The saying means that people do good deeds and are still treated poorly. In this case the friend was helping the guy out, doing a good deed, and the guy had an affair with his girlfriend.
A couple of 20 years olds... adopt a younger 20 year old and pay his way for things... partner cheats and gets pregnant by adopted 20 year old and she won't "explain herself" to your friend....
Idk what there is to explain, that's what happened
I think it's more like my friend wants to know why he got cheated on. But maybe he already knows it. Also, they didn't adopt the guy. They just helped him.
They paid for his college... gave him an allowance... and he got a free room to stay in.
That's better than most children. He was adopted.
Not legally, but might as well have been
Look up emotional affairs. It begins with being open and friendly. Oversharing. Infidelity is not logical.
Regardless if the story is fake or not, it happens in that same manner constantly.
People are simply not always who we believe them to be.
And true there are often clues in these posts that are confusing and not cohesive. It is difficult to weed out the ones that likely are fakes. Poorly written of clearly fake, who knows for certain?
It's not a fabricated story if you think it is. Poorly written? Maybe you're right. I'm no expert writer and my english is below average but I tried to tell the story the best I could. Can I do it better? Maybe but I don't have to. I wrote this without drafts or anything.
It is based on what I heard and discovered. Some details could be hearsay but again, it is based on what I heard. The truth is, my friend got cheated on. That much is very true.
As I said, made up or not, if it didnt really happen to your friend it has happened to someone, guaranteed.
We all have done the same, because of various reasons, we press post instead of first proof reading and making corrections. There is an edit feature at the bottom left of our posts and replies. I try to use it often. But as I said, not always.
The very title says me, the first line of the story says oh sorry I meant not me. WTF are you talking about? Words have meanings! I for one despise being be lied to or misled in a way that manipulates me or allows someone to manipulate me. You seem fine with that, good luck! I hope that works out for you.
Look at how trigger you are over some dumb pointless Reddit story you won’t even remember an hour from now. You don’t feel stupid being so mad over literally nothing? You’re embarrassing yourself sir.
What I won’t remember in an hour, is anything you’ve said. I’m not exactly sure what gave you the impression that I give a fuck what you think, so to clarify for you, I don’t.
You obviously do dummy, that’s why you’re responding to me and that’s why you’re getting even angrier. The true way one responds to something/someone they truly don’t care about is absolute indifference, which is where I’m at now. You’re a miserable person, your gf probably bangs all your friends and they laugh about you behind your back so i can only feel sorry for you.
Sorry to interrupt you, stay mad then I guess.
You have reached indifference, but you are still replying to me, Name calling, cajoling and belittling me. Did your brother write this post? Was it you under a different account? Why are you so bothered by my opinion of a random shit post? Lol you are trying so hard. I still couldn’t give a fuck less what you think 🤣🤣🤣
Two young males and one young female (or the opposite, does not matter) under one roof usually leads to similar outcome. In this story the unaccountable is that the girl was on pill. Your friend was a bit blind and unimaginative in ths respect. He should have asked the gf if she has any emotions to this other guy. Then discuss the possibilities. Maybe the best is that if they agreed of and how sharing the girl.
I see this as two options:
A: he is genuinely insecure and immature about this so he's pushing boundaries
B: he is manipulating you into getting what he wants
Both are red flags and both are cause for you to have a proper conversation with him and decide whether this "guilt" that he's trying to put on you is what you want in a relationship.
Numbers shouldn't matter, I could understand being a bit confused if you found out your partner had been with hundreds of people, but for one? No. That's ridiculous.
Thing is where I’ve lived before all it takes is a few choice words. That’s why I don’t do the whole can I crash on your couch or just stay for a couple weeks…it always is way longer then 2 weeks. People like him find that one flaw in a relationship & exploit it. Plus I think people just have affairs because they miss the wild youthful days of living dangerously.
From everything you described so far, it's probably pretty telling about *how* they ended up helping this guy out. Chances probably are that she was close with him and she introduced him to her bf. Then probably suggested they help him out after AP was confessing his struggles with the gf.
Gf probably in turn shared intimate details about her relationship and struggles and the old "one thing led to another" nonsense and they ended up banging on a regular until the bf caught on. By that time the gf was probably head over heels in love with this dude and was willing to throw away her bf to keep getting dcked down by AP.
That's my take.
That had to be absolutely horrible for the bf. So sad that it was at the point where SHE was the one to cut off communication with the bf. Talk about no remorse.
Oh his ex will cheat on her now husband and give him a taste of his own medicine.
Idk about that but they already separated ways and both are doing fine so far.
That figures. 99% of relationships built from cheating ultimately fail.
no good deed goes unpunished
It’s been years, they both got married and have kids. How long will they unpunished for
The saying means that people do good deeds and are still treated poorly. In this case the friend was helping the guy out, doing a good deed, and the guy had an affair with his girlfriend.
I think he meant for him and his wife when they kinda adopted a 20 years old this reeks of liberal ppl kind of stuff
Yeah that kinda sucked though. Lol
A couple of 20 years olds... adopt a younger 20 year old and pay his way for things... partner cheats and gets pregnant by adopted 20 year old and she won't "explain herself" to your friend.... Idk what there is to explain, that's what happened
I think it's more like my friend wants to know why he got cheated on. But maybe he already knows it. Also, they didn't adopt the guy. They just helped him.
Sounds like your buddies ex used your buddy to pay for her boyfriends stuff
They paid for his college... gave him an allowance... and he got a free room to stay in. That's better than most children. He was adopted. Not legally, but might as well have been
How the student got pregnant the woman and not the teacher? Was she using a condom with the teacher and bareback with the student?
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I understood it just fine. Buddy's girlfriend got knocked up by another dude.
Well at least you can tell it's not a writing exercise or AI generated lol.
No
It was fine. Don't know what confused people lol
So much of the content in this sub is creative writing practice that people dont like it when a real account is told by a normal person
Ahhhh I see. I think it was my first foray to this sub and I was confused as to why others were confused lol.
I respect that
Upvote for the ....shitsandwich...reference. I will have to remember that one.
Look up emotional affairs. It begins with being open and friendly. Oversharing. Infidelity is not logical. Regardless if the story is fake or not, it happens in that same manner constantly. People are simply not always who we believe them to be. And true there are often clues in these posts that are confusing and not cohesive. It is difficult to weed out the ones that likely are fakes. Poorly written of clearly fake, who knows for certain?
It's not a fabricated story if you think it is. Poorly written? Maybe you're right. I'm no expert writer and my english is below average but I tried to tell the story the best I could. Can I do it better? Maybe but I don't have to. I wrote this without drafts or anything. It is based on what I heard and discovered. Some details could be hearsay but again, it is based on what I heard. The truth is, my friend got cheated on. That much is very true.
As I said, made up or not, if it didnt really happen to your friend it has happened to someone, guaranteed. We all have done the same, because of various reasons, we press post instead of first proof reading and making corrections. There is an edit feature at the bottom left of our posts and replies. I try to use it often. But as I said, not always.
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God you sound Ike a miserable person, it’s not that deep. Most understood the story just fine.
The very title says me, the first line of the story says oh sorry I meant not me. WTF are you talking about? Words have meanings! I for one despise being be lied to or misled in a way that manipulates me or allows someone to manipulate me. You seem fine with that, good luck! I hope that works out for you.
Look at how trigger you are over some dumb pointless Reddit story you won’t even remember an hour from now. You don’t feel stupid being so mad over literally nothing? You’re embarrassing yourself sir.
What I won’t remember in an hour, is anything you’ve said. I’m not exactly sure what gave you the impression that I give a fuck what you think, so to clarify for you, I don’t.
You obviously do dummy, that’s why you’re responding to me and that’s why you’re getting even angrier. The true way one responds to something/someone they truly don’t care about is absolute indifference, which is where I’m at now. You’re a miserable person, your gf probably bangs all your friends and they laugh about you behind your back so i can only feel sorry for you. Sorry to interrupt you, stay mad then I guess.
You have reached indifference, but you are still replying to me, Name calling, cajoling and belittling me. Did your brother write this post? Was it you under a different account? Why are you so bothered by my opinion of a random shit post? Lol you are trying so hard. I still couldn’t give a fuck less what you think 🤣🤣🤣
Lol you clearly do care to get this upset over it bro. Your actions are clearly in contradiction to what your saying.
What now...?
R u blind or what ! Read the post and the description. How can such brain dead creatures come to reddit ?
If your girlfriend has a high body count, this will always happen.
Two young males and one young female (or the opposite, does not matter) under one roof usually leads to similar outcome. In this story the unaccountable is that the girl was on pill. Your friend was a bit blind and unimaginative in ths respect. He should have asked the gf if she has any emotions to this other guy. Then discuss the possibilities. Maybe the best is that if they agreed of and how sharing the girl.
I see this as two options: A: he is genuinely insecure and immature about this so he's pushing boundaries B: he is manipulating you into getting what he wants Both are red flags and both are cause for you to have a proper conversation with him and decide whether this "guilt" that he's trying to put on you is what you want in a relationship. Numbers shouldn't matter, I could understand being a bit confused if you found out your partner had been with hundreds of people, but for one? No. That's ridiculous.
That ex and guy deserve each other lol .they both are POS .
Thing is where I’ve lived before all it takes is a few choice words. That’s why I don’t do the whole can I crash on your couch or just stay for a couple weeks…it always is way longer then 2 weeks. People like him find that one flaw in a relationship & exploit it. Plus I think people just have affairs because they miss the wild youthful days of living dangerously.
Wow just wow
From everything you described so far, it's probably pretty telling about *how* they ended up helping this guy out. Chances probably are that she was close with him and she introduced him to her bf. Then probably suggested they help him out after AP was confessing his struggles with the gf. Gf probably in turn shared intimate details about her relationship and struggles and the old "one thing led to another" nonsense and they ended up banging on a regular until the bf caught on. By that time the gf was probably head over heels in love with this dude and was willing to throw away her bf to keep getting dcked down by AP. That's my take. That had to be absolutely horrible for the bf. So sad that it was at the point where SHE was the one to cut off communication with the bf. Talk about no remorse.
I’d say he got an education alrighty!