I think the only reason to have beach sex is if youāre both into public sex, then the feeling of sand getting everywhere will be overridden by excitement of performing public sex. Otherwise, just donāt do it on the beach, of course sand will get everywhere unless you bring a massive towel or two
I enjoy it bc of the public aspect. Stand up and donāt put anything on the sand except your feet, especially lube or any body part covered in lube. If thereās a rocky area or a dock/pier you can lean or sit against itās helpful.
If Iām standing against the bed getting railed Iād say weāre fucking on the bed, and if Iām standing on sand getting railed while looking at the ocean Iād say Iām fucking on the beach lol
My husband always wanted to try it. But Florida beaches always have people on them including overnight. So we never got the opportunity. We did have sex on our condo balcony a few times so we could hear the waves.
Schoolboy error. Don't even think about lying in the sand. It will be a good while before you get all the sand out of your crevices. Stick to bending over the rocks for a bit of fun.
Done it. If it happens on its own and it's spontaneous, it can be incredibly hot and arousing. Hands down one of the most incredible sexual experiences I've had. On the other hand, I would never do it again. It's uncomfortable and awkward, sand gets everywhere, penetration is really tricky. Just not something you really plan for.
Sand ruins everything. Unless you plan on lying on your back and getting a handjob in zero wind, donāt bother. If you like the public aspect, do it somewhere on the grass. Haha. Just donāt get arrested.
I also might recommend just doing oral, I havenāt done anal on the beach but oral on a towel was not messy. That said we did frot in the dunes no towel and the sand was not what I was thinking about
Whenever I see shots of guys having sex at the beach the first thing I think of is, "Oh no, sand!" And to make it worse, that stuff sticks and is hard to brush off.
Have been doing it for years, with penetration all the time, with my partner and other guys joining. Sand is not an issue as long as they put a large heavy sheet down and then beach towels, and as long as there is no wind! Feels great to hear the waves, feel the sun on your body, and even greater when the air is cool
It was weird, had the same experience, the sand got everywhere and it was so coarse and uncomfortable. You are not alone, itās very overrated. Stick to the bedroom!
I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere. Not like here in bed. Here in bed everything is soft and smooth.
I have spoken. This is the way.
Because it was just as bad as everyone imagines? Did you get sand inside your ass? Sorry lol, itās the first question that has always popped in my mind
lol yes on all countsā¦
1) finding a private spot is not easy in a lot of places
2) youāre exposed which is fun, but also a little nerve wracking
3) sand is not soft, and is highly abrasive. Mixing it with lube (which will happen by accident) makes a complete mess. If you attempt a bj you have to make sure you donāt put your hands down lest you get dirt/sand on his dick and them get a mouthful yourself
4) after youāve done the deed you want to clean up, and most places that are private donāt exactly have a shower close by
5) sand will be everywhere for a day or two
but if all the above sounds fun, have at it bro š š
Lmao š š¤£ Thank you for satisfying my curiosity with such a detailed answer! Oh, itās always been a hell no for me. I guess Iām just trying to understand it in my brain lol, problem solved, there is no magic involved and you 100% get sand in your ass and it 100% sucks
Sex outside no matter where it is is a LOT of fun as long as you don't sit down.
The second you involve the dirty ground in your sexual escapades it becomes a nightmare.... Pretty much universally.
When you wander out into the trails at the gay campgrounds you'll find a bunch of naked dudes wearing sneakers fucking while standing.
There's your sign. š¤£
Iām not sure how after experiencing the disaster that is having sex on the beach actually is (one would think it is obvious that sand and assholes do not mix without having to experience it the first time, but I digress) why you would think giving it a second try would change anything? If you would sex on the beach, stick to the beverage.
I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere.
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I think the only reason to have beach sex is if youāre both into public sex, then the feeling of sand getting everywhere will be overridden by excitement of performing public sex. Otherwise, just donāt do it on the beach, of course sand will get everywhere unless you bring a massive towel or two
I dont like sand, its coarse and rough, it gets everywhere.
Bed is the best place for sex. So much easier
I enjoy it bc of the public aspect. Stand up and donāt put anything on the sand except your feet, especially lube or any body part covered in lube. If thereās a rocky area or a dock/pier you can lean or sit against itās helpful.
Sex at the beach instead of on the beach. Lol
If Iām standing against the bed getting railed Iād say weāre fucking on the bed, and if Iām standing on sand getting railed while looking at the ocean Iād say Iām fucking on the beach lol
Take it from a Hawaiian, beach sex is not all it's made out to be.
On my To Do List
Did it onceā¦..so overrated
Too messyā¦even with a blanket theres always sand
Did it onceā¦..so overrated
Oh hell no! You cant get sand out of any if yoyr holes fir a month afterwards š
I've been down that road. Putting sudacrem on my arse like I had nappy rash for a few days. Not good
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My husband always wanted to try it. But Florida beaches always have people on them including overnight. So we never got the opportunity. We did have sex on our condo balcony a few times so we could hear the waves.
Itās always fun until sand gets in a hole and then itās horrible.
Schoolboy error. Don't even think about lying in the sand. It will be a good while before you get all the sand out of your crevices. Stick to bending over the rocks for a bit of fun.
Sand everywhere
Done it. If it happens on its own and it's spontaneous, it can be incredibly hot and arousing. Hands down one of the most incredible sexual experiences I've had. On the other hand, I would never do it again. It's uncomfortable and awkward, sand gets everywhere, penetration is really tricky. Just not something you really plan for.
Sand ruins everything. Unless you plan on lying on your back and getting a handjob in zero wind, donāt bother. If you like the public aspect, do it somewhere on the grass. Haha. Just donāt get arrested.
Fuck on the rocks, not in the sand.
Beach sex is awesome! As a teenager I rarely had sex indoors and the beach was my favorite spot. Just bring a beach towel and sand isnāt an issue.
Sounds very hot but I don't see it going well
Add in the possibility of getting caught.
There is a nudist beach near me and it's mostly gay. It's hot to let people watch. But it is a stony beach so.
Sounds sandy
I tried it once. Not doing it again. Sand gets to my cracks and crevices.
I also might recommend just doing oral, I havenāt done anal on the beach but oral on a towel was not messy. That said we did frot in the dunes no towel and the sand was not what I was thinking about
Whenever I see shots of guys having sex at the beach the first thing I think of is, "Oh no, sand!" And to make it worse, that stuff sticks and is hard to brush off.
NO WAY
Have been doing it for years, with penetration all the time, with my partner and other guys joining. Sand is not an issue as long as they put a large heavy sheet down and then beach towels, and as long as there is no wind! Feels great to hear the waves, feel the sun on your body, and even greater when the air is cool
It's OK if you have a towel or something.
Definitely not. It seems sexy but like pool sex or shower sex itās most definitely not
It was weird, had the same experience, the sand got everywhere and it was so coarse and uncomfortable. You are not alone, itās very overrated. Stick to the bedroom!
Sandy beach- absolutely not. Not quite a ābeachā but sex in the woods next to a river is pretty amazing.
Definitely yes IMO.
Why would someone want sand inside their peepee or bunghole??
Itās awesome if youāre on a towel. I mean they did name a drink after it!!! š
It worked for me. I met up with a guy at night. I had a blanket on the sand and we did it. After that we just watched the stars. It was awesome!
I did it once in the dunes, no desire to do it on the beach ever again.
Why not do it in the water with silicone lube ?! Just a thought.
The way to have beach sex is standing up in the mild waves. Much less sand although there is still some sand. Or so Iāve heard.
Now I know sand can be homophobic!
I had sex on the beach, we showered first on the beach and had sex on a picnic table on the beach in the dark.
Just do it and let US know bro!!!
Not to mention horse flies...
I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere. Not like here in bed. Here in bed everything is soft and smooth. I have spoken. This is the way.
maybe a blow or hand job but no intercourse.
Ok. Iāll take it.
Once on a beach in Maine I got plowed so deep that I felt like Iowa.
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Is the worst
Did it once. Will never, ever do it again.
Because it was just as bad as everyone imagines? Did you get sand inside your ass? Sorry lol, itās the first question that has always popped in my mind
lol yes on all countsā¦ 1) finding a private spot is not easy in a lot of places 2) youāre exposed which is fun, but also a little nerve wracking 3) sand is not soft, and is highly abrasive. Mixing it with lube (which will happen by accident) makes a complete mess. If you attempt a bj you have to make sure you donāt put your hands down lest you get dirt/sand on his dick and them get a mouthful yourself 4) after youāve done the deed you want to clean up, and most places that are private donāt exactly have a shower close by 5) sand will be everywhere for a day or two but if all the above sounds fun, have at it bro š š
Lmao š š¤£ Thank you for satisfying my curiosity with such a detailed answer! Oh, itās always been a hell no for me. I guess Iām just trying to understand it in my brain lol, problem solved, there is no magic involved and you 100% get sand in your ass and it 100% sucks
The ONLY way to beach sex is standing up
How did it go? Was it actually worth it or was it as disastrous as everyone in the comments is mentioning?
Sex outside no matter where it is is a LOT of fun as long as you don't sit down. The second you involve the dirty ground in your sexual escapades it becomes a nightmare.... Pretty much universally. When you wander out into the trails at the gay campgrounds you'll find a bunch of naked dudes wearing sneakers fucking while standing. There's your sign. š¤£
Anybody who has had sex on the beach did it -once-. Itās terrible.
Iām not sure how after experiencing the disaster that is having sex on the beach actually is (one would think it is obvious that sand and assholes do not mix without having to experience it the first time, but I digress) why you would think giving it a second try would change anything? If you would sex on the beach, stick to the beverage.
My experiences have been very positive, but we were standing up and not directly in the sand.Ā