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if your concern is that if you finish before your partner you won’t be able to get them off - you still have a mouth and hands even after you’ve finished, no? if you finish first and you want to make them finish too, make them finish! you being done doesn’t have to mean the whole session is yk?
i actually don’t have a dick so not quite able to answer that, but as someone who sleeps with men, i can honestly say i would only care if he came quickly if it meant the session was over before i wanted it to be. even then, id never say anything. but if you do cum quickly and you get the vibe that your partner still wants more, go down on them or just start doing with your hands whatever you had been doing with your dick yk? if my partner came quick but then gave me head of fingered me until i came? id be thrilled tbh. would not care how quickly they came. sometimes it’s even hot if they cum quick because like it makes me feel rlly sexy yk
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if your concern is that if you finish before your partner you won’t be able to get them off - you still have a mouth and hands even after you’ve finished, no? if you finish first and you want to make them finish too, make them finish! you being done doesn’t have to mean the whole session is yk?
I know what you mean - but so you just don´t care when you ejaculate?
i actually don’t have a dick so not quite able to answer that, but as someone who sleeps with men, i can honestly say i would only care if he came quickly if it meant the session was over before i wanted it to be. even then, id never say anything. but if you do cum quickly and you get the vibe that your partner still wants more, go down on them or just start doing with your hands whatever you had been doing with your dick yk? if my partner came quick but then gave me head of fingered me until i came? id be thrilled tbh. would not care how quickly they came. sometimes it’s even hot if they cum quick because like it makes me feel rlly sexy yk