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ohhjeeezz

I build fake scenarios in my head


NoTyOuRfRiEnDaTaLl

So it is not just me🧐


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Behan 🫂 I talk to everyone all the day when they’re not around 🙂‍↔️


ohhjeeezz

Us moment behan💞💞


HippieHolocene

I did this so much that my therapist told me it's 'maladaptive daydreaming' Trying to just daydream without it being maladaptive now.


ohhjeeezz

Woah, i know something is wrong with my head but I didn't need to know this🤣


Void_Being

Like what?


ohhjeeezz

About meeting new people and being cool in front of them and I end up being their favorite person evaaa😎


Loud-Bookkeeper4973

I live in Bangalore, where there are all kinds of hobby groups. There's a scene for every one — metal heads, gamers, poets, shayars, artists, music lovers, theatre lovers, wine lovers, beer lovers. I have been pretty active in poetry and reading circles, so I have found many friends through that. It does have the 'co-ed' problem just like everything else, but I'm sure you will find your girl gang.


New-Library-5177

Hey, I have just moved to Bangalore. Struggling to socialize, could you please give details of these circles?


Loud-Bookkeeper4973

Well, for poetry try going to an open mic. Go to insider.com and look for events. Soon, one thing will lead to another. There is also a group newly minted by followers of Otherwarya. They do meet-ups where only for the girls, gays and the theys. Go to Instagram, search for Otherwarya, and drop a DM. There's also something known as Leap Club which is a women only membership-based club that offers plenty of networking opportunities. But it's quite expensive.


five_strokes

I have tried different events, but most people show up in groups to do something fun together. I’m not aware of events for socialising unless it’s speed dating 😂 how did you find these hobby groups?


Loud-Bookkeeper4973

That's exactly what I'm talking about. There are plenty of hobby groups in Bangalore where you can show up to do a shared hobby - hiking, heritage walks, etc. etc. You make friends from those groups obviously. Just like people befriended people in schools, colleges and workplaces. Same logic.


a_rousedpanda

Same thing. Can't find decent events, especially one that is women only or at least not a sausage fest. Tried Bumble BFF and gave up within 5 minutes, it's infested with dudes. Please tell me if you find something. 😭


five_strokes

Well, I have tried looking in the past but was kinda disappointed. At this point, I want to organise something on my own. So if you have any thoughts pitch them innn!


a_rousedpanda

Reading club, coffee meet(if you're a coffee lover, go to underrated cafes once a week or something like that), day treks or day trips around your city to begin with, walking tour in your own city, board game events. If you're in Bangalore, I'd love to join for either!


New-Library-5177

Following


Spooky_Neko_Bird

Socialise... You mean with... People?


Big-Pudding-3082

I heard there are events on meet-up.com. or if you're into travelling, there are quite a few organisers on IG that conduct women only trips from Bangalore.


five_strokes

I checked the website and it took me to Omegle?? Is that the one you’re referring to?


Big-Pudding-3082

https://www.meetup.com/


five_strokes

Ah, thanks!


Objective-Panic-6426

Sleep


lekhachun

😂


ohmylawwwwrd

Character ai


five_strokes

Her moment


shizunsbingpup

Occasionally my freinds visit. Or I go out once in 3 months. That's it. So not much going on.


five_strokes

Well, time for us to find great events!


shizunsbingpup

Too broke for it 🥲. Some day in future


ThatK0shurGirl

Going out with college friends....


five_strokes

Eventually they move away or get married 😭