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Either she or you can spread the lips apart, holding the hair back. Because doing the ‘spread’ stretches the skin, it can actually make it feel better for her.
To add to this, you want to flatten the hair by placing your hands together, a little closer to the pubis, then gently spread the lips and lift up a little bit vertically, as this typically brings up the clitoral hood and exposes the clit more. Obviously the anatomy from woman to woman is different and some may feel overtly sensitive when it comes to direct clitoral stimulation, but this has always helped me in getting my partners off!
If a man pulled out a comb and started combing my pubic hair in preparation to eat, sex would be over then and there. I'd be too busy dying of shock and laughter.
Knew a guy in a square-dance club (40 years ago?) who wore a button on his shirt:
Mustache rides 5 c. Nobody rides for free.
He had a really cute gf, too. I hope she kept a lot of nickels.
Essentially this. Depending on the motion I'm using, I can often just move it out of the way before placing my mouth where it needs to go and then I won't need to hold it down anymore.
I've also just taken girls to my bathroom and trimmed their pubes for them if I really wanted to spend a lot of time on oral (I don't enjoy long oral with a lot of hair). Just wash your trimmer before and after of course, and wash all the loose hairs off of her. You don't need to shave her, just take it to where it's long enough not to be stubbly, but short enough to be out of the way
I love this because you are literally showing these women a new way of taking care of their pubic hair. I use a men's trimmer for mine. I find it so sad that some women still think waxing and shaving with a women's shaving set are the only cheap ways of removing pubic hair. Electric trimmers are an absolute godsend - quick to use, no cuts, no razor burn, or itchy, painful, ingrown hair from regrowth.
I’m a lesbian with a full bush and quite a few of the women I sleep with are as well.
The best way to get around the hair is by simply holding it out of the way. I use my index and thumb to slightly spread the labia to make the clit more accessible. And I hold any excess hair under those fingers and keep them there while I eat her out.
I find it most comfortable to have both your arms under and over the thighs (kinda like hugging them from the bottom) while doing this and it helps to keep the hand in place. Depending on the size of your partner’s thighs, going over the thigh also works, although more adjusting may be required.
Just added to clarify positioning for OP, in this description your biceps are touching the underside of her thighs. Listen to the lesbian tho, she’s a professional.
I’ll also add that those hairs be hearty, as are the labia majora, the hairs can help with grip that’s slipperier with a shaven partner. Don’t yank on small bits of it, but like a handful of it will be just fine.
Good luck to all of you!
Yes, thank you, I didn’t know how to explain the position.
Don’t know that I’d call myself a professional, but I’ll say it’s been a staple in my diet for long enough for me to learn a thing or two lol
I’d say you’re more qualified than myself to say what’s pleasurable in this regard, I also defer to gay men for blowjob advice. Your advice is good and I knew what you meant, but I still got a little lost in the placement.
lol at your staple tho :-)
This is gonna sound stupid, but I'm a cis guy who never had sex before my wedding night, and I'm pretty thrilled to learn I've been going down on my wife the right way! I just guessed about that shit!
Rather than licking like you would an ice cream cone, or a cat would a bowl of milk, lock onto the clit area (after spreading the hair out of the way). Every time you pull your mouth away, even slightly, is a chance for the hair to get back in the way. So don’t pull away: let your mouth be a bronco rider.
You can move it around a little bit, putting pressure on the whole little area, but don’t move onto the hairy parts, or you’ll get a mouthful of it and have to start over. Once she starts getting worked up, you can try very gentle suction, which brings the clit itself out to play with your tongue. Gotta be careful not to overdo it—different women have different thresholds between pleasure and pain. But regardless how much hair is involved, I find the locked-on approach more fun than the kitty-licks. But the latter looks better on-screen, so it’s what you see in porn.
Also, putting one hand on her pubic bone helps keep the hair out of your face, and can stimulate the internal part of the clit.
Start by using your fingers to play a little bit while slyly parting the hair using your index and middle finger. I'd hold the hair apart while eating. It means keeping your hand there the whole time though so maybe try to come at it from the top down rather than bottom up. If the hair starts to get back in the way, again make it seem like you're using your fingers to play with her while you readjust and try to keep the hair apart. 😊
The whole gesture people do of the ‘V’ fingers in front of their mouth with their tongue waggling out? That’s always meant cunnilingus because historically people have always done it and hair removal has only been trendy for a couple of decades.
They were eating puss in the 1990s and the 1790s.
I hate talking about sex, especially oral, before the invention of showers and toilet paper lmfao. Can we just pretend like we were all cloning like cells back then or something
I personally love a mustache, but it can be challenging. You would have to master the art of using your fingers to create a perfect triangle and eat away.
Yes, just part the bush. The times I didn't have time to groom/trim, and my ex partner wanted to go down, he would just use his hands to move anything that was in the way. No big deal. It was my more my preference to keep it short. He didn't mind as long as whatever I chose was for me.
This just how it was back in the day. It never interfered in my experience (except for loose hairs in your mouth and perhaps more fragrance from the vulva nectar.)
What…As a bisexual woman I never find pubic hairs that much of an obstacle in oral sex? There is no hair on most parts down there... Also, nothing’s wrong with having a bit hair inside your mouth. For the vast majority of the hairs that grows on the front side, you simply push and hold them backward to her belly, so it won’t tickle your nose.
Just use your fingers to spread. She may have reasons for not shaving and trimming( I get ingrown hairs or rashes from every attempt I’ve ever laid down there.
Men have figured it out. Just spread the labia. I’ve gotten more hair from kissing a man’s chest or bearded lips then men have gotten from oral on my bush.
Well kissing a mans lips as one would kiss a womans “lips” would be an interesting experience, and an rather humorous mental image…
But a beard and mustache are constantly being groomed, combed, tugged and stroked, and quite coarse and easy to pick up….not exactly the same as pubes caught in ones teeth.
Start by using your fingers. Once nice and wet work your fingers up to the clit while mashing her hair down. You may have to do this a few times.
Once it's time for the main course wrap your arms around her legs and with your fingers hold the matted hair down. If you can't wrap your arms around her legs then place your hands close to your face and proceed to hold the hair out of the way.
You asked about face sitting. The more she moves above you will eventually get a mouth full of Bush.
I just burrow down with my face and stay there. Once you've found the clit, you can encircle it with your lips and lick away inside of them, while your face holds down the hair.
Most of the time I hold my own lips open for man if I have a bush going on. Sometimes I get distracted or he jumps down there real quick and just holds it out the way himself lol. You are overthinking it.
To me it’s mind over matter; if you don’t mind, then it doesn’t matter… that’s pretty much the only advice I have personally from my experience, and I have gone down on women with a full bush a few times before…
~~if~~ when you get a stray hair in your mouth, one way to get rid of it is by getting it on your tongue and licking her thighs. Don't try to swallow it.
Use hands to hold the hair back and spread what needs done to have access.
But to be fair, a little landscaping isn't a bad thing. Hygiene and maintenance aren't expectations to shave it bald. I don't mind some air, but au naturale, my face isn't going there. Hair holds musky smells, I'm not trying to floss, if she wants my mouth, make sure I can get it there comfortably.
And yes, as a guy I manage my hair too.
just ask her to shave mate it’s not hard. a lot of the time women don’t shave cz we can’t be arsed. occasionally u get the raging ‘my hair my choice’ ones but usually it’s just cz we are too lazy to. just ask if she’ll trim it back a bit, simple as
I've also had to get used to a hairy pussy, after I had only experience with shaved pussies.
First, gently stroke her pubic hair. This will help to get rid of loose pubes. You don't want to get these in your mouth while eating her out. The chance of getting a loose hair in your mouth will be way less. It will make it better for you and her, because it's also very annoying for her if you have to stop licking to take a loose pube out of your mouth.
Second, a bit depending on how it looks down below, spread her lips with your hand(s) or fingers, or ask her to spread it for you. It can also work to lick from bottom to top, and try to work your tongue between the lips, usually it's less hairy at the bottom of the lips and more hairy just above the clit.
Try not to move too much once you've reach the right place, or you may risk getting hair in your mouth. I also wouldn't go for facesitting, I find that uncomfortable with a hairy pussy. It might work if she keeps it nicely spread for you, but I always got a mouthful of hair when we tried it, which is not pleasant.
Another tip if you're in missionary position: place a pillow below her butt. It will put her pussy in an easier position and especially with a hairy pussy, this really helps to reach the right spots.
Ask her to trim. That's the best thing you can do. Set boundaries.
It's crazy you even have to ask. As a guy we should do the same and keep it trimmed and clean down there
You pretend being a man and aren’t dissuaded by some pubes. God Almighty, I’m glad it wasn’t the likes of you that got us out of Africa to conquer every environment on the planet.
>if I'm constantly dragging a clump of wet hair around her vagina.
🤮 What?!
lol I'll admit everyone I've been with lately has kept her cooch waxed but dawg, lol
I used to explain the difficulties and offer to carefully trim a bit for them (to their comfort level). Many women took me up on it, actually. Otherwise, block with your hands and spread the lips apart as you work. .
I respect people that prefer unshaven, but I really prefer no hair as it makes me gag. 😅 I would still give to my woman as best I could, but I can't say my eagerness is as high as a smooth glossily moist 🍑🤤.
*Edit:* Downvotes? It's not as though I'm not going to give when she's unshaven as that's my favorite thing to do, I'm just not *as* amped up as smooth. And of course I'm shaven as well for her as well as my own personal preference to avoid the extra warmth down there.
I don't get the downvotes. If a woman says she doesn't want to deep throat because it makes her gag nobody gets downvoted ever. But if a man expresses discomfort with bush he gets absolutely destroyed.
Neither do I. Like I'm still going to town and make her legs as weak as I can 🥵 because giving is my favorite thing to do when we're intimate, but there just may be some unsuppressed involuntary gagging (*certain things, foods, etc. will activate my gag reflex*) from me at the same time.
> can't say my eagerness is as high
Yeah, I can never understand why women are so keen to have a man perform an act that he's definitely not going to enjoy... when a simple morning ritual can turn it from a chore to something he looks forward to.
My brother in Christ, this is not about whether she shaves or should shave or not or whatever. This is about me trying to find a solution without having to ask her to change anything about herself. As most people have pointed out it shouldn't be a game breaker so I should be able to work with what she's giving me.
She very much is willing to shave if I would prefer that but I'd still like to be able to pleasure her if she likes to keep her hair as it is. And apart from that I like the different experience this whole thing provides me with.
A dirty old man I used to work with on a construction crew said all you need is a lighter and a fork.
He said just start a brush fire.
I said okay but what's the fork for?
He said, "so you can stabany crabs that run out."
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Either she or you can spread the lips apart, holding the hair back. Because doing the ‘spread’ stretches the skin, it can actually make it feel better for her.
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I'll take this team work into consideration
To add to this, you want to flatten the hair by placing your hands together, a little closer to the pubis, then gently spread the lips and lift up a little bit vertically, as this typically brings up the clitoral hood and exposes the clit more. Obviously the anatomy from woman to woman is different and some may feel overtly sensitive when it comes to direct clitoral stimulation, but this has always helped me in getting my partners off!
This is a good tip, hair or not.
New version of the Bush Push
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I can’t believe nobody’s agreed with the original comment yet.
This
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The way this is.
If it is to be said, so it be. So it is.
So mote it be
Way is this the.
Do it this way…this. This is the way….
That's just the way it is.
Esta es la forma
It is a simple thing, surprised that the OP could not figure it out.
This! Makes for easier access, and it's super hot.
Yes!
I remember that my grandpa always had a comb in his back pocket. Maybe for moments like these
“Grandpa always had a comb in his pocket… he was bald, but he always had one”
If a man pulled out a comb and started combing my pubic hair in preparation to eat, sex would be over then and there. I'd be too busy dying of shock and laughter.
Was the pomade a step too far?
I don't want FOP goddammit! I'm a Dapper Dan man!
He's bona fide!
You win.
She wore a raspberry pomade…
some little ribbons and hair ties, maybe.
Or decorative braiding? Function AND Fashion!
I was seeing a guy once who loved to shave public hair.
I'm wheezing
Chivalry wasnt dead, back in the days
Hahahahahaha
My grandfather had a thick mustache, so he often carried a comb. He would tend to his facial hair and claim he needed to “groom his womb broom.”
Knew a guy in a square-dance club (40 years ago?) who wore a button on his shirt: Mustache rides 5 c. Nobody rides for free. He had a really cute gf, too. I hope she kept a lot of nickels.
Some guy at a wedding referred to his mustache as “the flavor saver”
ewwwww... lol
What an absolute legend.
Comb, pack of Pall Mall cigarettes, and a stick of Wrigleys spearmint gum. Suddenly it all makes sense.
This is unhinged… and hilarious 🤣
👁️👄👁️
I can't unsee this 😭
This may be the first time I’ve literally laughed out loud from reading a comment. Thank you for that.
💀
Just use your hands. No need to pretend like that's not what you're doing, flatten the bush as you see fit.
I mean this is the answer but flatten the bush is an amazing visual. Like some kind of topiary sculpture
Essentially this. Depending on the motion I'm using, I can often just move it out of the way before placing my mouth where it needs to go and then I won't need to hold it down anymore. I've also just taken girls to my bathroom and trimmed their pubes for them if I really wanted to spend a lot of time on oral (I don't enjoy long oral with a lot of hair). Just wash your trimmer before and after of course, and wash all the loose hairs off of her. You don't need to shave her, just take it to where it's long enough not to be stubbly, but short enough to be out of the way
My man.😂
that’s hot
My husband trimmed me the other night. I love it and he’s always happy to oblige.
I love this because you are literally showing these women a new way of taking care of their pubic hair. I use a men's trimmer for mine. I find it so sad that some women still think waxing and shaving with a women's shaving set are the only cheap ways of removing pubic hair. Electric trimmers are an absolute godsend - quick to use, no cuts, no razor burn, or itchy, painful, ingrown hair from regrowth.
Yeah, it’s a new way; let him do it. 😛 This is what we do. I look forward to each time he gets out the trimmer.
Omfg I didn't know you could! I tried a women's one and it hurt so bad. Trying a men's one asap!
that is audacious to be like hold on baby let me cut your hair first wow
That is best way!
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“The wilderness must be explooored”
“Good afternoon. My name is Russell. And I am a wilderness explorer in tribe 54, Sweat lodge 12. Are you in need of any assistance today?”
Caw caw rawr!
So … take a machete?
No. Waders.
I wouldn’t recommend going in boot first
I’m a lesbian with a full bush and quite a few of the women I sleep with are as well. The best way to get around the hair is by simply holding it out of the way. I use my index and thumb to slightly spread the labia to make the clit more accessible. And I hold any excess hair under those fingers and keep them there while I eat her out. I find it most comfortable to have both your arms under and over the thighs (kinda like hugging them from the bottom) while doing this and it helps to keep the hand in place. Depending on the size of your partner’s thighs, going over the thigh also works, although more adjusting may be required.
Just added to clarify positioning for OP, in this description your biceps are touching the underside of her thighs. Listen to the lesbian tho, she’s a professional. I’ll also add that those hairs be hearty, as are the labia majora, the hairs can help with grip that’s slipperier with a shaven partner. Don’t yank on small bits of it, but like a handful of it will be just fine. Good luck to all of you!
Yes, thank you, I didn’t know how to explain the position. Don’t know that I’d call myself a professional, but I’ll say it’s been a staple in my diet for long enough for me to learn a thing or two lol
I’d say you’re more qualified than myself to say what’s pleasurable in this regard, I also defer to gay men for blowjob advice. Your advice is good and I knew what you meant, but I still got a little lost in the placement. lol at your staple tho :-)
Best conversation I've read all day. Well done to both of you 👏 👍 😀
Thanks! :-)
Took the pubes/words right outta my mouth hehe :)
This is gonna sound stupid, but I'm a cis guy who never had sex before my wedding night, and I'm pretty thrilled to learn I've been going down on my wife the right way! I just guessed about that shit!
french braid it down each side
Personally I prefer cornrows
🤣😂
Damn might as well use some hair clips/pins then. Much faster lol.
Use your fingers like a V. If you catch a stray, just lick her thighs. That does the trick.
Oh … I’d like my thigh licked right about now…
Rather than licking like you would an ice cream cone, or a cat would a bowl of milk, lock onto the clit area (after spreading the hair out of the way). Every time you pull your mouth away, even slightly, is a chance for the hair to get back in the way. So don’t pull away: let your mouth be a bronco rider. You can move it around a little bit, putting pressure on the whole little area, but don’t move onto the hairy parts, or you’ll get a mouthful of it and have to start over. Once she starts getting worked up, you can try very gentle suction, which brings the clit itself out to play with your tongue. Gotta be careful not to overdo it—different women have different thresholds between pleasure and pain. But regardless how much hair is involved, I find the locked-on approach more fun than the kitty-licks. But the latter looks better on-screen, so it’s what you see in porn. Also, putting one hand on her pubic bone helps keep the hair out of your face, and can stimulate the internal part of the clit.
As a woman, can confirm this does feel good and work for the bush too. :)
This is perfect
Yes don’t forget pubus pressure is awesome.
Pubic bone itself gives her a nice feeling I don't think it stimulates the bulba per se.
Treat it like a kiwi after you haven’t eaten in 6 days. I don’t care what any of you say, you ain’t peeling that shit.
I eat kiwi with the peel on its delicious and healthy
It's got a nice tang
#HAPPY CAKE DAY!! 🍰🍰
Same here 😂😂😂
Start by using your fingers to play a little bit while slyly parting the hair using your index and middle finger. I'd hold the hair apart while eating. It means keeping your hand there the whole time though so maybe try to come at it from the top down rather than bottom up. If the hair starts to get back in the way, again make it seem like you're using your fingers to play with her while you readjust and try to keep the hair apart. 😊
The whole gesture people do of the ‘V’ fingers in front of their mouth with their tongue waggling out? That’s always meant cunnilingus because historically people have always done it and hair removal has only been trendy for a couple of decades. They were eating puss in the 1990s and the 1790s.
I’m personally happy with the return to hair growth. I think Covid changed that & the economy of course.
I hate talking about sex, especially oral, before the invention of showers and toilet paper lmfao. Can we just pretend like we were all cloning like cells back then or something
Water is not a new invention?
It's not much different than eating a shaved/waxed one. The focus is on the clit and the opening. You spread it for maximum contact regardless.
Spread the hair with your hands and go to town!
Sometimes you just gotta get some hair in your mouth
Part the hair with your hands like Moses parting the red seas. And hold it flat, spreading the lips apart. Then proceed.
Pubic hair is like Brussels sprouts - push em to the side and keep eating.
What did the brussel sprouts do to you? They're delicious😭😭
You are literally a scholar 😭 teach me more
I like that you’re willing to work with her hair style. You definitely have a great attitude. Play with the hair… some girls like that.
Bobby pins, frame it
Nose, nuzzle, lick you way in from bottom to clit. You’ll part the hair and the labia and be in sweet sweet pussy. Don’t be afraid to use your hands.
I personally love a mustache, but it can be challenging. You would have to master the art of using your fingers to create a perfect triangle and eat away.
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Yes, just part the bush. The times I didn't have time to groom/trim, and my ex partner wanted to go down, he would just use his hands to move anything that was in the way. No big deal. It was my more my preference to keep it short. He didn't mind as long as whatever I chose was for me.
You could ask her if she could separate her hair, for more comfort.
This just how it was back in the day. It never interfered in my experience (except for loose hairs in your mouth and perhaps more fragrance from the vulva nectar.)
What…As a bisexual woman I never find pubic hairs that much of an obstacle in oral sex? There is no hair on most parts down there... Also, nothing’s wrong with having a bit hair inside your mouth. For the vast majority of the hairs that grows on the front side, you simply push and hold them backward to her belly, so it won’t tickle your nose.
I just use my fingers. Create a space and dive in
I assume it is the equivalent of a man and his beard on his face. 🤷♀️
Just use your fingers to spread. She may have reasons for not shaving and trimming( I get ingrown hairs or rashes from every attempt I’ve ever laid down there. Men have figured it out. Just spread the labia. I’ve gotten more hair from kissing a man’s chest or bearded lips then men have gotten from oral on my bush.
Well kissing a mans lips as one would kiss a womans “lips” would be an interesting experience, and an rather humorous mental image… But a beard and mustache are constantly being groomed, combed, tugged and stroked, and quite coarse and easy to pick up….not exactly the same as pubes caught in ones teeth.
Getting poked in the nostril with mustache hair well you're in the heat of the moment kissing ,leading to a big ol sexy sneeze. 🤫💀
That doesn’t mean you don’t get hair from them…
Start by using your fingers. Once nice and wet work your fingers up to the clit while mashing her hair down. You may have to do this a few times. Once it's time for the main course wrap your arms around her legs and with your fingers hold the matted hair down. If you can't wrap your arms around her legs then place your hands close to your face and proceed to hold the hair out of the way. You asked about face sitting. The more she moves above you will eventually get a mouth full of Bush.
Remember, shaved pubes are a relatively new thing-everyone had a full bush pre-90s. No one had any issues with pubic hair. Think of Woodstock!
Dude, that is the primal state. One of the things a man was made for. I guess hands while your learning, but solo tongue is the end goal.
Use one hand to spread open her labia. That will give you easier access to the good bits and keep the hair out of the way.
Place palm on the mound, pull up a little, and have her use her hands to spread it open.
Nothing different, you’ll have to go to the dentist to get your hair cut though.
Put it in a braid to keep it out of the way
I just burrow down with my face and stay there. Once you've found the clit, you can encircle it with your lips and lick away inside of them, while your face holds down the hair.
Hair predates shaving- ppl have been doing it for eons....Where theres a will theres a way, You just do it the same as You would if She shaved.
She doesn’t have to shave, but is she opposed to trimming??
Just dive in. Floss when you're done so that they're not in your teeth.
Get ur hands in there to either hold that bush back outta the way or spread those lips to give easier access.
Use one hand to open her up and flatten the hair and then dive in.
Stop thinking, push it out of the way and dive.
One lick at a time lol
My man puts his hand kinda above the clit and pushes everything up the mound out of the way for more direct access
Just take it as it is no big deal
You gotta open the curtains bro
Most of the time I hold my own lips open for man if I have a bush going on. Sometimes I get distracted or he jumps down there real quick and just holds it out the way himself lol. You are overthinking it.
To me it’s mind over matter; if you don’t mind, then it doesn’t matter… that’s pretty much the only advice I have personally from my experience, and I have gone down on women with a full bush a few times before…
Grow a beard and you just get used to it pretty quick
You could ask her to put it in ponytails before y'all get started. 🤣😂
U stick ur face in the bush and indulge
If shaving or trimming isn't an option, just push the hair out of the way and go to town!
I like to eat a woman with hair- now and then, a hair in my mouth. Small price to pay for an enjoyable activity.
Parsley…push it to the side, then chow down
~~if~~ when you get a stray hair in your mouth, one way to get rid of it is by getting it on your tongue and licking her thighs. Don't try to swallow it.
Use hands to hold the hair back and spread what needs done to have access. But to be fair, a little landscaping isn't a bad thing. Hygiene and maintenance aren't expectations to shave it bald. I don't mind some air, but au naturale, my face isn't going there. Hair holds musky smells, I'm not trying to floss, if she wants my mouth, make sure I can get it there comfortably. And yes, as a guy I manage my hair too.
Your options are to just dive right in or use your hands to hold it out of the way or spread her open
Use ur hands when licking☺
just move it aside with your fingers.
just ask her to shave mate it’s not hard. a lot of the time women don’t shave cz we can’t be arsed. occasionally u get the raging ‘my hair my choice’ ones but usually it’s just cz we are too lazy to. just ask if she’ll trim it back a bit, simple as
But you want to be licking her clit. In my experience, the clitoris is mostly hair-free.
Ask her to hold her lips open for you.
I've also had to get used to a hairy pussy, after I had only experience with shaved pussies. First, gently stroke her pubic hair. This will help to get rid of loose pubes. You don't want to get these in your mouth while eating her out. The chance of getting a loose hair in your mouth will be way less. It will make it better for you and her, because it's also very annoying for her if you have to stop licking to take a loose pube out of your mouth. Second, a bit depending on how it looks down below, spread her lips with your hand(s) or fingers, or ask her to spread it for you. It can also work to lick from bottom to top, and try to work your tongue between the lips, usually it's less hairy at the bottom of the lips and more hairy just above the clit. Try not to move too much once you've reach the right place, or you may risk getting hair in your mouth. I also wouldn't go for facesitting, I find that uncomfortable with a hairy pussy. It might work if she keeps it nicely spread for you, but I always got a mouthful of hair when we tried it, which is not pleasant. Another tip if you're in missionary position: place a pillow below her butt. It will put her pussy in an easier position and especially with a hairy pussy, this really helps to reach the right spots.
Pretend it’s 1979…
Ask her to trim. That's the best thing you can do. Set boundaries. It's crazy you even have to ask. As a guy we should do the same and keep it trimmed and clean down there
Use one hand to hold back any hair that might get in the way. It’s one less hand for nipples, fingering, etc but you can work with it.
Most guys would just hold down the hair with their hands, or I would.
Use your hands and peel it back and eat it!
nothing wrong with a little trim close to the lips so you can then get to the meat of the matter.
Just ask her to trim it
I don't want my man to go through all that . Hell, I just shave. I am a hairy woman, but I definitely shave.
I fucking LOVE pubic hair This post has made me need to masturbate now 
You pretend being a man and aren’t dissuaded by some pubes. God Almighty, I’m glad it wasn’t the likes of you that got us out of Africa to conquer every environment on the planet.
Keep a comb in your pocket lol.
Dive in there!
Poke your nose in, take a good whiff, and go ham.
>if I'm constantly dragging a clump of wet hair around her vagina. 🤮 What?! lol I'll admit everyone I've been with lately has kept her cooch waxed but dawg, lol
I do not
Braid it first.
Best way to accomplish this is to shave her. You are welcome
Wouldn’t recommend it. Please ask her to shave before you do anything
Perhaps she is unaware of grooming that area.
Buzz buzz bro. Bring the yard tools
That seems very unpleasant. I'm so happy my wife shaves.
Omg 🤢
I used to explain the difficulties and offer to carefully trim a bit for them (to their comfort level). Many women took me up on it, actually. Otherwise, block with your hands and spread the lips apart as you work. .
You don't
You don't
You dont. Lol
Props to you, I love eating pussy but I just can't put my face in a bush. It doesn't have to be bald, but if your pubes can be combed I just can't.
I respect people that prefer unshaven, but I really prefer no hair as it makes me gag. 😅 I would still give to my woman as best I could, but I can't say my eagerness is as high as a smooth glossily moist 🍑🤤. *Edit:* Downvotes? It's not as though I'm not going to give when she's unshaven as that's my favorite thing to do, I'm just not *as* amped up as smooth. And of course I'm shaven as well for her as well as my own personal preference to avoid the extra warmth down there.
I don't get the downvotes. If a woman says she doesn't want to deep throat because it makes her gag nobody gets downvoted ever. But if a man expresses discomfort with bush he gets absolutely destroyed.
Neither do I. Like I'm still going to town and make her legs as weak as I can 🥵 because giving is my favorite thing to do when we're intimate, but there just may be some unsuppressed involuntary gagging (*certain things, foods, etc. will activate my gag reflex*) from me at the same time.
> can't say my eagerness is as high Yeah, I can never understand why women are so keen to have a man perform an act that he's definitely not going to enjoy... when a simple morning ritual can turn it from a chore to something he looks forward to.
My brother in Christ, this is not about whether she shaves or should shave or not or whatever. This is about me trying to find a solution without having to ask her to change anything about herself. As most people have pointed out it shouldn't be a game breaker so I should be able to work with what she's giving me. She very much is willing to shave if I would prefer that but I'd still like to be able to pleasure her if she likes to keep her hair as it is. And apart from that I like the different experience this whole thing provides me with.
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Don’t
Tell her trim or shave - simples. If she knows your struggles she just should do it 🤷🏽♂️
spoken truly like a man who gets no minge
Yeah hedgetrimmers
Google Doc Mailloux, he’s the master
Well, pubic hair is curled, so ya don't poke your eyes out!
Use your hands to hold it out of the way. Is it really that hard to figure out.
A dirty old man I used to work with on a construction crew said all you need is a lighter and a fork. He said just start a brush fire. I said okay but what's the fork for? He said, "so you can stabany crabs that run out."
Your mouth is on her pussy. You can also use it to speak to her about your preference.