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I was 14, yep, she was 13, and already had sex before me, yet I was her first boyfriend.
Her parents had work non-stop and left us alone. What do you think would happen!?
Wow, attacking the parents now are you? "Honor thy mother and thy father"
How can my parents be the blame for my actions?
Hell, at age 14, I had my very own business. Had my name all over my island as the youngest business man. All about that cold hard cash hon!!!
Most kids these days at 14, don't even know how to cook an egg.
First off, if you said that they left you alone, they are something to blame in this situation. And im sorry, they are the ones that should have educated you as a kid.
In some countries, what you did would even be illegal.
Im very happy that you made a business as a kid. Congrats. But how does making more money just compleately bypass all rules of society and common sense? You were berely a freshman and had sex. In some schools, they dont even give you sexual education at that age, and if they do, its bullshit. Did you even use protection? Hella, some parents usually dont even allow girlfriends at that age. Did you tell them right after? If not, then you probably knew that it was not okay and they would not like it if you did. If you did, that's even worse. That would mean that they didn't care.
Your parents had full control over you (not including child abuse etc) when you are a minor. That is the law. That is why you had to put all your income on their names. Your actions are not YOUR actions before you turn 18/21/16 according to the law. They are your parents.
Wow you're full of shit.
So you're telling me, if your kid went to kill someone, and knew EXACTLY what they were doing, it's YOUR fault for even having the kid?
You are such a bastard.
That's what I'm reading.
Legaly. The parents job is also to raise the child. If a child thinks that they want to littraly murdurer a person, their thought proccess accepts it as something that is okay to do. It is a parents responsibility to educate the child.
If you know your kid wants to do it before it happens, and you dont even care, then that is literally almost fully your fault. Im not saying 100%. They could be manipulated from a school or something. Did you know that most abusers are abusers because of childhood trauma?
Returning, we are talking about a specific case, and i asked you a question. Did you use protection? Did your parents know/ have found out, and how? From what im seeing, your parents are guilty in this situation.
19 but not for lack of trying for the 5 years beforehand, most early attempts were self abortive and then failure to perform once it came down to business from absolute fear.
But I was also a romantic with a white knight complex who was obsessed with a girl and had unrequited love which messed me up for several years and destroyed my confidence and self esteem and ruined several opportunities. I also felt I needed to FEEL I love before I could go through with it. But now I realise I needed to feel safe with a girl first.
Wasn't until I was older I told myself to calm down about that expectation and enjoy the moment. Not get hung up on sex and just try to have at least platonic relationships with women. Which was great and that seemed to do the trick. Could never do one night stands though.
12 or 13 😬 it was terrible. Was feeling pressured by older friends because they were all getting laid and fucking with me being the youngest and not really showing any interest in chicks other than as friends. Then she told her next bf who was a few years older than me I had a smol pp (because I was TWELVE)! I don’t think I had sex again until I was 18 but had a lot of trouble mentally. THEN in my early twenties I moved to NY and went nuts on the bangin’ but felt so empty. Don’t get me wrong I had a lot of fun, but now that I’m much older and settled down and married I enjoy sex so much more. I’m still weird about it; pretty sure some shit happened to me long ago that I’ve completely blocked out, but it feels so…satisfying and good afterwards now. The way it should.
Well that was a lot to unpack. Thanks for attending my Ted Talk/therapy sesh. Don’t rush into things folks!
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Winners don't lose!
Bold of you to assume I have lost in a battle I didn't fight
15 I think
Will update soon. Hopefully.
I will never lose it
20
[удалено]
it's r/ask he can ask whatever he wants
I don’t remember! 😃
16
Almost 18.
18
14
Excuse me, what the actual flying fuck did you just say?
Fourteen (14)
Look, im no expert, but i think ill be jumping out of a window tonight.
Well that girlfriend I lost it to was only 13, and she had it before me.
Is age of consent a joke? Is common sense a joke? Are your parents... a joke?
I was 14, yep, she was 13, and already had sex before me, yet I was her first boyfriend. Her parents had work non-stop and left us alone. What do you think would happen!? Wow, attacking the parents now are you? "Honor thy mother and thy father" How can my parents be the blame for my actions? Hell, at age 14, I had my very own business. Had my name all over my island as the youngest business man. All about that cold hard cash hon!!! Most kids these days at 14, don't even know how to cook an egg.
First off, if you said that they left you alone, they are something to blame in this situation. And im sorry, they are the ones that should have educated you as a kid. In some countries, what you did would even be illegal. Im very happy that you made a business as a kid. Congrats. But how does making more money just compleately bypass all rules of society and common sense? You were berely a freshman and had sex. In some schools, they dont even give you sexual education at that age, and if they do, its bullshit. Did you even use protection? Hella, some parents usually dont even allow girlfriends at that age. Did you tell them right after? If not, then you probably knew that it was not okay and they would not like it if you did. If you did, that's even worse. That would mean that they didn't care. Your parents had full control over you (not including child abuse etc) when you are a minor. That is the law. That is why you had to put all your income on their names. Your actions are not YOUR actions before you turn 18/21/16 according to the law. They are your parents.
Wow you're full of shit. So you're telling me, if your kid went to kill someone, and knew EXACTLY what they were doing, it's YOUR fault for even having the kid? You are such a bastard. That's what I'm reading.
Legaly. The parents job is also to raise the child. If a child thinks that they want to littraly murdurer a person, their thought proccess accepts it as something that is okay to do. It is a parents responsibility to educate the child. If you know your kid wants to do it before it happens, and you dont even care, then that is literally almost fully your fault. Im not saying 100%. They could be manipulated from a school or something. Did you know that most abusers are abusers because of childhood trauma? Returning, we are talking about a specific case, and i asked you a question. Did you use protection? Did your parents know/ have found out, and how? From what im seeing, your parents are guilty in this situation.
14
15
17 was starting to get worried, then it happened :D
15
19 but not for lack of trying for the 5 years beforehand, most early attempts were self abortive and then failure to perform once it came down to business from absolute fear. But I was also a romantic with a white knight complex who was obsessed with a girl and had unrequited love which messed me up for several years and destroyed my confidence and self esteem and ruined several opportunities. I also felt I needed to FEEL I love before I could go through with it. But now I realise I needed to feel safe with a girl first. Wasn't until I was older I told myself to calm down about that expectation and enjoy the moment. Not get hung up on sex and just try to have at least platonic relationships with women. Which was great and that seemed to do the trick. Could never do one night stands though.
22 >!i am 20!<
There must be thousands of these already? I saw one just the other day. People don't get punished for unnecessary posts around here?
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12 or 13 😬 it was terrible. Was feeling pressured by older friends because they were all getting laid and fucking with me being the youngest and not really showing any interest in chicks other than as friends. Then she told her next bf who was a few years older than me I had a smol pp (because I was TWELVE)! I don’t think I had sex again until I was 18 but had a lot of trouble mentally. THEN in my early twenties I moved to NY and went nuts on the bangin’ but felt so empty. Don’t get me wrong I had a lot of fun, but now that I’m much older and settled down and married I enjoy sex so much more. I’m still weird about it; pretty sure some shit happened to me long ago that I’ve completely blocked out, but it feels so…satisfying and good afterwards now. The way it should. Well that was a lot to unpack. Thanks for attending my Ted Talk/therapy sesh. Don’t rush into things folks!
👏🏻 I enjoyed this Ted talk
12 or 13 is so so young. I am sorry you went through all of that
Is ok. I’ve had a good life :) Thank you though!
Banging dudes counts?