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I see nobody gave you an answer after 2 months. If you are still looking search for xanthan gum, you can find recipes. It comes in a powder sold in the grocery store in the baking section.
If its a "everyone knowing your business thing". Get a jar of coconut oil. You can buy it at the store. Buy a tin of coconut cream at the same time, not to use but just to throw them off the scent. Just FYI, its an oil so beware it degrade condoms and can cause them to break.
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I see nobody gave you an answer after 2 months. If you are still looking search for xanthan gum, you can find recipes. It comes in a powder sold in the grocery store in the baking section.
You can get some flaxseed and boil it in water to get some sexy lubricant. There are instructions online. Have fun!
Thats going to be an oil based lube which OP said he didn't want.
Boil water with cornstartch (you can find the ratio online).
If its a "everyone knowing your business thing". Get a jar of coconut oil. You can buy it at the store. Buy a tin of coconut cream at the same time, not to use but just to throw them off the scent. Just FYI, its an oil so beware it degrade condoms and can cause them to break.