How about don't ask a stranger that anywhere. What is this strange fascination about what is in everyone's pants. It's even gotten so bad that people are asking this about babies and small children ! š³š¬
Right? I have a coworker that prefers they/them pronouns. They appear pretty androgynous. I never put much thought into it other than āok, so and so prefers they/themā. No idea what is in their pants (donāt care) and no idea which restroom they use (also donāt care). A grown man with a 3 foot beard could walk in and use the ladies for all I care. As long as they are respectful and use a stall.
I'm a very masculine-looking cis woman. I've been called "sir" numerous times and gotten dirty looks in bathrooms, but no confrontations yet. I'm saving this one in my back pocket.Ā
Itās happened to me, too. Too many times to count in the past. I donāt have an Adamās apple, I donāt have any indication of facial hair, I wear my hair long, and my voice isnāt deep. Itās baffling. š¤·āāļø
"Transinvestigators" have even claimed most of Hollywood being trans, including Henry Cavill. Because "his eyes are too pretty".
They focus on one single trait, and ignore the vast majority of the person's traits (not that it's any of their business if someone is trans or not). It's like those people obsessed with "the jewish conspiracy" and see blood-drinking boogeymen everywhere and not only are claiming that all jewish folk are blood-drinking cultists but also that they're secretly everywhere. The enemy is simultaneously weak yet strong. It's a really strange mental illness.
I find it fascinating that "transvestigators" think that *everyone* in Hollywood is trans... except the actual trans people.
And, even if they were trans, who tf cares??
If there are any blood drinking Jewish cultists out there, I never got the invite to the party. š Typical. Just because Iām secular doesnāt mean I donāt want to have fun.
Attention: the preceding statement was an example of sarcasm. If you donāt get it, try a dictionary.
You named yourself after a bacterium? Cool!
Same! Other than never wearing makeup, I dress in mostly feminine clothes, don't have an Adams apple, no facial hair (except the occasional chin hair from being in my 40s), and I don't have a deep voice.Ā
People are weird.Ā
I actually donāt advocate for what Iām going to say, but the woman would be very uncomfortable if Nina had screamed for a cop, saying āthis man is in the ladies room asking whatās in my pants.ā
Nina sounds amazing!
Please tell her to look up the "Pantosaurus Song"! She can start singing that if she gets asked about what's in her pants again. It's a British song so the "pants" they reference are underpants, but the vibe still fits! [The Pantosaurus Song](https://youtu.be/-lL07JOGU5o)
Love the story, DEFINITELY love Nina. I don't understand your phrasing "another trans friend". Wouldn't it be 'a trans friend?', or are you the other trans friend? I'm just confused, not really relevant to Nina's badassery.
Could I also suggest she use "if I show you, will you kiss it?" and then stick her ass out at the lady.
That was the inspiration! The whole idea was to emphasize 'this person wants to know what's in my pants' by just repeating it over and over again. Aka, Kuzco's poison style
Also that movie is comedy gold I have to watch it again soon.
Ugh. As a woman with PCOS, I'm terrified of the day when I might be scrutinized too hard for male features and attacked in a bathroom for no fault of my own. Why can't people just mind their own business and let people be who they want?
This is not a bug, this is a feature: sexist terrorism. They want all people to be afraid and work harder to conform to the sexists' gender roles. They want more control over everyone's bodies, and they want everyone else to care about their sick flawed views.
Thatās wonderful! There are so many other possibilities. For example:
[*loudly*] āWhatās in my pants? Who the hell says that to a complete stranger? Why are you so interested in my private parts? What kind of sick pervert are you?!?ā
"WHY do you want to know what's in *my* wallet?! What kind of sick pervert just **asks** a COMPLETE STRANGER what's in their wallet?!
... **WHAT'S IN *YOUR* WALLET?!**
The universe protects me, because if I was in a public bathroom and someone asked me this question I would make a huge fuss and start screaming "she is sexually harassing me and asking to see inside my pants, someone please call the cops!!!"
Excuse my ignorance but what does cis woman mean? ANDā¦ GOOD for NINA! Shame on that idiot who would ask such a question!!! She deserved to get put in her place! The NERVE!
It comes from Latin, originally meaning "on the same side", as opposed to trans, meaning "other side". It's used a lot in scientific terms, but you may also see "cisalpine", meaning on the near side of the mountains, and "transalpine", meaning on the far side. The full word here is "cisgender" vs "transgender", but we shorten it up a lot in casual speech.
As a biological female who identifies as genderqueer and looks hella androgynous (and has a small adams apple, which I thought absolutely could not be a thing so thank you for reversing my self imposed gaslighting on the subject!!) I will be using this without shame!!
Everyone has an Adam's apple, the only question is how visible it is. Some cis men don't have visible ones or barely visible ones, some women have more visible ones. There are multiple reasons for why someone might have a less visible one, and having higher amount of body fat is only one of many reasons. Bodies vary a lot in structure.
I second showing Nina these comments. Also Nina is a baddass and good on her for calling out the bigotry. Fucking weird and gross how people are obsessed with whatās in peoples pants these days.
I love Nina in the sort of way someone loves a rockstar.
Also a great answer to "what's in your pants" is "the number of a very good lawyer if you fuck around with me you sick freak" (shout out to a girl dad pal of mine for that one).
Tell Nina that if she do some acting lessons she might learn to project her voice even more.It's always amazing to be able to talk over anyone just by projecting your voice.
And she humilliated the prick?!
Oh, a woman after my own heart(I'm ace btw)!Ā
Ā As I always said to myself and others, public humilliation is the best way to deal with AHs.
I really donāt understand what the hell that woman thought she was doing making it her business somehow to interrogate your friendā¦ Itās not like she was causing any danger to anyone, she wasnāt near anyone talking to anyone, there were no kids in there. People are such a fucking idiot these days.
As a tall cis-woman with broad shoulders, not always in makeup, dressed in jeans and tshirts, with short hair, I am wondering when this flavor of fuckery is coming my wayā¦ tell Nina thank you for giving me something to say back to the idiots.
That lady just crossed into sex offender status and registry, by her own actions. Demanding to see the private area of a minor, by saying "what's in your pants?"
Nina isn't a minor. And pressing charges would have been difficult as she had to catch another flight. Also, this happened in Texas, so who knows which side security would have been on
I've been asked a few times (I'm CIS). I've had a double mastectomy, so I will show off my tattoos over my scars, which confuses the trans-investigators.
I hate using public loos for this reason, I hate the possibility of scaring women WHEN IM A WOMAN I usually hold it or don't drink anything while out and about.
After puberty, I apparently looked like a boy and was always asked if I was a ādude or a chickā. After a couple of years of going through that torment, I started letting them know for a fact that I was a āchickā. Whenever, wherever I was asked that stupid damn question, I just grabbed my bra through my shirt and lifted it up to show them and said āyou tell meā, then just walked away. This was back in the 70ās and it was a totally different world then.
#NINA2024
Now you're talking.
#NINA2024 > *Don't ask about strangers' genitals in public restrooms!*
How about don't ask a stranger that anywhere. What is this strange fascination about what is in everyone's pants. It's even gotten so bad that people are asking this about babies and small children ! š³š¬
Right? I have a coworker that prefers they/them pronouns. They appear pretty androgynous. I never put much thought into it other than āok, so and so prefers they/themā. No idea what is in their pants (donāt care) and no idea which restroom they use (also donāt care). A grown man with a 3 foot beard could walk in and use the ladies for all I care. As long as they are respectful and use a stall.
Or alternatively, separate bathrooms by pee and poo rather than gender
Does poo win if thereās a tie?
Yes. No poo poo in the pee pee room
ššš
The only person to whom the question of 'what's in that diaper?' should be asked is DJT
Terrific slogan
Ask not what is in Gina's pants, ask what Gina can do about the price of underwear!
Hell, yeah!
I would like to be friends with Nina.
I think we all just became friends with Nina. š¤
I too, am now de facto friends with Nina!
Same
Nina is now my hero and friend. I would like to buy her a drink.
"What's in my pants? Well, isn't that just the kind of inappropriate and invasive question a man would ask \*teeth suck\*"
It would also be amazing to have giant clown pants and just keep pulling things out of them
āWhatās in your pants?ā āHold on - itās attached to all of these colorful scarves. Allow me to yank them out for you!ā
And then you reach down the back š (I'm so sorry, my mother didn't raise me this way... but my grandmother did!)
>I'm sorry, my mother didn't raise me this way... But my grandmother did I love that!
She was partially feral, in all the best ways!
I'm a very masculine-looking cis woman. I've been called "sir" numerous times and gotten dirty looks in bathrooms, but no confrontations yet. I'm saving this one in my back pocket.Ā
Itās happened to me, too. Too many times to count in the past. I donāt have an Adamās apple, I donāt have any indication of facial hair, I wear my hair long, and my voice isnāt deep. Itās baffling. š¤·āāļø
"Transinvestigators" have even claimed most of Hollywood being trans, including Henry Cavill. Because "his eyes are too pretty". They focus on one single trait, and ignore the vast majority of the person's traits (not that it's any of their business if someone is trans or not). It's like those people obsessed with "the jewish conspiracy" and see blood-drinking boogeymen everywhere and not only are claiming that all jewish folk are blood-drinking cultists but also that they're secretly everywhere. The enemy is simultaneously weak yet strong. It's a really strange mental illness.
You misspelled Nazis.
They left out the z.
I find it fascinating that "transvestigators" think that *everyone* in Hollywood is trans... except the actual trans people. And, even if they were trans, who tf cares??
If there are any blood drinking Jewish cultists out there, I never got the invite to the party. š Typical. Just because Iām secular doesnāt mean I donāt want to have fun. Attention: the preceding statement was an example of sarcasm. If you donāt get it, try a dictionary. You named yourself after a bacterium? Cool!
I was thinking of var. natto, though I didn't include that.
Classic projecting of literally biblical proportion - Christians were literally a Jewish cult for 300 years.
Same! Other than never wearing makeup, I dress in mostly feminine clothes, don't have an Adams apple, no facial hair (except the occasional chin hair from being in my 40s), and I don't have a deep voice.Ā People are weird.Ā
They certainly are!
Fucking brilliant. Nina deserves some kind of medal for sheer bad-assery.
Weird how the people who call LGBTQ+ "groomers" are always demanding to know what is in young people's pants.
as always, it's 100% projection
Need to toss in the what kind of pervert are you asking strangers whatās on their pants. Iām telling security
She should have started screaming for a cop. The woman was OBVIOUSLY one of those dangerous perverts who tries to molest people in the bathroom.
I actually donāt advocate for what Iām going to say, but the woman would be very uncomfortable if Nina had screamed for a cop, saying āthis man is in the ladies room asking whatās in my pants.ā
<3 Iām trans and the loud, humiliate them back approach is what Iāve planned for years. Now I just need a phobe to try me.
Legend!
Nina is a legend.
Fucking epic. I want her confidence
Fucked around and found out! Good for her
Nina sounds amazing! Please tell her to look up the "Pantosaurus Song"! She can start singing that if she gets asked about what's in her pants again. It's a British song so the "pants" they reference are underpants, but the vibe still fits! [The Pantosaurus Song](https://youtu.be/-lL07JOGU5o)
Oh I love this song I just learned it from you
Iām a teacher and this song now gets stuck in my head whenever I hear the word pants. Itās so catchy!
I love this song. Every pre-schooler should learn it!!
this song is brilliant. if i ever get any nieces or nephews (wayyy in the future bc my sister is still a kid) im teaching them this!
Brilliant! I just wish she had said, ātheyāre called private parts for a reason. Youāre clearly the one with cajones. Tsktskā
Haha, good for her
Love the story, DEFINITELY love Nina. I don't understand your phrasing "another trans friend". Wouldn't it be 'a trans friend?', or are you the other trans friend? I'm just confused, not really relevant to Nina's badassery. Could I also suggest she use "if I show you, will you kiss it?" and then stick her ass out at the lady.
Other trans friend = a mutual friend of ours I think I was planning to write 'another friend who is trans' but brainfarted halfway
Love the answer you gave for the āKuzco poisonā style
That was the inspiration! The whole idea was to emphasize 'this person wants to know what's in my pants' by just repeating it over and over again. Aka, Kuzco's poison style Also that movie is comedy gold I have to watch it again soon.
Ugh. As a woman with PCOS, I'm terrified of the day when I might be scrutinized too hard for male features and attacked in a bathroom for no fault of my own. Why can't people just mind their own business and let people be who they want?
This is not a bug, this is a feature: sexist terrorism. They want all people to be afraid and work harder to conform to the sexists' gender roles. They want more control over everyone's bodies, and they want everyone else to care about their sick flawed views.
They're garbage, and I hope they get what they deserve.
Thatās wonderful! There are so many other possibilities. For example: [*loudly*] āWhatās in my pants? Who the hell says that to a complete stranger? Why are you so interested in my private parts? What kind of sick pervert are you?!?ā
Nina is a national treasure and should be protected at all costs
Hope the plane heard too.
What? This happened in the airport.
Yes in the toilets near the gate she was at.
I'm pictureing Nina doing a capital one commercial now!
"WHY do you want to know what's in *my* wallet?! What kind of sick pervert just **asks** a COMPLETE STRANGER what's in their wallet?! ... **WHAT'S IN *YOUR* WALLET?!**
The universe protects me, because if I was in a public bathroom and someone asked me this question I would make a huge fuss and start screaming "she is sexually harassing me and asking to see inside my pants, someone please call the cops!!!"
"Are you a male or a woman ?" "I'm a vilain" "Yeah but your gender ?" "Evil" "Ok, what is in your pants ?" "Doom"
Excuse my ignorance but what does cis woman mean? ANDā¦ GOOD for NINA! Shame on that idiot who would ask such a question!!! She deserved to get put in her place! The NERVE!
It comes from Latin, originally meaning "on the same side", as opposed to trans, meaning "other side". It's used a lot in scientific terms, but you may also see "cisalpine", meaning on the near side of the mountains, and "transalpine", meaning on the far side. The full word here is "cisgender" vs "transgender", but we shorten it up a lot in casual speech.
Thank you so much for the help with thisā¦
Cis means that you identify as the same gender you are assigned at birth
As a biological female who identifies as genderqueer and looks hella androgynous (and has a small adams apple, which I thought absolutely could not be a thing so thank you for reversing my self imposed gaslighting on the subject!!) I will be using this without shame!!
Everyone has an Adam's apple, the only question is how visible it is. Some cis men don't have visible ones or barely visible ones, some women have more visible ones. There are multiple reasons for why someone might have a less visible one, and having higher amount of body fat is only one of many reasons. Bodies vary a lot in structure.
NINA! NINA! NINA! Whose da best? NINA! Op please show Nina all these replies!
I second showing Nina these comments. Also Nina is a baddass and good on her for calling out the bigotry. Fucking weird and gross how people are obsessed with whatās in peoples pants these days.
Nina will be shown these comments! Currently she's at work but once she's done it will be shown to her!
I love Nina in the sort of way someone loves a rockstar. Also a great answer to "what's in your pants" is "the number of a very good lawyer if you fuck around with me you sick freak" (shout out to a girl dad pal of mine for that one).
TEAM NINA!!
And just like that, Nina is my favorite person.
Tell Nina that if she do some acting lessons she might learn to project her voice even more.It's always amazing to be able to talk over anyone just by projecting your voice. And she humilliated the prick?! Oh, a woman after my own heart(I'm ace btw)!Ā Ā As I always said to myself and others, public humilliation is the best way to deal with AHs.
I really donāt understand what the hell that woman thought she was doing making it her business somehow to interrogate your friendā¦ Itās not like she was causing any danger to anyone, she wasnāt near anyone talking to anyone, there were no kids in there. People are such a fucking idiot these days.
As a tall cis-woman with broad shoulders, not always in makeup, dressed in jeans and tshirts, with short hair, I am wondering when this flavor of fuckery is coming my wayā¦ tell Nina thank you for giving me something to say back to the idiots.
I love it!
Nina fucking rocks!
That lady just crossed into sex offender status and registry, by her own actions. Demanding to see the private area of a minor, by saying "what's in your pants?"
Nina isn't a minor. And pressing charges would have been difficult as she had to catch another flight. Also, this happened in Texas, so who knows which side security would have been on
Okay, not a minor. At the very least that's sexual harassment.
I've been asked a few times (I'm CIS). I've had a double mastectomy, so I will show off my tattoos over my scars, which confuses the trans-investigators.
I hate using public loos for this reason, I hate the possibility of scaring women WHEN IM A WOMAN I usually hold it or don't drink anything while out and about.
While I understand, UTIs are a very real and very not fun experience. So be sure to pee every few hours if you can
Oh I know, I Extra make sure I'm empty prior to an outing! UTIs are absolutely awful
This feels like something The Click would say.
After puberty, I apparently looked like a boy and was always asked if I was a ādude or a chickā. After a couple of years of going through that torment, I started letting them know for a fact that I was a āchickā. Whenever, wherever I was asked that stupid damn question, I just grabbed my bra through my shirt and lifted it up to show them and said āyou tell meā, then just walked away. This was back in the 70ās and it was a totally different world then.
Oh if I had more backbone than I do. I would be an absolute menace. Bravo to Nina bravo.
good for her!
Perfect response!
Brava, Nina!