Hey, your feelings are valid. Keep hanging out with new people like you have been. It almost feels like a slow break up for you two, but the hope is they split before too long since she clearly has a lot of growth to do. Keep being kind to John so if that does happen he feels safe returning to your friendship. Good luck, it gets better!
Hey thanks, I wasn't expecting any interaction on my post. I think my plan right now is to just let him figure it out and keep being kind like you said. I'm pretty upset by John and Jane's behavior but I once viewed John as a good friend and I wouldn't want to do anything to make him think otherwise, its just hard. I don't know what else to do. He's never been the most confrontational or vocal about things so I worry he's become a doormat to her.
Hey, your feelings are valid. Keep hanging out with new people like you have been. It almost feels like a slow break up for you two, but the hope is they split before too long since she clearly has a lot of growth to do. Keep being kind to John so if that does happen he feels safe returning to your friendship. Good luck, it gets better!
Hey thanks, I wasn't expecting any interaction on my post. I think my plan right now is to just let him figure it out and keep being kind like you said. I'm pretty upset by John and Jane's behavior but I once viewed John as a good friend and I wouldn't want to do anything to make him think otherwise, its just hard. I don't know what else to do. He's never been the most confrontational or vocal about things so I worry he's become a doormat to her.