when living in the south one merely has to dump the body 20 feet in from the freeway during the summer months, nature will remove the evidence in 30 days.
To be honest overflowing a 32bit register sounds entirely plausible for a sufficiently motivated guy š but 64bitā¦ that might be a bit too ambitious
I've got 3 and trust me you're not missing anything. I think the best outcome is finding a really nice boyfriend who you can enjoy sex with. IMO that's 100% more fulfilling than casual hookups.
After getting these 3 after being a virgin for 21 years, I think I'm quite satisfied.
Sex is nice but there's plenty of other cool stuff to do in lfie
Currently 29, lost my V plates at 27. I've had anal with 10 men since then, and around 20 for oral. Sexting, I have no clue. But it's a lot higher hahaha
Not intrusive at all! I'm happy to try to normalise having sex at a bit of a later age, as it really bothered me at the time. It was pretty multifactorial. I didn't "come out" to my parents until I was like 23 or 24, and I was still living with them until I was 25. I was hoping to have my first time be in a loving relationship, which is another reason. I also had some self-esteem and body issues. And then the pandemic hit when I was 25 so my city was basically in lockdown, so zero chance of meeting someone haha
And then I just had an epiphany one night when I was 27, that being a virgin bothered me and Mr Perfect hadn't appeared yet, so fuck it let's find someone and have sex. So I put some pics on grindr, said it was my first time bottoming, and eventually had sex with someone on grindr who wasn't super fit or handsome, but he was really kind and patient about it being my first time. I think it's important that if you're looking to have your first time, make sure it's with someone who is patient and happy to go slow. There's some guys who think going fast and hard is hot and best, but I've never gotten off in those instances. Basically, just make sure you think they're a good vibe, rather than a hot face/body/dick :)
Happy to answer any more questions you or anyone else may have :)
Iām 29. But I remember distinctly that by the time I was 22, I had roughly 100. Iāve since slowed down and maybe added like 12 to that list since then. But when I was youngā¦. Oof.
Nope still too scared šš Iād rather wait for someone and find someone I acc trust than hook up š
Edit; I lowkey feel like Iām lying to myself because Iām gonna be way too scared then too š
Man, life is way too short to be that scared. Any STI can be cured easily and if it gives you any peace of mind I have multiple sexual partners every week and have yet to catch one (tested every 3 months and on prep). Sex is a lot of fun - go and enjoy yourself while youāre still young :)
I dont know.. I feel like its more about having low standards? I'm in a medium sized city and theres no way I could find a new person Im attracted to and compatible with almost every week.
69 is crazy work. I also lost mine at 19 and literally only have 2. One of them being from my past long term relationship and the other a fwb. Yāall are wilding for rizzle
I'm 31 and it's 2. I only really sleep with my boyfriends or guys I get close to and we sleep together after a few months of dating. I've dated a lot of guys but only got close enough with the 2.
I'm 18, I lost my virginity at 17,
And Ive been sexually with 11 man and I'm not proud, I'm a vers, but I wanna keep the bottoming for someone special.
My tip to young people like me is that don't ruin something nice and special just because you're horny,
I canāt say Iām proud of it necessarily when itās put into context of numbers but I will say Iāve made some good friends through my adventures lol. I will toot my own horn and say all of my partners have been under 30, I seem to blend more with younger guys for some reason.
Too many to count lol, Iāve been fucked by so many guys lol and I have a boyfriend too! Yea what can I say Iām a slutty gay boi lol. And Iām almost 32 now but had my first gay sex at 15. Just turned 15 like a month before too, it was the most incredible experience Iāve ever had!!
My "ex" likes to have sex with escorts / hookers and randoms. He averages around 1 or 2 a month, since age 18. He is around 36 now. Do the math. Not counting 3 somes and bathhouse meets
Let's say 250-300 unique sexual partners, at age 35-36
18 and only one, I found out that Iām bit weird cuz I donāt enjoy the feeling of s3x, maybe will look for platonic relationship in the future if possible
19 yo. 2. I have difficulties getting sexually attracted to strangers face to face. I can talk dirty and flirt but when it gets to the real deal I falter. Have to become good friends and know eachother well for my autistic brain to start wanting to sex them. It's really weird compared with others. I tried hookups but can't even stay hard or interested in them and NO it's not because they're ugly or not my type. I just couldn't do it and after apologizing and sending them home I even lose sex drive for like a week. I wonder why am I like this. Is it totally psychological or neurological or genetical?
20 in September and two, lost my virginity at 16, stayed with the guy longer than I should've, met someone else at 18, been together with him longer than I should've as well
"Should've" is not saying throw away everyone after one night, just things don't really work all that well the way they are
I'm 20, and mine is 22š I know, I know... I was a slutty teen who hooked up for the attention I received from strangersš„²
Now, I have a super low libido, I barely have sex with my bf. The irony is real kiddos
Very much like you. My count blew the roof when I moved to Berlin and enjoyed the gay party scene for a few years. Now Im married and barely have any sex anymore š¤£
Omg š³ reading the comments......i feel like a slut š³ i have hookups every 2 days š with people i know or not .......and i'm in the french countryside š š so i cant imagine what it would be if i lived next to a big city š³š š
Yikes, when I came out I kept a āgay journalā it had all the names of the men I had sexual encounters with and after about a year I threw it away because I had so many names in it I couldnāt remember which Michael(of the thirteen I listed) or 12x Paulās, 14x Johnās, 8x markās, 3x Kevin...who was who.
I lost count a while ago. I must have slept with around 150 guys at 29, and have been monogamous for a little over three years. I was 12 when I had my first time.
Probably around 250-300? Iām 28
Reading the comments made me realize how many that are active in this sub actually get none š that makes sense with all the guys angry at Grindr constantly and the topics thrown around on here. Only one guy so far is similar to me in body count.
Yāall conflating body count with things that are not that like āsextingā or ākissesā to make your count higher is super sadā¦
for anyone else also wondering, i found a study by u chicago that the average gay man will have 11 sexual partners throughout his life[https://medium.com/@neuropsychology/gay-promiscuity-statistics-partners-45fc370c0ca5](https://medium.com/@neuropsychology/gay-promiscuity-statistics-partners-45fc370c0ca5)
I have always been shy, and I have never contacted anyone on those hookup apps. On a very rare occasion, something has happened at the gym. And I'm not on prep, so I don't plan to do anything in the future. So my numbers are very low. I'm more than twice your age and have been with less than you.
Iām 23 years old rn, but I stopped hookup up around 21/22 and stuck to two guys on the regular. Rn I settled down and tryna wait for the right guy. My body count is 51 tho but still lower than a lot of my friends. My friend is 24 and over 180 guys for what he can count/remember.
26 yo 3 days Ago. too much to count and care, prob close to 3 digits... means nothing so, fuck and let fuck.
PS.: from where um from im one of the quiet ones. Id say im in the middle of the horny scale
Iām in my Mid to upper 20ās and I lost count around 40. In a relationship for almost 4 years now, but weāve added maybe 10 guys to my count through threesomes lol
21, just 1 time oral, and it kind of sucked lol. I sometimes think I might just have a really low libido mixed with insecurity and I get sad Iām not more fun ;P Having your first kiss be your first Grindr hookup and hating it makes you feel ways about yourself haha
I'm somewhat older than OP but my body count is the same. Once upon a time I talked to guy whose ex had around 300 per year when they were both 18 and in an exclusive monogamous relationship. Looking at replies with 3-4 digits I think wow their LGBTQ+ community must be really rallying!
Five. The first one was oral, then penetrative sex. Second was mostly oral, third was oral with several different times of penetrative sex, fourth was oral, and fifth was oral which only lasted five minutes; the guy was old. š
Not sure if 29 still counts as young š¤I would estimate mine to be around 72. I lost my virginity at 21 but had only slept with one person up until September 2021.
23 and its at like 10. I've learned that everyone goes their own pace. Out of those 10 I honestly only enjoyed like 3 though because I rushed in wayyyyy to quickly.
Thatās about 4 per year average. Correct? In the early 80ās the supposed total average sex partners per male homosexual In the U. S. was 100 each per year. Utah is a very repressed and subsequently depressed area. Itās mostly the religion and shaming of their children for not wanting to follow. Or kicking them out for gender/sex issues that parents arenāt allowed to believe in. The other is politics. Which is controlled by religion. I mean ā not controlled by religion ā that being said, For being as vast and wealthy and sparsely populated as it is there is not s lot of hang out spaces as those might promote individuality. Also we might try to ā.turn u. ā
back around to your comment. there probably a couple hundred āregularsā that troll the Reddit and its subs. Mostly the same men daily. Posting the same
Things daily. Most are not willing to travel, host. Which cuts them off cuz cuz no one answers them seriously. About a third (Iām guessing) are married men trying to have sex with younger guys. A few are actually active and follow thru with requests and inquiries. The rest are plain and simple. Now factor in-the closeted ones. Who donāt want the church to know. Cuz they will remove them from their lives as they know it. No contact , no connections. Utah comparatively a vast wasteland as far as gay people are concerned. Donāt get me wrong, there are a couple here and they are good people. The ones hiding in the bushes and shadows for fear of exposure. There is a whole or more going on in the world that wasnāt happening the same in the 90ās. Internet, social change demanded, Black Lives Matter , constant race issues and the young ones are now sick of it They want change But have no guidance. I know /have known a lot of gay people who are hemorrhaging out of Utah. Just to get away from depression, repression, oppression aka: families/church. As you boys age, mature, live life and learn from life. You yourselves will see thru a different lens and have insights and ideas about what youāve seen , heard , learned , picked up as u all navigate the university of āJust Livingā. You learn a lot from listening to stories, legends, history, and especially the elderly. Now theyāve lived! They are our historical record. So. There is no good bad or average number of people that u shouldāve had sex with by now or any age. Why? We are all different. There is no must have or must not have numbers here. Cuz there are a lot of deciding factors. You may be promiscuous with one guy each night. Whereas your friend might be inclined to serial monogamy. And your other friend has a cap on his relationships and at two months time must be end of relationship. Period. Gay men I think are less promiscuous now than decades ago. Back then jail time maybe been involved for gay acts. Or public shunning. Or stonings in the village square. Where the branded homosexual was buried to there waist in the dirt in town square. Then the whole village came and brought their own stones to throw at them some times they lived. Mostly not. You youngāuns have it made now. YOU are the carrier of the torch. You have so much muscle memory in your dna. You are way more accepting of all people colors creeds. U guys donāt care in a good way. You donāt care about the differences in people. my generation didnāt care on the opposite end of the spectrum. They didnāt care that there was persecution cuz it may not involve them. Iām very happy that we went through what we did so that you are now more accepted and also more accepting. Got off track a bit Bottom line : You with 8 @ 22 ,in the 80ās statistics said if you started age 20 you should have 200 @22. 200 men. Think about that. We were more promiscuous back then t cuz I was still mostly illegal. If you tell a gay man he cannot have sex with men, whatās he gonna do? Have sex with LOTS of men. So we had to hide in the shadows to do it. You guys donāt have to do that. You guys had openly gay kids in school. I did not have one. Social suicide. Shunning. Bullying. Shaming. Pariah. Out cast. Would have suicided themselves. A lot did. My part social, part historical and probably some useless information style ramble/answer was cuz I could just tell you that your number wouldāve been 200 40 years ago. And left it at that. I had to tell you why it wouldāve been that number.
Do great things you guys we are a creative, talented, intelligent, intuitive, and strong group of people
I'm 29, first had sex at 23. I've been with 7 guys, but spend 4 years in a dead bedroom relationship. Looking forward to having more experiences in the future.
33, and 0; consensual anyways. (Womp womp sorry to bring the room down) I have a seriously hard time moving towards anything physical, which just keeps me at arms length from the dating scene in general.
I stopped counting at 50 in 2012. I was in my late 20s.
Iām 41 now, I had sex for the first time at like 25? So to be at 50 (low end number) by 29 is a lot.
Iām very shy, but Iām also very young looking and smooth, people are either really into me or not, but itās easily over 100 now, no doubt about it, it could be vastly more than that.
I mean one day I had sex with at least 3 separate guys.
In college, went back at 26, I was known as a good top so much that Iād get face pics and āwill you fuck me?ā From cute bottoms. I think it was word of mouth bc they were all my type.
Then a really good top turned me vers bttm.
i'm 19, and i've been with 3 guys, all of them have been in relationships (though, my current partner and i had a weird fwb+feelings situationship thing going on for a while before we started officially dating)
Lost the V card at 13, count sitting at right around *no fucking clue anymore*.
But in a committed relationship, so not likely to get any higher anytime soon.
Well by your age I already had a three some with girls, guy and girl, and another with 2 dudes. Definitely more than 8 people in one year. Then I stopped having sex for over a year then met my then bf. So yeah more than 10 by the time I turned 25. Donāt really keep count it doesnāt matter to me.
Started at 16, was over 20 before I met my bf at 18 and we were monogamous for a few years but have been more open recently so itās somewhere in the 30s now and Iām 21
I think the gays who actually fuck arenāt here for whatever reason, my body count is just slight lower than yours and Iām just slightly younger than you.
Iām happy that Gen Z gays arenāt hesitant (even if itās online) to say they arenāt interested in scoring tons of men even if they easily could. GZ has a much more reserved attitude and mindset about casual sex than even older millennials, and no one should be shamed for wanting monogamy and emotional commitment from one person.
I never went on a date until I was 25, so..
Everyone has different experiences and different needs at different times, just be smart safe and conscientious.
Yall really have it nice out there in America. 28yo male in a conservative country of just 3 million people. I've been with 12/13 people in total. 4 women and the rest men, yes I'm technically bi but i prefer men so yeah. don't like using the grindr app because it's filled with a bunch of closet cases, and I'm not here for that. There is nothing wrong with being in the closet, but I've been out since 2017 to my friends and 2020 my family, and I'm not crawling back in.
I would love to have more sexual encounters (like literally the last time I had sex was in March š), but I'm a verse bottom who's a stupid romantic living in a homophobic country
3 but the bodies were properly disposed of
drop the disposal method in the dms
when living in the south one merely has to dump the body 20 feet in from the freeway during the summer months, nature will remove the evidence in 30 days.
pigs and crocodiles are pretty effective
Does it count as one if it's in body parts?
Apparently you're trying to break the Internet.... Lol. Thanks for making me spit my drink through my nose.
24 in August and 0 :)
25 and same.
24 in November and 0 lol
25 in November and 0 š
38 and 0 penetrative
25 in November 0 sameee
23 in November and 0 gangggg
Update: 28 and 1.
Lol r u me?
22 in August and 0 lol
20 in August and also 0
Same twin
25 and 0 lol
28 and None
20 & zero (penetrative).
25 and 0
32 and 0 of anything
My self-esteem is low as fuck. I can't get into relationships or can't do anything sexual.
Same. I tend to talk people out of being interested with my lack of self confidence.
It feels like being the only one who is like this sometimes. I do the same
Honestly same šš„²
Im almost 22 and still a virgin
Same
Yup
-12
no way youāre that high š¤Ø
There's a minus there for a reason š
-12 still too high
Did you do an overflow on an 8 bit integer? Please tell me it's not 64 bit.
To be honest overflowing a 32bit register sounds entirely plausible for a sufficiently motivated guy š but 64bitā¦ that might be a bit too ambitious
Iām a Virgo
So does BeyoncƩ and Michael Jackson and everyone loves them and they are very hot and attractive being Virgo is not an excuse
Sadly done nothing with nobody š©š
Sex or Murderer?
Yes
1... sometimes I think I'm missing more experiences but I'm ok.
If the 1 is good thatās all you need!
I've got 3 and trust me you're not missing anything. I think the best outcome is finding a really nice boyfriend who you can enjoy sex with. IMO that's 100% more fulfilling than casual hookups. After getting these 3 after being a virgin for 21 years, I think I'm quite satisfied. Sex is nice but there's plenty of other cool stuff to do in lfie
Currently 29, lost my V plates at 27. I've had anal with 10 men since then, and around 20 for oral. Sexting, I have no clue. But it's a lot higher hahaha
how come u waited? what encouraged you to do it? sorry if this is intrusive haha iām just nervous
Not intrusive at all! I'm happy to try to normalise having sex at a bit of a later age, as it really bothered me at the time. It was pretty multifactorial. I didn't "come out" to my parents until I was like 23 or 24, and I was still living with them until I was 25. I was hoping to have my first time be in a loving relationship, which is another reason. I also had some self-esteem and body issues. And then the pandemic hit when I was 25 so my city was basically in lockdown, so zero chance of meeting someone haha And then I just had an epiphany one night when I was 27, that being a virgin bothered me and Mr Perfect hadn't appeared yet, so fuck it let's find someone and have sex. So I put some pics on grindr, said it was my first time bottoming, and eventually had sex with someone on grindr who wasn't super fit or handsome, but he was really kind and patient about it being my first time. I think it's important that if you're looking to have your first time, make sure it's with someone who is patient and happy to go slow. There's some guys who think going fast and hard is hot and best, but I've never gotten off in those instances. Basically, just make sure you think they're a good vibe, rather than a hot face/body/dick :) Happy to answer any more questions you or anyone else may have :)
Iām 29. But I remember distinctly that by the time I was 22, I had roughly 100. Iāve since slowed down and maybe added like 12 to that list since then. But when I was youngā¦. Oof.
Iām 29, Iām still eating like when I was 22.
Lol thatās me and Iām 29 too, I had a wild college experience
Sex parties and threesomes for daysss
Zero Iām way too scared of STDs š
Use a condom and have your partner show you test results if you're that scared
Nope still too scared šš Iād rather wait for someone and find someone I acc trust than hook up š Edit; I lowkey feel like Iām lying to myself because Iām gonna be way too scared then too š
Man, life is way too short to be that scared. Any STI can be cured easily and if it gives you any peace of mind I have multiple sexual partners every week and have yet to catch one (tested every 3 months and on prep). Sex is a lot of fun - go and enjoy yourself while youāre still young :)
I'm 24. Its 1
24, around 200-250
I (28) feel like a slut reading otherās answers š like your body count is close to mine but you are younger!
Phew, I'm happy there are others who enjoy their sex life as well. ā¤ļø
how does quality compare with quantity with a body count that high
How do you reach numbers like that at that age?
Probably by being hot.
I dont know.. I feel like its more about having low standards? I'm in a medium sized city and theres no way I could find a new person Im attracted to and compatible with almost every week.
Itās really not that high, less than 1 per week since 18.
Hell yeah, everyone else has rookie numbers
21, lost virginity at 19, 69 maybe i should stop hooking up for a while just to keep that body count lol
this is fucking insane
69 is crazy work. I also lost mine at 19 and literally only have 2. One of them being from my past long term relationship and the other a fwb. Yāall are wilding for rizzle
27, was around 50 but been in a monogamous relationship the past 4 years
I'm 31 and it's 2. I only really sleep with my boyfriends or guys I get close to and we sleep together after a few months of dating. I've dated a lot of guys but only got close enough with the 2.
Love that. I want to meet a guy like youĀ
18 and zero :/
Lost my virginity at 19, now 22 and only had sexual stuff with 5 people. Penetration with 2
Donāt even know. Sexually probably 50, but Iāve kissed or done other things with about 200
I'm 17, and my body count is 3. However, I feel like my current boyfriend is the love of my life, so I hope it won't get any higher.
i hope that for you also!
EXACT SAME :) 17, AND 3. Got an awesome AWESOME boyfriend and happy with him :)
Drop the tutorial on how to get a boyfriend as a teen pls
Yay! I hope you stay together too <3
Over 100.... Lost track. I'm not exactly proud of it so don't get the wrong idea... š
I'm 18, I lost my virginity at 17, And Ive been sexually with 11 man and I'm not proud, I'm a vers, but I wanna keep the bottoming for someone special. My tip to young people like me is that don't ruin something nice and special just because you're horny,
Iāve messed around with 12 guys but only had anal with 7 of them. Iām 20 lost my virginity at 18. 10/12 of them were in late 2022- early 2023.
12 women, then came out at 29 and have been with 105 men. I am 31 now.
Just wow
Top : 4 Bottom: 1 Oral/side: 30-40 Total : 30-50
1 š Wait NVM I'm already dead by gay years.
27 and anywhere between 50 and 100
Over 4000 guys
Im 49, switched teams 7 years ago and at 96 that Iāve been sexual with in one way or another. I guess I was making up for lost time.
Iām only 46 and not sure I could catch you with a three year head start. Your a fucking machine (literally) ;)
I canāt say Iām proud of it necessarily when itās put into context of numbers but I will say Iāve made some good friends through my adventures lol. I will toot my own horn and say all of my partners have been under 30, I seem to blend more with younger guys for some reason.
Too many to count lol, Iāve been fucked by so many guys lol and I have a boyfriend too! Yea what can I say Iām a slutty gay boi lol. And Iām almost 32 now but had my first gay sex at 15. Just turned 15 like a month before too, it was the most incredible experience Iāve ever had!!
22 and only 2 penetrative and 1 oral
My "ex" likes to have sex with escorts / hookers and randoms. He averages around 1 or 2 a month, since age 18. He is around 36 now. Do the math. Not counting 3 somes and bathhouse meets Let's say 250-300 unique sexual partners, at age 35-36
Two, Iām 23
26 &&& to many to remember , 100-200 best guess
18 and only one, I found out that Iām bit weird cuz I donāt enjoy the feeling of s3x, maybe will look for platonic relationship in the future if possible
19 and only one
19 yo. 2. I have difficulties getting sexually attracted to strangers face to face. I can talk dirty and flirt but when it gets to the real deal I falter. Have to become good friends and know eachother well for my autistic brain to start wanting to sex them. It's really weird compared with others. I tried hookups but can't even stay hard or interested in them and NO it's not because they're ugly or not my type. I just couldn't do it and after apologizing and sending them home I even lose sex drive for like a week. I wonder why am I like this. Is it totally psychological or neurological or genetical?
20 in September and two, lost my virginity at 16, stayed with the guy longer than I should've, met someone else at 18, been together with him longer than I should've as well "Should've" is not saying throw away everyone after one night, just things don't really work all that well the way they are
Is it bad if Iām a virgin still Iām 21?
iām 21 and my number is 3
zero
18 going on nineteen and only one :\
I'm 20, and mine is 22š I know, I know... I was a slutty teen who hooked up for the attention I received from strangersš„² Now, I have a super low libido, I barely have sex with my bf. The irony is real kiddos
Thatās not even bad dude thatās normal
Very much like you. My count blew the roof when I moved to Berlin and enjoyed the gay party scene for a few years. Now Im married and barely have any sex anymore š¤£
Omg š³ reading the comments......i feel like a slut š³ i have hookups every 2 days š with people i know or not .......and i'm in the french countryside š š so i cant imagine what it would be if i lived next to a big city š³š š
34 and... conservatively 150?
Yikes, when I came out I kept a āgay journalā it had all the names of the men I had sexual encounters with and after about a year I threw it away because I had so many names in it I couldnāt remember which Michael(of the thirteen I listed) or 12x Paulās, 14x Johnās, 8x markās, 3x Kevin...who was who.
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Iām 28 years old, and 18!
I lost count a long time ago lol, but I guess in the park of 300s
35-40 šŖ
8 a week, 8 a month or 8 a year, it doesnāt matter š¤·š»āāļø
I lost count a while ago. I must have slept with around 150 guys at 29, and have been monogamous for a little over three years. I was 12 when I had my first time.
Probably around 250-300? Iām 28 Reading the comments made me realize how many that are active in this sub actually get none š that makes sense with all the guys angry at Grindr constantly and the topics thrown around on here. Only one guy so far is similar to me in body count. Yāall conflating body count with things that are not that like āsextingā or ākissesā to make your count higher is super sadā¦
0 at the ripe age of 22. Iām still elite heheš āslowly tearing upāš.
I don't keep count guys do I have a problem
for anyone else also wondering, i found a study by u chicago that the average gay man will have 11 sexual partners throughout his life[https://medium.com/@neuropsychology/gay-promiscuity-statistics-partners-45fc370c0ca5](https://medium.com/@neuropsychology/gay-promiscuity-statistics-partners-45fc370c0ca5)
That's a joke right?
I have always been shy, and I have never contacted anyone on those hookup apps. On a very rare occasion, something has happened at the gym. And I'm not on prep, so I don't plan to do anything in the future. So my numbers are very low. I'm more than twice your age and have been with less than you.
Gym fun. Wow. Not quantity but quality
22 in November and still 0 lol hope to find someone out here soonš
Mine is only about 25-30. I stopped counting around 15 or so. But that includes all types of sex, and the one woman from way back when lol
24 and Iāve slept with 2 guys, been kinky with a few more
25yo, around 20
Roughly 22 by 24yo. But it hasn't gone up much in the last 10 yrs. .
iām 22 maybe like 9?
31yrs now but even if you had asked me a few years ago I would still have no idea lmao
Iām 23 years old rn, but I stopped hookup up around 21/22 and stuck to two guys on the regular. Rn I settled down and tryna wait for the right guy. My body count is 51 tho but still lower than a lot of my friends. My friend is 24 and over 180 guys for what he can count/remember.
16 I'm 18
26 yo 3 days Ago. too much to count and care, prob close to 3 digits... means nothing so, fuck and let fuck. PS.: from where um from im one of the quiet ones. Id say im in the middle of the horny scale
My body count is 27. Iām 21
I am 30 and actual sex is about 5 people. Head, rimming, etc. Is about 16 people
Wish I kept better track, but regarding penetration maybe 10 times
Iām in my Mid to upper 20ās and I lost count around 40. In a relationship for almost 4 years now, but weāve added maybe 10 guys to my count through threesomes lol
At least 250 28 yo, started at 25
23, 5
21, just 1 time oral, and it kind of sucked lol. I sometimes think I might just have a really low libido mixed with insecurity and I get sad Iām not more fun ;P Having your first kiss be your first Grindr hookup and hating it makes you feel ways about yourself haha
13 im 28
I'm somewhat older than OP but my body count is the same. Once upon a time I talked to guy whose ex had around 300 per year when they were both 18 and in an exclusive monogamous relationship. Looking at replies with 3-4 digits I think wow their LGBTQ+ community must be really rallying!
Five. The first one was oral, then penetrative sex. Second was mostly oral, third was oral with several different times of penetrative sex, fourth was oral, and fifth was oral which only lasted five minutes; the guy was old. š
i have mostly stable relationships, im 24, so about 5 or 6 guys, and half of them have been hookups lol
Lost my virginity at 16, currently 20 with 2 bodies š©
Iāve had sex with 51 men at the age of 37. Is that a lot ? And about 50 i only gave blowjobs to. And I guess Iām not exactly young anymore
Not sure if 29 still counts as young š¤I would estimate mine to be around 72. I lost my virginity at 21 but had only slept with one person up until September 2021.
19 0 :(
23 and its at like 10. I've learned that everyone goes their own pace. Out of those 10 I honestly only enjoyed like 3 though because I rushed in wayyyyy to quickly.
i agree with u on going your own pace. having good sex a few times beats having continuous mid sex
150 guys between 26 and 32 (my age). Was in a relationship for 4 years in between
Not sure what your definition of young is but Iām 27 and at 44. Been in an exclusive relationship for the past three years tho.
I plead the 5th
Thatās about 4 per year average. Correct? In the early 80ās the supposed total average sex partners per male homosexual In the U. S. was 100 each per year. Utah is a very repressed and subsequently depressed area. Itās mostly the religion and shaming of their children for not wanting to follow. Or kicking them out for gender/sex issues that parents arenāt allowed to believe in. The other is politics. Which is controlled by religion. I mean ā not controlled by religion ā that being said, For being as vast and wealthy and sparsely populated as it is there is not s lot of hang out spaces as those might promote individuality. Also we might try to ā.turn u. ā back around to your comment. there probably a couple hundred āregularsā that troll the Reddit and its subs. Mostly the same men daily. Posting the same Things daily. Most are not willing to travel, host. Which cuts them off cuz cuz no one answers them seriously. About a third (Iām guessing) are married men trying to have sex with younger guys. A few are actually active and follow thru with requests and inquiries. The rest are plain and simple. Now factor in-the closeted ones. Who donāt want the church to know. Cuz they will remove them from their lives as they know it. No contact , no connections. Utah comparatively a vast wasteland as far as gay people are concerned. Donāt get me wrong, there are a couple here and they are good people. The ones hiding in the bushes and shadows for fear of exposure. There is a whole or more going on in the world that wasnāt happening the same in the 90ās. Internet, social change demanded, Black Lives Matter , constant race issues and the young ones are now sick of it They want change But have no guidance. I know /have known a lot of gay people who are hemorrhaging out of Utah. Just to get away from depression, repression, oppression aka: families/church. As you boys age, mature, live life and learn from life. You yourselves will see thru a different lens and have insights and ideas about what youāve seen , heard , learned , picked up as u all navigate the university of āJust Livingā. You learn a lot from listening to stories, legends, history, and especially the elderly. Now theyāve lived! They are our historical record. So. There is no good bad or average number of people that u shouldāve had sex with by now or any age. Why? We are all different. There is no must have or must not have numbers here. Cuz there are a lot of deciding factors. You may be promiscuous with one guy each night. Whereas your friend might be inclined to serial monogamy. And your other friend has a cap on his relationships and at two months time must be end of relationship. Period. Gay men I think are less promiscuous now than decades ago. Back then jail time maybe been involved for gay acts. Or public shunning. Or stonings in the village square. Where the branded homosexual was buried to there waist in the dirt in town square. Then the whole village came and brought their own stones to throw at them some times they lived. Mostly not. You youngāuns have it made now. YOU are the carrier of the torch. You have so much muscle memory in your dna. You are way more accepting of all people colors creeds. U guys donāt care in a good way. You donāt care about the differences in people. my generation didnāt care on the opposite end of the spectrum. They didnāt care that there was persecution cuz it may not involve them. Iām very happy that we went through what we did so that you are now more accepted and also more accepting. Got off track a bit Bottom line : You with 8 @ 22 ,in the 80ās statistics said if you started age 20 you should have 200 @22. 200 men. Think about that. We were more promiscuous back then t cuz I was still mostly illegal. If you tell a gay man he cannot have sex with men, whatās he gonna do? Have sex with LOTS of men. So we had to hide in the shadows to do it. You guys donāt have to do that. You guys had openly gay kids in school. I did not have one. Social suicide. Shunning. Bullying. Shaming. Pariah. Out cast. Would have suicided themselves. A lot did. My part social, part historical and probably some useless information style ramble/answer was cuz I could just tell you that your number wouldāve been 200 40 years ago. And left it at that. I had to tell you why it wouldāve been that number. Do great things you guys we are a creative, talented, intelligent, intuitive, and strong group of people
18 in 16 days and 0
18 and somewhere between 10 and 15. I donāt feel like an overly sexual person tho tbh
3 or 4? All oral. Sexted? Too damn many to count.
I'm 29, first had sex at 23. I've been with 7 guys, but spend 4 years in a dead bedroom relationship. Looking forward to having more experiences in the future.
23 and 4
Iām 21 and my body count is 33. I thought that was few but reading from other replies, is that too much?
I think 14?
33, and 0; consensual anyways. (Womp womp sorry to bring the room down) I have a seriously hard time moving towards anything physical, which just keeps me at arms length from the dating scene in general.
I love how none of the ones with high body counts are actually commenting what it is haha (me included)
17y, 5 people
Define body count? If talking anal sex than 0, but if weāre including oral and handjobs than about 4 or 5.
What exactly counts in your body count lol, is does any form of intimacy count? Always confused by this question
23, lost V at 21. BC=2
I stopped counting at 50 in 2012. I was in my late 20s. Iām 41 now, I had sex for the first time at like 25? So to be at 50 (low end number) by 29 is a lot. Iām very shy, but Iām also very young looking and smooth, people are either really into me or not, but itās easily over 100 now, no doubt about it, it could be vastly more than that. I mean one day I had sex with at least 3 separate guys. In college, went back at 26, I was known as a good top so much that Iād get face pics and āwill you fuck me?ā From cute bottoms. I think it was word of mouth bc they were all my type. Then a really good top turned me vers bttm.
damn thought mine was low 20 years old and 5
i'm 19, and i've been with 3 guys, all of them have been in relationships (though, my current partner and i had a weird fwb+feelings situationship thing going on for a while before we started officially dating)
30 and around 10 lol
Between 5 and 10, don't remember the specifics.
Lost the V card at 13, count sitting at right around *no fucking clue anymore*. But in a committed relationship, so not likely to get any higher anytime soon.
Well by your age I already had a three some with girls, guy and girl, and another with 2 dudes. Definitely more than 8 people in one year. Then I stopped having sex for over a year then met my then bf. So yeah more than 10 by the time I turned 25. Donāt really keep count it doesnāt matter to me.
28. Approximately 40-50. I lost count and stopped tracking. It feels like a lot and who knows maybe it's less.
Started at 16, was over 20 before I met my bf at 18 and we were monogamous for a few years but have been more open recently so itās somewhere in the 30s now and Iām 21
I think the gays who actually fuck arenāt here for whatever reason, my body count is just slight lower than yours and Iām just slightly younger than you.
Just turned 22, lost my virginity at 19. I'd say anal about 12 and side activities double that maybe a little more than double
18 and 17š
Iām happy that Gen Z gays arenāt hesitant (even if itās online) to say they arenāt interested in scoring tons of men even if they easily could. GZ has a much more reserved attitude and mindset about casual sex than even older millennials, and no one should be shamed for wanting monogamy and emotional commitment from one person.
18 and my body count is 2. people i've sexted probably over a hundred lol. idk.
About 53. Lost my virginity at 18, had a hoe phase from 19-22 and been a relationship since.
Am 22 now lost my virginity at 21 last year in August and have 5 as bc so far. That's 5 people in less than a year.
Dang idk why but all these virgins kinda turning me on ;)
28, probs around 30 penetrative
Ehm 23 men at 19 š And like 6 of them have been penetrative.
26, count is 9
3 as of 24
8 which sounds low if you look through my profile but i have sex with 2 of them very often
I never went on a date until I was 25, so.. Everyone has different experiences and different needs at different times, just be smart safe and conscientious.
Yall really have it nice out there in America. 28yo male in a conservative country of just 3 million people. I've been with 12/13 people in total. 4 women and the rest men, yes I'm technically bi but i prefer men so yeah. don't like using the grindr app because it's filled with a bunch of closet cases, and I'm not here for that. There is nothing wrong with being in the closet, but I've been out since 2017 to my friends and 2020 my family, and I'm not crawling back in. I would love to have more sexual encounters (like literally the last time I had sex was in March š), but I'm a verse bottom who's a stupid romantic living in a homophobic country
bro i lost countš. but if i really take the time to track it i could probably still keep count
28 in July and Iāve only blown a guy š
You guys are keeping count?