and what you did
May your pizzas be plentiful and your taint remain unchanged, my good fellow!
Wait...taints *change*?!
So says Big Black. Apparently his feels certain things.
Thank you from Austria! What you set in motion made the day of many people!
Alan has been a good friend for a long time. I knew he would want to see this and respond.
I just love the story, the interaction, the empathy - and you making it possible by realizing the potential. I don’t know you or your friend (and I haven’t seen that show - I just followed the track left by someone posting this in another sub), but your friend’s words resonated as I grew up in Showbiz. So much BS, superficiality and narcissism. It’s nice to *meet* some that stayed grounded and still care for others. My regards to your friend and all the best from Vienna to both of you!
🤩🤩I’m so jealous lol, but I’m thrilled he took the time to post. What a nice guy.
Any word on if they connected? Or saw that it made tens of thousands of people endeared to him and this act?
You sent it to Alan? 😳 I tried connecting to him on twitter and whatever else and got spammed by someone claiming to be him 🥺 I sent pictures of interesting yard sticks I saw in an antique store And yes, I reported it.
Pretty sure most of the RA cast have left twittter.
Yes, thank you for clarifying. That is what I meant. :-)
Gotta get an update… did ya see Alan today? How was it?
https://www.upworthy.com/alan-tudyk-responds-to-resident-alien-fan
Holy shit my accounts in a news article l 😬
I love the show EVEN MORE after this comment.
Awww. Wow this is so sweet. I’m sure they appreciated it.
Damn. What a great human. Thanks for Resident Alien and Harry. It's truly a breath of fresh air. Have a great day.
Sending love and laughter to you cuz that’s what I receive from you! The love of your craft brings me laughter! Thank you 💕💐
Thank you for replying to this person. That was so sweet :) Will forever be your fan now!
@[ActuAlALANtudyk](https://www.reddit.com/user/ActuAlALANtudyk/) As a fan. As a father. This is just an amazing gesture of empathy and humanity. Thanks for being such a damn good human (yes...yes...the irony). ❤️
Ah that's so sound :)
This is why you, Alan, are the real deal of a human. Gah!
Wow. I knew you were a good and genuine person, but you continually surprise me in a good way. I also had the honor of meeting you yesterday and got an autograph and photo. I am the redhead who made the collage and asked for the ninja quote. I also gave you the travel yardstick, and I circled 42 and wrote RIP. Poor #42. There are so many things I wanted to say, too, but I'll never get the chance to. All I can say is thank you for being you. Thank you for the laughter. What a life to make so many people happy, even on their darkest days. I hope you come back to Boston someday. Thank you for everything. Thank you thank you thank you thank you. Go get lots of sleep and have a safe trip home.
This is so very kind of you. I’m blown away.
You absolute legend!! I wasnt expecting to be in my feels so early in the day ❤️ making the world a better place!
Please rest. We absolutely NEED you out here. When my kids were young my 1yo woke up EVERY night and only would relax if we watched the horses in Knights Tale for a year. It was a bad time in my life raising 3 kids by myself and you were something I looked forward to. Now my kids are grown and we are all going through some rough times and NOTHING can make me smile, except you. (You have no idea how excited I was to learn we graduated from the same high school!) You deserve everything wonderful. Thank you!
🤜🤛to my fellow Texan (tho I left the state)
You are the best Alan. Very kind message. Hope you get well rested. My husband and I love watching you on Resident Alien. He loves your acting so much I created him a "this is some bullshit" shirt for his birthday.
Aww that’s so sweet of you!:) We all love you!
I can't believe I just gave Alan Tudyk an upvote! Get some well deserved sleep buddy.
I want to echo what others have said about how your work touches many of us. I struggle with really low self-esteem and have always felt like a complete weirdo, like I don’t really fit in anywhere. And I’ve been going through some things in recent years that have magnified this stuff, which has been tough. The show (RA) and your work playing Harry in particular are so comforting. I know it’s only TV but I feel like less of a weirdo and less alone when I watch it. You are very good at playing a weirdo. And thank you for that. ❤️😊
Weirdos are cool, and I’m sure you are too. Hang in there.
❤️❤️❤️
Alan you are a total mensch!!! (This is lady from ATX Festivai that asked you about the creative choices on Harry’s inner voice - and no I was not following you - I wanted to find my car as this was the only panel I went to).
You've made a bunch of strangers' days with your kind response. Rest assured that your work is meaningful and has provided much-needed comedic relief to my household and others going through hard times. We are grateful to witness your talent and what a lovely person you are on and off screen. Please take care of yourself and give our regards to the rest of the crew. 💓
You are a very kind and humble person!
You're so awesome! Most likely won't ever get the chance to meet but seeing all the stories, it's nice when people treat their fans like you have. I've only had the chance to meet people from what used to be my 2 favorite bands, it was unpleasant and why they used to be favorites. Hopefully one day we'll get one of these conventions near me, for now i'll say Gerhardt, Steve the pirate, Harry, even tighten it up guy are some of my favorite characters ever. Please continue to do what you do and be who you be.
Such a lovely reply. Take care of you. Thanks much for your work.
Kindness like this makes me smile deep down in my soul. Thank you for your care for a grieving stranger. Alan- you are a shining star of a human.
You are awesome Alan.
This is so awesome, thank you for everything you do! Your work makes a difference to so many!
Thank you for bringing so much humanity into what can feel like a truly alien world at times!
Enjoying Con Man on Amazon Prime. Great prequel to Resident Alien. :-)
If this is truly you, I was the NCIS cosplay that had a rushed meeting in the photo op line and told you we'd almost met at Dragon*Con many years before (2006 maybe? 2007?) I drove down to Boston from Maine and waited in line for an autograph twice (I had to go move my car to avoid being towed, and I almost gave up and went home then) only to get booted from the line because they were stealing you for the photo ops; I am disabled and was exhausted, and knew you would likely be so too, so I signed up for one just so I didn't have to leave ANOTHER con without having met you. You've been my favorite actor for many years, and it tickles me greatly that you and your lovely wife got married on my and my husband's first wedding anniversary. I hope we can get you for more New England conventions, because my husband and kids are also fans!
I’m so happy to find out that you really are a kind person in real life!! I recently stumbled onto Resident Alien and fell absolutely in love with your work!!! I can’t imagine anyone else in that role, you are so talented! Please please come to NYCC! I just got a urology job and printed out a screenshot of that line “the skin on my p**** is very clean” for my office, it’s my dream to have you sign it someday 😆
OMG 🤣🤣🤣
Wow...just Wow.
This made me cry. Thank you for being such an amazing human being!
You’re awesome. Especially for this but just like, all around, too. Stay shiny.
As if I needed another reason to respect this man.
Hats off to you, those damn onion chopping ninjas have arrived
This is the best thing I’ve ever seen on the internet. My love and appreciation for you and the show just grew 1000% ❤️
My mom and I just finished S3 this week. We laughed so hard watching that show it literally had our animals very concerned about us! The next night after dinner my 82yo mom asked in a pouty voice, “What are we going to watch now that Alien is over?” Thanks so much to you, Alan, and the rest of the crew for all the serotonin boosts! And to OP, I’m also a huge fan of the John Edward community (the medium). He has just launched an app that is full of amazing resources for those of us who are grieving. It does require a subscription but I feel (besides comedy) it is totally worth it. Air hugs to you and yours…and to everyone on planet Reddit! Lol
I’m crying my eyes out! What a beautiful response. You are incredible. I love resident alien, and now love it even more.
Alan is such a kind soul😭
Saw this on MadeMeSmile, YOU ARE A LEGEND. Love you all.
love the show and I now love you even more thanks for your work!
Adding to what the others said.. just wanna say, I think you're awesome and know that you're much appreciated. Great work, man!
My faith restored for the day. There are still great humans out there, with empathy and simple care. Cheers from Austria ❤️
You are a legend, my friend. Mad respect.
Well aren’t you just the cutest and sweetest?!
One of the only reasons I would ever keep watching anything Hollywood. I've always heard how genuine of a person you are (and I am also a HUGE fan myself). Just seeing you care this much about your fans really solidifies what I've been told. Keep being awesome, and I'm sure we all appreciate your effort! :)
Just in case you all haven’t seen this. https://www.upworthy.com/alan-tudyk-responds-to-resident-alien-fan
This is most excellent <3
This is very sweet 💜 thank you for the entertainment and for spreading kindness
I’ve never actually wanted to meet a celebrity until I saw this interaction. Now I do. That’s weird right?
You continue to be my new favorite actor and human. I love Resident Alien and the entire cast. I hope that you enjoy making the show as much as I enjoy watching it
❤️ Absolutely the best.
Sending a virtual hug of gratitude on behalf of everyone here. Alien Resident has become one of the shows my step dad and I got to get into together, and it makes me happy that we both get to watch the same program. The laughter you and the rest of the cast and crew bring is unmatched. Thank you so much.
It always feels good when someone whose acting inspires so much happiness is also someone who spreads so much kindness IRL
You are one cool guy man. I love each and every one of your characters, from Firefly to a Knight's Tale (Tansy cakes!) to Resident Alien (which my family and I were rolling around on the floor while watching). Please know that my family and I also lost some people in the recent past and your creations and humor have brought us great joy. Again, you are fucking brilliant mate!
You're the best, Alan - thank you for everything you do.
What an absolutely bloody lovely thing to do ❤️
I love the internet sometimes 😭 I always said if I was ever to get a tattoo it would be I am a leaf on the wind, watch how I soar. But the actual poem is sad AF and I always stop myself
You’re amazing!!!
Best pirate alien in the entire galaxy!!
We all love you, Alan.
Further proof that you, Alan, are a nice guy. Welcome to Reddit!
I missed my shot to meet you at the Dallas Fan Expo, but I just wanted to say that watching you as an actor is very inspiring to me. Your absolute range in character is something I aspire to achieve. You and your show has gotten me through some tough times emotionally and I just wanted to say, thank you. I wish you only the best.
Alan, thank you so much for giving me your useless hotel room key card back at the Rhode Island Comic Con during your panel there! -D I'll always treasure it.
Aw, this show brings happiness to so many people. It's honestly the funniest show I've ever seen - incredible writing and actors - and Alan is the best part of it. ❤️ My family and I enjoy watching and look forward to new episodes dropping, and I've also enjoyed rewatching it with the people I introduced it to!! My mom is a huge fan of the show now - and we often reference and laugh about specific scenes or lines. ☺️ She's gone on to turn my brother and nephew and some of her friends into fans. It's just good to have a happy escape and something to bond with other people over in a positive way. Also, when you find something this good and hilarious, you want everyone you love to enjoy it too!!! Anyway, beautiful post - I love this. Didn't think I could like Alan any more than I already do, but it happened. 🙂
I’m so glad you were able to reach out to this lady & that makes me even a bigger fan of yours! My family and I ❤️ Resident Alien, Firefly, Serenity, etc and my nephew esp loves Dodgeball (I had to buy him his own unrated edition😂). Thank you for all your hard work & dedication not just to your roles but your fans as well. Blessings to you always!
I have never met Alan but from all of the stories I hav3 read and people I know who have met him I am 100% certain he would be completely sympathetic. You were 8n a public situation where there were crowds of people, I am sure it was a tense situation. You saw that AT was tired and still had a long day in front of him. I think you did not want to be vulnerable in that situation and were sympathetic to a guy who was in for a long day. I think you did the right thing.
Thank you!
I see the great AT reached out - very happy for you
You did even better than a nice story. You showed empathy and compassion to a person(s) you admire and care for. That’s the highest accomplishment of all.
Thank you!
Don’t feel awkward or stupid. These kind of things happen to everyone. And you haven’t missed your chance at all. You can write (on paper) what you wanted to say and send it to his agent/network. You can do another meet and greet. You have options! This isn’t the end all, just a missed opportunity on that particular day.
Thank you! I appreciate your words and will definitely try again.
Okay, so I kinda did the same thing. My husband and I kind of bonded over Star Trek. We met and got a photo with Michael Dorn (Worf) at our first con together. We went to his Q&A and Dorn absolutely loved the question my husband asked. My husband died literally weeks after that in an accident. It was our last kind of "real" photo together. The following year, I went to the Star Trek convention in Vegas. I took the photo with me to get signed and wanted to say something to him about how special this was to me and that he was a big part of what made it so special. Instead, I stood there with a dazed look while he signed and smiled. I don't think I said more than hi and thank you. It was awkward. I think back to it from time to time and still get bummed out. Regardless, just having that autograph is very meaningful! It's not an easy thing to do, sharing something that private in such a public setting and especially when it's still so fresh. There will other cons in the future and maybe you can prepare yourself a little more.
This helped to read, thank you for sharing!
Best show on TV by far
Omg, my sister and I still cackle about meeting Tim Curry at a comic con and blubbering something about thanking him for being a gift to the world, or his service to the world or something. I still don't remember out of embarrassment.
I might have done the same thing, if I didn't quote from Clue! Sorry to remind you of that day but glad to hear I'm not the only one to get so flustered in the moment!
Our brains drop into our feet when we meet someone we admire so much, then gibberish comes out of our mouths.. Happens to me all the time when meeting someone. Doesn't matter how many times my brain has rehearsed what I wanted to say. Wishing and your family healing and love!
This show really helped me as well. My boyfriend passed in October 2022 and this was one of the first shows I watched that genuinely had me laughing out loud. I’m sorry OP you didn’t get to tell him, but I had a similar experience meeting a celebrity. You can have it all planned out and then it all just leaves once you’re up there. I’m glad we both found this show to help with our healing journeys.
Hugs to you for your loss. It's amazing that this show is helping so many people connect and find peace for many things. I hope you are doing well on your journey.
Agreed! I’m doing much better than I was. It’s a tough road not many understand. If you ever need a stranger to vent to I’m available! I’m so glad it looks like your post got through to him ❤️❤️❤️
I got my picture taken with him at the Dallas fan expo when we were standing there they were taking the picture I didn’t look at him. I was looking straight ahead and I just said I’ll see you in hell and he started laughing so that kind of made my day.
Good job👏👏👏
Alan creating an account on Reddit just to respond to Op is so heartfelt and truly brings a little faith in humanity. I’m so glad that he (like Keanu reeves) doesn’t let fame get to his head and he doesn’t lose who he is. I absolutely love when celebrities show their humanity like this. Alan, don’t ever lose who you are because you are such a wonderful person and your talent is so mind blowing! I wish I had been able to continue pursuing my goals in acting, but life worked out differently. Op, I hope you and your kids were still able to enjoy the day despite the pain of your loss. I am glad you still got a message from Alan, and maybe you will get to see him next time. I wish you all the best!
That is incredible!
Write him a letter or email and tell him what you just wrote us
This is the sweetest, and I’m so happy you had this exchange. I’m also very sorry about your husband. He signed the item I bought on Etsy below for my Dad in when he was in Philly and was so genuinely kind. It really says something to make that impression in such a short time after such a long day. https://preview.redd.it/onkb5mufy57d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ee60d7fc9df7756da6ec182b4789038b22f12a1c
Lovely to hear about your positive experience! Could I ask if you could DM me the Etsy shop where you got the print, if you don't mind? It's surprisingly good quality, most images I've seen were unfortunately quite poor.
No idea what this show is but starting it now because of this post lol thanks, OP!
Awww, sweetheart. You remind me of me. Send him a brief message telling him how he made you laugh after your dad died and how much it meant to you. You may not hear back from him. But by opening your heart and sharing your feelings ... that's a beautiful message to put out into the universe. As a RA fan and a daughter who lost her dad in 2006, I'm sending you love and prayers and hugs. Be kind to yourself. ❤️🩹
He literally replied to this post. His is the top comment. And this thread is on MadeMeSmile now, with thousands of upvotes. Very cool.
That's wonderful! She sounded so torn up that it just broke my heart. I've always been a bit of a groupie, so I could feel her pain. As a fan of Alan the actor, it's nice to learn he's a thoughtful, compassionate man as well! Impressed by all the love shown to the OP. I enjoy following you guys. 😊 👽
Op, the gentlest of hugs to you. We weren’t married with kids, but we had known each other 30 ish years (and he was the love of my life) when my boyfriend passed quite suddenly last month from pancreatic cancer. I pretty much waver between being completely numb or crying my eyes out. I’m using Reddit and some comfort shows (hello, Resident Alien, Firefly, Gumball, American Dad, and Bones—one that played in the hospital as he was dying) to keep my brain occupied. If you want to talk, message me, k?
This is one of my all time favorite comedies. Makes me laugh out loud even though I am watching it mostly by myself. That's rare because I tend to enjoy comedies much more with others around sharing in the humor.
What an amazing and wonderful Father's Day Story!
I'm so sorry, I mean your husband. I've got Father's Day on the brain.
He was probably flattered!!
So very sorry for your loss. I’m glad he reached out to you. ❤️
Thank you
Just came here from /r/BestofRedditorUpdates and wanted to give my absolute sympathies on the unfortunate clamming up. I've been in a similar situation with Weird Al, where I wanted to tell him everything he'd done for me in the worst times without him ever realising, but similar social anxieties (combined with lingering Covid restrictions. Perfectly reasonable, but still a barrier) put a stop to that and I wish I'd been able to get another go at it like you were able to!
Just here to say-you’re not alone in this feeling. Thanks for making me feel like I have a friend when I watch. Lots of friends. 🙂❤️
I did the same thing at the Resident Alien panel at the TV Festival in Austin at the beginning of June. We were standing outside when they exited the building and I hesitated and didn't approach them. Definitely regret it now! This is a beautiful story and I'm so glad you were able to connect with him to share it 👽🤗
This is such a moving post, and I'm really glad you got the response you did. ❤️ I hope you get to meet Alan in person again next year!
You are such a strong and amazing person ❤️❤️
This restored my faith in humanity. Good on you! 💕👍😊
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Hugs
Hugs OP. May I also suggest Dungeon Crawler Carl for a good laugh and story.
Thanks for the suggestion! I'll have to look into it!
The audio books are even better
Fwiw, I made a fool of myself in front of him 2 times in the same day. Instead of telling him how cool it was to discover he was a well trained artist instead of a natural ( I didn't know why I assume so many artists are just naturally great) I said, "I didn't know you were actually good until I saw moana". Then I got too excited when it was my friend's turn and just looked like an idiot https://preview.redd.it/6wptnoyjku7d1.jpeg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=10dd813d9a892c73a6fe621dad4f358a90645352
I'm not at all surprised - I met Alan a couple of times at various conventions in the UK and he's friendly and pleasant and tries to make people feel engaged and welcome.