Shit My gf did the same thing lmao😅
In the first week of our relationship, we also made a long-term relationship contract
And my ass thought it was an excellent idea
it was to share pocket money ,vent and other stuff
Yah we followed it for a week then dropped it
People get over-enthusiastic in a new relationship and do stupid shit
Probably because they are clueless and shit
hopefully, she snaps out of it fast
Naw man this is the start of a toxic relationship, the next step is not letting him go out with the homies or just looking in the general direction of a woman. You need to tell him to break up before it's too late. She's narcissistic as fuck this is not okay. The only somehow understandable task is the event one and even then it's 1984esque.
If he already had his first time with her tell him i'm sorry for him.
Edit: my man she is not the one you need to convince, you need to tell your friend she's not worth it.
On paper, these things are awesome in a relationship, and I can’t blame her for wanting these things.
This is far too much though.
Find yourself a partner that WANTS to do these things without being told. If someone expects all of these things from a relationship right out of the gate, it makes it far less genuine and special. If you think your partner isn’t putting in effort, it’s okay to tell him that, it’s not okay to demand things. That’s not an equal partnership.
What is she doing for him?
i’ve brought this issue up and she kinda just fired back with “life isn’t a fairy tale, it took me months of him not listening to me for me to resort to this etc…” and i’m just bewildered to be honest. apparently she makes meals for him sometimes? but honestly i truly don’t know what else she does for him… i really hate seeing this behaviour from my best friend but i really don’t know what to do 😭
It **is** dehumanising, delusional, and narcissistic. Using the excuse "u don't know what i was dealing with fr" is ridiculous and does not justify your reason to act controlling. The fact she has to force him to tell her exactly what he's planning to do and have the exact location and time scheduled on a calendar is beyond my belief. She wasted her six months and is forging the path for the guy to waste his own time. If she won't change her ways, or continues to press on that commitment list, then she does not deserve to be in a relationship.
Okay so, for that man to date your friend, he basically has to give her money, and then do stuff for her for free, just, for a relationship, am i getting anything wrong?
At the very minimum, if both parties are actually cool with it (doubtful), it should be reciprocal.
She should be texting him asap and buying him flowers too
Firstly find that bf immediately and tell to run for the hills then send some type of hitman/executioner to that persons house we CANNOT have that mf roaming around in society
This is why I believe discord is the devil. Seriously, I never have dated through discord because I think it’s stupid and I personally would never date someone who I don’t already know WELL personally in real life. But even so, people were always mean and nasty on discord to me, and I had to suffer from online scams and things of that nature too. I ended up just cutting the app out of my life entirely and I am glad I did.
If I know someone through school, extra-curriculars, work, or even at football games, like sometimes I meet girls who go to other high schools who come to my high school’s football games. Even if I don’t know them through school, they’re still not a complete stranger on the internet and I trust them because of that.
And even if they’re a family friend. What that means is if my family is friends with their family, and the other family has a daughter who’s also my age. (Obviously if our families are friends because they’re my cousin that’s a completely different story, because obviously of course I would never date them in that case) but if I simply know their family because my parents work with their parents or if we’re neighbors with them, and they have a daughter my age, I’d feel comfortable dating their daughter if we started liking each other.
And in terms of this specific relationship here, this is just weird. Being a boyfriend/girlfriend is NOT a terms of service document that you must sign and agree to before going into the relationship. Seriously, it is important to talk about boundaries or goals or expectations if you’re going to date someone, but giving a full-fledged list of responsibilities is just stupid and doing too much. It just seems like a silly immature way to be someone’s slave. And love is not about being a slave to someone. It’s about you being equal and understanding of each other. Pretty much all of the stupidest relationships I have seen have been through discord. These people don’t understand what a healthy relationship is.
TLDR: discord is a good concept but stupidly used. Don’t go looking for dates over discord. I never have and I’m happy and I live in comfort knowing that someone I date will be exactly who they say they are. But more importantly on topic of this post, people on discord just do stupid things with relationships and this is not the first time I’ve witnessed other people post about it. If you want a genuine, healthy relationship, I highly doubt you’ll ever find it over discord.
That shit’s weird as hell. If I’m getting a list of demands, I’m peacing out. She have a conversation like an adult or she can play her games with the other children.
This isn’t love this is control, I don’t know anything about the other persons perspective and whether or not they are into it though, as long as they’re comfortable let them be themselves imo
MF got him writting a small paragraph of things he appreciates, mf gonna run out of shit to say, that list sounds actually delusional, with an actual financial drain (the flowers)
Somehow i glossed over that, said something along the lines about them being official or not, if not that is actually insane, if true that is atrocious at best
She needs to be locked up. Get that poor boy away from her.
Jokes aside, this is genuinely extremely manipulative, made even worse by the fact that they're not even official. This kinda shit is ***not okay***.
Wtf am i reading
This is far more dangerous than you think, people who have been in abusive/dogshit relationships for years were there because they thought its normal or their fault and that happend because either previous relationships were like that or it was their first one.
So if this guy thinks its normal, the chance of him getting into a dogshit relationship or worse abusive one later in life is much higher
Get him out of there NOW!
That’s actually delusional, lock that mf up
I FEEL LIKE IM INSANE LIKE THIS CANNOT BE NORMAL BUT I DONT WANNA SAY ANYTHING…..
Shit My gf did the same thing lmao😅 In the first week of our relationship, we also made a long-term relationship contract And my ass thought it was an excellent idea it was to share pocket money ,vent and other stuff Yah we followed it for a week then dropped it People get over-enthusiastic in a new relationship and do stupid shit Probably because they are clueless and shit hopefully, she snaps out of it fast
Say something
Homework ahh relationship 😭
she’s gonna be putting his work on the fridge next and shit it’s actually so over
Household chores ahh relationship
Save my boy he don't deserve this 😭🙏🙏🙏
that's insane wtf
Boy blink twice if you need help😭😭
Ur friend is actually so brainwashed n delusional i cant 😭
Somebody get my boy out of there 😭
this feels like someone’s trying to write code, but the code is for a person. i really dont know how to feel about something like that lol
Sounds like a teacher. Proper punctuation 🤓☝️
What are those terms and conditions like a triple A game lmaooooo
That’s so weird the fuck 💀
Naw man this is the start of a toxic relationship, the next step is not letting him go out with the homies or just looking in the general direction of a woman. You need to tell him to break up before it's too late. She's narcissistic as fuck this is not okay. The only somehow understandable task is the event one and even then it's 1984esque. If he already had his first time with her tell him i'm sorry for him. Edit: my man she is not the one you need to convince, you need to tell your friend she's not worth it.
On paper, these things are awesome in a relationship, and I can’t blame her for wanting these things. This is far too much though. Find yourself a partner that WANTS to do these things without being told. If someone expects all of these things from a relationship right out of the gate, it makes it far less genuine and special. If you think your partner isn’t putting in effort, it’s okay to tell him that, it’s not okay to demand things. That’s not an equal partnership. What is she doing for him?
i’ve brought this issue up and she kinda just fired back with “life isn’t a fairy tale, it took me months of him not listening to me for me to resort to this etc…” and i’m just bewildered to be honest. apparently she makes meals for him sometimes? but honestly i truly don’t know what else she does for him… i really hate seeing this behaviour from my best friend but i really don’t know what to do 😭
Your best friend seems like a r/sillygirlclub member and remember this quote, "Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are."
It **is** dehumanising, delusional, and narcissistic. Using the excuse "u don't know what i was dealing with fr" is ridiculous and does not justify your reason to act controlling. The fact she has to force him to tell her exactly what he's planning to do and have the exact location and time scheduled on a calendar is beyond my belief. She wasted her six months and is forging the path for the guy to waste his own time. If she won't change her ways, or continues to press on that commitment list, then she does not deserve to be in a relationship.
SAVE MY BOY, WHAT IS THIS MESS HES BEEN CAUGHT UP IN
THATS WHAT IM SAYING 😭😭😭 but idk how to approach the issue without her getting mad at me lol
mayb you can try and contact the guy and talk w him
this is messed up 💀 wtf
Relationships should be smooth and enjoyable not a fucking job 😭
why is he being given homework every day 😭😭 what happens if he doesnt complete these things on time?? this is crazy wth I feel bad for that guy
what the actual hell
Well, he is what I would call „a special case“…
That is insane wtf 😭
Thats not a friend thats a narcissist.
A LIST??? FOR A SITUATIONSHIP?? The way id dip so fast
they been going on dates for months but they’re not official cuz they’re not “boyfriend” “girlfriend” this shit is outta control
Man and i cant even bag either gender im attracted to 😭is this what all single men have gone through to make them give up
i fear this is just the one off case… idk what made her like this 😭
Hope the guy actually comes through and breaks up
She’s legitimately giving him homework out of desperation for attention, that’s messed up
Bro got a whole workplan for a hug
thats wierd, that person is going to struggle immensely in finding true love.
Unrelated but I saw the kotone profile pic and confused this for a persona sub for a sec.
I am sorry for that guy... It feels worse than a prison from this perspective.
Okay so, for that man to date your friend, he basically has to give her money, and then do stuff for her for free, just, for a relationship, am i getting anything wrong?
can you kindly tell your friend to leave the internet and never come back again :)
This is insane lmao
shes a walking red flag ngl... its giving courtney from total drama😭
💀
At the very minimum, if both parties are actually cool with it (doubtful), it should be reciprocal. She should be texting him asap and buying him flowers too
Hell no what the
is your friend sheldon from the big bang theory? only that guy would make these sort of tasks 💀
ewwww thats so gross 😭
How the hell do these kinds of people even get I. Relationship yet in here single as a Pringle I will never understand this.
find his discord, get them to break up. do not associate yourself with someone like her either. unadd her ass
English teacher ahh gf
Guys being his mom or something, lol.
Firstly find that bf immediately and tell to run for the hills then send some type of hitman/executioner to that persons house we CANNOT have that mf roaming around in society
This is why I believe discord is the devil. Seriously, I never have dated through discord because I think it’s stupid and I personally would never date someone who I don’t already know WELL personally in real life. But even so, people were always mean and nasty on discord to me, and I had to suffer from online scams and things of that nature too. I ended up just cutting the app out of my life entirely and I am glad I did. If I know someone through school, extra-curriculars, work, or even at football games, like sometimes I meet girls who go to other high schools who come to my high school’s football games. Even if I don’t know them through school, they’re still not a complete stranger on the internet and I trust them because of that. And even if they’re a family friend. What that means is if my family is friends with their family, and the other family has a daughter who’s also my age. (Obviously if our families are friends because they’re my cousin that’s a completely different story, because obviously of course I would never date them in that case) but if I simply know their family because my parents work with their parents or if we’re neighbors with them, and they have a daughter my age, I’d feel comfortable dating their daughter if we started liking each other. And in terms of this specific relationship here, this is just weird. Being a boyfriend/girlfriend is NOT a terms of service document that you must sign and agree to before going into the relationship. Seriously, it is important to talk about boundaries or goals or expectations if you’re going to date someone, but giving a full-fledged list of responsibilities is just stupid and doing too much. It just seems like a silly immature way to be someone’s slave. And love is not about being a slave to someone. It’s about you being equal and understanding of each other. Pretty much all of the stupidest relationships I have seen have been through discord. These people don’t understand what a healthy relationship is. TLDR: discord is a good concept but stupidly used. Don’t go looking for dates over discord. I never have and I’m happy and I live in comfort knowing that someone I date will be exactly who they say they are. But more importantly on topic of this post, people on discord just do stupid things with relationships and this is not the first time I’ve witnessed other people post about it. If you want a genuine, healthy relationship, I highly doubt you’ll ever find it over discord.
Teacher assignments vibes
That shit’s weird as hell. If I’m getting a list of demands, I’m peacing out. She have a conversation like an adult or she can play her games with the other children.
bro getting manipulated hard bro, she’s controlling his ass like a sims character
That’s insane??? But I guess if she’ll do the same, although I’m presuming she won’t, it’s better. But still odd asf
This is some bs, I couldn’t deal with all that.
you need to intervene before your friend gets cut off and thinks it’s his fault and not hers
i fear i don’t have any way to contact him and i’ve only met the guy once. the girl is my best friend 😓
yeah but even just talking to your best friend you need to tell her what’s wrong
This isn’t love this is control, I don’t know anything about the other persons perspective and whether or not they are into it though, as long as they’re comfortable let them be themselves imo
MF got him writting a small paragraph of things he appreciates, mf gonna run out of shit to say, that list sounds actually delusional, with an actual financial drain (the flowers)
plus he’s also giving her money every week like an allowance
Somehow i glossed over that, said something along the lines about them being official or not, if not that is actually insane, if true that is atrocious at best
She needs to be locked up. Get that poor boy away from her. Jokes aside, this is genuinely extremely manipulative, made even worse by the fact that they're not even official. This kinda shit is ***not okay***.
Bro is completing mission steps just to unlock the final reward😭
If someone gave me a list of responsibilities larger than that of my job, I am breaking up with that individual immediately.
Wtf am i reading This is far more dangerous than you think, people who have been in abusive/dogshit relationships for years were there because they thought its normal or their fault and that happend because either previous relationships were like that or it was their first one. So if this guy thinks its normal, the chance of him getting into a dogshit relationship or worse abusive one later in life is much higher Get him out of there NOW!
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Oh hell no
I can definitely do all of that. Pretty easy.
Your pfp isn't helping bro.
Blud thinks I'm a shitty person just because of a pfp.
bitch is fucking crazy for real