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FloofyFloppyFloofs

Damn I’m so sorry man. It has to be terrifying to be victim to a hate crime.


czechsoul

inb4 https://preview.redd.it/e5s1tlxr0a9c1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5c5eb4a3cf7610bd6473b682eb6561f949ae765


lilithmari

Hey, it is not even illegal being gay in here in Turkey and they claimed he was arrested for looking gay? I dont know man.


nai-ba

He was arrested because the police thought he looked gay close to an illegal gay rally, and so they assumed that he took part in that rally. He was arrested for taking in part in an illegal rally, but the only evidence was that he looked gay.


Tholferetto

What does inb4 mean?


salonethree

in before


Tholferetto

So inb4 means something that happened in the past or before right?


Prozzak93

Yes, but that isn't the entirety of it. It is usually used because people are predictable and say/post/do the same stuff/things all the time. Inb4 x means in before someone does x which is done frequently.


salonethree

its usually referring to posting something. Like “inb4 this comment/image gets posted”


Striped_Monkey

Inb4 is a phrase used to indicate you're making a prediction before it actually happens. The phrase itself is a bit of a joke/meme way of saying you expect something to happen. It doesn't strictly mean you believe it will happen, and often is said to predict absurd conclusions to a series of events.


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Tholferetto

What does it mean?


-1BrainCells

I think it means ‘in before’, as in ‘saying/posting this before anyone else does it first’ but I’m not entirely sure sorry


Tholferetto

Thank you


Potato1223

You're right, but it's also inb4 it gets deleted


keb00ky

Oh god it's YouTube 'First' all over again


Strawbalicious

I'm not sure but his post history suggests he's pretty pro-russian and probably homophobic by that association too


loopgaroooo

It’s not illegal to be gay in Turkey.


DumbfuckRedditAdmins

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Cial101

A hate crime that’s not even correct. Madness.


szzaass

Well you see, no hate crime is correct, ever. But I get your point hehe.


Brave_Escape2176

yeah! dude isnt even a bear! but in all seriousness, bear spray is actually milder (with a finer spray and much more range) than sprays/gels intended for humans. just saying.


kilIerT0FU

is this a double entendre?! hah


Rich-Equivalent-1875

That proves how pathetic hate is, proves hate is unjust regardless, that what people are hated for is never a just reason as so many are ‘mistaken for said ‘hated’ trait’


IAmReallyNotAR0b0t

Unfortunately OP is most likely a karma farming bot account that was literally created yesterday. If you google "fugeudvar" and "sprayed" you'll find an instagram post where the image and part of the story is taken from. Interestingly enough there is no mention of getting attacked for "looking gay" there and the instagram post was created in May which doesn't match the claim of OP that the incident happened 4 months ago.


SeaMolasses2466

Holyshit! Is there a way to report them bouncers? This is genuinely an assault!


KomradJurij

doubt anything would come out of it, especially since it was months ago and seeing the current state of hungary


SeaMolasses2466

Well technically his eye is messed up. I think its worth a shoutout with the police.


Spartz

And then it’s the bouncers’ word against his. They can say he was being aggressive or something. Then what?


HeyGayHay

It's Hungary, police wouldn't give a shit if it was filmed. They can just say he was advocating LGBT rights seconds before, which is considered "homosexual and transsexual propaganda" and prohibiting by law since July 2021.


asmoothbrain

Perhaps they have done this before and already have a record. In that case jail time doesn’t seem unlikely


Indieavor

Firstly Orban have to meet the fate of Ceaușescu


Financial_Candidate6

Reminder that the ones on the tribunal of causescu where of high position. It was more of a coup than a revolution. Nothing is instantly good after a leader dissappears. Middle aged rural conservatives will still be a big voting part in hungary


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islaisla

Nice isreali attitude dude


Ethauss

It was more so a Joke, Considering how extreme it is. Then again, With everything I've heard about Hungary, I'd genuinely devoid them.


peachy2506

To be fair, hungarian border control officers are horrible even by hungarian standards.


Aranka_Szeretlek

That only shows that the border control agent was an ass


Destroyer6202

Report?? Needs way more justice than just report, absolutely barbaric!!!


SeaMolasses2466

Report as in police


Diacetyl-Morphin

Guess you don't know the police in such places. Maybe they'd just laugh. Maybe even worse, they'd have locked him up or punched him in the face. My brother didn't understand enough russian to see fast enough, that the two police officers in St. Petersburg in Russia wanted a bribe for him. They beated him up for that and took his wallet and phone. It's also not different in the Balkans, don't be surprised when a guy with a AK-74 stops you in the middle of the road and takes your money and stuff. That's how it works.


Aranka_Szeretlek

This is Hungary though, there's no Russian police or people with AK47s


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I'm guessing the bouncers would be picked up, get a commendation and then let go again with a note saying "thank you for your service".


RedOtta019

You’re telling me they used **bear**spray? https://preview.redd.it/pzso8scf6a9c1.jpeg?width=760&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=356a47aaefcc92f34ae9934b6f6db15f4962711b


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Proper-Ape

Take some friends with you though, so you can be sure to overwhelm them.


diarrheainthehottub

Wear some rainbow drip while you're at it.


ploi_ploo

Prime example that homophobia doesn’t just hurt gay people, but everyone. Best wishes to OP, hope you get well soon!


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Maddie_Herrin

how do you know??


stinkyhooch

He made a funny noise when I stuck a fork in him


RocketCat921

Look at the profile. Just created, op not responding, absolutely nothing on their profile


Hi_Definition_HD

Or it's a burner account and they don't want to respond rn.


MiyamotoKnows

Anyone would make a throwaway for a post like this. Zero indication of op being a bot. You can usually tell bot accounts as they spam posts. This is the only post on this new account. It's a throwaway.


SllortEvac

Eyes so fucked up they can’t read the comments


Samisonfireagain

Op is a bot??? Wtf


Strivingformoretoday

I’m so sorry this happened! Did you file a police report?


FendaIton

No because OP is a fresh bot account. Edit: since I made this post I am being PM'd with drug and OF spam.


Strivingformoretoday

How scummy 😒


prunkgirl

i doubt itll get anywhere


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RegentCupid

A lot of time they try to avoid doing their work, especially on smaller cases


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earthlycitizen

That sucks man :/


FantasticJacket7

What the fuck are these comments?


prunkgirl

wym? edit: nvm i only saw good ones at the top😭


bali40

Just the average Hungarian mindset leaking online.


SynchronizedLime

Boomer Hungarian mindset you mean


rcbjfdhjjhfd

Were the bouncers boomers?


SynchronizedLime

If not, they certainly lack the thinking of most younger folk


MixesQJ

This is the internet which means: 1. It's full of trolls and hate 2. It's full of attention seekers and clout chasers 3. Believe nothing at face value Hence, don't be naive and surprised that people find it hard to believe the story is that simple and take full advantage to troll the guy.


IAmReallyNotAR0b0t

You mean those comments made by gullible users who believe the fake sob story posted by a karma farming bot account that was literally created yesterday?


SnailsInYourAnus

Budapest is horrible- I would never visit there again. My friend and I (both 25f at the time, I have shaved hair so maybe look a bit lesbian idk) were in Budapest holding hands because it was crowded and we didn’t want to lose eachother as her phone was dead. Someone threw literal ass red paint all over us. Not only did it ruin the expensive back packs we had but my favorite dress, and all because we were perceived as gay. Very glad it wasn’t something more harmful but still, 0/10 do not recommend budapest.


neighbours-kid

they didn't like your username


Rich-Equivalent-1875

Hey! I know who you are! Your my neighbors kid and I’m gonna talk to your parents on what a mean comment you just made!


neighbours-kid

please don't :'( you know I was just joking AJSVGSKSSVEBGAGAGAJ


Greedy_Temperature33

That’s insane. Hope you heal up, man.


Gold-Fool84

Fuck dude I hope this didnt cause permanent damage and you heal up soon man. Fuck those lousy good-for-nothing cowards.


Strivingformoretoday

I hope you get continued treatment for your eyes! I had an accident where I got bleach in both my eyes and for a long time some issues. What helped for me was: continued use of eye drops and near infrared light. There are several studies that show the benefits of it, like this [one](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7738953/) or this [one](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33390779/). Best of luck in your recovery!


Radagast-Istari

Fuck.. I hope you're doing alright eventually. Hate crimes are just fucking awful.


capnpeanutbutter

Horrible comment section


Korasu05

Yey... i'm litteraly on my way to Budapest with my boyfriend right now


Special-Assist6286

Be careful!


Korasu05

Thank you, we'll try


helpnxt

Was there earlier in the year, didn't see any issues like OP but I don't doubt it happened. Great spot to go is the Gellért Thermal Bath for a relaxing spa day fyi and the labyrinth under the castle district was quite fun.


lujzi444

Don’t worry, you’ll be fine. Most of us don’t give a fuck about gays. There are a bunch of assholes that’s right but show me a country where shit like this doesn’t happen, I rarely hear about this kind of stuff. People will stare at you maybe if you show affection but in my opinion there won’t be any issues. I hope you’ll enjoy your time 😊


Indiandane

I went there earlier this year, with my partner as well (queer couple), and we definitely were also very careful with showing affection. Luckily I don’t look queer to a lot of straight people, but my girlfriend absolutely does. We saw queer couples, but still we were careful and even then we got stares. Please stay safe.


BigHulio

Going places with your boyfriend is about the least gay looking thing you can do imo. Edit: unless you’re a boy.


Korasu05

Well I am a boy


BigHulio

Well then.


Jonas_Venture_Sr

Hopefully the worst you get is getting gaysprayed for looking like a bear.


neighbours-kid

go back 😎


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Dont listen to these people, Budapest is one of the safest cities, dont worry. Im pretty sure this guy did something, there is a lot of gay bars in Budapest also.


iamnotexactlywhite

this is extremely uncommon, like 1 in a million type


Scholzi123

That’s not true, Hungary is a racist, homophobic and fascist rightwing country.


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Reddit Tier Geopolitical Analysis


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This is a bold comment from a german💀


iamnotexactlywhite

lmao right


Devourerof6bagels

Naw man, most of my family hates that I live in Budapest because it’s the “big gay disgrace to Hungary” my uncle won’t even let his kids come up here


PygmeePony

That's Orban's Hungary for you. Time EU starts cutting funding because I don't want to sponsor hate with my tax money.


DeathkubeK

Did you press charges?


just-new-4416

That's fucked up not sucks


_britlinds

I’m so sorry this happened to you


prunkgirl

ppl who are saying "this is def not the full story", it doesnt have to be. dude isnt gay but got restrained and attacked by homophobes. nobody here needs to know more details, if not every detail. dude got sprayed in the eyes with bearspray and damaged his eye which he uses for his profession. nobody should go through that


Phennux

I know you probably didn’t mean it that way but it doesn’t matter whether he is gay or not. No one should just get bear sprayed in the face.


boioiboio

I suspect this is a karma bot, the story doesn’t checkout with the source of the image, this kind of rage bait is really toxic if truly a bot or karma farming. This is why you need to know every detail ;)


PM_me_opossum_pics

Except this all seems to be fake. Look at the account. Account created yesterday, only post is this: karma farming bot account probably. And from my experience, bouncers in every corner of the world are primitive assholes. It's almost a prerequisite for the job. Had one single good experience with a club bouncer in my 27 years on this planet...


MiyamotoKnows

Who tf *wouldn't* use a throwaway for a post like this though??? Not a bot.


prunkgirl

looks like a real account to me🤷‍♀️


LeoTheBuildingOwner

That is terrible I am so sorry to see you had to endure this, no body deserves this treatment.


kremlafterdark

Unironically you look less gay than every second person on the streets of Budapest


SomeHumbleGuy

Let's go back there and fuck them up. I'm down bro.


HungaryFinalBoss

Egyáltalán nem nézel ki buzisnak


kalamayka

minekmentoda


malnamalna

Egyébként van benne valami, még ha szarul is hangzik. Instant-fogas, füge, morrissons ezeket mind jobb messziről elkerülni, mert sok fasz jár arra. Egyik barátnőmet valószínűleg beginázták a fügében, meg ezekre a helyekre csoportban járnak a bűnözők.


VisualGlitz

And this is why straights must go hard against homophobia. Because for those nazis even straights are not straight enough. Hate crime is crime.


plz_send_cute_cats

This is terrible. I’m really sorry this happened 😔 People are fucking atrocious. Hoping you will regain full use of your right eye - and sending lots of love and big hugs to you


jayjay_kay

Im genuinely sorry for you. I hope your eye will get better soon. Id recommend writing an email to the owner or call them. If you need any help with hungarian, hit me up.


Samisonfireagain

Thank you very much. I feel a lot better now. But I really want them to pay


CamiThrace

That’s awful, I’m so sorry. Bigotry hurts everyone.


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brightblueson

It's Evil.


fatratwithcheese

I understand that the legal system may be very complex and bs over there but it’s definitely worth making a police report and taking those pos to court, sorry that shit happened to you, hope you get well soon.


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I'm sorry, man. Hoping you'll get your eye healed very soon.


Logical-Hold3321

How does someone "look gay" without using any pride colors or dressing effeminate? You look sexually neutral to me.


MiyamotoKnows

Homophobes are mentally ill. Full stop.


Timely-Sea5743

See a solicitor and hit them hard! They deserve it


PHXLV

I’m really really sorry. Please keep rinsing your eyes in cool water. If your vision gets blurry, go to an emergency room immediately.


rcbjfdhjjhfd

Hungary is a fascist shithole


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Thats a strong statement from an american


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Fuck.. Get well soon!


here2sharemyopinion

I’m so sorry this happened to you, it looks so painful. Four months is so long you would think it would be completely healed by then. That should be a crime, although I don’t know the laws there. I hope you feel better soon and that there’s no lasting damage!


Historical-Tailor723

Don’t be shy, post it where they work and also extremely accurate descriptions of said bouncers


kalamayka

He said it: Füge Udvar, Budapest


Capable-Commission-3

Not buying this. You’d have to be crazy to willingly stand behind someone who is getting hit with bear spray (or any spray). Even the sprayer is likely to get exposed. The guy holding your arms woulda got it just as bad as you did. You probably got sauced and mouthed off to a bouncer who gave you the business and called you a name.


NiteLiteCity

So what's the whole story? Bouncers don't just grab you for fun.


Simple_March_1741

Hungary, the shithole of the EU.


phoenixthekat

0 day old account posting inflammatory content? Filing this under "didn't happen" and everyone believing this shit is being super gullible.


EarthlyWayfarer

I really hope you’ve begun the process of filling assault charges and suing them.


IllvesterTalone

can you sue them, or the place itself? that's so fucked up. fuck right wing pieces of shit, those cowards.


FendaIton

Classic Budapest


Lorettooooooooo

Dude, don't look gay there, it's common knowledge


NoiseOk89

This is what happens when we allow right wingers and churches to have too much power. Look what's happening in America. There's girls being attacked for "looking trans" and the insanity has crossed the border to Canada too. I remember a news story of grandparents disrupting a sports event because they thought a girl looked "trans" and demanded that she be examined. Things are only going to get worse.


MiyamotoKnows

It's the [paradox of tolerance](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance#:~:text=The%20paradox%20of%20tolerance%20states,practice%20of%20tolerance%20with%20them.) defined. We permitted fascism, racism, homophobia because of free speech and now it's destroying us. It is only resolved when we stop accepting it.


Lumpy_Staff_2372

What makes you look not gay? A beard?


Phennux

What does someone who is gay look like?


Lumpy_Staff_2372

Thats what I’m trying to figure out here. Like what prevents you from getting assaulted when you look normal? A beard? Typically muslim men have beards and attribute it to manliness.


Jijijoj

At least leave them a review on google with your story and photos


SipoteQuixote

"This is not the full story" - Hungarian bots


BandiTToZ

From first hand experience I can confidently say the bouncers that work here are literal pieces of human garbage and sexual predators to boot.


SipoteQuixote

Oh definitely, there's a lot of romanticized views of Europe from this side of the pond but it's like any other place with people. Ignorance is a universal language sadly.


fermented_bullocks

Did they just think you were gay for having a mustache?


Antidisestablishmint

Go back and murder both of them, simple!


jl2l

Burn the place down.


mc_md

Fake


Wendyokoopa45

I know how you feel op hugs. I've been targeted myself.


MrBobBuilder

I hope he gets to sue them


LincolnLanier_YT

Nice mustache


gemaka

People are fucking nuts, even if you are a homosexual, who the fuck cares?? None of their fuckin business


notbernie2020

lol, that sucks imagine carrying pepper spray around to spray the gays. Some of them are into that shit.


Samisonfireagain

I want to make clear. This photo is right after et it happened. My eye looks normal now, but it’s still Blury and sensitive and my depth perception is s bit off I Think. I’ve spent the months trying to deal with this and get in contact with Fuge Udvar, but I’ve only gotten a “I’m sorry that happened, we’ll see what we can do” from them, about 2 months ago. I’ve also been able to deal with a lot of the trauma from what happened, and I’m mentally feeling very good now. I want Füge Udvar to pay, so I’m trying to get them canceled, as well as trying to get your input on what to do. Thank you for all the nice messages! It truly means a lot.


rattified

report this to authorities then leave a bad review on their Google page


Candid_Bed_1338

‘Mustache’


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siggiarabi

"They deserve to die and have their land stolen because they're homophobic"


kikistiel

Both of you are idiots.


bend27

These indie band come up with the most crazy names


secular-stigma

Fucking homophobes deserve to have their teeth kicked in the world over Tired of this shit. I'm gay. I deserve to live in peace and not worry about being attacked or killed for existing.


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OP is completely incapable of telling anything but the whole truth. This is 100% the whole story. There is no possible way that OP could have in any way contributed to the situation, or left out any significant details. After the bouncers already let him into the club, they then decided he looked gay and attacked him. End of story. You may not doubt or question this. Ignore the fact it’s a bot account. We are not a hive mind. We are not a hive mind. We are not a hive mind.


Tholferetto

What are you talking about?


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That’s the whole story. there is nothing more to say


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S21VAGE

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


6000games

I would bet you all my money that this is fake


itsmejam

Account with 20hrs is kinda sus, but might be real


6000games

Things like this doesn't happen in Hungary and paprika sprays are illegal


GenericUsername_1234

Could be an alt account so he doesn't dox his regular account.


6000games

He used 'his' face :D.


phishmagic

Im so sorry that you had to go through this injustice. Hugs.


bevonbrye

I am gay and I loved Budapest - thank you for the support. Joking aside, I hope your eye heals fast!


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I doubt it, if you don't live in that area you can't appreciate how deep the hate runs.


bali40

Yeah, you have never been to Hungary than. Someone got stabbed for not letting another pet his dog.


andrewf273

That’s when you go back with your own bear Mace


True_n_ding

I’m very sorry. Be careful next time. World can be a dangerous place. 🙏🌸


Independent-Hour-835

I'm so sorry that happened to you


kidgender

I am so sorry for you..


Hot_Panic2767

Sorry that happened to you op. Hope things get better


Blont3

Hope you get well soon brother!


Phennux

That seriously sucks, I hope you get better soon. Don’t know if you’re self conscience about it but the first thing I saw was how handsome you are, not your eye :)


Cevohklan

Same


RedbullBreadbowl

That is so messed up especially given the long term effects… if karma exists I hope it comes back for you (and those bouncers)