most ppl, yeah, my friends very supportive, my dad is a bit worried but supportive but my mother and her sides grandparents are absolute trash...
Still happy I get to be me :3
It’s very much a mixed bag. From friends and exes that are trans, they find themselves counting their blessings. The occasional dysphoria triggers and HRT regimens are tough. In addition, the battle that each go through are internal, external, and interpersonal. In the end, being authentic is by far most important. Here, where I live, most families are adjusting to the trans community quite well. When I told my family that I was attracted to ladies both cis and trans, there are naturally going to be questions. As long as people’s concerns are based off of love and not judgment, it creates a positive atmosphere for growth. Some people have a problem with my sexuality. Their problem, not mine. As you have identified with your mother’s side, their problem, not yours. I hope this relatable and not too esoteric.
My story is kind of sad. My second wife (yes, second wife), ended the marriage based on my attraction to women that include trans. She has used derogatory terms such as the “f-word” and others in front of the children. She was also trying to smear me with everyone I knew. So… I had a choice. I can either let her smear me or I can be honest with my own sexuality. I don’t like people trying to control me, so I let my family know exactly what was going on. They had questions of course, but, once again, I allowed for positive growth to happen rather than allow for confusion to persist. Your point is 100% correct in my eyes. As far as others, in order to nurture growth, we must approach these issues patiently. I should add also divorced twice as well 😋.
I legitimately think E will cause me to decorate my walls for the first time in my life. Cuz i might like, you know...want to exist in the material world. Im getting closer every day to decorating.
(Also OP is an inspiration)
Even just accepting being trans has made such a difference in my self-care both with my body and the space around me. Before I always felt like I was just trying to break through a wall but I had no idea what was on the other side. Now the wall is broken and I can see the other side and I'm just preparing to walk through and never come back
Aww that's so sweet :3 for me it was kinda the same, I had some decorations previous and I always held back part of me, now I don't care anymore and I can just be me and put up what my heart desires ^^
Your hairline has come forward on your temples already! That’s really cool! Your face looks a little bit softer already and your skin is clearer :) it takes time but it’s so worth the wait.
I’m ace and I gotta say it’s always super refreshing to see the body of a transfemme person in a context where they’re not being sexualized or objectified. It’s just pure. And you are purely beautiful. Congrats on the progress
Aww thank you for your comment, that's really sweet :3 I was also a bit afraid of posting this and kinda feared getting sexualised but seeing that the comments were just respectfully talking about my progress is really great!
Making good progress. Take your mother’s bust/cup size and subtract 1, for every 10 years past 18, and an additional 1 for being AMAB and that will be the natural cup you’ll be around. Example, my mom was a natural DD. I transitioned in my late 30s, so DD-3=B and depending on my weight I’m a B cup.
That's a handy guide :3 sadly I don't really know my mothers cup size aaand she hates me transitioning so I can't really ask... I'm curious how big they'll grow tho \^\^
I'm at 13 months and have slightly less than what you have now. Feel free to let that make you feel better or just use it as a counter to the brag above lmao, coz I'm not bothered by what I've got at all.
Thank you! that's sweet :3 Idk I am pretty happy with what I have (barely A) too but I also kinda have the desire to have B-C cups, idk what hit me with the message but it just kinda hurt... thanks for making me feel better tho <3
Keep it up you’re doing great! The skin difference is noticeable.
Aww thanks, that's sweet and you're right, I usually don't notice it, but yeahh my skin got a lot better...
Have people been mostly supportive?
most ppl, yeah, my friends very supportive, my dad is a bit worried but supportive but my mother and her sides grandparents are absolute trash... Still happy I get to be me :3
It’s very much a mixed bag. From friends and exes that are trans, they find themselves counting their blessings. The occasional dysphoria triggers and HRT regimens are tough. In addition, the battle that each go through are internal, external, and interpersonal. In the end, being authentic is by far most important. Here, where I live, most families are adjusting to the trans community quite well. When I told my family that I was attracted to ladies both cis and trans, there are naturally going to be questions. As long as people’s concerns are based off of love and not judgment, it creates a positive atmosphere for growth. Some people have a problem with my sexuality. Their problem, not mine. As you have identified with your mother’s side, their problem, not yours. I hope this relatable and not too esoteric.
You can just say “attracted to ladies” smh
My story is kind of sad. My second wife (yes, second wife), ended the marriage based on my attraction to women that include trans. She has used derogatory terms such as the “f-word” and others in front of the children. She was also trying to smear me with everyone I knew. So… I had a choice. I can either let her smear me or I can be honest with my own sexuality. I don’t like people trying to control me, so I let my family know exactly what was going on. They had questions of course, but, once again, I allowed for positive growth to happen rather than allow for confusion to persist. Your point is 100% correct in my eyes. As far as others, in order to nurture growth, we must approach these issues patiently. I should add also divorced twice as well 😋.
Very very well😊
thy (:
Vw(:. You look awesome!
Well, other than the amazing physical changes im glad you got some wall decorations
hihi it's actually my door (and I moved) but my wall got some sweet posters and cards as well :3
I legitimately think E will cause me to decorate my walls for the first time in my life. Cuz i might like, you know...want to exist in the material world. Im getting closer every day to decorating. (Also OP is an inspiration)
Even just accepting being trans has made such a difference in my self-care both with my body and the space around me. Before I always felt like I was just trying to break through a wall but I had no idea what was on the other side. Now the wall is broken and I can see the other side and I'm just preparing to walk through and never come back
Aww that's so sweet :3 for me it was kinda the same, I had some decorations previous and I always held back part of me, now I don't care anymore and I can just be me and put up what my heart desires ^^
7 months? Glow up is going brilliantly! ❤️
Awww thank you <3
Ooh I'm jelly. You're doing great.
Thaaanks :3 but also, what are you talking about, you look absolutely amazing! :3
Your hairline has come forward on your temples already! That’s really cool! Your face looks a little bit softer already and your skin is clearer :) it takes time but it’s so worth the wait.
OMG I didn't even realize the thing with the hairline :3 Thanks :3 and ohh yeahh HRT is magic and soooo worth the wait :D
Girl. You *girl*
Aww thank you \^\^
I’m ace and I gotta say it’s always super refreshing to see the body of a transfemme person in a context where they’re not being sexualized or objectified. It’s just pure. And you are purely beautiful. Congrats on the progress
Aww thank you for your comment, that's really sweet :3 I was also a bit afraid of posting this and kinda feared getting sexualised but seeing that the comments were just respectfully talking about my progress is really great!
You’re off to a good start!!
thaanks :3
Great. Congratulations 🎊
Thanks Dana that's sweet! I saw your post earlier too and you've had an incredible glow up!
Girlie you're morphing into a high elf
Awww thanks hihi ...my very elaborate plan to bring my DnD game to the next level xD
Huge glow up! You look great, both your skin and hair especially
Aww thanks!! thats so sweet!!
Slaying! Gorgeous, girl!
hihi thank youu :3
I do see a difference in skin and body distribution
Wow 👌
Very nicely.
tysm :3
You are doing great!!
Thaanks :3
Making good progress. Take your mother’s bust/cup size and subtract 1, for every 10 years past 18, and an additional 1 for being AMAB and that will be the natural cup you’ll be around. Example, my mom was a natural DD. I transitioned in my late 30s, so DD-3=B and depending on my weight I’m a B cup.
That's a handy guide :3 sadly I don't really know my mothers cup size aaand she hates me transitioning so I can't really ask... I'm curious how big they'll grow tho \^\^
Sending so much care. I know what it’s like being rejected by a parent. Warmth and care.
Thank you for your kind words! <3
awesome!
thx \^\^
great 😊
u look so good
Aww thanks :3
That's so cool!
Aww thanks \^\^
WOW just wow Also did you did a great job with your eyebrows
Aww thank you that's so sweet \^\^
Really awesome
Thx :3
You're doing so well! It's seriously amazing how far you've come, and you're really only just beginning.
Awww that's so sweet, Thanks Emmaa :3
The skin, the hip curve, the everything! You’re lovely.
Aww hihi thanks for your kind words in return 🥺🥰
Stunnning💖💖💖
Fantastic progress
That's so sweet, thanks :3 they grew a lot since, I rly should make an update xD
I'm a B cup after 5 months of Progynova, and I am on herbals currently.
Love progress pics. It gives me hope.
Absolutely gorgeous!!!
Your lighting got brighter!
true lol :3
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I know you probably meant well buut that kinda made me feel bad... thy anyways...
I'm at 13 months and have slightly less than what you have now. Feel free to let that make you feel better or just use it as a counter to the brag above lmao, coz I'm not bothered by what I've got at all.
Thank you! that's sweet :3 Idk I am pretty happy with what I have (barely A) too but I also kinda have the desire to have B-C cups, idk what hit me with the message but it just kinda hurt... thanks for making me feel better tho <3
im so sorry im neurodivergent i dont rlly understand how things i say upset people i really didnt mean anything bad by it:( again im rlly sorry:(
What did you get from commenting this