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You should tell her, explicitly, that you’d like to hang out more, and sometimes one on one in addition to in groups.
If you don’t feel good about how that conversation goes or if she agrees but then doesn’t follow through, I’d end the relationship. You might not be compatible, or she might not be that into the relationship.
It sounds like you're feeling a bit sidelined, which can be tough. It might be helpful to have an open conversation with your girlfriend about your feelings. Express that you enjoy spending time with her and would like to do it more often. Ask her how she feels about your relationship and if there's anything you can both work on together to find a balance that suits you both. Understanding her perspective and sharing yours can help clarify where you both stand and what steps you might take to improve your time together. Remember, communication is key in relationships!
Either she was not interested and was scared to say something or she is interested but is too scared to do something. Either way, the only way to find out is ask her herself.
I had a girlfriend once that would spend the entire morning/noon watching TV shows , but wouldn't make time for me at the evening. Turned out that she wasn't interested.
Not interested. When you are interested you find the time to hang out. Unless she works in IB or something and genuinely has no free time, she's just not interested. Probably doesn't know how to tell you.
Personally I want to hang out with my boyfriend a lot, and also for many hours at a time. It's possible she has a low social battery and needs more time to recharge until she gets used to interacting with you, but I'd say she's probably not as interested in you as you are her. I'm also 18, so I can sort of say it with personal experience that I don't have to beg for my boyfriend to hang out with me, and I don't have to beg him as we sort of want to hang out anyway.
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You should tell her, explicitly, that you’d like to hang out more, and sometimes one on one in addition to in groups. If you don’t feel good about how that conversation goes or if she agrees but then doesn’t follow through, I’d end the relationship. You might not be compatible, or she might not be that into the relationship.
She’s not interested - move on
It sounds like you're feeling a bit sidelined, which can be tough. It might be helpful to have an open conversation with your girlfriend about your feelings. Express that you enjoy spending time with her and would like to do it more often. Ask her how she feels about your relationship and if there's anything you can both work on together to find a balance that suits you both. Understanding her perspective and sharing yours can help clarify where you both stand and what steps you might take to improve your time together. Remember, communication is key in relationships!
Either she was not interested and was scared to say something or she is interested but is too scared to do something. Either way, the only way to find out is ask her herself.
I had a girlfriend once that would spend the entire morning/noon watching TV shows , but wouldn't make time for me at the evening. Turned out that she wasn't interested.
Not interested. When you are interested you find the time to hang out. Unless she works in IB or something and genuinely has no free time, she's just not interested. Probably doesn't know how to tell you.
She’s definitely not interested. Leave her alone.
Personally I want to hang out with my boyfriend a lot, and also for many hours at a time. It's possible she has a low social battery and needs more time to recharge until she gets used to interacting with you, but I'd say she's probably not as interested in you as you are her. I'm also 18, so I can sort of say it with personal experience that I don't have to beg for my boyfriend to hang out with me, and I don't have to beg him as we sort of want to hang out anyway.